A Hostage Situation where the hostage taker and the hostage are one and the same.
There are several reasons why this actually works:
- Might be because the baddies want the hostage alive (perhaps because the hostage's death would ruin the bad guy's plan)
- The user is dealing with a principled enemy who just doesn't want any casualties.
- The character is confronting law enforcement officers or other authority figures who'd rather prevent deaths if possible.
- Rule of Funny, especially if Insane Troll Logic is at play.
- Threatening suicide is sometimes a tactic used by an Entitled Bastard to demand (and get) what they want.
- While he doesn't use a gun, in episode 12 of 11eyes, Kakeru, having foresaw a Downer Ending in episode 11 if he had taken certain steps against Liselotte, instead threatens to commit suicide, which would also kill off the Big Bad's former lover. Luckily for him the gambit worked, which allowed the remaining heroes to take her down.
- In the manga version of Mega Man X4, the co-protagonist Maverick Hunter Zero gets into a fight with his old friend Colonel of Repliforce, since he was unwilling to cease the Repliforce coup d'etat against the Maverick Hunters and the government. Iris, Colonel's brother and a friend to them both, threatens to shoot and kill herself unless they stop fighting, as she feared one of them would die. She is successful, Zero puts down his saber, and Colonel uses the opportunity to swing his saber at Zero, but he stops at the last moment. Sadly, during their second fight, Zero held nothing back and did kill Colonel by slicing him in half.
- Ouka stops Kyouka from commiting Grand Theft Me on him in Kyouran Kazoku Nikki using this method.
- Higuchi in Death Note, after having been cornered as the current Kira, does this to keep himself from being caught. At some point he realizes it is hopeless and tries to pull the trigger. Watari snipes it out of his hands.
- Kaiba in Yu-Gi-Oh! stands on a very high ledge, such that if Yami Yugi attacks with his monster to deal the finishing blow, he'll be knocked off the ledge and fall to his death. But it's subverted in a way. Yami Yugi doesn't care! He would have gone ahead and knocked Kaiba off of the rooftop if not for Yugi's intervention. The fact that the Pharaoh is willing to go so far to win promptly puts Yugi in a Heroic BSoD.
- Parodied in Yu-Gi-Oh! The Abridged Series. Yugi's friends start cheering him on at the idea of killing Kaiba. Tea talks him out of it by saying he might live.
- In an early episode of Code Geass, Lelouch threatens suicide when C.C. tries to stop him from walking into an Obvious Trap — he can't threaten her since she has a Healing Factor, and she needs him to fulfill her contract. He's also managed to convince people to follow his orders in a similar fashion.
Lelouch: All methods of escape have been sealed. If you believe you can get out of here without me, then shoot me now!
- In the first Vampire Hunter D movie, the female lead threatens to bite out her tongue and bleed to death unless the villains leave her brother and the town doctor alone.
- In Trigun Wolfwood seems to do this, to provide a visual example on how someone's chosen action will lead to the death of hundreds. It is quickly revealed however, that he never intended to put himself in any danger, and was using an empty clip.
- In early One Piece, Kaya threatens to cut her own throat with a chakram if Jango doesn't spare the children he's currently pummeling. Since he needs her alive, it works.
- In the Land of Waves arc (Naruto's first big mission), Inari's mother threatens her captives with biting her own tongue off if they hurt her son (leaving them without a hostage to use as leverage). Later subverted when she tries it again and, having her in their clutches, the bad guys simply knock her out to prevent her from doing so.
- In the Forest of Death, a variation is used; Ino possesses the body of Kin, one of the Sound Genin, and threatens to commit suicide unless Dosu and Zaku stand down. However, the two know that any damage done to a victim of possession by that technique also hurts the possessor, and not only see through the bluff but attack Kin to injure Ino. Not to mention that the Sound Genin don't like each other and thus don't actually care if Kin dies, so long as they complete their mission.
- In Speed Grapher, Kagura pulls this, holding an axe to her throat because she knows the villains need her alive.
- In World Embryo, Amami Riku threatens to slice his own throat if Grown-up!Nenee didn't stop the embryo.
- In School Shock, the Hao Xuan pulls this off with a mecha to help Liu Li escape.
