Line #109 Main/TheGentlemanOrTheScoundrel


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3	The male choices in female-centered love triangle usually comes with two archetypes: the kind-hearted, safe Gentleman and the edgy, dangerous Scoundrel. The Gentleman is a good guy: honest, upright, and noble. The Scoundrel is an outsider to the heroine's world (most of the time), dangerous and wild. It is a love triangle between a heroine and NobleMaleRoguishMale: a man who is safe versus a man who is exciting.
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5	The Gentleman is likely someone the heroine has known previously, the kind of man who represents the safety of her youth and home. The Scoundrel has a dangerous spark that attracts her into his world. That kind of danger is usually emotional in nature--the heroine risks a wild and unstable relationship with him, especially in contrast to the relative dependability of the Gentleman. Parents will favor the Gentleman and discourage dalliance with the Scoundrel, regardless of personality.
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7	A discretionary angle features the heroine committing to a lifestyle via a man: choosing [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys traditionalism vs passion]] or [[SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan lasting happiness vs transient excitement]]. In these cases, one of the two men will almost always have a clearly undesirable personality. If the poorer character seems to fit the patterns of Gentleman better (or vice versa), the trope is RichSuitorPoorSuitor.
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9	Unlike with BettyAndVeronica, the heroine often chooses early or midway into the story, and who she ends up with is [[SpoiledByTheFormat usually dependent on the length of the work and how early she made a choice]]. If a choice is made very early, the heroine is more likely to end up with with that first choice after several setbacks with him. If the choice is made mid-way, then it was the WrongGuyFirst. Otherwise be prepared for a while of agonizing {{UST}} and WillTheyOrWontThey.
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11	Bear in mind that not ''every'' love triangle with two men is going to fit.
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13	SpearCounterpart to BettyAndVeronica. Compare NobleMaleRoguishMale, AllGirlsWantBadBoys and SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan. See RichSuitorPoorSuitor.
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15	!!Examples:
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20	* In ''Manga/{{Naruto}}'', there's Sakura who seems to be choosing between Naruto (the Gentleman) and [[EvilFormerFriend Sasuke]] (the Scoundrel). [[spoiler: Sakura ''never'' loved Naruto romantically, so once Sasuke straightens-up his act, she goes for him. Naruto falls in love with Hinata and marries her.]]
21	* ''Manga/GakuenAlice'': Mikan has Ruka (the Gentleman) and Natsume (the Scoundrel).
22	* ''Manga/ShugoChara'': Amu has Tadase (the Gentleman) and Ikuto (the Scoundrel).
23	* ''Manga/FruitsBasket'': Tohru has Yuki, a stoic princely type who is always polite to Tohru, and Kyo, a hotblooded delinquent who tends to insult Tohru at first. She only meets Yuki a short time before Kyo, and that's before [[HiddenDepths it's shown that both guys are more complex than it seems]].
24	* ''Manga/CardcaptorSakura'': Sakura has Yukito (the Gentleman) and Syaoran (the Scoundrel). Played with in the end: [[spoiler: Yukito ended up with Sakura's ''brother'', and by the time Sakura fell for Syaoran, he was ''far'' more of a Gentleman than a Bad Boy.]]
25	** In the anime, Syaoran has Sakura (Gentleman) and Meiling (Scoundrel). [[spoiler: Again, Sakura and Syaoran get together, and shortly before that Meiling says "IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy!".]]
26	* ''Manga/KitchenPrincess'': Najika has Sora (the Gentleman) and Daichi (the Scoundrel).
27	* ''Manga/VampireKnight'': Yuuki has Kaname (the Gentleman) and [[MyHeroZero Zero]] (the Scoundrel). However, the roles could potentially be switched. Zero is her [[UnluckyChildhoodFriend "safe, comfortable friend"]], while Kaname is the exotic one that she believes she literally can't have.
28	* ''Manga/{{Pretear}}'' seems to set this up between Himeno, Sasame (a good listener, explains things to Himeno) and Hayate (troubled, acts like a jerk who wants nothing to do with Himeno), especially in the manga. The anime is more... [[LoveDodecahedron complicated]]. Note that she meets them both at the same time, and that in the manga they are presented as equal candidates. In the anime, well. Again, it's complicated.
