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This is what happens when someone takes a well known phrase or saying, and then decides that it doesn't convey quite as much information as it needs to. So the speaker adds a little bit on the end, usually with the modifier "But", usually either missing the point or totally reversing the original meaning of the phrase.

Related to the Ice-Cream Koan, but differs in that while the first part of the phrase is valid, the second part is clearly tacked on by the speaker. Often said by a Seemingly Profound Fool in some of his more fauxlisophical moments. You Can't Make an Omelette... and When Life Gives You Lemons... are common victims of this trope.


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     Comedy  
  • Steven Wright: If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.
  • Eddie Izzard: "Guns don't kill people, people do, and monkeys do too (if they've got a gun)"
  • Anonymous joke: Before judging a person, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile away when you judge them, and you'll have their shoes.

     Comic Books  

     Fan Works 
  • Paul in The Keys Stand Alone: The Soft World: “With great power comes a lot of people pestering you to use it on their behalf.”
  • In Alarm Clock, after Rainbow Dash breaks a cart by speeding, she says, “Ehhhhh, you can’t make an omelet without breaking a few ... uh, carts.” A few chapters later, Ditzy Doo adapts the saying again: “It’s like they say: you can’t make an omelet without destroying Ponyville Town Hall once or twice.”
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     Film  
  • Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (1990): Wise man say: Forgiveness is divine, but never pay full price for late pizza.
  • Hobo with a Shotgun: When life gives you razor blades, you make a baseball bat. Covered in razor-blades.
  • The Mummy (1999): Rick is fighting off Imhotep while Evy searches the Book of the Dead for the spell that will send him back to the underworld. Rick tries to get her to move a little faster.
    Evy: Patience is a virtue.
    Rick: Not right now, it isn't!
  • Joker in the The Dark Knight gives us this one-letter change from Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger
    I believe whatever doesn't kill you simply makes you... stranger.
  • Toward the end of Happy Gilmore, Happy's former boss is wearing a shirt which reads "Guns don't kill people, I kill people!"

     Literature  
  • Tom Holt has used many variants on the omelette saying, most notably Only Human's "It might be possible to make omelettes without shredding chickens, but it doesn't make for nearly as good television."
  • Discworld:
    • “Set a thief to catch a thief” is actually the version updated by the Thieves’ Guild of an older proverb that actually advocated a long and complicated trap to catch a thief.
    • “Build a man a fire and he’s warm for a day. Set a man on fire and he’s warm for the rest of his life.”
    • William De Worde expands greatly on the “glass half full/half empty” dichotomy, noting that there are also people whose glasses have been knocked over, or people who can’t get the bartender’s attention, or how the people who run things tend to look at a half-empty glass and say “This isn’t my glass! My glass was full! Who’s been pinching my beer?”
    • In Going Postal, Ankh-Morpork's pin-collecting fraternity have the saying "See a pin and pick it up, and all day long you'll have a pin".
  • In the Red Dwarf Survival Manual, Kochanski writes "That which does not kill you makes you stronger (unless it bites your legs off, in which case it makes you shorter)" and also that her mother used to say "Violence is the last resort of the little humpty people", but was heavily on Valium at the time.

     Live Action TV  

     Music  
  • The Babyshambles song "Sticks and stones" has the following chorus: Sticks and stones may break my bones/Oh but your words, they really hurt.
  • They Might Be Giants: A number of their songs feature oblique references to idioms and cliches.
    • "Absolutely Bill's Mood": "I know monkey see, but monkey's dead"
    • "Narrow Your Eyes": "They say love is blind / I don't think you're blind"
    • "Rhythm Section Want Ad": "Speak softly and drive a Sherman tank / Laugh hard, it's a long way to the bank"
  • Tracy Lawrence also had a song called "Sticks and Stones," with the operative line being, "These sticks and stones may break me, but the words you said just tore my heart in two."
  • "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but chains and whips excite me." Na-na-na-na, come on.

     Memetic Mutation  
  • Candy is dandy, but sex won't rot your teeth.
  • Guns don't kill people, people kill people. With guns.
  • The optimist sees a light at the end of the tunnel. The pessimist sees an oncoming train. The realist sees an exit and leaves the other two to their fates.
  • There are two wolves fighting inside of you. The first wolf has depression. The second wolf has depression. You have depression.
    • There are two wolves fighting inside of you. You need medical help, there shouldn't be any wolves inside of you!
  • History is Written by the Winners... and edited by the losers, published by the observer, and fact-checked by the reader. Look, books take a lot of time to make.

     Podcasts 
  • The signing-off proverbs in Welcome to Night Vale often take this form:
    If you love someone, set them free. Set them free now. This is the police, and we have you surrounded.
    What has four legs in the morning, two legs in the day and three legs in the evening? I don't know, but I trapped it in my bedroom. Send help.

     Radio 
  • This is how the Complete Proverbs round on I'm Sorry I Haven't a Clue (a variant on Quote, Misquote) works. The teams are given the first half of a well-known saying and have to complete it. Points are deducted for a correct answer.
    Humph: Rome wasn't built in...
    Willie: Norway.

