Line #16 Main/OfficialCoupleOrdealSyndrome


1	Many stories have an OfficialCouple. In some genres, their relationship will drive the plot. There will be lovers' tiffs and UnresolvedSexualTension. However, most official couples have something that stops things from getting too bad.
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3	Sometimes, however, an OfficialCouple gets put through Hell. Fights, breakups, infidelity and [[BreadEggsMilkSquick sometimes even people trying to kill them]] will get in the way in an ordeal that can last anything from months to years. If they're lucky, their relationship will make it out intact but changed. Warning: in extreme cases this can lead to mental breakdowns and even death.
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5	This trope exists because people tend to identify with an OfficialCouple. Therefore a good way to keep up the suspense is to make their relationship dramatic, as having them be happy with no issues runs the risk of ShippingBedDeath because TrueLoveIsBoring. Thus, the entire point of creating this couple and making it official is to make the tragedy of its demise/near-demise all the more obvious/painful to the reader. If the OfficialCouple stays together despite being put through this trope it's an EarnYourHappyEnding.
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7	Happens a ''lot'' in SoapOpera. When it's a very long arc, they are known as a "{{Supercouple}}".
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13	* [[spoiler:Natsuki and Masaki]] from ''Manga/{{Amakusa 1637}}'' were already together when the story started. A good part of their ordeals is less about getting together and much more about ''staying'' together.
14	* Kaoru and Aoi in Manga/AiYoriAoshi. They're both head over heels for each other, the problem is that Aoi's family doesn't approve (to the point of trying to physically force her to marry another man) and that several of their associates are beautiful young women who aren't aware of Kaoru's feelings for Aoi and are interested in Kaoru themselves.
15	* Guts and Casca from ''Manga/{{Berserk}}'' are very much that DarkerAndEdgier version. [[LoveAtFirstPunch From their first meeting]], the story was set on bringing these two together, and their beginning relationship was rough enough as it was. When they did admit their feelings to each other [[RelationshipUpgrade and become official]], the universe made it its official mission [[StarCrossedLovers to keep the two apart by any means necessary]].
16	* In ''Literature/BeyondTheBoundary'', [[StarCrossedLovers Akihito and Mirai]] get hit with this ''hard''. Akihito is a half-human, half-youmu hybrid. Mirai is from a spirit hunter clan whose blood is deadly to youmu. [[spoiler:Even worse, it's revealed that Mirai was given a mission to assassinate Akihito because the youmu inside him, known as Beyond the Boundary, is a powerful reality warper who could potentially destroy the world. Mirai can't bring herself to do it because she realized Akihito was the only one who understood her and cared for her, and that she'd [[InLoveWithTheMark fallen in love with him.]] So rather than kill Akihito, Mirai sacrifices herself and absorbs Beyond the Boundary, essentially [[AFateWorseThanDeath wiping herself from existence.]]]]
17	** In TheMovie, ''Beyond the Boundary: I'll Be Here'', Akihito falls into depression after [[spoiler: Beyond the Boundary [[BackFromTheDead brings Mirai back to life]] at the cost of her losing her memories. He constantly tries to avoid her and has a pained expression whenever he sees her, unable to accept that she's forgotten about him and all they went through together. When Mirai confronts him about this, he insists that he just happened to pass by when she regained consciousness on the roof, and that the reason he broke down in tears upon seeing her was because of his glasses fetish. Despite all of his friends telling Akihito to tell Mirai the truth, he stubbornly refuses because he feels he'd be robbing her of living a normal life. And when Mirai starts to regain her memories after visiting a park she and Akihito had gone to in the past, Akihito tells her that she is "the most important person in his life", but that they can't be together because she'll just be unhappy with him. And then Mirai gets [[DemonicPossession infected by a parasite youmu,]] becomes BrainwashedAndCrazy and tries to kill Akihito and all of her friends. Thankfully, Akihito and Mirai ''finally'' get (back) together at the end, and in fact it's [[ThePowerOfLove their love for each other]] that defeats the BigBad.]]
18	* ''VisualNovel/{{Clannad}}'': The OfficialCouple of [[spoiler:Tomoya and Nagisa]] has them eventually getting married and expecting a child. DeathByChildbirth separates the couple leaving their child Ushio with a broken father and no mother.
