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My Girl is a 1991 coming-of-age drama film directed by Howard Zieff and starring Anna Chlumsky, Macaulay Culkin, Dan Aykroyd and Jamie Lee Curtis. Set in the summer of 1972, the film revolves around Vada Sultenfuss (Chlumsky), an 11-year-old girl living with her father (Aykroyd). Vada is obsessed with death. Her mother is dead, and her dad owns a funeral parlor. Her best friend, Thomas J. Sennett (Culkin) has various allergies and her father falls in love with makeup expert Shelly DeVoto (Curtis) whom he hires for the parlor. Vada tries everything she can to split them up while sticking around with Thomas J. for some various adventures...

The film's success spawned a sequel in 1994, with Chlumsky, Aykroyd and Curtis reprising their roles and Austin O'Brien (Last Action Hero) rounding out the cast.


Tropes associated with these movies:

  • The '70s: The first movie takes place in 1972 and the sequel takes place two years later.
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  • Adult Fear: Mr. and Mrs. Sennett lose their only child in a very unexpected and tragic accident.
  • Almost Kiss: Between Harry and Shelly, before Vada intervenes.
  • Ascended Extra: Vada's uncle Phil went from an extra in the first film to being one of the main characters in the sequel.
  • Aw, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other: Thomas J and Vada snipe at each other plenty of times, but do ultimately share a kiss.
  • Babies Ever After: Vada's baby brother is born at the end of the sequel.
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  • Back-to-Back Poster: The poster has main character Vada and Thomas J., who serves as her best friend and possible Love Interest, back to back.
  • Bittersweet Ending: Thomas J. unexpectedly dies and Vada’s outlook on life is forever changed with that loss of innocence, but she learns to cherish the good memories she had with him as a friend, patch things up with Harry, become more accepting of Shelley in Harry’s life and gets a new friend in Judy while moving forward with her emotional growth.
  • Blind Without 'Em: "He can't see without his glasses".
  • Blood Brothers: Vada and Thomas J. do this.
  • Break the Cutie: Vada. Especially after her best friend dies and her crush marries someone else the same day of the funeral.
  • Captain Obvious: While watching Shelly and her ex-husband arguing, Vada's uncle remarks, "These two people do not have a good relationship."
  • Comically Missing the Point: Thomas J. reminds Vada that she can't marry her teacher because it's against the law: "he'll give you all A's!"
  • Coming-of-Age Story: During the film Vada learns about the nature of love, copes with her father remarrying and the concept of death.
  • Cool Uncle: Vada's uncle Phil, a Vietnam vet who had a metal plate put in his head, is like another father to Vada.
  • Creepy Basement: Considering the house is a funeral parlor and the basement is used to embalm the corpses, Vada gets suitably scared when she's accidentally locked down there.
  • Death by Childbirth: Vada's mother.
  • Death of a Child: Poor Thomas J. He's allergic to bees and succumbs to being stung by them.
  • Demoted to Extra: The sequel has everyone from the first film (besides Vada and her uncle) only in the film for the first 20 minutes (not counting her parents as they also appear in the ending).
  • Dropped Glasses: Happens when Thomas J. is fatally attacked a bee swarm.
  • First Kiss: Notable for winning the first ever "Best Kiss" award at the 1992 MTV Movie Awards. Heck, in Latin American countries the movie is known as "Mi Primer Beso" ("My First Kiss"). It was also the first onscreen kiss for Macaulay Culkin.
  • First Period Panic: Vada apparently has never heard of menstruation. She visits the bathroom, then calls for her father in a panic. Her father is not available, so she tells the only other adult present that she is hemorrhaging. She's also one of the girls who have no mother or female figure to consult.
  • Fourth Date Marriage: Downplayed, but the whole film—including Harry and Shelly first meeting, first going on a date, and eventually getting engaged—takes place over the course of one summer.
    • Harry proposed to Vada's mother on the second date and they were married two weeks later.
  • Freak Out: Vada goes through a couple of these; when she's accidentally locked in the basement, when she gets her first period, and at Thomas J.'s funeral.
  • Freudian Excuse: Missing Mom + guilt for the Death by Childbirth + growing up in a funeral home and being around dead people all the time = the eccentric Vada Sultenfuss.
  • The "Fun" in "Funeral": Accidental example. Vada is supposed to be watching her senile grandmother while a funeral is going on in the house, but she isn't. So the grandmother walks into the funeral and starts singing loudly.
  • Gilligan Cut: In the sequel, "No, I'm sorry, Vada is not going to Los Angeles. Now I have made my decision, and that is final." (Cut to the airport.)
  • Girliness Upgrade: At the end of the movie, Vada lets her hair down and wears a nice dress.
  • Good Parents: Harry and Shelly, who both love Vada deeply with the latter wanting to make sure Vada's mother is still part her life despite her death.
  • Granola Girl: The creative writing class has granola girls AND guys. Then again, it is set in 1972.