29	* In ''Manga/PeachGirl'', Momo spent years with a crush on the chivalrous and polite Toji, until she finally gets him. They guy helping her out on the way is [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy Kairi]], a [[ChivalrousPervert lecherous]], school-skipping bad boy she discovers she now has feelings for. Throughout the series she bounces back and forth between them, until finally [[spoiler:she ends up with Kairi]].
30	* ''Anime/PrincessTutu'' plays with this trope in a way that approaches CyclicalTrope levels. First, we have Fakir (the {{Tsundere}} Scoundrel) and Mytho (the Gentleman) for Ahiru. However ,[[spoiler: their roles are subverted in the second season with Fakir as the the Gentleman to the Raven Prince Mytho's Scoundrel]]. On the other hand, while Ahiru seems The Betty to Rue's Veronica... Rue's certainly The Betty to Princess Tutu's Veronica for Mytho. And if we bring Princess Kraehe in this, this starts all over again. Plus, Autor could be the Gentleman for Rue while Mytho is the Scoundrel.
31	* The one-episode LoveTriangle from ''Anime/KaleidoStar'' had Sarah choosing between Kalos as the Gentleman, and Andy as the Scoundrel. [[spoiler: Sarah chooses Kalos -- in fact, ''she had chosen him quite a while before'' and that's why she had stayed in the Stage in the first place. Andy never really stood a chance, [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy and he immediately acknowledges it]].]]
32	* Another genderflipped example: In ''Anime/EdenOfTheEast'', Osugi (Betty) and Takizawa (Scoundrel) to Saki's Archie.
33	* ''Manga/BlueExorcist''; Shiemi appears to be liked by both the lead protagonist Rin, a {{Delinquent}} HotBlooded AntiAntiChrist, and his twin [[BigLittleBrother younger]] brother Yukio, an [[ImprobableAge absurdly young]], very polite teacher who has known Shiemi for many years.
34	** However, Rin is ultimately a true NiceGuy potential HouseHusband who is very considerate of Shiemi despite his NoSocialSkills while Yukio has various issues [[spoiler: that results in him using Shiemi as a LivingEmotionalCrutch]] and is [[ShrinkingViolet cripplingly shy]] in regards to Shiemi, as well as dealing with some FantasticRacism that is partially internalized due to his heritage. In short, Yukio's Gentleman Facade hides someone who's [[TheCorruptible increasingly unstable]] due to the pressures he gets put on him and ''puts on himself'', while Rin's Scoundrel Facade is more from a lack of true experience at ''being'' an gentleman. So both fall under ''both options'' for Shiemi ultimately, as both are [[NiceGuy Nice Guys]] and both are dangerous in different ways.
35	* ''Manga/{{Inuyasha}}'': As a potential love interest for Kagome, the title character is usually the Scoundrel in comparison to characters such as Hojo (although in Koga's first appearance, he sort of fills the Gentleman role).
36	* In ''Literature/FullMetalPanic'', Leonard tries invoking this against his perceived rival in Kaname's affections, Sousuke, presenting himself as the princely Gentleman and painting Sousuke as not merely the Scoundrel, but a dangerous, feral animal. He has absolutely no success with this strategy (being the BigBad sure doesn't help), to the point that Sousuke almost comes off as the wholesome BoyNextDoor in comparison.
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40	* ''ComicBook/XMen'':
41	** One example was a long-running LoveTriangle with Jean Grey, Cyclops (the Gentleman), and Wolverine (the Scoundrel). Cyclops was the square-jawed, righteous leader of the team who had been with Jean since the beginning. Wolverine was the short, hairy AntiHero who had a smoking, drinking, and killing problem.
42	** The love triangle between Havok, Polaris, and Iceman has Havok as the Scoundrel and Iceman as the Gentleman. Havok and Polaris have been through hell and back together since the earliest days of the comic.
43	** For a brief time, Rogue, she had the polite and sincere Magneto clone, Joseph, as the Gentleman and the dangerous charming thief Gambit as the Scoundrel. Eventually, she then she has Gambit as the Gentleman, who was the traditional choice that had a lasting love for her, and Magneto, the Scoundrel, former super villain.
