For a villain there are many ways to get to a hero, to really make them hurt. One popular way is through their loved ones, and one of the most effective methods is to violate their love interest and then gloat about it. Other wonderfully unpleasant things like slavery-for-life or just killing them are optional.
One variation has the villain not doing it themselves, but instead ordering their lieutenant(s) or mooks to carry out the deed to much the same effect. Not always, but usually done with male villain/male hero/female victim. Because it's a really horrible thing to have done to someone you care about, this will frequently provoke Unstoppable Rage and/or Extreme Mêlée Revenge from the hero - but also from people who don't even like or care about said love interest, as Rape Is a Special Kind of Evil.
Compare/contrast with "Not If They Enjoyed It" Rationalization, where the victim may actually have enjoyed it or the rapist might be trying to convince the victim and others (possibly including himself) it was consensual, whereas this is just the villain pretending as much for the sake of being a total prick. Related to Evil Gloating, Reminiscing About Your Victims and Would You Like to Hear How They Died?. Usually a very good way to push the Relative Button.
Due to the highly offensive and personal nature of this trope, please do not add any real life examples.
- Don't Meddle with My Daughter!: Done twice, during the "MILF of Steel" epilogue story.
- The first one shows Athena being defeated by her nemesis, Heavy Metal, who rapes her afterward. Then he adds insult to injury by gloating about how he and the rest of her enemies did the same thing to her, 20 years ago.
- In the second one, Zenovia captures Artemis and repeatedly subjects her to increasing amounts of sexual pleasure, 'til her mind finally breaks from trying to fight it. When her sister, Athena, finally arrives to save her, Zenovia tells her she's too late, then drops another bombshell on her to rub it in:
- Fractale has a retroactive version of this trope. The male military commander reveals just how he's been testing and examining the mysterious waif.
- Hard variation in Berserk, where Griffith, or rather Femto, is giving a silent, intentional stare to a restrained Guts as he rapes Casca. And it isn't after the awful deed, but during it.
- In Full Metal Panic!, this was originally part of Gauron's Murder the Hypotenuse plan for Kaname (seeing how she was "softening" the beautiful Assassin Saint Kashim). Thankfullly, she doesn't actually undergo this.
- Nakago tries to pull this on Tamahome in Fushigi Yuugi, even going so far as to "show" Tamahome how he kissed Miaka. Nakago never actually raped Miaka, partly because Suzaku was protecting her, and partly because it hit too close to home for him. So it ended up being one of those "let's not and say we did" kinda things. Both Tamahome and Miaka believe he did rape her, though, and Nakago does nothing to dispell it either - until Soi explains it to Miaka.
- Maken-ki!: Played for Laughs in episode 7 (season 2), when Himegami summoned Nozuchi to get rid of Rudolfnote for her, but made the mistake of leaving her alone with him, while she took a shower. By the time she returned, Rudolf had banged Nozuchi, who was passed out next to him with hearts in her eyes.
Himegami: [incredulous] "N-Nozuchi! WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO HER??"
- In Sakura Gari, there's quite the variant. Masataka is raped by being forced to give oral sex to his rapist... and said rapist's Clingy Jealous Girl of a little sister finds him at a well, mocks him by pouring buckets of water on him, and finishes by calling him dirty.
"Tagami is dirty all over. Terribly dirty. So dirty that no matter how much you wash, it will never come off. You poor thing."
- Happens in Rouge Noir; when Kou loses it and rapes his tutor Ayane, he follows it with a "The Reason You Suck" Speech to her.
- In the backstory of Arkham Asylum: A Serious House on Serious Earth, the murderer who killed Arkham's wife and daughter tells him that they "begged him to abuse them" and calls his daughter a whore. This comes back to bite him.
- Happens in the Graphic Novel Joker, done by The Joker to Jonny Jonny's wife all because Jonny didn't tell him he had a wife and his meeting with Two-Face.
- In The Sandman, Loki after having his neck broken and his eyes eaten by the Corinthian tries to goad Thor into killing him by revealing that he had seduced Thor's wife Sif. He goes into rather lurid detail too.
- Played straight in the Space Ghost comic, which is generally Grimmified.
- During the arc of a renegade precursor of the Doctor in The Authority, the Renegade Doctor went back in time during a fight with the Engineer to sexually assault her back in high school, then mocks her upon returning to the present.
