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"We've all gone crazy, mourning all day and mourning all night,
falling over ourselves to get all of the misery right."
Che, Evita

Someone has died. Someone else grieves — on, and on, forever, to the total neglect of all other duties. Or sometimes, on such a grand scale that he's a hazard to all who surround him. Disproportionate Retribution, for instance, is often powered by Excessive Grief.

When Due to the Dead is pumped Up to Eleven, it inverts itself. Instead of being a mark of a Good person, it is the mark of clinging to the death too much and irresponsibly ignoring the existence of other people. The most common neglect is of the person's children — or their other children, if The Favorite died. (It has been known for a child to become The Unfavorite because the other child died.)


Many societies may have rigid mourning customs. This, for instance, includes the period of time a person spends in mourning, and the proper days on which to commemorate the dead. Some excess may be regarded with understanding in the wake of death, but continuing will bring distaste. Imprudent expenditure, such as enormous tombs and extensive ceremonies are also problematic, especially if the character can't really afford it. There may also be suggestions that some forms of mourning — like seclusion — are less prudent than others — such as commemorating the dead with charitable donations.

People reasoning with the mourner often argue that, after all, death is inevitable, and that excessive grief is impious to a death decreed by Fate or God/gods.

May be cured with Epiphany Therapy and Single-Issue Psychology. Compare Sanity Slippage and Deus Angst Machina. See also The Mourning After, which requires only that the character not move on to a new relationship, though they can overlap. May be caused by The Lost Lenore.


Compare Revenge Before Reason for "Excessive Vengeance", which may happen at the same time as this trope. Contrast Get A Hold Of Yourself Man (where he's told to stop mourning too much) and Get It Over With.

Include only examples where it is clearly indicated in the work that the character's grief is excessive. Otherwise, see Wangst.


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    Anime & Manga 
  • In Anohana The Flower We Saw That Day, Meiko "Menma" Honda's mother Irene was so traumatized by Menma's death that she locked herself in the Honma household and refuses to see anyone, plus neglects her remaining child Satoshi. Fortunately, towards the end she's working on getting better.
  • In CLANNAD, Tomoya's father Naoyuki, became depressed after his wife died, taking to alcoholism and smoking to cope, and in doing so neglected his son, which put a strain on their relationship, and it even lead to an incident where Naoyuki injured Tomoya's right shoulder, permanently crippling it. They became like strangers ever since.
    • Like Parent, Like Child, Tomoya mourns over Nagisa's death for a number of years, while neglecting his daughter Ushio, whom he left with Nagisa's parents. He drank alcohol, smoked, and even buried himself in his work, but nothing helped. After finally bonding with Ushio, Tomoya does get to reconcile with his father.
  • Tobi aka Obito from Naruto, totally lost his marbles after his beloved Rin died, to the point that it becomes the catalyst for his Start of Darkness. His villainous motivations are ultimately so that he can meet Rin again, even if with using illusion.
  • Ranma ½: Soun Tendo spends the entire series mourning his late wife, who died years before the series started. This causes him to neglect both his business and his three daughters.
  • In Sing "Yesterday" for Me, Shinako is still not over her high school crush five years after his death, and centers her whole life around his memory, regularly bursting into tears at reminders of him. Meanwhile his father and younger brother rarely talk or think about him and seem to have moved on with their lives. At one point the father tries to subtly suggest that she doesn't need to spend so much time with them or focus on her loss so much.
  • In Triage X, Kunio Oomichi mourns the death of his older brother Yukio. One of the Kabuto-gumi's wakashusnote  reminds him that he can't mourn his brother's death for long since he needs to take over. He responds by hacking his hand off with his katana for interrupting him.
  • In Weiß Kreuz, Ran Fujimiya is so obsessed with his comatose sister, Aya, that he changes his name to 'Aya', despite this being mainly a woman's name.
  • Kuro, a twin-tailed cait sith in Blue Exorcist, flies into a blind rage after hearing of his best friend's death. He only calms down after Rin headbutts him and calmly explains the situation.

  • In "The Unquiet Grave", Child Ballad #78, the dead lover objects to mourning that lasts for more than A Year and a Day as an injury.
    The twelvemonth and a day being up,
    The dead began to speak:
    "Oh who sits weeping on my grave,
    And will not let me sleep?"