44	** In ''Comicbook/UncannyXForce'', Comicbook/{{Psylocke}} had to choose between the gentleman Archangel (an honorable, decent, superhero and HonestCorporateExecutive) and the scoundrel Fantomex (a roguish, mysterious, master thief and mercenary). She started the series having reignited her long-term relationship with Archangel, but was aware that his SuperPoweredEvilSide might become a problem; eventually it took over and she was forced to kill him. She then dated Fantomex for a while, but eventually realized that he was manipulating her, and dumped him. After which he, too, turned evil until she gave him a psychic lobotomy.
45	* [[http://www.misterkitty.org/extras/stupidcovers/stupidcomics455.html This]] 1960's romance comic. Our heroine Vicki is torn between boring, dependable Laurence and exciting bad boy Allen. In the end she chooses... [[ThirdOptionLoveInterest Chris]], when she realizes that the reason she couldn't choose was because neither of them was '''her''' perfect guy.
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49	* ''Fanfic/TheStoryOfApolloDaphneAndLucaAnItalianTragedy'': [[spoiler: In later chapters, Luca becomes the object of the affections of the charming Vincenzo and the rough-and-tumble Alberto. [[SubvertedTrope Subverted]] since Vincenzo, in spite of his CharacterDevelopment, has been [[TheBully anything]] [[ManipulativeBastard but]] [[{{Blackmail}} charming]] towards him, while Alberto, in spite of his slightly cocky and mischievous personality, has his heart in the right place and has always [[UnderstandingBoyfriend treated Luca with kindess and respect]]]].
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53	* Creator/{{Disney}}'s ''WesternAnimation/{{Pocahontas}}'' presents a lifestyle choice with the steady home-building Kocuom, choice of her father (the Gentleman), and the native-killing foreigner John Smith (the Scoundrel). She does not end up with either, as Kocoum dies and John Smith must go back to England, but her choice lies with John.
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57	* In ''Franchise/PiratesOfTheCaribbean'' Elizabeth must choose between Jack (the Scoundrel) and Will (the Gentleman). Since Elizabeth chooses Will early, she ends up with him after some amount of flirtation with Jack.
58	* ''Franchise/StarWars'': Princess Leia Organa has a brief love triangle with good-hearted, loyal, and friendly farmboy/Jedi Luke Skywalker as the Gentleman. Roguish, rough, and experienced Han Solo is the Scoundrel. Rather luckily (given the later revelation that she was Luke's LongLostSibling), she chose Han. Bonus points in ''Empire'' for Leia ''actually'' calling Han a scoundrel, and Han saying he likes the sound of it. And then teasing Leia later on by calling Lando as a scoundrel as well.
59	--> '''Han:''' You like me because I'm a scoundrel. There aren't enough scoundrels in your life.\
60	'''Leia:''' I happen to like nice men.\
61	'''Han:''' I'm a nice man.\
62	'''Leia:''' No, you're not. You're... \
63	''[They kiss.]''
64	* Subverted in ''Film/NotAnotherTeenMovie'', where [[BeautifulAllAlong Janey]], having to choose between [[BigManOnCampus Jake]] (TheJock who dates her only because of a bet with his JerkJock buddy) and Ricky (the annoying, whiny loser of a "friend"), chooses the former, causing him to have a change of heart, while the latter remains an annoying whiny loser.
65	* ''Film/BramStokersDracula'' has (although Bram Stoker's ''Literature/{{Dracula}}'' does not) a version with Mina chooses between Dracula as the Scoundrel and her much more average fiance Jonathan as the Gentleman. [[spoiler: Dracula dies, but it is not made entirely certain that Mina goes back to Jonathan.]]
66	* The Creator/RupertGrint movie ''Film/Cherrybomb2009'', with Michelle having to choose between the (relatively) safe and dependable Malachy (Gentleman) and the rebellious, dashing Luke (Scoundrel).
