Someone you knew or loved has died and you have been invited to their funeral. You arrive, but instead of finding people giving condolences, you see them laughing, chatting and telling jokes. And the actual funeral itself seems more like a party then a mourning. Now of course people do talk about the recently departed, but instead of mourning or missing them, they might be celebrating the life they lived, or are celebrating the cycle of life, or if their religion says so, they might be celebrating that the dead have Ascend to a Higher Plane of Existence. Or perhaps the dead wanted their funeral to be like this, and for their friends and family to not be sad.
These funerals can be very confusing to many and can lead to culture shock, and it's not uncommon for the people at the funeral to think that people who prefer funerals to be somber just don't take the time to understand that not all funerals are the same.
Not to be confused with The "Fun" in "Funeral" where the light hearted elements are unintentional in universe.
In Real Life, a cheerful Irish wake will frequently follow a traditionally somber funeral instead of a reception for mourners to express condolences; Well, This Is Not That Trope. This trope is for when the mourning is bypassed completely.
- Ginga: Nagareboshi Gin: Riki tells Gin not to feel sad at the end of the final battle where so many died, but to howl in victory for the honor of the dead.
- Lucky Luke: The Tenderfoot begins with the funeral of Pappy, a rancher and friend of Luke. In his will, he asked the townsfolk to have a round at the saloon in his name, which ends up in a classic Bar Brawl and a good time all around. Afterwards, two of the people who had fought in the saloon are walking home together and says that Pappy would have loved that fight.
- in A Growing Affection:
- Kankuro's funeral is a raucous affair; a feast with music and dancing, and plenty of alcohol for anyone having trouble getting in the mood. Naruto is confused and a bit put off, until it is explained that in the Land of Air a funeral is used to celebrate the deceased's life, and mourning is done in private.
- Later, Jiraiya's funeral is a similar affair, at the deceased's wishes.
- Choon-Hwa's funeral in Sunny is celebrated by her reunited high school friends dancing to "Sunny" by Boney M. at her wake.
- The end of Thor shows Thor and the other Asgardians having a huge feast, and in The Avengers (2012) Thor tells an actually-very-much-alive Loki that they mourned him. At least one person outside the film tried to claim Thor was a Hypocrite because of this, but this was in fact how the Norse honored someone's death, making this a severe research flub (see below under Real Life).
- In The Wolf Man a Christian priest finds it utterly alien that gypsies would mourn the passing of Bela, a fellow gypsy with celebrations and even a whole carnival. The movie implies that they were celebrating the fact that Bela is now freed from being a werewolf. But he has passed the curse on to Lawrence Talbot.
- A Song of Ice and Fire: Though it's never seen, the people of the Summer Islands have funerals that are not somber occasions mourning the dead but celebrations of the lives they led, with wine and lovemaking.
- Discworld :
- Wizards and witches know when they're expected to die of natural causes, and occasionally like to hold "going-away" parties for those who are soon to kick the bucket (like Windle Poons in Reaper Man or Miss Treason in Wintersmith). It's rather like holding the wake a day early, so the deceased get to enjoy themselves before they go.
- In Men at Arms, members of the City Watch witness the funeral of a clown, which deteriorates into slapstick. Ritualistic, macabre slapstick devoid of any sense of humor or joy.
- Inverted in Interesting Times, where Rincewind sees people setting off fireworks in a parade and says "Good, eh?" to the old woman standing besides him, who snaps that it's Mr. Wu's funeral.
- In The Kane Chronicles, Sadie and Anubis at one point witness a funeral in New Orleans. At the time they arrive, the actual burial has already taken place, and the funeral has moved on to the stage where the mourners celebrate the life of the deceased with song, dance and revelry as they head away from the cemetery. This is a practice Anubis himself approves of, calling it "very Egyptian".
- Geordie and Ensign Ro are seemingly killed in the Star Trek The Next Generation episode "The Next Phase". (They've actually been shifted out of phase.) The Enterprise holds a memorial service which is surprisingly reminiscent of a jazz club. When it's discovered that Geordi and Ro are not actually dead, the celebration of their lives turns into a genuine celebration.
- The second series of the CBBC sitcom Mud begins with the ever-cheerful Miss Dudderidge returning from her grandmother's funeral, lightheartedly singing and recounting what a wonderful time had been had by all.