- In Date A Live, Shido threatens to commit suicide if Kurumi won't release her hostages. She thinks he's bluffing until he throws himself off the school roof. Kurumi immediately rescues Shido, proving that he has value as a hostage. She needs a lot of power to pull off her plans, and Shido is full of it after he absorbed the powers of other Spirits. He promptly threatens to commit suicide again by biting his own tongue. Of course, Shidou knew he could survive those, since he's manifesting regenerative powers (which is later revealed to be Kotori's), but Kurumi doesn't know that.
- In Ah! My Goddess, the Lord of Terror's last and dirtiest trick is to possess Keiichi. He then demands that Skuld build him a ten-dimensional scythe which he needs to cut the universe's superstring. When Skuld refuses, he grabs a hammer and starts bashing his (Keiichi's) skull. Skuld grudgingly agrees to build the scythe. Later on, Skuld complains that the Lord of Terror could at least help look for building materials instead of sitting around all day. He promptly pulls out the hammer again.
- A twist on this occurs in Mobile Suit Gundam SEED Destiny episode 34. After realizing that the Freedom's pilot has a Thou Shalt Not Kill policy, Shinn Asuka exploits it in their next battle by deliberately putting himself in situations where his attacks would become fatal, which forces Kira to check his swings.
- During Dragon Ball Z's Cell saga Android 18 is confronted with Cell, a much more powerful monster who wishes to absorb her in order to evolve to his perfect form. Having seen her twin brother being absorbed only a short time before, 18 threatens to blow herself up if Cell continues to pursue her. Since he needs her alive for his plan to work, the threat stops Cell (albeit only temporarily).
- This is a classic threat by the desperate in Diplomacy. A given player in a situation will claim that he will move all his forces to face the one he is threatening, so that someone else will have a power vacuum to take advantage of, while the one threatened will get very little.
- Played with in an issue of the John Byrne's reboot: Superman gets to hear about a vigilante called Batman and goes to Gotham City to capture him. Batman holds him off by revealing that somewhere in the city is a man with a bomb strapped to him, and Batman is wearing a device that will automatically detonate the bomb if Superman comes too close. Superman agrees to keep his distance and watch Batman in action, they wind up working together to bring down the villain of the week, and at the end of the issue Superman admits that Batman's not as lawless as he'd heard, and he'd probably be willing to let Batman continue operating if it weren't for that strapping-bombs-to-innocent-civilians thing. At this, Batman explains (what neither Superman nor the audience had known up to this point) that the man with the bomb strapped to him was actually Batman himself.
- It's played with even more 20 years later. During Infinite Crisis, Kal-L, the Golden Age Superman, gets to relive Kal-El's life from his eyes. During this point, Batman tells Superman about the bomb and is shocked. Moments later, he calls his bluff, gets rid of the bomb on him and the two become friends.
- In Adventure Comics issue #418, Supergirl gets to stop a terrorist gang. When she corners the youngest of them, the kid points a gun at his temple and threatens to kill himself if she goes a step closer. Fortunately, Supergirl manages to take the weapon away.
- Mark Verheiden wrote a story where the indestructible Bizarro robbed a bank with a gun pointed at his own head. Luckily he rejected the money they offered him and asked for the contents of their trash cans.
- In Star Wars: Legacy, Cade Skywalker is being visited by the ghost of his ancestor, Luke, who wants him to stop wasting his life taking drugs, smuggling, and bounty hunting and instead embrace his family's legacy. Cade pulls a blaster, which Luke points out isn't going to hurt him since he's long dead. So Cade points it at himself.
- In Teen Titans storyline Titans Tomorrow, Tim Drake discovers that in this future, the Titans grow up to be evil, led by his future Batman self. To bargain with his future self, Tim places a gun to his own head.
- Sickeningly well-played by America in the lengthy, disturbing Hetalia: Axis Powers fanfic Seven Little Killers.
- From Code MENT:
Lelouch: So you're going to shoot me huh? Well the only person who shoots me is me! (points a gun at his head) Good luck trying to shoot me WHEN I'M ALREADY DEAD!
- This happens in the retelling of the ninth episode of Jackie Chan Adventures in The Ultimate Evil. When Tohru is about to destroy the antidote against the stone-turning-poison used on Jackie, Valerie (who knows that the Dark Hand's mysterious employer wants her alive) suddenly takes some of Jackie's blood into a syringe and threatens to inject it into herself and risk turning herself into stone as well. By her prodding, the Enforcers contact Valmont and explain the situation, but the fight breaks out anyway when Shendu orders Valerie to be stopped.