    Comic Books 
  • Adolf, die Nazi-Sau by Walter Moers lampoons and exaggerates Princess Diana's Real Life mourning. In his version of the story, it was Adolf Hitler who accidentally drove her into her doom (It Makes Sense in Context). The more nerve-grating is it for him how excessively she is mourned always and everywhere. A TV news anchor even says,
    "Oh, by the way, Mother Teresa is dead, too, but who cares..."
  • Black Canary once went on a Roaring Rampage of Revenge, denying that Ollie was dead, after he had attacked her on their wedding night, and she had killed in self-defense. All her friends interprete this as Excessive Grief, and her knowledge that that is exactly what it looks like only drives her on harder. (When Batman analyzes the situation and concludes that she's right, she kisses him for joy.)
  • One of the randomly generated heroes in Dial H for Hero is Captain Lachrimose, whose power is to cause this in others. He can sense a person's saddest memory and make them experience the full unmitigated grief of it. In a vicious (virtuous?) cycle he also fuels his Super Strength and Flight from ambient sadness.
  • One of the Adam Warren comics of the Dirty Pair showcase a chemical weapon called "Cry-Baby", that triggers angst on anybody who inhales it and boosts it Up to Eleven, turning them into a sobbing mess. The first target that we see it working on is a transhuman mercenary that is a walking definition of the term "Testosterone Poisoning". Turns out that the Rape, Pillage, and Burn-happy-super-duper-ultra-macho visage he has he built to conceal the fact that he is still mourning for the death of his pet dog "Squiffy" thirty years prior (so Yuri (the member of the Pair that applied the Cry-Baby into the room he and other mercs were in) feels a bit reluctant to offer her condolences).
  • The Tales from the Dark Multiverse version of The Death of Superman features Lois Lane giving into this after she percieves that the world and Clark's fellow superheroes didn't care about Clark's death, willingly undergoing a Fusion Dance with the Eradicator and becoming a Knight Templar, directly causing the deaths of many people including Lex Luthor, the Joker, and (after he called her out on it) Batman, as well as indirectly leading to the deaths of Superboy, Steel, and the real Superman once he returns.

    Fan Works 
  • Lady Barbrey Dustin of Robb Returns serves as an example of this, since she still holds a grudge against Ned for leading her husband Willem to his death at the Tower of Joy and failing to bring his bones back. Her grudge kept her from telling Ned about the fog gathering on the barrows near her home ever since the Call, and when Ned only hears about it when he calls a council of war, he is inwardly displeased at more information being lost because of old grudges.
  • Pokémon: A Marvelous Journey: Amara was once a Nice Girl until the death of her best friend Chanel during an incident with a rampaging Gyarados. However, she expresses this grief by becoming a Bratty Teenage Daughter with a hatred of all Pokemon, which spirals into her running away from home and going on a Pokemon journey despite being blacklisted as a Trainer. Along the way, she ends up building up an impressive rap sheet, which includes stealing a Totodile from Professor Elm's lab, physically and verbally abusing Pokemon regularly, forcing her Pokemon to directly attack humans, and assaulting Gym Leaders to steal Gym Badges. She only comes to her senses when she discovers that Pokemon Hunter J was behind said Gyarados rampage the whole time, and thus all of her anger towards her family, friends, and Pokemon was completely unfounded, upon which Amara breaks down in Tears of Remorse and turns herself in to the police.
  • In Why Am I Crying?, Filthy Rich went down this road following the death of his wife and unborn son. He became an alcoholic basket case, worked excessively to keep himself sane, and ignored his daughter Diamond Tiara because she looked so much like Crystal Eyes.
  • Bequeathed from Pale Estates: Robert Baratheon and his wife Cersei Lannister. Robert still uselessly pines after his deceased betrothed, Lyanna Stark (who's been dead for over a decade, mind you), while Cersei still mourns her two youngest children over a year after their deaths during The Plague. This does no favors for their already toxic marriage, nor for Joffrey, who has only become even more unstable with the increase in Parental Neglect.