67	* In ''Film/TheNotebook'' Allie has to choose between Lon Hammond Jr., a dashing young lawyer who is funny, charming, sophisticated, and comes from old Southern Money or the local country boy Noah Calhoun who threatens to jump off of the Ferris wheel if she doesn't go on a date with him and constantly fights fights with her.
68	* In ''Film/HisGirlFriday'', Hildy is to choose between gentleman [[DisposableFiance Bruce]] and scoundrel Walter. Fits the trope to a t, seeing how she [[FirstGirlWins ends up]] with the man she originally chose, Walter, [[DivorceIsTemporary after divorcing him]] and starting her relationship with Bruce.
69	* As in the comics, happens in ''Film/XMenFilmSeries''. There's a minor one with Bobby/Rogue/Pyro, with Bobby as the gentleman and Pyro as the scoundrel. The more central Scott/Jean/Logan comes complete with lampshade hanging.
70	-->'''Jean:''' Girls flirt with the dangerous guy, Logan. They don't take him home.
71	* In ''Film/DirtyRottenScoundrels'', Lawrence Jamieson and Freddy Benson are a NobleMaleRoguishMale competing to scam Janet Colgate out of $50,000. [[spoiler:Janet scams them both.]]
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75	* Played with in ''Literature/TheAliceNetwork''. The main character, Eve, sleeps with both Captain Cameron (the Gentleman), OfficerAndAGentleman, and M. Bordelon (the Scoundrel), a [[LesCollaborateurs profiteer]] and ManOfWealthAndTaste. However, it's never a choice between them -- Eve actively despises Bordelon and only sleeps with him because she needs the [[FemmeFataleSpy information]] -- and she doesn't end up with either one in the end.
76	* This is a common theme throughout the novels of Creator/JaneAusten, of the heroine being torn between a dependable, caring man and a libertinish cad. She will always choose the former, but Austen will keep you guessing as to who it is.
77	** ''Literature/SenseAndSensibility'': With Marianne choosing between Brandon (the Gentleman) and Willoughby (the Scoundrel)
78	** ''Literature/PrideAndPrejudice'': With Elizabeth, Darcy is the Gentleman and Wickham is the Scoundrel.
79	** ''Literature/MansfieldPark'': With Fanny, Edmund is the Gentleman and Henry is the Scoundrel.
80	** ''Literature/{{Emma}}'': With Emma, [[spoiler: George Knightley]] is the Gentleman and Frank Churchill is the Scoundrel.
81	* In ''Literature/HarryPotter'', the trope is PlayedWith in the Lily/Snape/James triangle:
82	** From Snape's perspective, he was always the Gentleman: the childhood friend who dearly loved the gentle Lily [[BigotWithACrush despite her]] [[FantasticRacism muggle-born heritage]], and James was the Scoundrel, an arrogant showoff.
83	** From James' perspective, he is the Gentleman: he comes from a good family and barring his mutual animosity with Snape, he gets along well with most people. He saw Snape as the Scoundrel: someone with a negative personality and chooses to affiliate himself with unsavory individuals whose core belief system includes discrimination in the type of people Lily is.
84	** With Lily, she was somewhat mercurial with James though there were hints she was attracted to him while she did have her friendship with Snape. While James eventually cooled down and stopped being so cocky, Snape continued associating with those who would become Death Eaters and by fifth year, Lily ceased being friends with him. By seventh year, she was going out with James, with her choosing the Gentleman and Snape the Scoundrel.
85	* Stephen King’s ''Literature/{{It}}'' - Beverly Marsh first marriage was with rough alcoholic Tom Rogan who’s physically and sexually abusive (Scoundrel) and later falls for Ben Hanscom who’s more considerate, brave, and selfless (Gentlemen).
86	* In Stephanie Meyer's ''[[Literature/TheTwilightSaga Twilight]]'' saga, Edward is the Scoundrel, and Jacob is the Gentleman. While Jacob is more forceful and direct than the well-mannered Edward, Edward's life invited danger and death into her life, and was the choice her parents couldn't stand, while Jacob is the old friend boy-next-door who dependably offers Bella emotional support.
