You may be looking for one of the following:
- I Love You Because I Can't Control You: A character who is easily able to control/manipulate/seduce other people falls in love with the one person they can't.
- Love at First Punch: Romantic love for someone emerging from physical violence or an insult.
- Love Epiphany: A character realizes they are in love with another character.
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