- A variant on this trope is given as the reason why Superman Stays Out of Gotham in the Miraculous Ladybug/Marvel Cinematic Universe fanfic What the Cat Dragged In. Fury specifically notes that neither the Avengers' powersets nor SHIELD's gear and training is particularly suited to subduing the akumatized without permanently harming them, and they have no guarantee that Ladybug's ability to reverse the damage inflicted by the akumas and the Miraculouses themselves will extend to reversing damage inflicted by a third party.
- Index in the To Aruverse Rewrite Project does this in order to remain in Academy City. Because she made a vow that will kill her through magic if she doesn't get justice for the children who died, she has to remain there to see it through no matter what anyone else wants.
- Telling Lies? No, Mama has the akuma Facade, formed from two victims being forcibly merged into one when they were simultaneously akumatized. One side of Facade is Fighting from the Inside, and the other half attempts to take that side hostage as leverage against the heroes.
- Blazing Saddles. See the above picture. "Hold it! The next man makes a move, the nigger gets it!" What makes this especially funny and awesome is that when Bart takes himself hostage, the townspeople were about to lynch him! Moments later, they are suddenly saying things like "Won't someone help that poor man?".
Bart: Ooh baby, you are so talented — and they are so dumb!
- The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Zaphod Beeblebrox: As my first act as president, I am kidnapping myself, and I'm taking the ship with me!
- John Q.: A borderline case, in that his death would actually accomplish something — after a more traditional hostage situation where he makes the fairly reasonable demand that the hospital put his dying son on the transplant list, he threatens to kill himself if the hospital is unable to find a donor heart for his son, so they can transplant his heart.
- Will does this in Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl. Initially, however, it only really leaves Barbossa and his men confused as to why they should care, and Will has to explain who he is - they need the blood from his living body to lift their curse.
- The Whoopi Goldberg movie Jumpin' Jack Flash. It works because the villains can't afford to have her die before she reveals the information they want. However it also backfires because she continues to run around the British Embassy brandishing the gun and is mistaken for a terrorist.
Embassy Receptionist: Do you want a hostage? I've been trained to be a hostage.
- The opening scene of Murder at 1600 features the protagonist (a D.C. homicide cop) trying to talk down a cracked government bureaucrat who is holding a gun to his own head in the middle of a busy street. Why is a homicide detective filling in for a hostage negotiator? Don't ask so many questions.
- John Connor tries this in Terminator 3: Rise of the Machines against the Terminator sent to protect him. It doesn't work because it has enough programming on human psychology to realize that John's threat was most likely a bluff.
- Roy Miller does this in Knight and Day just to cause a scene and make a local fireman a hero. "Nobody move or I kill myself and then I kill her!"
- In the French movie RRRrrrr!!!, the leader of the Cheveux Sales (the Dirty Hairs) takes himself hostage in order to force the Cheveux Propres (the Clean Hairs) to give his tribe the secret of shampoo. When the Cheveux Propres utterly ignore his demands as expected, he actually follows through with his threat to kill the hostage. Yes, it's that kind of movie. Perfectly summarised in a dialog during his funeral :
New Chief: He said gimme the secret before dusk or I'll kill myself. He said it - he did it : A great man ...
His daugther: Rather more a great nitwit !
New Chief: Reluctantly, through tears Yeah ...
- In Love Happy, the Marx Brothers' final film, Harpo is being tortured for information, but he's too dumb to torture. He is getting hungry though. So when he breaks out he points a gun to his own head and starts eating.
- In S.W.A.T., the team's first assignment after passing the S.W.A.T. test is to deal with a "Polish hostage" (a forty-something mental patient off his meds, specifically).
Deeks: So what if he's Polish?
Hondo: Naw, it means he's one of those "anybody comes in, I blow my head off" type guys.
- In the Andrei Tarkovsky film The Sacrifice, Alexander is convinced that sleeping with his maid Maria will avert World War III. He gets her to go along with it by pointing a gun at his head.
- Max in Elysium holds a live grenade to his head and threatens to detonate it to destroy the valuable implanted information in his head, in order to force the Elysium mercenaries to allowing him onto their shuttle.
- Mel, in Shuttle attempts to escape a White Slavery ring by threatening to cut her face if they don't let her go.