87	* ''Literature/BridgetJones'': ''Bridget Jones's Diary'' plays this fairly straight between Mark Darcy (Gentleman) and Daniel Cleaver (Scoundrel). The film version even describes them as [[WrongGuyFirst "too good to be true"]] and [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys "so wrong he might just be right,"]] respectively. [[spoiler:By the end of the books, Mark has won, although when Helen Fielding continued the column, apparently Bridget was still torn between them and even ends up having Daniel's baby.]]
88	* In the ''Literature/StephaniePlum'' series, the protagonist of the same name is caught in a love triangle between her childhood friend Joe Morelli and the more mysterious Ranger.
89	* In ''Literature/TheHungerGames'', Katniss' original choice was not between a Gentleman and a Scoundrel, as they were both dependable people. However, as the series progresses, Peeta reveals himself as the Gentleman who cares deeply for Katniss and desires her safety and well-being, and Gale becomes the Scoundrel as a revolutionist who is willing to cross lines and use methods that she doesn't approve of.
90	* ''Literature/WutheringHeights'' has this as a central theme. Catherine must decide between Heathcliff and Edgar Linton-- one a childhood friend with whom she shares a relationship approaching siblinghood, the other the eldest son of a neighboring wealthy family. While Catherine repeatedly asserts that she and Heathcliff are one, her family believes marrying Linton will bring them more prestige, and this is her ultimate choice. [[spoiler: Arguably, it is this decision that ultimately kills her, as after a prolonged separation from Heathcliff, seeing him again throws her into a fatal coma presumably from sheer excitement.]]
91	* ConversationalTroping in ''Literature/{{Wintersmith}}'', when Tiffany reads a romance novel in which the heroine must choose if she wants to marry William, an honest man with two and a half cows, or Roger, who rides a black stallion and calls her "My proud beauty". Tiffany isn't sure why the character needs to marry ''either'' of them.
92	* In ''Literature/GoneWithTheWind'', Scarlett O'Hara's two main love interests are SouthernGentleman Ashley Wilkes and TallDarkAndSnarky Rhett Butler. She spends most of the book convinced that Ashley is her one true love even after she marries Rhett for financial security, only to realize in the end ([[BelatedLoveEpiphany far too late]]) that she had really loved Rhett all along.
93	* ''Literature/TheCourtshipOfPrincessLeia'' has this when Prince Isolder of Hapes wants to marry Leia. The New Republic folks think it would make a good political alliance. Han is jealous and kidnaps Leia. She ultimately marries Han while Isolder marries Tenel Ka, the leader of a Dathomir witch tribe.
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97	* From ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'':
98	** Early seasons also have Buffy's friend Xander as the Gentleman and the vampire Angel as the Scoundrel. Seasons 4 and 5 replace Xander (who's since moved on from his crush on Buffy twice, first to Cordelia and then to Anya) with Riley.
99	** While both relatively dangerous, Angel is the original man who ultimately tries to do good and be a good choice for Buffy, and Spike is the dangerous and deadly killer who was fairly remorseless through most of the series due to being soulless. [[spoiler: Once he gets himself a soul, while decidedly more moral and selfless with regards to Buffy and in general, Spike retains his thuggish, rockstar-esque swagger and thus the dynamic becomes more akin to BettyAndVeronica.]]
100	*** Ironically, when it was Drusilla in the centre of this triangle rather than [[spoiler:Buffy]], this dynamic is swapped. While Spike ''is'' as amoral as any given vampire, he is also ''very'' genuinely [[UndyingLoyalty devoted]] and [[LoveMartyr doting]] to the object of his affections. Compared to Angelus, who is certified ChaoticEvil and completely without remorse or loyalty, even [[spoiler: pre-soul]] Spike comes across as downright gentlemanly.
101	* ''Series/{{Angel}}'' example: Fred had to choose between the tough, street-smart former gang leader Gunn (Scoundrel) and the bookish, nerdy TheSmartGuy Wes (Gentleman). (Ironically in Season 5 these roles are reversed, due to Wesley taking a level in badass and Gunn getting a brain implant). Eventually, [[spoiler: she chose her Scoundrel, then broke up with him, turned to her Gentleman, died, became an ancient goddess, nearly killed both of them (one inadvertently), and then Wes died]].
