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Deliberately Distressed Damsel

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That Alice! She seems Too Dumb to Live. She picks up the Distress Ball and, like a true Damsel Scrappy, scores on her own team with it. And worse, she seems like she's enjoying it.

While this character may look like a Damsel Scrappy at first glance, she's actually Obfuscating Stupidity. Whether she's pulling a Wounded Gazelle Gambit, or just into this sort of thing, she doesn't get captured because she's weak, she gets captured because she wants to. She may even have the skills to get out of the scrape she's in herself if necessary. If this is the case, expect her to say Let's Get Dangerous! at some point.


If she's getting captured because she's into it, she may be a case of Best Her to Bed Her. Expect her not to have much regard for Safe, Sane, and Consensual. If her getting captured is part of her Evil Plan, she's really a Decoy Damsel. If she is a protagonist, she may be letting herself get captured as part of The Infiltration. Alternately, if she's Bruce Wayne Held Hostage, she may pretend to be a Hysterical Woman in order to convince the villains to let her go before she comes back in her more heroic guise.

Compare I Surrender, Suckers, Too Kinky to Torture, Aren't You Going to Ravish Me?



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  • BURN THE WITCH!: Lila convinces herself that the only reason Hawkmoth is permitting Witch Hunter to go on such a rampage is because he's setting up a trap for Ladybug of this nature. After all, surely, she's far too valuable to him as a partner-in-crime for him to just... let her be burned at the stake for real, right?!

    Films — Live-Action 
  • In Alien Avengers, George Went's character's wife does this. The pair make it seem like the wife is unconscious, and ask an implied gang member if he will help. He said that since it is George's wife after he's done with her, he can have a turn. She gets up from her feigned incapacitation and the two kill the guy. She fit this trope in that moment because she is really a homicidal alien with a strong sense of justice instead of a weakling.
  • The Avengers reveals that this is a favorite tactic of Natasha Romanoff/Black Widow. Her introductory scene opens with her tied to a chair and surrounded by thugs, who are ready to torture her at behest of a rogue Russian general...then a call from her fellow Agent Coulson confirms this is just another day of work for her and she breaks out and beats them all up the minute he needs her on a different mission.
  • The short film that D.E.B.S. was based on had a team member who keeps getting kidnapped by the Big Bad to cover for their Dating Catwoman relationship.

  • In Murder on the Leviathan, Renata Kleber gets into trouble on purpose in hopes of starting a Rescue Romance with the handsome protagonist, who seems to uphold chivalric values.
  • In Twilight, Bella thinks that she can psychically connect with her ex-boyfriend Edward if she gets an adrenaline rush, and purposefully puts herself in near-death situations to bring them on.
  • In The Light Fantastic, Cohen the Barbarian, Rincewind, and Twoflower interrupt a druidic sacrifice, in the process rescuing the maiden who was about to be sacrificed. Said maiden is extremely indignant about the rescue, protesting that if it weren't for them rescuing her she would be "having tea with the Moon Goddess by now" and that they'd just caused "eight years of staying in on Sunday nights" to go "down the drain".
  • In Everworld, Senna knew that someone like Loki was going to come for her eventually, so she purposefully manipulated people she knew to get sucked into Everworld with her. Particularly early on she tried to play the innocent Living MacGuffin, but April, Jalil and Christopher could see through her. David had a harder time of it, though, for various reasons.
  • Urban Dragon: Arkay's main source of income involves pretending to be a ditsy ingenue for would-be sexual predators, beating them within an inch of their lives, and robbing them blind.
  • The Wheel of Time: Aes Sedai Magical Society members take a magically binding Oath never to harm humans with their powers except in defense of their own lives — such as when they deliberately wade into the battlefield until they feel threatened enough for the Oath to let them start slinging fireballs.

    Live Action TV 
  • The Flash: In "The Flash Reborn", Iris deliberately offers herself as a hostage to the "Samuroid", hoping that her being in danger will snap the mentally-unstable Barry out of it. It works. And how!
  • Neal Caffrey pulls a male version in the Pilot Episode of White Collar: Long story short, Neal has been let out of prison in order to help the FBI catch an art forger known as The Dutchman. If he fails, he goes back to prison to finish out his sentence. He and Agent Burke have ID'ed The Dutchman and found his base of operations, but they don't have probable cause to carry out a search. Neal gets around this by getting himself captured by The Dutchman's Mooks, knowing that this will take him outside of the two-mile radius afforded by his tracking anklet, setting it off and giving the FBI an excuse to raid the base.

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  • In episode 17 of RWBY Chibi, Nora repeatedly tries to stage herself being attacked by a Grimm creature in hopes that Ren will save her. It doesn't work: the first two times she's saved by Sun and Yang instead, while the third time has Ren see she has it under control and leave.

    Western Animation 
  • Gender Inverted in the ThunderCats (2011) episode "The Duelist and the Drifter." Adventure Town resident and habitual Distressed Dude the Drifter gets snagged on high fences three times, each time enlisting protagonist Lion-O's help to get down. This would be innocuous but for the fact that the Drifter possesses Not Quite Flight, and readily exploits these encounters to offer Adventure Rebuffs and unsolicited, passive-aggressive advice on Lion-O's own increasing problems while elaborately feigning disinterest.
  • Spoofed in Pucca, when Pucca's best friend Ching (a Cute Bruiser) tries to stage several dangerous situations to attract the attention of her crush Abyo - and not even a single one works. And then it's subverted: when Abyo ends up in trouble and Ching saves him, he's revealed to be an Amazon Chaser.
  • In Muppet Babies (1984), Piggy would always cast herself as the classic fairy tale princess or damsel-in-distress, helplessly trapped by the villain, in the games the babies imagined so that her hero "Kermy" could rescue her... and then things would go south, so she'd have to step up, say, "Gimme that stupid sword!", and beat the bad guys herself, acting very annoyed the whole time ("Can you believe this?").

    Real Life 
  • A very mild version of this is when a woman will drop her handkerchief in hopes that the man in question will pick it up and return it to her. Played with in Monkey Business, where a woman drops a handkerchief in front of Zeppo, who pockets it and then drops one for her to pick up.


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