- Mystery Science Theater 3000:
- After watching an incredibly boring funeral in The Gunslinger, Joel and the 'bots lie in fake coffins of their own and discuss what their ideal funerals would look like. Servo can't decide between something educational that explains his embalming methods, or a circus-like extravaganza. ("I want elephants, Joel, lots of them.") Crow, on the other hand, wants a beach-themed funeral, complete with keggers and "couples sneaking off to neck—prop me up so I can surf!"
- In At the Earth's Core, Max invents a cannon that fires cremated ashes like confetti, intended to make funerals more interesting.
- Older Than Steam example: The folk song Finnegan's Wake (not to be confused with the novel named after it) is about a funeral featuring dancing and drinking.
- Parodied in Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal. An old woman asks her family to celebrate her life instead of mourning her at her funeral. Unfortunately, she ends up being the victim of a serial killer who tortured her to death, making the mood at her funeral party rather sombre.
"Look at Dad, keeping on dancing. What a trooper."
- Jim Henson's memorial service was called a "celebration", and featured such things as a Dixieland band and prop butterflies for attendees to wave around. Henson even stated in his will that nobody wear black.
- Some funerals in New Orleans are accompanied by jazz bands that play festive music.
- John Cleese's eulogy at Graham Chapman's funeral has John Cleese recite an excerpt from the Monty Python "Parrot Sketch", proudly claims to be the first person to say "fuck" in a eulogy and says "good riddance to him, the freeloading bastard! I hope he fries." Later on, everyone sings "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life". Knowing how close they were in life, John Cleese was clearly doing it to honor him as a beloved comedian.
- In recent years, North American funerals and memorial services have become less about tradition — in the religious context, the reading of sacred texts, hymns sung by a vocalist, a sermon and prayers sanctifying and committing the dead — and more about celebrating the lives of the deceased loved one. Such services often take place at a site other than a funeral home or church, such as at a golf course, community hall, park, or a place where the decedant loved to spend time. Attendees often wear no more than business casual clothes, and often are asked just to come in clothing as informal as a T-shirt and shorts, or dressed specifically (for instance, a football uniform or other shirt signifying the deceased's favorite NFL team, or a Halloween costume). While there may be a brief prayer or sermon, the gathering is more for having fun and celebrating the life just passed rather than mourning for the dead.
- Even at traditional funerals, a close family member giving a eulogy may include funny stories about the deceased, and sometimes a video may be played highlighting the humorous points of the loved one's life.
- Interestingly, celebrating the deceased's life in a happy way is more in keeping with the north European version of a wake. Many people in Ireland and the UK have been sent off by their loved ones getting together, drinking heavily and remembering the good times. All while the body is present.
- Southern Italy and Sicily have the tradition of il conzu, which is pretty much a Latin take on the idea of the wake. Although in a less forgiving and often far hotter Southern European climate, the coffin might only be on open display for at most two days.
- It's becoming more and more common for people to make their funerals more fun from the beyond (in the sense of, "My life wasn't dull and depressing, why start now?" They'll often enforce this, often stating that they request that the attendees not wear black (in funerals where the culture dictates black is traditional), and even request in their funeral plans that they play such songs as "Another One Bites The Dust" or "Ding, Dong, the Witch is Dead."
- Soviet leader Leonid Brezhnev was depicted as an advocate of Fun Funerals (or rather as a half-conscious clot) in this joke:
Brezhnev (making a speech): Comrades, this is unacceptable! Yesterday, at the funeral of our beloved comrade Suslov...by the way, where is he?.. when the music started, I was the only one who showed the courtesy of inviting the widow to a dance.
- The people charged with escorting the coffin of Billy Mays were dressed in his iconic uniform.
- The Vikings celebrated at the funerals of their chiefs, at least. They got drunk, had fights and stayed up all night sharing tales of heroism. This was because they believed that the deceased's ghost came to the party, and they would be haunted by him if he didn't enjoy it.
- Charles Addams loathed funerals, so he left a request to hold a party instead when he died. Given his cartoons, this is appropriate.
- The esteemed author Hunter S. Thompson had his ashes fired from a cannon topped by a double-thumbed fist.