    Fairy Tales 
  • In The Brothers Grimm story "The Shroud," a mother weeps nightly for her dead son. One night, his ghost appears and asks her to stop, because her tears are making his burial shroud wet and preventing him from being able to "sleep." She manages to hold back the next night, and the ghost shows up to say that he can now pass on.
  • In a Snow White-like story from the Hebrides Islands, when the queen of the sea goes up on land and gets trampled to death by a horse stampede, her husband mourns her for more than a year, to the point of neglecting everything including his daughter. When he sees her a year later (she's still mourning, too), he resolves to find a new mother-figure for her note . He marries a SeaWitch, who promises him that she'll look after his daughter... though she's really just after his power and turns out to be a Wicked Stepmother.
  • In Tattercoats, the nobleman lets his granddaughter grow up neglected and abused by servants because of her mother's death during childbirth, and his oath to never look on her face. Eventually, she marries the prince, but her grandfather goes back home to mourning and shut himself out of the Happy Ending because he gave his word.

  • She Shoots Straight has the mourning scene for Inspector Huang, which lasts for around 20 minutes onscreen.
  • Whale Rider: Poraurangi loses his wife and son in one day, and his mother says to give him time to mourn. However, spending thirteen years globe-trotting and neglecting his very much alive daughter, that's excessive. The breakdown may have been fueled by his father's sky-high expectations.
  • This is what bring Jeff under Jigsaw's radar in Saw III. He's so totally consumed by the death of his son that he's neglecting his life and the rest of his family, to the point where his introduction to the audience is him scolding his daughter for taking a toy bear from his son's room. All of his games in the film are about getting him to let go of his obsession. Too bad he learns the wrong lesson.

  • In Animorphs, Marco's dad Peter, previously an important scientist, spent two years unable to function after his wife, Eva, died in a boating accident. Complicating this is the fact that she wasn't actually dead, she was off in space as Visser One's unwilling host.
  • In Artemis Fowl, the title character's mother loses her sanity after her husband goes missing in the Russian sea. Artemis trades some of his stolen fairy gold back to Holly in exchange for a magical cure.
  • In the Belgariad:
    • The (presumed) extinction of the Marags caused their god Mara to spend centuries in insane grief.
    • One of the downsides of all the Perfectly Arranged Marriages of which the Purpose is so fond is that whenever one of the partners in a marriage dies, the widow or widower left behind tends to fall into such deep depression that they become incapable of functioning. One of the particularly bad cases was Aravina, the mother of one of the Rivan heirs; when her husband died in a riding accident, she was too overcome with grief to take care of her son Gelane, and lacking sufficient parental guidance (normally, Polgara would have taken over, but she was away), he turned into a difficult, moody brat who briefly fell under the influence of the Dark Side.
  • In Brightly Burning, the mother of the late, unlamented Tyrone Jelnack has the house decked in black swaths of mourning, when all other houses have green garlands due to a midwinter festival. It's not only in questionable taste, since Tyrone was known to have been a Royal Brat, but also makes it clear that she gets her own way, even though she's of questionable sanity.
  • Isaac Asimov's story "The Dead Past" has Potterly's wife, who's been mourning their daughter since she died several years ago. She'd happily use the Chronoscope to relive her past even if it means she'd waste away.
  • In the first book of Dirk Pitt Adventures, Dirk meets a woman who, to his shock, has been mourning her husband and keeping herself away from society for the past nine years.
  • In C. S. Lewis's The Great Divorce, one damned woman was My Beloved Smother toward her son, and after his death insisted on keeping his room the same and otherwise obsessing over him until her husband and daughter revolted, though they were a loving father and sister. Her brother, as a Bright One, observes that it was not even her dead son dominating their lives, but her wishes.
  • In Sky Key (Endgame Trilogy) Sarah after being forced to kill her boyfriend Christopher.
  • This was a problem during Katniss Everdeen's childhood in The Hunger Games. After her father's death, her mother shut down to such an extent that Katniss herself basically had to take charge of the family.
  • In the Iliad, Achilles's revenge for Patrocles's death includes abusing Hector's corpse after his death. Only when Priam appeals to him for the corpse does he settle down.
  • In Monstrous Regiment, the Duchess of Borogravia went into secluded mourning after the death of her husband; when the novel opens she hasn't been seen in public for years, and there's a rumor going around that at some point she died and the mourning is being used as an excuse to hush it up. The rumour is proven partly true at the climax.
  • Persuasion has the late Richard Musgrove who "never deserved a name other than Dick" (a remark which became funnier later), who was sent into the Navy for want of being useful any other way. He happened to end up in Captain Wentworth's ship, and although he speaks kindly to Mrs. Musgrove about her son, the narrator points out that Dick wound up being loved more when dead than alive and that he really didn't deserve all the lamenting and sighing that Mrs. Musgrove is doing now.
  • At the beginning of Sense and Sensibility, Mrs. Dashwood and Marianne indulge their grief over Mr. Dashwood in an incessant feedback loop, bringing up memories and keepsakes specifically to keep the sadness going. Elinor, while unhappy herself, is forced to take on all the work of actually running the household while her mother and sister sob themselves insensible.
  • Non-dying variant occurs in A Song of Ice and Fire: In the first book, when Bran is in a coma, his mother Catelyn goes into a Heroic BSoD that echoes this trope: spending all day and night by his bedside, abandoning her duties as Lady of Winterfell, and her other two children who are still in the castle, Robb and Rickon. Robb later gives her a What the Hell, Hero? speech for it. She finally snaps out of it when someone sends an assassin after Bran, and after the attempt is thwarted she leaves Winterfell in an attempt to protect the rest of her a family. For reasons a little too complicated to explain here, she and Bran never see each other again.
  • In Laura Amy Schlitz's Splendors And Glooms, Clara is the sole child of the family to survive. She receives presents every birthday from the dead, must visit the grave every significant day of the year (such as Christmas), and is surrounded by mementos of the dead. When Parsefall observes that deathmasks are gruesome, she feels a burst of Commonality Connection.
  • In Tigana, the Evil Sorcerer takes revenge on an entire country because his favorite son died in a battle there.
  • In The Witchlands, Cam accuses Merik of this, noting that not only is his grief making him barely functional and unwilling to see the truth that's right in front of him, but Merik seems to think that this is somehow a good thing.