19	* In ''Anime/CyberpunkEdgerunners'', this happens to Lucy and David post-TimeSkip. And oh boy, do we have a heartbreaking example here. [[spoiler:Their relationship becomes strained due to David's increased obsession with chroming up at the expense of his tolerance to cybernetics and Lucy's unwillingness to share her efforts in eliminating Arasaka netrunners pursuing data related to David's tolerance of cybernetics. Lucy eventually gets kidnapped by Faraday with plans to send her back to Arasaka, and he uses Lucy's voice to provoke David into installing the cyberskeleton. Once David realizes Lucy was being held hostage, his RoaringRampageOfRevenge ends with him rescuing Lucy... and also ending up in a hopeless fight against Adam Smasher. [[HeroicSacrifice He only has time to get Lucy to safety (with Falco's help) before ultimately being outmatched and killed by Smasher]].]]
20	* Averted in ''Literature/HighSchoolDXD'', which is notable for a harem series. While [[OfficialCouple Issei and Rias]] do hit the skids early on, it's because being with an open HaremSeeker who nonetheless has [[ObliviousToLove self-worth issues and difficulty expressing his feelings]] is emotionally taxing for everyone and takes some getting used to. Once they work through these issues and Rias establishes her claim as TopWife, the relationship solidifies and steady, supportive, and healthy for all involved - ''including'' the other half-dozen harem members. From there the only internal drama the relationship sees is the girls bickering over who gets to be first mistress.
21	* Hiro and Zero Two from ''Anime/DarlingInTheFranxx''. '''And how'''. [[spoiler:Not long after Hiro made a ChildhoodMarriagePromise with Zero Two, APE soldiers capture the two. Hiro gets hit with LaserGuidedAmnesia as punishment for their escape attempt, while Zero Two once again becomes a subject of ColdbloodedTorture to study her Klaxosaur physiology. Because of Hiro's tampered memories, Zero Two has no idea he was her original Darling when they meet in Episode 1. Then, when they finally recover their memories in Episode 13, Zero Two gets reassigned to the Nines and Ichigo stops Hiro from chasing her. It's not until Episode 15 when they ''at long last'' reunite and make up for lost time.]]
22	* Poor Miaka and Tamahome in ''Manga/FushigiYuugi'' get hit with this quite a bit, especially in the first series. Kidnapping, {{Brainwash\|ed}}ing, AttemptedRape, PoorCommunicationKills resulting in a few breakups, [[StalkerWithACrush obstructive stalkers]] and near-death experiences made these two ''[[EarnYourHappyEnding earn]]'' their HappilyEverAfter.
23	* ''Manga/MyMonsterSecret'' averts this; once Asahi and Youko become a couple about halfway through the series, they stay together the whole way through (thanks in no small part to basically the whole cast being [[ShipperOnDeck Shippers On Deck]]). However, this is spoofed in Chapter 115 where Youko apparently got mad enough with Asahi to want to break up, but by the end of the chapter it's resolved just as easily[[note]]We never find out exactly why Youko was mad either; Asahi can onlt think of silly insignificant things like not getting one of her jokes or eating her favorite flavor of candies, and all Youko says is that it was a stupid thing to get angry about[[/note]]. [[spoiler:However, the bigger issue is the fact that there's a BadFuture where Youko's vampire powers went out of control, forcing her to hide from human society and leaving a broken-hearted Asahi alone for 50 years. They end up succeeding, and while the series has its serious moments it never really loses its overall light-hearted comedic tone.]]
24	* ''Manga/{{Naruto}}'': From the start, Sasuke and Sakura's relationship has been little but turmoil. The first major ShipTease moment is literally Sakura crying over Sasuke's body because she believes he's dead. It doesn't get much better afterwards and it gets even darker when Sasuke runs off after taking a revenge-driven FaceHeelTurn. Most of Sasuke and Sakura's interactions post-timeskip are tense, with them [[spoiler:even trying to kill each other]], but they part on on a pleasant, romantically tinged note. It's later shown that they ended up married and had a daughter named Sarada. How they became a couple is not clear however it is shown that they're HappilyMarried by ''Manga/{{Boruto}}''. But, even that has its downsides. Sasuke has been on a mission, away from his wife and [[DisappearedDad daughter]], for nearly all of Sarada's childhood. As a result, Sarada has a mixed relationship with her father.