- Les Misérables (2012): Marius threatens to torch the gunpowder, blowing up everybody there including himself, in order to get the police to back off.
- 13 Sins: While wrecking the rehearsal dinner, Elliot keeps the security guards at bay by holding a serving fork to his own throat and threatening to stab himself.
- An Acceptable Target walks into a bank, holds a gun to his head: "This is a robbery! I've got a hostage!" The manager: "Let me guess, you want <currency of acceptable target's nation>?"
- A Dumb Blonde finds out her husband has been fooling around behind her back, so she busts in on him and his mistress with a gun that she points at her own head. The husband screams, "Honey, don't do it!" The blonde yells, "Shut up! You're next!"
- If someone with multiple personalities threatens to kill themselves, is it a hostage situation?
- Dona Lolita, the heroine of the original Zorro novel, does this with a dagger, forcing the Alcalde's guards to let her escape.
- In Chris Hiemerdinger's Feathered Serpent, part 2, Melody threatens to kill herself if King Jacob kills a few of his men (who made a mess up) seeing as he needs her alive to convince her uncle to help him, he agrees. Granted, she doesn't have a gun, she uses a knife.
- In the Magic: The Gathering novel The Shattered Alliance, Lim-Dul comments on this trope after pulling a Grand Theft Me on Jaya Ballard.
Lim-Dul: I could threaten her, I suppose, but I would just be threatening myself, and that would be stupid. "One wrong move and I let myself have it."
- In Shatterpoint, Mace Windu takes himself hostage to coerce his renegade padawan Depa, referring to himself as "the only hostage a Jedi could legally take". He comments on it, later:
Depa: Only Mace Windu would think of taking himself hostage.
Mace: I was the only one available.
- The Dresden Files: In Grave Peril, Harry gets past Leanansidhe by poisoning himself. His friend has the antidote, which he'll exchange for Lea's word that she'll leave Harry alone for a year and a day.
- In Harbingers, Jack uses this when the Ally has mortally wounded Gia and Vicky. Since he's the backup Chosen One, his threat to shoot himself if they die works.
- Isaac Asimov's Lucky Starr and the Rings of Saturn: Bigman Jones holds a needle-gun to his own head and threatens suicide to manipulate a group of Three Laws-Compliant robots—they are forced to do what he says, because they can't allow a human being to come to harm. Bigman tells them to deliver him to the base commander, Sten Devoure.
- Parodied in Making Money. Moist von Lipwig broke an insane artist out of jail so he could work on designs for the new paper money, but the artist thinks Moist is there to take him back to jail, so he attempts to commit suicide by ingesting poisonous paint. He does actually get the paint into his mouth, but he left the cap on.
Moist: Ah. You left the cap on. An amateur mistake.Owlswick: There are people who commit suicide professionally?
- It speaks volumes about Ankh-Morpork and the Disc in general that the answer to the question is yes.
- In Honor's Knight, second book of the Paradox Trilogy, Devi negotiates by pointing a gun at her own head. It works, because she's carrying the last surviving strain of the Stoneclaw virus; if she dies, it'll be lost forever. Caldswell later pulls the same trick; he is Reaper's sworn prey, and if he kills himself then Reaper will never have the opportunity to honorably defeat him.
- In The Girl from the Well, Tark at one point threatens the woman in black to stop or he'll kill himself, as he's realized that if he dies before she manages to break the five seals binding her to him then she'll die along with him.
- In the Doctor Who New Adventures novel Death and Diplomacy, Jason Kane pulls this in order to escape from a potentially-dangerous situation. Includes a Shout-Out to Blazing Saddles itself, with Jason spouting Bart's "Jesse Owens" line before bolting.
- In the Odd Thomas series, this is the reason Odd Does Not Like Guns. His emotionally abusive mother used to pull this on him when he was a kid.
- Nirvana in Fire: Liyang orders Xie Yu to let Prince Yu's guards into the mansion, and holds a knife at her own throat until he obeys.
- The Eighth Doctor, in the 1996 Doctor Who TV Movie. After getting stuck in traffic whilst pursuing the Master, the Doctor walks up to a nearby motorcycle cop and offers him a jelly baby, sneaks his gun away from him and proceeds to hold himself hostage in exchange for the cop's motorcycle. While the television movie is contentious with many fans, most agree that this scene in particular cemented Paul McGann as a credible Eighth Doctor.