- Child of the Storm has this invoked by Yelena Belova, the Red Room's new Black Widow, in the sequel when gloating to Natasha about how she'd claimed the Red Son (Harry, who's 14), the Winter Soldier's Superior Successor, for her own, once again one-upping Natasha (the original Winter Soldier's partner and very fond of Harry). She then molests him in front of her, to the disturbance of some of her own teammates. All this achieves is for Natasha to scathingly observe that all she's doing is gloating about raping a child, before delivering a No-Holds-Barred Beatdown so comprehensively brutal and one-sided that the narrative doesn't even bother showing it. Once this gets out further, to the Red Son's array of relatives... well. It's safe to say that Belova made a very big mistake.
- In the Buffy the Vampire Slayer fanfic Difficult To Fight Against Anger, after raping Tara, Warren Mears taunts Willow by telling her, "You know, I don't think your girlfriend is all the way gay." This is completely intentional.
- Endgame by Tara O'Shea, the first-known Galaxy Rangers fanfic on the web, used this.
- Gender-reversed a couple of times in The Shadow Chronicles, first with a spider demon taunting Akane about what she'd done to Ranma and later with a succubus taunting Sailor Moon about what she'd done to Tuxedo Mask.
- Used symbolically in Cori Falls's fic "The Power That's Inside", where the leader of the Scyther swarm taunts Meowth with how he destroyed Jessie's hair to goad him into losing his focus during their fight.
- Rosario Vampire: Brightest Darkness Act II uses this spectacularly. Miyabi rapes Mizore, and when Tsukune and the others find out, he taunts Dark, Mizore's new boyfriend, by remarking, "If it makes you any feel better, she wasn't that good. She didn't even scream for me." He gets his just desserts soon after.
- Heftargan does this to Empath in the Empath: The Luckiest Smurf story "Smurfing In Heaven", combining it with Would You Like to Hear How They Died?, telling him that he and his fellow Schliphargons had their way with Smurfette before she died, attempting to make Empath so angry that he would kill Heftargan and "prove himself" a warrior. Polaris senses that Heftargan is using disinformation in order to undermine Empath's determination to find a way to bring his fellow Smurfs home.
- A pre-rape taunt exists in the Batman: Arkham City fanfiction The Last Laugh where Oswald Cobblepot threatens to show Marjorie Wayne "a good time" in front of her captured husband. Considering what her husband does for his nightly activities...this was a pretty stupid move on Penguin's part.
- In Faith by sbmcneil, during the final battle, Bellatrix taunts Ginny about having raped Harry at the beginning of the story (the fic does not follow Double Standard: Rape, Female on Male). Ginny merely answers that Harry told her how Bellatrix needed potions to make him react to her, while she requires no such aid.
- In The Devil's Advocate: "Well, on a scale of 1 to 10 10 being the most depraved act of sexual theatre known to man, 1 being your average Friday night run-through at the Lomaxes' householdI'd say, not to be immodest, Mary Ann and I got it on at about...SEVEN!"
- In The Film of the Book of The Crow, Tin-Tin taunts Eric Draven, whose girlfriend he and his buddies gang-raped, by telling him "I shanked her pink ass and she loved it!" Draven soon gives him reason to regret this taunt.
- One of the most famous scenes in The Hateful Eight involves Major Marquis Warren use this trope to get an old confederate war criminal to grab a gun so he can kill him in self defense, angering him by claiming to have captured and raped the man's soldier son. The validity of this story is open for debate.
- In Gladiator, Commodus tells Maximus that his wife "moaned like a whore" while Commodus's men raped her. Since Maximus had already spent nearly the entire movie in an Unstoppable Rage, ramping it up from there over a few last minute insults would have just been unnecessary. Doesn't mean Maximus didn't kill him when he got the chance, though.
- Highlander - Centuries after the Kurgan rapes Macleod's wife, the Kurgan taunts Macleod that this is the reason his wife never told him about it.
- Kickboxer has Tong Po taunt Kurt as he's beating him during the final bout, when he says he bleeds like his girlfriend, Mylee ("Mylee... good fuck!"), whom Tong Po had beaten and raped only days prior the big fight. Meaning, he had also forcibly robbed her of her virginity. It doesn't end well for him, as Kurt beats his ass for the remainder of the match.
- In Rob Roy Archibald Cunningham rapes Robert Roy MacGregor's wife, who avoids telling her husband for fear that he will do something reckless to avenge her honor. Rob does eventually find out, and when he's captured by Cunningham they have the following conversation:
Robert Roy McGregor: You're a thief, a murderer and a violator of women.
Archibald Cunningham: Aah... I had hoped you'd come to me long since on that score.
Robert Roy McGregor: If I had known earlier you would have been dead sooner.
Archibald Cunningham: I will tell you something, to take with you. Your wife was far sweeter forced than many are willing. And truth put to it, I think not all of her objected...