25	* Tuxedo Mask and the eponymous Franchise/SailorMoon. After they're reincarnated, he almost dies, she has to fight against him when he's evil and brainwashed, he's taken away from her many times, and so on. But they are always together.
26	* In ''Manga/TenYoriMoHoshiYoriMo'', a good part of [[spoiler:Mio and Rei/Shou]]'s conflict of their relationship deals with this. [[spoiler:They went through this ''twice'' in different centuries. In both centuries, it ended up badly for them.]]
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30	* ''ComicBook/{{Aquaman}}'': Aquaman and Mera:
31	** Pre-Flashpoint their relationship was never the same after Black Manta murdered their son. And then before it could fully return to normal, Arthur was KilledOffForReal, and later, rose as a Black Lantern during ComicBook/BlackestNight, to the horror of an already crushed Mera. Thankfully he is revived at the end via the White Lantern, and they get a second chance.
32	** Post-flashpoint sees them on more stable ground, but their wish to live together is complicated by Atlantean politics and treachery, conflicts between land and sea, and even an invasion or two from ancient god or terror alike.
33	* ''ComicBook/{{Batman}}'': Batman and ComicBook/{{Catwoman}} fall into this any time their relationship begins to become more serious. When they're just flirting, nothing seems to stop them other than being on opposite sides of the law. However, the few times they've made a real go at it mostly have something happen to cause them drama:
34	** ''ComicBook/BatmanHush'': Bruce reveals his real identity to Selina during their hunt for the mysterious villain behind using Poison Ivy to brainwash her and trying to kill him. While Bruce's friends and family are fairly accepting of it, things get heated as the hunt continues, as it becomes clear that the mysterious villain is using all of Batman's rogues to get at him, including recruiting one of Bruce's former friends and turning him into the villain "Hush". In the final scene, Selina tells Bruce to "hush" and he freaks out at her, and she realises that he doesn't trust her, and they go their separate ways.
35	** In "Heart of Hush", Selina is targeted by Hush in order to get at Bruce. She's almost killed but recovers, and she and Bruce share a night together... but explicitly just that one night. At the time, Bruce was dating socialite Jezebel Jet, who was secretly TheMole, and he was trying to dismantle her organisation, the Black Glove. Once he's done with that, Bruce "died" in ''ComicBook/FinalCrisis''.
36	** In ''ComicBook/BatmanTomKing'', after years of flirting, Batman and Catwoman finally start making a go at being a serious couple and even become engaged. However, after the two assaulted Bane's home, he concocts an elaborate plan to "break Batman" again, but emotionally. Bruce and Selina are told of a timeline where Bruce is happy and the world is horrible and Selina's best friend (and secretly Bane's ally), Holly Robinson, questions the idea that a happy Bruce could be Batman. This leads Selina to abandon Bruce at the altar, causing him to lash out at everyone and everything around him while she leaves Gotham. The two would eventually reunite to combat Bane, and Bruce would accept that he ''can'' be happy and be Batman. The alternate continuity ''Batman/Catwoman'' title (and several one-off stories leading up to it) have the two getting married, having a daughter who becomes the new Batwoman, and growing old together before Bruce passes away.
37	** However, in the ''canon'' follow-up, ComicBook/BatmanJamesTynionIV, it's revealed that Selina had taken part in a plan with several other of Batman's villains in the past, and when this comes back to bite them both, they "take a break" after the problem is resolved. Soon after, when the ''Catwoman'' title switched writers, Selina ended up in a relationship with someone else, and Bruce hears him when he calls Selina, seemingly causing them to call it quits ''again.''
38	* ''ComicBook/{{Robin\|1993}}'': Tim Drake and Stephanie Brown. Their relationship's first snags are due to Bruce refusing to allow Tim to tell Stephanie his secret identity. Then Bruce nonchalantly tells Steph his identity without first discussing it with Tim, Tim is forcefully kissed by a classmate in front of her, and Bruce hires her as Tim's replacement Robin without either of them talking to Tim. The largest blow to their relationship though was when Stephanie's death was faked with Tim left thinking her dead for years. It takes him a long time to trust her again.
39	* ''ComicBook/SpiderMan'': Spidey and Mary Jane. Dating a superhero makes you a target of hundreds of supervillains. Marrying him [[ComicBook/OneMoreDay means the writers want to break it up as much as possible]]. And yet, because this is [[IronWoobie the web-slinger]] we're talking about, things could be even [[ILetGwenStacyDie worse]].