    Live-Action TV 
  • Everybody Hates Chris: In "Everybody Hates Funerals", we're introduced to Rochelle's Dysfunctional Family, one of whom is a sister by the nickname of "Aunt Grievey", named because she only shows up at funerals. No weddings or birthdays. Just funerals.
  • Played for Drama in Marchlands. When the series begins, Rose's daughter Alice has been dead for six months, but she is convinced that Alice died in suspicious circumstances, which no one else believes. Her husband and in-laws pressure her to move on, thinking she's just grieving excessively, and making up theories to justify holding onto her little girl. Well, two of them think that, anyway. One of them knows exactly how Alice died.
  • Monk was pretty unstable his whole life, but when his wife was killed in a car bombing it drove him off the deep end - causing him to have a full mental break and be removed from the force. He was still absolutely fixated on her and her death over 10 years later.
  • In the early episodes of Orphan Black, the main character Sarah fakes her death with the help of her foster brother Felix. Sarah's abusive ex, Vic, is utterly devastated, spending days, if not weeks, at a time drinking in Felix's loft, much to his annoyance. When Vic says he now wants to get to know Sarah's daughter, Felix decides he's had enough and kicks him out.
  • A Saturday Night Live sketch featured Chris Farley crying over his parents' deaths thirty years after the fact, to the consternation of everyone he met.
  • Twin Peaks centers around the death of Laura Palmer. Naturally, many of the townsfolk are stricken with grief, however her father Leland takes it to excessive territory. Laura's death affected everyone, but Leland is reduced to a dysfunctional mess who risks causing a scene everywhere he goes, whether it's having fits of sobbing triggered by Laura's favorite music, or even collapsing on his daughters coffin at her funeral. It happens so often that people can't help but laugh about it behind his back.
  • Defied in the Doctor Who story "Time-Flight". Once the Doctor has made it clear to Tegan and Nyssa that the Laws of Time mean they cannot go back and prevent Adric's death, he says Adric wouldn't want everyone to "mourn unnecessarily" and offers to take his remaining companions to the 1851 Great Exhibition to take their minds off what has happened.
  • Daredevil: At the start of season 3, Foggy and Karen are processing Matt's "death" in Midland Circle from the climax of The Defenders differently. It's clear Foggy has made a lot of progress to move on from what happened, since he has his family and his girlfriend Marci Stahl to provide moral support. Karen, on the other hand, is obsessively pouring over stories relating to Midland Circle at the Bulletin to the point that even Ellison notices something's up.