- In Forced Vengeance, Giant Mook Kam tells Randall (Chuck Norris) that his girlfriend (found raped and murdered in the previous scene) was "Good fuck!". Randall proceeds to teach Kam what "defenestration" means.
- A number of bad guys in the James Bond film series have used this.
- In Licence to Kill, Dario and his men taunt Felix Leiter with news of their murder of his new wife, among other things telling him, "We gave her a nice honeymoon," implying that they raped her before killing her. Then they feed Felix to a shark.
- Downplayed in GoldenEye. Alec Trevelyan doesn't actually rape the damsel in distress (as far as we see) but does force a kiss on her and then gloat to Bond:
Trevelyan: Lovely girl. Tastes like strawberries.
Bond: I wouldn't know.
Trevelyan: I would.
- In The World Is Not Enough, as Bond prepares to execute the villain Renard, the latter quickly picks up on Bond's feelings for Elektra and taunts him thus:
Renard: She's beautiful, isn't she? You should have had her before, when she was innocent. How does it feel to know I broke her in for you?
- In Quantum of Solace, General Medrano who raped and killed Camille's mother tells the latter in spanish "Now your face has the same look of fear as your mother's did" when trying to kill her.
- In Wild Things, teacher Sam Lombardo is accused of rape by two female students. They both claim that after the deed he told them "no little bitch could ever make me cum". Subverted later on when it turns out that Sam and the two girls were running a scam together.
- Big Bad Wolf:
- After the werewolf (who can talk by the way) rapes a girl in front of her boyfriend we get this.
Boyfriend: You animal! She was a virgin!!Werewolf: Well, she ain't anymore.
- Later he does a pre rape taunt when the threatens to rape a girl to lure the teens out.
Werewolf: Had fun, but now I have a little blonde girl to entertain.
- After the werewolf (who can talk by the way) rapes a girl in front of her boyfriend we get this.
- The Devil's Double: When the father of a 14-year old girl that Uday had kidnapped, raped, and murdered comes to the palace to ask for explanation, Uday's "defense" of his actions is essentially to call her a slut and that he gave her a good time before throwing some money in her father's face. Pretty much the only reason why the man doesn't try to throttle Uday to death there and then is because of the latter's power as Saddam's son.
- Done twice to Alex Cross in Kiss the Girls. First in the interrogation room by Dr. Sachs and then in the finale by Casanova who taunts Cross how he molested his kidnapped niece for ten days purely to press his Relative Button. The first time around Cross loses his cool and attacks Sachs but in the second one he maintains his calculating demeanor long enough to defuse the Taking You with Me situation.
- In The Jester by James Patterson, one of the antagonists pulls this on the hero, whose wife was kidnapped while he was participating in the crusades.
- In The Mental State, a rapist called Danny takes advantage of the protagonist's girlfriend while he is Forced to Watch. Afterwards, he calls her a 'real party girl' and invites the other members of his gang to cheer for her, adding to her boyfriend's rage.
- In the Outlander series, evil Depraved Bisexual Captain John Randall loves doing this to Jamie. He tries to make Jamie think that he raped his sister, as well as his wife. Despite the fact that it was later revealed that, in both cases, he was incapable of getting himself sufficiently hard to do that. Why would he do that? Because he's in love with Jamie, and in his messed up mind, he loves seeing Jamie hate him.
- In Roald Dahl's short story The Great Switcheroo the protagonist Vic entices his friend into a mutual Bed Trick so they can sleep with each other's wives. They go to great lengths to make sure the wives don't find out, wearing each other's cologne, discussing their bedtime routine, technique and so on. Vic is dismissive of his friend's technique, but is crushed the next morning when his wife tells him that she had never really enjoyed sex until last night.
- In Adam Cadre's Ready, Okay!, Carver Fringie claims this about Peggy.
- In Shards of Honor, Ges Vorrutyer attempts this, but makes a serious misjudgement of which lieutenant to use.
- In A Song of Ice and Fire, Euron Greyjoy raped his brother Victarion's wife specifically so that Victarion would be forced to kill her under Ironborn law. As far as the law is concerned, it doesn't matter whether she consented or not, but Euron claims she did, possibly just to add insult to injury.
Euron: She came to me wet and willing. It seems Victarion is big everywhere but where it matters.
- In Without Remorse, one of the drug-dealing pimps who raped and killed John Kelly's girlfriend taunts him about it. He does this as Kelly is holding him prisoner and is actively torturing him for information.
- A minor villain in The Destroyer believes that it is not only a man's right, but in fact his duty and obligation to have sex with women whenever he can, regardless of what they feel about it. He even boasts that he's "shown a few lesbians what they're missing out on." Needless to say, no one feels any sympathy for him when he gets his at the hands of Remo and Chiun.
