Pianist Stefan Brand comes home one night a few hours from a duel in which he has no interest in participating. Before he prepares to leave the city, he receives a letter that begins with the above quote.
The letter is told by his former neighbor, Lisa Berndl, who as a young girl, fell in love with him. It follows her life in Vienna, and her desire for him to love her, but it's painful, unrequited love. She finally gets the chance to be with him, and has his child, but he soon forgets who she is and is unaware of his son.
Years pass, and Lisa is now married with a respectable man who treats her son as his own, but a chance meeting at the opera with Stefan has Lisa uncontrollably wanting him. But when she goes to his house, he doesn't even remember her. Lisa realizes that not only is her life tragic, but so is Stefan's; he had love at his fingertips, but let it slip by.
A Chinese edition of this film came out in 2004.
This film provides examples of:
- Anguished Declaration of Love: Lisa's letter to Stefan provides the narration for most of the story, making the entire movie this.
- Book-Ends: The film begins and ends with Stefan being escorted to/from his home in a carriage.
- The Casanova: Stefan. Although he himself seems to think it's Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places.
- Costume Porn: In Vienna, Lisa works as a model showing off dresses for the elite people who can afford them. This means we see a lot of beautiful dresses of that period.
- Death by Despair: With Stefan Jr's death, and Stefan being unable to recognize his love, Lisa doesn't have much to live for and so it's implied that she dies this way.
- Downer Ending
- Flower Motifs: Stefan, on his first date with Lisa, gets her one white rose which represents Lisa pure, unadulterated love. Once she finds Stefan again, she brings him a bundle of white roses so he can remember her, but alas, he doesn't.
- Framing Device: Lisa's letter frames the entire film.
- The Gay '90s: Most of the story takes place during this time period.
- Love at First Note: Heavily implied to be the main reason why Lisa is so drawn to Stefan. His genius for music is the one thing about him that seems to hint at a deeper character. When he confesses to her late in the movie that he's given it up, it's the beginning of her disillusionment with him.
- Love Hurts: Stefan never remembers Lisa, and once he does find out about their relationship, it's too late. Lisa dies and Stefan Jr also dies of Typhus.
- Love Martyr: Lisa, so very much.
- Old Retainer: Stefan's servant has worked for him for years, and he knew all along that Lisa was the woman that had loved Stefan for so many years.
- Stalker with a Crush: Lisa doesn't have any problems with sneaking glances at Stefan's romantic encounters as he enters with them to the apartment building, and she sneaks into his house as well.
- Later, she waits outside his apartment, hoping he'll notice her. He eventually does.
- Source Music: Stefan plays Il Sospiro by Franz Liszt, and it's a song that follows him throughout the film.
- Star-Crossed Lovers: Stefan and Lisa.
- Tall, Dark, and Handsome: Stefan