102	* ''Series/GilmoreGirls'': Rory had to choose between boy-next-door Dean (Gentleman) and bad boy Jess (Scoundrel). In season 6, when Jess returns full of CharacterDevelopment, it's flipped, with Jess playing the Gentleman to Logan's Scoundrel.
103	* In ''Series/VeronicaMars'', there's several instances of this throughout the entire series. Duncan, the Gentleman, and Logan, the Scoundrel. Piz (Gentleman)-Veronica-Logan (Scoundrel).
104	* ''Series/DoctorWho'' has Amy between childhood friend and eternally devoted Rory (Gentleman) and the adventurous Doctor (Scoundrel).
105	* ''Series/That70sShow'':
106	** Donna chooses the nerdy, sweet childhood friend Eric (Gentleman) over the rebellious, tough Hyde (Scoundrel).
107	** In Season 4 there’s also Eric as the Gentleman and Casey Kelso as the Scoundrel.
108	* From ''Series/{{Lost}}'', Kate must choose between noble doctor Jack, the Gentleman, and Southern con-artist Sawyer, the Scoundrel.
109	* ''Series/LesFillesDaCote'' has the flat-sharing characters of Daniel and Marc. Daniel is a suave sophisticate in a settled well-paying job with a model girlfriend. His ligger best friend and embarrassing flatmate Marc... isn't.
110	* ''Series/TheTwilightZone1959'' Has this scenario in the episode entitled "Spur of the Moment." The story begins with a wealthy young woman named Anne. She is out for a horseback ride and before long she finds herself being chased by a woman she does not recognize. She rides back home in terror and is comforted by her fiance, Robert. (a wealthy banker). Despite being engaged to Robert, Anne is actually in love with an average boy named David. The two elope in the night before she was to marry Robert. Unfortunately for Anne [[spoiler: David is an abusive drunk who drains the family's finances to the point that they're being evicted.]] Heartbroken by this, she mounts a horse and chases what is revealed to be [[spoiler:her younger self]] to deliver a warning. Rod informs the audience that [[FailureIsTheOnlyOption it is a mission that is forever doomed to end in failure.]]
111	* Two such relationships in ''Series/StrangerThings'':
112	** Nancy Wheeler with [[BigManOnCampus Steve Harrington]] and [[LonersAreFreaks Jonathan Byers]], who fit the molds either way. Steve Harrington is a the son of a wealthy and influential family in their small-town of Hawkins, Indiana, is a popular jock who holds parties and has popular friends (Gentleman) while Jonathan Byers tends to spy on other people, comes from a family with a deadbeat dad who left and a StrugglingSingleMother, is poor and has second-hand clothing, and is generally looked down upon by his peers. Jonathan is the Gentleman in that he assists Nancy with looking for her friend Barb (along with his little brother), he is very affectionate and close to his brother, he sees Nancy for her capabilities and her person, and comforts her after a scary encounter. Steve reacts [[{{Jerkass}} badly to Nancy being comforted by Jonathan and to her worries about her best friend]]] and even after he redeems himself, his relationship with Nancy is revealed to be a sham and she comes clean about it. She then enters a serious relationship with Jonathan at the end of Season 2.
113	** Nancy's mother Karen with LazyHusband Ted and MetalHead Billy Hargrove. The latter is young enough to be her son, [[BitchInSheepsClothing appears gentlemanly but is actually a racist bully]] while the former is a mediocre, unimaginative, unhelpful, high earning LazyHusband who leaves most of the child-rearing to her and their marriage is one of [[MarriageOfConvenience convenience and fulfilling societal expectations]]. Karen considers meeting Billy for a rendezvous but stops herself and tries harder with her husband, though it looks like the marriage isn't out of the woods.
114	* Nurse Ida Lenze in ''Series/{{Charite}}'' is courted by student Georg Tischendorf, a sweet, gallant young Gentleman who can offer her emotional stability and a secured future, and Doctor Emil Behring, a fickle, difficult Scoundrel with a nasty temper, though he's an ambitious and brilliant scientist who challenges Ida and shares a passion for medicine with her. Ida's friend Hedwig advises her to choose Tischendorf, but Ida has doubts, seeing as Behring is the one who supports her plans to study and become a doctor in her own right instead of just a housewife. The trope is not played straight all the time though -- Behring has his kind and noble moments, and Tischendorf some increasingly obvious shortcomings [[spoiler:such as sexism and racism]].