- In The Wheel of Time, Eamon Valda tries to provoke Galad by gloating about how he raped Galad's stepmother.
Valda: She was the best ride I ever had, and I hope to ride her again someday.
- Subverted in PLAGUE, book 4 of the GONE series; Drake Merwin does gloat about raping Brianna to her lesbian best friend Dekka Talent (who's in love with her), but it's a lie, and he never did rape her, only said so to upset Dekka.
Drake: I broke her legs so she couldn't run. She was screaming, but I think she liked it.
- Occurs in the memoir Lucky by Alice Sebold, author of The Lovely Bones. The man who raped and beat her was not found until the next year after they happened to run into each other and he taunted her ("I know you from somewhere"). She called the police and he was eventually convicted, though at first she had trouble identifying him in a lineup (he apparently brought a friend who looked like him to confuse her.)
- In The Squire's Tales Mordred has his Dragon deliver this message to King Arthur about Guinevere and her ladies after he's taken over Camelot, almost prompting Arthur to break his own rules and Kill The Messenger.
- Quantum Leap: In the 1991 episode "Raped," set in the early 1980s — even then, a time when rape was too often defined as being "the woman's fault" — Sam has leaped into the body of a rape victim. After her attacker, the town's all-American boy, is acquitted of all charges, he goes over to her house to taunt her and try to attack her once more ... only this time, the attacker gets a very nasty (and painful) surprise, forever putting his weapon of choice out of commission and exposing him as scum.
- An episode of Brimstone did this. The hero had to send his wife's rapist back to Hell. This is also the main reason Zeke was in Hell in the first place. He tracked down his wife's rapist. The guy bragged about it. Zeke opened fire.
- Cold Case:
"You have no idea of the things a woman will beg you to do, if you'll just let her live."
- Done in an episode when a father tracked down and confronted the pedophile who had abducted his son, and again, when the younger brother of a rape victim confronted the rapist.
- Also with Serial Killer George Marks. Although he didn't rape any of his victims, he seems particularly smug about putting the fear of that possibility into them—he forced them to strip to their underwear—especially the 14-year-old girl who had escaped an Attempted Rape sometime prior. He sleazily implies that the girl went from being terrified that she would be raped to practically offering herself to him in the futile hopes that this would make him reconsider killing her:
- In the Criminal Minds episode "Paradise," the Un Sub asks one of his victims if she's ever wondered what it's like to be with a real man right before he rapes her in front of her unconscious husband. Then he taunts them both about the husband's "weakness" for being unable to protect the wife.
- On Heroes, Sylar possesses Matt Parkman's body and sleeps with his wife. He later brags that she enjoyed Sylar's version more than she ever enjoyed Matt's.
- Invoked a couple of times on Robin Hood between Guy, Marian and Robin. Guy never actually does manage to deflower Marian; but after their coercive engagement Guy tells Robin: "I'll laugh every time I..." (interrupted by Robin's punch) and then later says: "I'll think of you when I take her to the marriage bed."
- Averted in the second season of Sons of Anarchy; when The Dragon rapes Gemma to send Clay a message, all he says is "Tell your husband to stop selling guns to niggers and wetbacks."
- In The Walking Dead, The Governor does this when he is torturing Glenn.
- In Game of Thrones, Brienne and Jaime come across the bodies of three women who were strung up by Stark bannermen for sleeping with Lannisters. When their killers arrive suddenly, one taunts Brienne by saying "Two died quick. One died slow." This, predictably, mashes Brienne's Berserk Button, and after quickly cutting down the other two men she gives the man a Meaningful Echo of that line while driving a sword into his genitals.
- On Law & Order (and the Law & Order: UK episode based on it), as the detectives listen (watch) the recording of Olivet's (Alesha's) rape, they hear the assailant taunting her throughout, telling that she ''begged for it", calling her "bitch" and "slut" before finally finishing with "didn't that feel good?", all over her repeated pleas for him to stop.
- The famous Law & Order: SVU episode where comedy actor Martin Short plays a psychic trying to help the detectives find a serial rapist and murderer who targets virgin women. The entire episode turns out to be the trope, after The Reveal that Martin was the rapist and murderer all along. He tells the detectives that he pretended to be a psychic just to watch in amusement the efforts to catch him. And he talks about the one victim he raped and murdered as "the best sex I ever had."
- A female villain/female hero/male victim variant occurs in the Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. episode "Yes Men". The villain Lorelei boasts to Agent May about using her Mind Control powers to rape May's lover Agent Ward. Lorelei also taunts Lady Sif about having used Mind Control to rape Sif's Love Interest.
