Line #42 PlayingWith/UnsettlingGenderReveal


1	'''Basic Trope''': A character's sex turns out to be different than what someone who was attracted to them thought it was, {{squick}}ing out that suitor.
2	* '''Straight''': Alice and Bob meet. Bob falls for Alice. Then Alice turns out to be "Andy". Bob is upset.
3	* '''Exaggerated''': Alice and Bob meet. "Alice" has large breasts and a skimpy outfit, [[DudeLooksLikeALady but is still a guy]].
4	* '''Downplayed''':
5	** Alice wears a plain T-shirt and jeans. Only "her" face and [[LongHairIsFeminine long hair]] were the reason Bob thought "she" was a girl. When Alice turns out to be "Andy", Bob could not look at him the same way.
6	** Alice and Bob meet. Bob thinks Alice is kind of cute. Then Alice turns out to be "Andy". Bob is surprised.
7	* '''Justified''':
8	** Alice is a WholesomeCrossdresser, a [[VoluntaryShapeshifting shapeshifter]], UsefulNotes/{{Transgender}}, or is the victim of a GenderBender.
9	** Andy is very androgynous-looking to the point where [[AmbiguousGender everyone wonders what gender they are]].
10	** He is a part of an alien species with different sexual characteristics than humans. He only went by Alice because he thought it was easier for humans to pronounce, but later decided to go by Andy after he found out Alice was a girl's name.
11	* '''Inverted''':
12	** Bob meets Alice thinking that "Alice" is a DragQueen, only to be distraught when she's revealed to be the real deal. (Only an inversion of the basic version: The actual trope is not concerned with which gender Alice actually is, just if the reveal upsets Bob).
13	** SweetOnPollyOliver
14	** Even though Bob was right from the beginning thinking that "Alice" is a man, Andy [[DisguisedInDrag manages to convince Bob to falsely believe he is a she]].
15	** Bob feels more attracted to "Alice" after learning that "Alice" is actually Andy.
16	* '''Subverted''':
17	** Bob thinks Alice is secretly a guy, gets upset, but Alice is the genuine article...
18	** Alternatively: Bob is shocked and flustered... But it turns out he's bisexual ([[IfItsYouItsOkay or is only gay for Andy]]) and is just upset that Andy didn't trust him enough to tell him the truth.
19	** Also alternatively: Alice really is a woman, but she was assigned male at birth, but Bob still loves her anyway.
20	** Bob finds out Alice used to go by Andy and, instead of puking his lunch out, his reaction is, "...Huh. Well what do you know." And doesn't say anything else about the subject.
21	* '''Double Subverted''':
22	** Bob thinks Alice is a guy, gets upset, but Alice isn't actually a guy... Unfortunately, Bob's spent all this time talking to Alice's HalfIdenticalTwin.
23	** Also: Alice used to be a man, but Bob still loves her. That is, until Bob [[MondegreenGag realizes that Alice said]] "I used to be a man", not [[Series/TheITCrowd "I'm from Iran."]]
24	* '''Parodied''':
25	** Alice and Bob meet. [[PaperThinDisguise Alice is blatantly a man dressed as a woman]], but Bob falls head over heels for "her" anyway. Later he is shocked to find out "she" is is a man.
26	** [[{{Hunk}} Andy]] is muscular; has a prominent chin, facial hair, and short hair; and does absolutely ''nothing'' to hide the fact that he's male. [[ArmouredClosetGay Bob]] is ''still'' surprised to find out that his crush, Andy, is a guy.
27	* '''Zig Zagged''': Alice and Bob meet and fall in love. Alice turns out to be "Andy". Then Bob turns out to be "Betty".
28	* '''Averted''':
29	** Everyone is the gender they appear to be.
30	** Alternatively: Upon finding out that Alice is actually a guy, Bob is surprised but not disturbed.
31	** Alternatively: His outward appearance notwithstanding, Andy is quite open about being a man, and tells Bob this when they first meet.
32	** Bob mistakes "Alice" for a girl but [[DramaticIrony never learns the truth]] through the course of the series.
33	* '''Enforced''': A work that explores gender identity issues will inevitably feature a situation where someone misidentifies a person's gender, and hilarity (or tragedy) ensues.
34	* '''Lampshaded''': "Of course, the person I finally fall in love with turns out to be a guy."
35	* '''Invoked''': Andy intentionally dresses up as "Alice" in order to trick Bob.
36	* '''Exploited''': Carla knew all along that Alice was Andy and films the moment Bob finds out to put it on Youtube.
37	* '''Defied''':
38	** Bob "checks" every female he meets very thoroughly to ensure he's not trapped in this way.
39	** "She's cute. Think she'll give me her phone number?" "That's a guy, Bob." "Oh... He's cute. Think he'll give me his phone number?"
40	** Andy tells Bob that he is male once he realizes Bob has mistaken him for a woman.
41	* '''Discussed''': "This chick I'm going out with right now is pretty cool. She knows sports, likes watching Baywatch... uh, Jeff is a girl's name, right?"
42	* '''Conversed''':
43	** "I don't know if I'm going to bother watching tonight's episode, TV Guide says Bob finds out his girlfriend Alice was born male and [[GenreSavvy we all know]] his reaction is going to be so insensitive and horrified that it'll make pretty much every transgender or trans-friendly viewer cringe."
44	** "Don't forget us viewers who [[HollywoodPsych hate a certain trope]]..."
45	* '''Implied''': Bob is shown following Alice around with [[CardiovascularLove hearts]] in [[WingdingEyes his eyes]]. After Alice turns out to be Andy, Bob stops speaking to him.
46	* '''Deconstructed''': The reveal puts a heavy strain on (or outright breaks) Bob and Andy's relationship. For one thing, Bob cannot forgive him for having lied to him about something so important, and Andy ends up heartbroken because he just wanted to get close to Bob, not even as a romantic interest, but as a good friend, and now he just hates his guts.
47	* '''Reconstructed''': However, after the dust has settled, Bob realizes that, while being lied to wasn't a nice thing to do, otherwise, [[WholesomeCrossdresser Andy has always been a great person]], and that he has really enjoyed the moments they spent together. So, he decides to make amends with him, and from that day on they either [[PlatonicLifePartners become great friends]], or they decide that [[ClosetKey they would really like to get romantically involved]].
48	* '''Played For Laughs''': "Alice" and Bob walk into a room together, the implications are clear, but seconds later we hear Bob scream, "OH MY GOD! DUDE! YOU'RE A DUDE!" and see him run screaming right through the door trying to get away from the newly-revealed Andy. Additionally, Andy finds himself in trouble later on, to which Bob comes to the rescue, proclaiming, "[[AwLookTheyReallyDoLoveEachOther Hands off my girl!]]"
49	* '''Played For Drama''':
50	** [[GoMadFromTheRevelation Bob can't handle the truth and goes insane]], kills himself, or kills Andy. Andy is the victim of intense persecution for his habits.
51	** Either Alice is a trans woman who has trouble finding love due to men seeing her as a man because she has, or once had, a penis, or Andy is a trans, gay man who has trouble finding love because all of his potential boyfriends mistake him for a woman.
52	* '''Plotted A Good Waste''': The author uses this trope as commentary about transphobia.
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54	Back to the very girly UnsettlingGenderReveal... WHAT!? IT'S A DUDE TROPE!?
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