115	* In ''Series/{{Haven}},'' Audrey is pursued for the first two seasons by her small-town cop partner Nathan and womanizing international smuggler Duke. In a twist on the trope, this LoveTriangle never really comes to a head, it more fades out as Duke realizes he's a HopelessSuitor watching Nathan and Audrey grow closer and backs off.
116	* ''Series/{{Forever\|2014}}'': Isaac versus Henry as potential love interests for Jo. On the surface it might seem that the well-dressed, well-mannered, well-educated Henry, who was actually raised a literal gentleman, would fit the first role, and fast-talking Isaac, who was born poor and fought for everything he has, would be the second, but their ideas of the perfect trip to Paris illustrate how it's actually the other way round. Isaac wants to plan out every minute, nice and safe, doubtless traveling by nice, safe, private cars and staying in secure, fancy hotels. Henry would stay at a regular small hotel or boarding house, get up every morning and set out in a random direction, and just explore wherever the roads take them, eating at whatever cafe is closest when they get hungry, leaving what they see and how safely they see it to chance. Isaac is the safe choice, whereas Henry is the one who challenges and excites Jo.
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120	* ''Theatre/ByeByeBirdie'' has Kim's steady boyfriend [[TheAllAmericanBoy Hugo]] as the Gentleman, and the rebellious rockstar [[TheCasanova Conrad Birdie]] as the Scoundrel. [[spoiler: Kim chooses to stay with Hugo]].
121	* ''Theatre/{{Elisabeth}}'': Sisi struggles with a choice: life with the kind, noble Emperor Franz Joseph who loves her unconditionally but is too busy with state affairs and being a MamasBoy to defend her, or suicide/death with the roguish, darkly attractive but cruel Death? [[spoiler: She runs into Death's arms and embraces him at the end.]]
122	* BoyNextDoor Matt is the Gentleman to El Gallo's roguish Scoundrel for [[TheIngenue Luisa]] in ''Theatre/TheFantasticks''. [[spoiler: Luisa ultimately chooses to be with Matt]].
123	* In ''Theatre/{{Oklahoma}}'', Laurey is pursued by the amiable and popular Curly, and the antisocial town outsider Jud. Laurey ends up with [[spoiler: Curly]], but it was a lopsided LoveTriangle to begin with as Laurey never had any genuine romantic feelings for [[spoiler: Jud]] like she did for [[spoiler: Curly]]; she only asks [[spoiler: Jud]] to take her to the box social because she knew it would make [[spoiler: Curly]] jealous.
124	* ''Theatre/ThePhantomOfTheOpera'' has Christine choose between her childhood sweetheart and general KnightInShiningArmor Raoul and the insane, brooding, but more passionate Phantom. [[spoiler:Although WordOfGod says that Christine loves the Phantom the most, in the end she chooses the Safe Option, Raoul.]]
125	* ''Theatre/RomeoAndJuliet'': Juliet's decision between her two suitors. Paris courts her in the "proper" way, by asking her father's permission. Romeo crashes her family party with his buddies (who are not welcome there). Paris definitely represents tradition, and Romeo represents passion and danger.
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129	* Creator/{{BioWare}} is particularly fond of this trope whenever a female has more than one love interest:
130	** In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'', Alistair is the sweet-hearted, noble Gentleman and Zevran is the sex-crazy assassin Scoundrel.
131	** In ''VideoGame/MassEffect2'': Garrus and Jacob are both steady, reliable people (and Garrus is an old friend), while Thane is a dark, mysterious, broody assassin. This could also be flipped right around, with Thane being a deeply religious [[TheAtoner atoner]], while Garrus is a ruthless VigilanteMan and Jacob works for a human supremacist organization.
132	** In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'', Anders and Fenris are both broody, mysterious, and lead dangerous lives, while Sebastian is a chaste Chantry boy.