- One episode had an episode involving two Immortals, Jacob and Irena Galati. Irena was raped by a man, but because she and Jacob are gypsies, the townspeople don't do anything about it. As they and Duncan try to walk away with some dignity, the rapist and his friends taunt them. When the rapist says he should be paid a stud fee for his actions, Jacob loses it and goes after him.
- Caleb Cole possibly in Mountain Men. He yells to Duncan that I had your woman and its not entirely clear if hes saying he raped Tessa or that she was with him willingly. Regardless, Tessa quickly yells that Caleb is lying.
- Oz: Invoked when Dr. Gloria Nathan is raped on her way home from work by an Irish criminal, and she suspects that inmate Ryan O'Reilly, who was obsessed with her and had already arranged her husband's death, was behind it. When she confronts him, he gloats about the rape until she physically attacks him, but he later admits to Father Mukada that he was lying so she could truly hate him and move on with her life. He later kills the rapist personally.
- A Krommag commander in Sliders taunts Quinn about her friend Wade Wells' destiny in a Krommag breeding camp (where she probably would be raped many times) saying "They say that human women can't come back to human men once they met the Krommag". This, naturally, infuriates Quinn.
- Supernatural: An unintentional example in a town where a deity is causing everyone to speak nothing but the absolute truth. A man who is being treated by a dentist friend suddenly starts gloating about having molested his friend's daughter one night, which of course is immediately followed by the enraged dentist getting "creative" with his tools.
- NCIS: New Orleans. Pride's daughter is attacked while out for her run. When he confronts one of the men who was stalking her, the guy provokes him with a comment that leaves little doubt to what they had in mind:
Thug: Your little girl sure looks good in her running shorts.Pride: (grabs ahold of him) What did you say?
- In Scarlett, after Scarlett is raped, she weakly orders her attacker to get out of her house. He invokes this trope without saying a word by laughing in her face and refusing to leave.
- In The Bill DC Mickey Webb tracks down his rapist Martin Delaney after the event and is greeted with the taunt "Come back for seconds have 'ye?"
- There's a similar scene on Third Watch, where the rapist taunts his victim, who's confronted him at gunpoint, by telling him, "You don't have the balls." The man promptly shoots him in the groin and declares, "Now neither of us do!"
- Chicago P.D.. When he confronts his daughter's kidnapper, Antonio beats the crap out of him until Voight pulls him off. The man sneers, "She was good", and Antonio responds by shoving him out of a window to his death.
- Triple H roofies Stephanie McMahon at her bachelorette party. Later before her wedding to Test, Triple H reveals that he previously married an unconcious Stephanie at a Las Vegas chapel. After playing the footage of the wedding Triple H taunts Vince with one.
Triple H: Now Vince, as a member of the immediate family, I know that you can have only one question in mind, Dad. And that is not "Did we," but "How many times did we CONSUMMATE THE MARRIAGE?!"
- In the elf campaign of Heroes of Might and Magic IV, the hero's rival steals his bride and uses sorcery to get her to be his willing wife, in every way. When confronted, he gloats that he will always be her first. Luckily, the hero uses a magical mirror to reverse the spell, although she still remembers all that's happened.
- In killer7 not explicitly stated, but heavily implied by Curtis Blackburn to his former partner Pedro Montana about his wife. Subverted in that Pedro isn't really a good guy.
- A rather unique (but no less depressing) example occurs in A Dance with Rogues. The protagonist is female, and it is her who ends up being a victim of rape; immediately afterwards, the rapist laughs at her pain and callously taunts her. Later, this man (who she is forced to work with as an ally) makes constant jabs at her, spreading nasty lies and making snide comments all over the place in regards to what he did to her. If he falls in love with her, he stops this behavior, treats her much better, and is genuinely remorseful for what he did. Doesn't make up for it, but it's the thought that counts.
- In Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas Freddie makes such taunts toward O.G. Loc, his former "punk" before being killed by CJ.
- In Final Fantasy Tactics Grand Duke Barrington taunts Rapha talking about how he raped her. Karma ensues.
- In Dante's Inferno, Lucifer gloats to Dante during his boss fight that he enjoyed "plundering his woman", referring to his love interest Beatrice.
- In Family Guy, when Stewie is trying to get rid of Brian's replacement, New Brian, he tells him that nobody in the family likes him. New Brian retorts that Stewie's teddy bear Rupert seemed to like him while he was humping him last night, as "he just lay there and took it." Stewie remains calm and silent for a moment, then the scene cuts to him dragging a blood-stained trash bag out to the curb.