  • Green-Eyed Monster: Vada feels this way in regards to her father developing a relationship with Shelly. She gets over it with time.
    • In the sequel, Phil gets jealous when a customer keeps flirting with his girlfriend Rose. This jealousy eventually helps him realize that he wants to marry Rose and be a father to Nick.
  • Heroic BSoD: Poor Vada takes Thomas J's death very badly.
  • Hot for Teacher: Vada has a huge crush on her schoolteacher - to the point where, in order to pay to enroll in a summer writing course that he teaches, she steals the money from Shelly.
  • Hypochondria: Vada. The junior novel adaptation opens with her listing off all the things she thinks are wrong with her - namely, that she was born jaundiced, caught hemorrhoids in a public restroom, and has a small chicken bone stuck in her throat from a Fourth of July barbecue years before.
  • Ill Boy: Thomas J. This includes an allergy to bee stings, something nobody was aware of until it's too late.
  • Kill the Cutie: See above Death of a Child
  • Kissing In A Tree: A group of passing girls makes fun of Vada and Thomas J using this song, while the two of them are hanging out at Shelley's.
  • Letting Her Hair Down: Vada is mostly seen with a ponytail for the first half of the film. She lets it down after some drama has passed.
  • Lighter and Softer: The sequel tones down the drama from the first movie and becomes more of a heartwarming comedy.
  • Likes Older Men: Vada is in love with her teacher, with her even flat-out telling him, "I love you the same way my dad loves [his new girlfriend]." Upon finding out the teacher is engaged, Vada takes the news very hard.
  • Lovable Alpha Bitch: Judy, who doesn't seem to tease Vada along with the rest of the Girl Posse. She pays her respects after Thomas J's death and she and Vada appear to be friends by the end of the movie and the sequel shows that they are still friends.
  • Madness Mantra: Vada puts her hands over her ears and sings "Do Wah Diddy Diddy" when she's emotionally breaking.
  • Mama's Baby, Papa's Maybe: In the sequel, Vada discovers that her mother was previously married to someone before her father and fears that he might actually be her father and not Harry. Harry most definitely is her father.
  • Missing Mom: Vada's mother died a few days after Vada was born.
  • Mysterious Parent: Vada knows virtually nothing about her mother except small anecdotes from her father. The sequel decides to make this the main focus of the plot with Vada learning more about her life in California by meeting her friends, peers, teachers, and her first husband.
  • No Periods, Period: Averted. Vada experiences her first period, and panics when it happens.
  • Parental Obliviousness: Harry doesn't take Vada's eccentric behavior or apparent hypochondria seriously.
  • Parents as People: The movie occasionally shifts its focus from Vada to Harry.
  • Parent with New Paramour: Vada is not happy about her father dating Shelly. She gets over it.
  • Precocious Crush: Vada has a crush on her teacher, Mr. Bixler.
  • The Runaway: Vada runs away after she finds out Harry and Shelly are getting married, but it lasts less than a day and no one notices. She does it again when she can't cope with Thomas J.'s death and her guardians definitely notice.
  • Scary Stinging Swarm: Vada and Thomas J run from a swarm of bees and manage to escape unscathed, save for Vada losing her mood ring. When Thomas J goes back alone to retrieve the ring, he isn't quite so lucky...
  • Second Love: Nick become Vada's by the end of the sequel.
  • She Is Not My Girlfriend: Inverted; Vada is annoyed when kids tease her about Thomas J. being her boyfriend.
  • Sublime Rhyme: Defied by Vada's teacher. He tells her that a poem is more than words rhyming, it's about expressing ones self.
  • Sudden Sequel Death Syndrome: At the start of the sequel, Vada's senile grandmother is revealed to have passed away.
  • The Talk: Vada gets one from Shelly after her period. Her reaction: "My mom and dad did THAT?...I think it should be outlawed!"
  • That Nostalgia Show: It's set in the 1970s and has a very nostalgic feel to it - Shelly drives a Volkswagen van, Vada owns a mood ring, there are 70s pop songs on the get the picture. The 1990s were a time when 70s nostalgia was quite prevalent.
  • Tomboy and Girly Girl: Vada and Shelly.
  • Tomboyish Ponytail: Vada wears one for most of the film.
  • Tragic Keepsake: Vada's mood ring becomes one. In the sequel, which takes place two years after the events of the first film, she's shown to still wear it as a reminder of her dead best friend.
  • Trauma Conga Line: Oh God, where to start?! Her life is already a little rough, but it got worse when her best friend, Thomas J, dies in a bee attack. She was the one who angered the bees in the first place, and he only went back to try and find her mood ring that she lost, her father is the mortician, the funeral is held at her house, and to top it all off, on the day of said funeral, she discovers the teacher that she had a crush on is getting married. However, she gets better in the end.
  • Tsundere: Vada is hot and aggressive toward Thomas a lot of the time, but she does care for him a lot.
  • Vitriolic Best Buds: Thomas J. and Vada are this.
  • Who Names Their Kid "Dude"?: Shelly's ex-husband's response when introduced to Vada.
    "Vada Sultenfuss? Tough break."


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