    Mythology & Religion 
  • In The Bible, Jacob's ten oldest sons are so jealous of the favorite son, Joseph, that they sell him into slavery and fake his death. When presented with his bloody coat, Jacob wails that "my hoary head will go down to the grave mourning," and proceeds to grieve for Joseph until he's finally reunited with the family about twenty years later.
    • In a more Due to the Dead version, the Gibeonites hanged seven sons of Saul and left their bodies on the gallows for five months. Rizpah, the mother of two of them, spent the whole time shooing away any animals that tried to eat them, until David was able to recover and bury them.
  • The Epic of Gilgamesh: When Enkidu dies from a sickness sent by the gods, Gilgamesh refuses to let him be buried for seven days, hoping he can call him back to life by his mourning. Only when maggots appear in Enkidu's face, Gilgamesh allows the corpse to be buried, and then goes off into the steppe alone to cry for Enkidu, leaving his kingdom behind.
  • Heimskringla: When Harald Finehair's Sami wife Snaefrid dies, her body does not decompose, and Harald sits at her deathbed for three years because he thinks she might come to life again, in the meantime neglecting all affairs of government. Finally Harald's advisor Thorleif suggests changing Snaefrid's bedsheets; as soon as the corpse is raised, it turns rotten. Harald has it burnt on a pyre and stops mourning.

  • In Dawn of a New Age: Oldport Blues, Harriet feels so responsible for the death of her parents (since she argued with them before they got in their accident) that she's become severely depressed, often forgoing basic human needs and finding herself unable to return to her home after the accident. The local child psychiatrist has been trying to help her, but she's still highly dysfunctional a year later.

  • In "Oh What a Circus", the opening number of Evita, The Everyman narrator Che says that Argentina is going overboard with the grand scale of Eva's funeral.
  • In The Rose Tattoo, Serafina never leaves her house or gets dressed for three years after her husband's death, though she does mind her daughter. Father De Leo calls her out for her self-indulgently excessive grieving, and further scolds her for having had her husband cremated to make an "idolatrous shrine" of his ashes in her house.
  • In William Shakespeare's works:
    • Countess Olivia of Twelfth Night was left in the protection of he brother when her father died. When her brother also passed away, she vowed to mourn for seven years, wearing black, never speaking to men, and admitting no kind of suit. It's suggested that this is at least partially a device intended to get the irritating advances of Duke Orsino off her back, as she renounces her grief pretty quickly on meeting Cesario.
    • Hamlet is treated as though his mourning for his father (two months after his death) is excessive, when really it is the rest of the Danish court—now under the control of Hamlet's usurping uncle Claudius—that has brushed the incident under the rug.
    • In King John, the Lady Constance (a sort of forerunner to The Ophelia trope) is seen as excessively grieving the death of her young son— King John himself says to her "You are as fond of grief as of your child" and he and the Bishop tell her she is mad. May be more of a Subversion than a trope played straight— her son's death was mere days ago, and her grief may be more politically inconvenient than anything else.
  • This trope and it's inverse could be said to be at the heart of the drama in Next to Normal. Combined with her bipolar disorder, Diana is simply unable to stop grieving for her dead firstborn son Gabe, even at the cost of neglecting her daughter Natalie. It's so bad that she hallucinates him as an 18 year old even when he died as a baby, though the mental illness is definitely partially to blame. Her husband Dan on the other hand refuses to grieve at all in favor of pretending that everything is okay, hoping that the lie will come true. Both behaviors ultimately come crashing down on their heads when Diane's hallucination of Gabe convinces her to attempt suicide and later on, Dan attempts to hide Gabe's existence to an amnesiac Diana, causing her to leave him when her memories come back.

    Video Games 
  • The king of Ascantha in Dragon Quest VIII has kept his entire kingdom in a state of mourning for the late queen, who died two years prior.
  • In Might and Magic 8, you need to find someone who witnessed the creation of the lake of lava on the Ironsand Desert, which happens to be a troll named Overdune Snapfinger. However, Overdune tells you that he can't go with you because his brother, Vilebite, died during the aforementioned flood of lava, and his father is in such grief over his death that he can't take care of himself. Overdune requires you to bring Vilebite's ashes to the local tomb before he can go with you, in hopes that this will ease his father's pain.
  • Played With in Oninaki. Because of the way the cycle of reincarnation works in Oninaki's world, Kagachi's society frowns heavily upon any grieving of the dead, because it prevents spirits from moving on and being reincarnated. This is displayed very clearly in the beginning of the game, where a young Kagachi is told not to mourn for his parents. It's implied that this had a negative effect on him, turning him into the cold and aloof person he is as an adult.