- An old Saturday Night Live skit spoofing Lethal Weapon had Mel Gibson stick a gun in his own mouth whenever one of his requests was denied. It even worked over the radio.
- John Crichton, when faced with enemies that want him alive, holds himself hostage with his finger, saying, in a direct reference to Blazing Saddles, "Get back or the white boy gets it!" Moments later, he remarks upon their stupidity.
- Not the last time he threatens himself, either, since for many reasons a lot of people DO want him alive. He later walks around with a bomb strapped to himself and tells his adversaries it's set to go off if he gets upset.
- Much earlier, he used himself as hostage to get an explosive-laden shuttle in position for destroying Scorpius's Gammak base.
- In Burn Notice, Michael does this in the first season finale. The Organization is trying to take him in but he needs time to save Sam's life so, knowing the need him alive, Michael puts a gun to his head and tells them to back off. It works. It's one of the few times the trope isn't played for humor; it's actually plausible.
- Stargate Atlantis, Season 3 episode "Sateda": Ronon Dex is captured, along with Teyla and Sheppard, by villagers he previously met during his Runner days. They're planning to deliver him to the Wraith in exchange for their village to be spared. The elder refuses to free them even when Ronon put a knife under the throat of one of his jailers — so Ronon threatens to slit his own throat if they don't let Sheppard and Teyla go. The villagers are forced to yield since the Wraith were already summoned forth — and they wouldn't be very pleased to find Ronon dead, as they want him alive for an ultimate hunt.
- Done by the title character in The Invisible Man series.
- The bad guys wouldn't have minded if he wasn't pointing the gun at his head, because they needed the gland intact, and it was hooked into his brain. He ducks around a corner and shoots the gun off, then falls to the floor apparently headless. When the mook leans over the body to examine it, he kicks his gun out of his hand. Apparently nobody told the mooks that he can selectively make only parts of himself invisible, too.
- Also done in the pilot episode. Darien points a shotgun at his head and threatens to fire if the bad guys don't back off. Since what they're after is the invisibility gland in his brain, they do so. (Bonus points as Darien knows where in his head the gland is located and positions the shotgun for maximum damage)
- In the episode "7 Men Out" of NUMB3RS, Granger was getting ready to get one guy when the guy put a gun to his own head. Granger ordered him to drop the gun and the guy did. He tossed the gun at Granger and ran for it.
- Red Dwarf "Body Swap": after Rimmer steals Lister's body and runs off in Starbug, he holds a gun to his head and warns them not to follow "or the body gets it!".
- In Blue Bloods, done in the Season 1 finale by a dirty cop, when confronted by ESU and the Police Commissioner. The Commissioner's response? "We all have to die sooner or later."
- Attempted by Hyde in Jekyll, but the antagonist calls his bluff.
- In the second episode of Black Mirror, Bing threatens to cut his own throat on live television to prevent anyone from interrupting his speech.
- In The Secret Circle the ghosts of a coven of witches possess Adam and threaten to kill the "shell" unless they're given Blackwell's amulet.
- In the final episode of Torchwood: Miracle Day, Jack and Rex (the latter having had a full body transfusion of Jack's blood), pull this on the Three Families and their Mooks when in the Blessing — the Families can't shoot them, because if they do, their (well, Jack's) blood will be absorbed by the Blessing and undo the Miracle, restoring death to the world. The Family members present try to create a Sadistic Choice to stop them, but they go through with it anyway.
- In the pilot episode of Cracked Detective Aiden Black puts a gun to his own head in order to get the attention of a schizophrenic Serial Killer who was now trying to kill himself. By drawing attention to the fact that they were Not So Different (Aiden suffers from PTSD after a fatal shooting) Aiden is able to convince the killer to put down his knife and seek help.
- On Breaking Bad, Walt and Jesse tell Gus that, if he kills one of them, the other will force Gus to kill him as well.
- On Person of Interest, Shaw's prepared to kill herself to avoid hurting Root when Root tells her if she actually does it, she'll kill herself too, turning the situation into an impromptu Suicide Pact until Shaw stands down. Which, despite running 7,000 simulations of this situation, is something that Samaritan oddly never considered.
