Line #42 PlayingWith/ReturningTheWeddingRing


1	'''Basic Trope''': A promise ring, engagement ring, or wedding ring is returned to the partner who gave them that ring, to signify that the breakup is for real.
2	* '''Straight''': AliceAndBob are engaged. At some point during the engagement, it becomes clear that Bob isn't the right person for Alice, and that this relationship will not work. They have the breakup talk, and Alice takes off her engagement ring, returning it to Bob.
3	* '''Exaggerated''':
4	** Since [[FictionFiveHundred Bob]] paid for other things associated with the wedding, such as her dress, [[LawfulGood Alice]] returns those things, or (in the case of something abstract, such as an engagement party), reimburses Bob for the cost of those things, as well as returning her EnormousEngagementRing.
5	** [[RunawayBride Alice returns her engagement ring]] ''[[RunawayBride at the altar]]''[[RunawayBride .]]
6	* '''Downplayed''': Alice returns her promise ring to her (now ex-) boyfriend, Bob.
7	* '''Justified''':
8	** It's Alice's way of showing that the breakup is final.
9	** Alice doesn't want the reminder of her and Bob's failed engagement (literally) on her hands.
10	** The laws where AliceAndBob live treat an engagement or promise ring, not as a gift, but as a type of "collateral." Keeping it, in this case, is considered a breach of contract, and so [[BreachOfPromiseOfMarriage the law requires that Alice return the ring]].
11	* '''Inverted''':
12	** Bob dumps Alice and takes the engagement ring away from her.
13	** [[BreachOfPromiseOfMarriage Bob is required to pay Alice (or her family) damages associated with breaking the engagement and leaving Alice]] DefiledForever.
14	*** Alternatively, Alice keeps the ring.
15	** AliceAndBob get back together following the SecondActBreakup, and Bob gives Alice her engagement ring back.
16	* '''Gender Inverted''': Alice was the one who proposed to Bob, and Bob is the one who dumps Alice and returns the engagement ring.
17	* '''Subverted''':
18	** Alice keeps the ring.
19	** Alice meant to return the ring, but a burglar stole it from her.
20	** Alice pawns the ring, or puts it up for sale on eBay.
21	** Alice gives it to her friend, Charles, so he can propose to his long-term girlfriend Dani.
22	** Bob has to ask (or even ''beg'') for it back, or sues Alice for it.
23	** Alice takes it to the jeweler, suggesting that she's going to keep it, maybe having it altered into some other type of jewelry.
24	** Alice is holding the ring "hostage" until Bob does something for her.
25	** AliceAndBob get back together, and the wedding is back on.
26	** AliceAndBob are engaged, but it's a ringless engagement.
27	** Alice goes through with the wedding.
28	** Alice is single, but she has a "purity ring" from her church youth group days.
29	* '''Double Subverted''':
30	** Until she decides she doesn't want it around anymore, and leaves it on Bob's doorstep.
31	** The burglar was Alice's friend Charles, who returned it to Bob for her, because she didn't want to deal with him in person.
32	** She pays the money that she received for it back to Bob.
33	** Dani returns the ring to Charles a week later.
34	** Alice returns it to him.
35	** She's just getting it cleaned, and getting details on the ring insurance changed. After that, she returns the ring to Bob.
36	** After it's served its purpose, she returns the ring.
37	** AliceAndBob get married, but it's not HappilyEverAfter; they end up getting divorced a year later. Alice returns both her wedding and engagement rings to Bob (whether voluntarily, or as part of their divorce settlement).
38	** Instead of buying her a ring, Bob bought Alice a house, or they bought a house together. Alice returns the cost of the down payment (or her share of it) to Bob and moves out.
39	** She was only going through the motions, having learned that Bob's ongoing affair(s) the night before the wedding. After the wedding, she has the marriage quietly annulled (or never finalizes the paperwork, thus rendering the marriage legally invalid), or gets a divorce, and returns her wedding and engagement rings to Bob.
40	** Alice is now in her twenties or thirties, and has decided that purity rings are an outdated and sexist custom, that her worth as a partner and in the eyes of {{God}} is not/should not be contingent upon her virginity/lack thereof, and/or that this religion/denomination/religion in general just aren't right for her, and so leaves the ring on the doorstep of the church.
41	* '''Parodied''':
42	** Alice destroys the ring in a BreakupBonfire that's [[SarcasmMode totally not]] a ShoutOut to ''Franchise/TheLordOfTheRings''.
43	** Alice's ring is attached to her glove ... which is attached to her sleeve ... and they come off, and she's forgotten that she was wearing a one-piece bodysuit with nothing underneath. When Bob points it out to her, she has a NakedFreakOut.
44	* '''Zig-Zagged''': Alice is a SerialSpouse who has had several husbands and fiancés over the years. She has kept some of the wedding and engagement rings, returned others, lost others, destroyed others, donated others, and resold still others.
45	* '''Averted''':
46	** AliceAndBob are not an OfficialCouple.
47	** AliceAndBob don't break up.
48	** Alice never received a ring.
49	* '''Enforced''': RuleOfDrama
50	* '''Lampshaded''':
51	-->'''Bob''': Don't you want to keep the ring?
52	-->'''Alice''': Thanks, but no thanks.
53	* '''Invoked''': AliceAndBob break off their engagement.
54	* '''Exploited''': Bob wants the ring back, and Alice holds it "hostage", or threatens to destroy it, to get him to do something for her.
55	* '''Defied''': Since Bob was a total JerkAss and cheated on her, Alice decides to keep the ring and sell it, and spend the money on a vacation or to improve her apartment.
56	* '''Discussed''': ???
57	* '''Conversed''': ???
58	* '''Implied''': Alice is shown wearing an engagement ring in one scene and not wearing it the next time she appears.
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