133	** Played with in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeInquisition'', however, with its multiple romance options for female player characters. It's more of a sliding scale than a cut-and-dried choice, with Cullen on the Gentleman end and the Iron Bull on the Scoundrel end. Solas and Blackwall fall somewhere in between, although your mileage may vary as to where.
134	** From ''VideoGame/KnightsOfTheOldRepublicIITheSithLords'', the quiet medic and old acquaintance Mical is the Gentleman, and Atton Rand is the Han Solo-like Scoundrel smuggler.
135	** In ''VideoGame/MassEffectAndromeda'', Sara Ryder has a choice between TheIdealist ex-cop Liam Kosta, TheMcCoy pining for normality or the more roguish smuggler and crime syndicate boss Reyes who is plotting to seize power in [[WretchedHive Kadara]].
136	* ''Franchise/StarFox'': Krystal's love interests are the [[TheLastDJ justice-driven]] military man and boss Fox, and the womanizing SpacePirate and rival Panther. There was not much of a love triangle in [[DubInducedPlotlineChange the English translations]] of ''VideoGame/StarFoxAssault'' and ''VideoGame/SuperSmashBrosBrawl'' as [[AbhorrentAdmirer Krystal is revolted by Panther]] until the DowntimeDowngrade of ''VideoGame/StarFoxCommand'' put the boys on even footing.
137	* A female SoleSurvivor in ''VideoGame/Fallout4'' has a choice between the idealistic Minuteman soldier Preston Garvey or an entire gallery of rogues including the mercenary [=MacCready=], the chem imbibing ghoul Hancock or ThePaladin NobleBigot Danse.
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141	* In ''Webcomic/PennyAndAggie''. Although Penny has dated both BadassBiker Rich and NiceGuy Duane, she finds that she genuinely loves only the former. Thus, when one of her hypothetical future selves urges her to use "common sense" in deciding whether to run away with Rich, this is her sarcastic response:
142	--> Ooh, what if he doesn't make six figures? Ooh, what if I want kids and he doesn't? [[SayingSoundEffectsOutLoud Whiiiine.]] I better hook up with the nice class president!
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146	* ''WesternAnimation/HarleyQuinn'': Poison Ivy starts dating Kiteman (Gentleman) and eventually becomes engaged to him. Then partway through the second season, she realize that she has romantic feelings toward Harley (Scoundrel in every sense of the word). Unusual for this trope, Harley herself tries to push Ivy toward Kiteman [[IJustWantMyBelovedToBeHappy because she believes him to be the better option]]. [[spoiler: At the end of Season 2, Kiteman ends up dumping Ivy at their wedding, after finding out that Ivy still has romantic feelings for Harley]].
147	* In ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'', Nancy Hicks-Gribble has been carrying on an affair with the Scoundrel, John Redcorn, while married to her CrazySurvivalist husband Dale (the Gentleman), who despite his flaws was very faithful to her and still regards her with affection.
148	* In ''WesternAnimation/Thundercats2011'': Lion-O (Gentleman) has a crush on Cheetara, which makes his older brother Tygra (Scoundrel) jealous. [[spoiler: She had ''always'' loved Tygra, so she chooses him.]]
149	* In ''WesternAnimation/MiraculousLadybug'', Marinette must choose between her schoolmate: the kind, handsome, and incredibly wealthy Adrien Agreste, and her fellow superhero: the flirty, wisecracking Cat Noir. Marinette definitely favors Adrien, but since Adrien doesn't reciprocate her feelings (or rather, [[LovesMyAlterEgo he does but he doesn't know he does]]), the triangle remains open. Er, rectangle? [[TwoPersonLoveTriangle It’s complicated]].
150	* In ''WesternAnimation/BojackHorseman'', Joseph is keen on his daughter Beatrice marrying Corbin Creamerman (the dull-witted but well meaning Gentleman) for business reasons, but Beatrice ends up falling for Butterscotch Horseman (the Scoundrel in every sense of the word) and chooses to run away with him when she finds out she's pregnant by him. The marriage goes ''badly'', and is a significant source of their son Bojack's neuroses.
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