- In the Supergirl (2015) episode "Mr. and Mrs. Mxyzptlk", Mxyzptlk tries to force Supergirl to marry him. To stop him, she sets the Fortress of Solitude to self-destruct, pointing out it would be enough to kill her. Since he's not allowed to use his powers to stop someone from killing themselves, he panics and begs her to shut it off. She gives him the deactivation code and he enters it. Since it was in Kryptonian script, he found out too late that it was "KLTPZYXM", his name backwards, banishing him back to the Fifth Dimension.
- Jessica Jones (2015): Kilgrave takes a police precinct hostage and orders the officers to point their guns at each other or their own heads.
- The Man in the High Castle: When the Nazis apprehend Hawthorne Abendsen, he threatens to shoot himself since he knows that they need him alive for their plans. However, John Smith is already holding his wife hostage, so he's ultimately forced to back down.
- Played for Laughs in the French series Kaamelott. One episode has an overprotective bodyguard assigned to King Arthur's side 24/7, so Arthur tries to get him off his back by holding a dagger to his own throat. The plan fails, as it only causes the bodyguard to freak out.
- Altered Carbon. On being ordered by Reileen to Shoot Your Mate, Takeshi Kovacs puts the gun to his own head, knowing his life is the only one she values. Turns out It Works Better with Bullets.
- Into the Badlands: In the season 2 finale, MK is being sheltered/imprisoned by The Widow, who is trying to persuade/force him to get his gift back so she can use it as a weapon. MK doesn't want to do this, so he holds pruning shears up to his neck to force the Widow to let him talk to Bajie.
- In the 6th season finale of The 100, Clarke pulls this as part of an "I Know You're in There Somewhere" Fight to save her daughter Madi. Madi ultimately takes back control and they both survive, though Sheidheda, who had possessed Madi, manages to escape.
- National Lampoon's 1974 LP Missing White House Tapes is a series of vignettes patterned as a standard broadcast day on TV with the "shows" referencing the Watergate scandal. One show The FBI, features this from then FBI director L. Patrick Gray, who was up on some charges from the scandal:
Gray: (through bullhorn) All right...this is L. Patrick Gray of the FBI. Now, I know I'm in there. If I don't come out with my hands up, I'm coming in after me.
- Irving Bubbalowe in Too Many Cooks gets out of the final conflict by doing this with a gun to his head.
- In the third act of The Girl Of The Golden West, Minnie stops Johnson's hanging by riding in on a horse and pointing her pistol at both him and herself. (This happens in the opera, but not in the original play.)
- Played for drama in Mass Effect. The Colonist's background mission, "I Remember Me", has Shepard trying to talk down the only other survivor of Mindoir, a deranged, suicidal girl who'd escaped from the same batarian slavers that killed Shepard's family.
- Also in Call of Duty 4: Modern Warfare. The level "The Sins of the Father" concerns the protagonists tracking down the son of the Big Bad, and they manage to corner him on the roof of a building, shouting at him to drop his weapon and come quietly. If you wait around long enough, or move forward to restrain him as Captain Price tells you, he simply puts his weapon up to his chin and blow his brains out (telling you in unsubtitled Russian that "you will all die soon anyway" if you wait around).
- Just like in Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl, Will threatens to kill himself in Kingdom Hearts II unless Barbossa lets Elizabeth (plus Sora, Donald, and Goofy) go free. Unlike in the film, this backfires thanks to Pete's presence, and everyone else is left tied up on the Interceptor.
- In Final Fantasy X, Yuna threatens to throw herself off a very tall building if the villain doesn't let her friends go. Since he needs her alive, he relents. Then she throws herself off the building anyway, but uses one of her Aeons to catch her on the way down.
- Freefall: Doctor Bowman has set up his lab so that if anyone enters without permission it triggers biological sterilization (read: Kill It with Fire).
Doctor Bowman: Of course, I'll have rushed in to save my work.
Commander: Doctor, are you holding yourself hostage again?
- In El Goonish Shive, when Diane realizes that Zeus will be in serious trouble if she gets hurt, she uses this to extort additional information out of him.
Zeus: Well...I have a theory, but she probably wouldn't want me to...
Diane: Gonna go hug vampires.
- MAKE ME A SANDWICH!