    Web Animation 
  • In Mario Brothers, Mario mourns Luigi's death for too long, which not only gives Koopa time to carry out his plan, but also causes the 1-Up used on him later to fail.

    Web Original 
  • In the Springhole post "Tips and Advice on Killing Main Characters", Syera comments this trope is used to show the bereaved person's loyalty for the deceased went far beyond anyone else's, while in real life, it's a sign that the bereaved is really bad at coping or had a mental illness that was exacerbated by the loss, and that it's not weak nor an act of disloyalty to the deceased to seek help to recover from the loss.

    Western Animation 
  • In season 4 of Bojack Horseman, we learn more about the childhood of BoJack's mother Beatrice. Beatrice's mother, Honey, could not handle the loss of her son Crackerjack (he died in World War II), culminating in her and Beatrice getting into a car accident because she tried to let her too-young daughter drive. Justified in that Beatrice grew up in the '40s, and she and her mother were encouraged by everyone (including Beatrice's father) to hide their emotions and make babies. Beatrice's father ended up dealing with Honey by having her lobotomized.
    Honey: I can't be with people and I can't be alone. And I don't know how to be better. Please fix me.
  • Cleveland in The Cleveland Show initially had this over the death of his unfaithful ex-wife Loretta to the annoyance of Donna. He realized it was Survivor's Guilt; the falling tub gag he had been victim to several times while living in Quahog left him without a scratch, yet killed Loretta the one time it happened to her.
  • In one episode of South Park, the woodshop teacher abuses Nicorette gum because he didn't get to say goodbye to his (Live-action) wife, who died by crashing her airplane. Once he runs out, he attempts suicide. In an uncharacteristically sweet scene, her ghost, and the ghost of his favorite uncle, appears to comfort him and talk him out of it.
  • In Steven Universe, Blue Diamond has been mourning for Pink Diamond for over five-thousand years and is still grief-stricken like it just happened yesterday, including secretly visiting the site of her death on Earth and preserving any mementos of hers that she can find. Yellow Diamond berates her to move on, despite secretly mourning herself, albeit more through anger and denial.
  • The true identity of The Conductor, as revealed at the end of Book One of Infinity Train is Amelia Hughes, a widow who was scooped up by the train after her husband's death and, instead of working through her grief, has been trying to build a replica of her old life with him in it for the past thirty three years. Her refusal to let go of her mourning is, in one way or another, the catalyst for much of the drama of the rest of the show.

    Real Life 
  • James M. Barrie's entire childhood was warped by his mother's excessive grief over his brother, who drowned in an ice skating accident. At one point, his uncle forced him to go into the room where she was to remind her of his existence; Barrie states his mother took great comfort in Barrie imitating his deceased brother. Her longing for her son, "who would remain a boy forever," served as the eventual inspiration for Peter Pan and the other Lost Boys.
  • Joanna of Castile, a Spanish queen who went mad with grief after her husband's death, and allegedly took his corpse with her when traveling so she would never have to part with him.
  • Queen Victoria didn't go around in black all the time (as is her customary depiction) — until her husband died in 1861. She was in mourning until she died, 40 years later.
  • When Hephaestion, closest friend and possible lover of Alexander the Great died, Alexander threw him an absolutely enormous funeral. Costing the modern equivalent of somewhere two and four billion dollars, it included funeral games with over 3,000 competitors, a funeral pyre almost 200 feet high decorated in gold, and the extinguishing of the sacred flame (something normally done only upon the death of a king/emperor). Alexander laid in bed for two days crying, declared Hepaestion's regiment would never have another leader, and insisted that he be worshiped as a divine hero alongside Alexander himself. His health also declined rapidly after Hephaestion's death, thought to be due to his extreme distress at the loss of his friend, and he himself died just a year later.
  • Mary Todd Lincoln, wife of President Abraham Lincoln, was said to be so inconsolable after the death of their son William that she locked herself in the White House master bedroom for days after his funeral, doing nothing except lay in bed and weep over a photo of her son. An apocryphal story on the subject says she only came out again when Abe threatened to send her to an asylum for the insane, though history does show he had to hire a nurse to look after her for months after William's death, so there might be some truth to it. Worth pointing out: Mary had severe depression, and some historians posit she was bipolar, which would no doubt be contributory, especially in a time where mental health wasn't nearly as well studied as it is now.


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Blue Diamond

Ever since Pink died, she's been mourning non-stop--for 6,000 years straight.

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