     Tabletop Games 
  • From Magic: The Gathering Arena, Vraska gives us an insight into Golgari politics:
    Keep your friend close. Kill your enemies.

     Video Games  
  • Final Fantasy X: One of Tidus' famous Narmy lines is "I was out of the frying pan and into the freezer". This is because he was locked in a freezing-cold chamber of Baaj Temple with no fire to keep himself warm.
  • Ghost Trick: Trying to get to safety in a submarine rapidly filling with water, Sissel comments at one point that they're "out of the water". Fridge Brilliance kicks in when one realizes that it's no wonder that Sissel, a cat, would consider water more dangerous than fire.
  • Katamari Damacy: Love makes the world go round... But Manners keep you from getting motion sickness.
  • In Portal 2, when Cave Johnson discovered that he was dying from moon dust poisoning, he started out with an optimistic attitude, actually saying "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade". However, he wasn't that mentally stable to begin with, and the news of his impending death drove him even further over the edge. This culminated in a dramatic lemon-flavored Rage Against the Heavens speech.
    Alright, I've been thinking. When Life Gives You Lemons...... don't make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! Get mad! "I don't want your damn lemons, what am I supposed to do with these?!" Demand to see life's manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give Cave Johnson lemons! Do you know who I am? I'm the man who's gonna burn your house down! With the lemons! I'm going to get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that BURNS YOUR HOUSE DOWN!
  • Animal Crossing: Wild World: Crazy Redd the fox runs a black market tent that requires a call-and-response password to get in (which he posts to you in advance). Some of them take this kind of form.
    Ask and you shall... be charged.
    Cat's away... mice shop.
    Head in sand... find something.
    Talk is cheap... so is Redd.
    The pen is mightier... and cheaper.

     Web Comics  
  • Achewood: Eating an apple a day keeps the doctor away... but throwing it at him works better!
  • The Order of the Stick:
    • Here: "You can't make an omelet without permanently deafening someone."
    • And later on: "You can't make an omelette without ruthlessly crushing dozens of eggs beneath your steel boot and then publicly disembowling the chickens that laid them as a warning to others."
  • xkcd offers two takes on a classic, one in this comic and one in its Alt Text.
    Father: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words—
    Child: —can make someone else feel happy or sad, which is literally the only thing that matters in this stupid world?
    Alt Text: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can make me think I deserved it.
  • Ozy and Millie has this take:
    Llewellyn: That which does not kill me, makes me stranger.
    Ozy: Are you sure you don't mean "stronger"?
    Llewellyn: Quite sure, yes.

     Web Original  
  • Wanton Cruelty to the Common Comma: CAPS LOCK IS CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL, but don't forget to steer!
  • The Shortest Story uses these occasionally.
    "The curiosity that kills the cat need not be its own."
  • From Starship:
    Junior: We have a saying where I come from too; God save the Queen.
    Bug: Oh, good.
    Junior: Lucky for me, God Is Dead.
  • The Guild gives us this gem:
    Vork: Women. Can't live with them... they will not go out with me.
  • "Today's proverb", the Credits Gag at the end of each episode of Welcome to Night Vale are usually like this:
    What has four legs in the morning, two legs at noon, and three legs in the evening?note  I don't know, but I trapped it in my bedroom. Send help.

    If you love someone, set them free. Set them free now. This is the police, and we have you surrounded.
    • Also, a twist on a National Rifle Association motto: "Guns don't kill people,note  it's impossible to be killed by a gun, we are all invincible to bullets and it's a miracle".
    • One of their other spoofs goes, "Guns don't kill people, and if you say guns kill people one more time, I will shoot you with a gun and you will, coincidentally, die."
    • A staple for the Night Vale twitter feed. For example, "Home is where the heart is. You'll never guess where we hid it, though."

     Western Animation  
  • Rocket Power: Blood is thicker than water... But not nearly as refreshing.
  • Phineas and Ferb: Blood is thicker than water. But mango chutney is thicker than blood.
  • Fairly OddParents: "Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words leave emotional scars that never heal!"
  • Ed, Edd n Eddy:
    Ed: An elephant never forgets, but I forget what the elephant remembered.
  • Batman: Assault on Arkham: When Harley Quinn spots the Joker's cell and tries to shoot him:
    Joker: Women! Am I right, officer? Can't live with 'em... can't kick 'em out of a moving car.
  • Big Hero 6: The Series: Wasabi grimly states upon concluding that a bear is about to attack from a nearby bush in Muirahara Woods that this is how the team is going to die... "Not with a bang but with a Bear".
  • Milo Murphy's Law: Milo does this fairly frequently, though frequently blames it on his dad
    Milo: Sticks and stones can damage your vital organs, so always wear body armor.
    Milo: It's like my dad always says, that which does not kill you, only makes you late for school.
  • Bojack Horseman: In the Show Within a Show Horsin' Around, the Horse's catchphrase is, "I've heard of [popular phrase], but this is ridiculous!" Due to Stylistic Suck, the "popular phrase" is sometimes just gibberish that no one has ever said before, like, "Lookie, lookie, who's got the cookie?" Even Bojack, who revers the show, will get confused when he revisits an episode.

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