- gen:LOCK: Dr. Weller refuses to relocate to the safety of the Anvil until the Colonel approves his candidates' transfers, even though the Union is in the process of identifying his location to capture him. Colonel Marin is utterly flabbergasted at this because it means he is effectively holding himself hostage. Due to the danger he's in, she has no choice but to accept the new recruits in spite of their unique backgrounds.
Marin: Are you holding yourself hostage?!Weller: Maybe..? Yes, yes, I- I think I am!
- Done to retrieve SCP-105 in this SCP Foundation tale. For context, 105 a.k.a. Iris Thompson can use photos to manipulate whatever object or location the photo is of, literally reaching into the picture to change reality. When she tried to escape and claimed to have lost her abilities, a Foundation agent gave her a photo of the inside mechanics of his gun and shot himself. She deactivated the gun before he fired.
- In the Tom and Jerry short The Missing Mouse, Tom hears news of an escaped white lab mouse who has swallowed a powerful explosive. Jerry, who has been painted white when shoe polish falls on him, pretends to be the mouse, trying to hurt himself and forcing Tom to stop him. Eventually, Tom figures it out, and that's when the real lab mouse appears...
- In the Deitch-era short "Mouse Into Space", Tom tries to prevent Jerry from leaving the house by holding a gun to his head. It doesn't work.
- Looney Tunes
- Similar to the Tom and Jerry example occurs, in the short The Unexpected Pest. Sylvester keeps a mouse around to chase every once in a while and keep his mistress from kicking him out. The mouse eventually figures out that Sylvester needs him alive to keep his happy home, and has the poor puddy tat scrambling to keep the mouse from hurting himself.
- Zigzagged in "Hyde and Go Tweet" where Sylvester is fleeing from a monsterous Tweety, who drank Dr. Jekyll's formula. Sylvester runs to an edge of a building and threatens, "I'll jump!" but then realizes, "Like I have a choice?" and does so. (Fortunately for Sylvester, the whole episode is a Dream Sequence.)
- In the Futurama episode "Parasites Lost", Fry goes inside his own body and threatens to destroy his medulla oblongata in order to get rid of the parasitic worms he picked up recently, in a situation that doubles as Taking You with Me.
- A variation is tried in Avatar: The Last Airbender. The Blue Spirit and Aang were trying to escape a Fire Nation base but where surrounded and about to be killed. The Fire Nation commander, Admiral Zhao, warned his soldiers that they needed Aang alive...and the Blue Spirit immediately put his swords at Aang's neck, even though he needs Aang alive too. At first it looked it worked and Aang and the Blue Spirit left the base, but as soon as Zhao's elite archer wa in position the Blue Spirit got an arrow in face for the trouble (luckily, Aang can run really fast and saved both).
- Played with a little in the Donald Duck short Clown of the Jungle, where the Aracuan bird begins crying and threatening to commit suicide when Donald gets too angry at his actions, causing Donald to back off. Towards the end of the cartoon, Donald finally has had enough, goes into a rage and tries to shoot the Aracuan, who suddenly finds his threats of suicide have completely lost their effect.
- In 1968, Ludvik Svoboda, a veteran of both world wars, was the president of Czechoslovakia, which was a completely powerless position because the country was controlled by the Soviet Union. He marched into the office of Leonid Brezhnev, the general secretary of the Soviet Union, and demanded the release of 26 Czechoslovakian political prisoners. When Leonid told him no, Ludvik pulled out a pistol and said: "If I kill myself, my blood will be on your hands, and no one in the world will believe you did not murder me." Everyone in the room knew he was right, so rather than face the political fallout from his "murder", they released the political prisoners.
- In 1994, OJ Simpson famously led Los Angeles police in a low-speed chase while fleeing arrest for the murders of Nicole Brown-Simpson and Ron Goldman in a white Bronco driven by his friend, Al Cowlings. Allegedly, Simpson was in the backseat of the Bronco holding a gun to his own head, and had threatened to kill himself if the police got too close. The chase eventually ended at Simpson's house, where he finally surrendered to police.
- This is one way emotional Domestic Abuse can manifest. For instance, if the victim is about to leave the relationship with the abuser, the abuser may respond by threatening to either badly maim or outright kill themself, frequently on the spot. From the victim's perspective, the choice becomes staying, or risking the abuser actually going through with their threat and feeling responsible for the consequences. It's basically a variant of a Why Did You Make Me Hit You? situation that can be summed up as "Why are you making me hit me?".