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43	* The TropeNamer is the ''Literature/TheMagicSchoolBus'' FanFic ''FanFic/FirstImpressionsOfEarth'', which has since been deleted. The story's main pairing is Arnold and Phoebe, but it puts them through eleven years of torture including an abusive stepchild, a car crash, a miscarriage, and infidelity, causing Phoebe to have a HeroicBSOD that culminates in a mental breakdown. And that's just the halfway point.
44	* In ''FanFic/JusPrimaeNoctis'' this is downplayed but present. [[Literature/TheFamiliarOfZero Louise and Saito]] keep suffering interruptions to getting around to TheirFirstTime, but nothing too horrible to cope with.
45	* In ''FanFic/WashedDownTheDrain'' Woojin and Joonyeong get together before the events of canon, only Woojin manages to escape his canonical death without injury while Joonyeong seems to have succumbed to his. It's then revealed that Joonyeong also survived, only to become a hambie. Terrified of hurting his boyfriend with his new abilities, Joonyeong hides and lets Woojin think he's dead, even though it hurts him to do so. As a result, Woojin becomes depressed and is furious to learn the truth.
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49	* ''Film/AtFirstSight'': Virgil and Amy begin a tender relationship as they know each other; as Amy learns more about Virgil's blindness, she convinces him to go through an eye surgery so he can see once again. Ironically, the success of the surgery and Virgil's ability to see again put into test the existing bond. Virgil has trouble adapting to the things he sees, because he has a difficult time connecting them with the things he knew by touching and hearing. Then [[spoiler:the blindness begins to relapse, and Virgil questions if Amy will continue loving him if he completely loses sight again. By the end of the movie, they reconcile]].
50	* ''Film/{{Hancock}}'': Hancock and his one true love are destined to be apart forever, because if they're together too much, their powers leave them and they eventually die. This is what has happened to their entire race; only she and Hancock are still alive.
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54	* In ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'', Jerin falls in love with a princess. As he's a commoner, problems ensue. Then, more problems ensue because one of her sisters doesn't want [[ExoticExtendedMarriage to remarry]]. [[spoiler:After ''that'' is resolved, Jerin is kidnapped.]] His sisters, who play only a minor role, manage to find a husband without so many complications.
55	* This trope is continual source of drama throughout the ''Literature/EarthsChildren'' series, starting with ''The Valley of Horses''. Ayla and Jondalar have to face cultural clashes and [[PoorCommunicationKills miscommunications]], [[CrazyJealousGuy jealousy]], a LoveTriangle that nearly results in them breaking up permanently, making a long and dangerous journey across an entire continent, nearly dying multiple times, conflicting life choices and [[spoiler:infidelity in the sixth book]]. They manage to overcome most of these challenges [[spoiler:and are HappilyMarried to each other by [[EarnYourHappyEnding the end of the series]]]].
56	* ''Literature/HarryPotter'' does this to Ron and Hermione (usually played for laughs). ''[[Literature/HarryPotterAndTheOrderOfThePhoenix Order of the Phoenix]]'' plays it straight with Harry and Cho.
57	* ''Literature/HisDarkMaterials'' makes Will and Lyra go through Hell (figuratively) individually, meet, go through Hell (literally and figuratively) together, and then have to leave each other in {{Alternate Universe}}s because doing so is the only way to save the multiverse.
58	* ''Literature/TheHungerGames'': Played up in-universe for [[StarCrossedLovers Katniss and Peeta]], especially in "''Catching Fire''" when they are forced to go back into the arena. They're not actually a couple at that point and their relationship is a facade for the Capitol audience but it becomes real soon enough.
59	* The ''Literature/MortalEngines'' series is effectively the narrative of this happening over an eighteen-year period with Tom and Hester, culminating in [[spoiler: his death from a heart attack and her suicide over his dead body]].
60	** Each book's BetaCouple also tend to go through a lot of ordeals, especially Katherine and Bevis in the first book. [[spoiler:they both die]]. The BetaCouple in the second book [[spoiler:don't even get to ''be'' a couple until they've gone through an ordeal in the third book, sixteen years later.]]
61	* ''Literature/NineteenEightyFour'': Winston Smith and his love interest, Julia, have sex, rebelling against the system. Then, with TheReveal, [[spoiler:O'Brien is found to have turned them in and takes part in re-institutionalizing them into the system. They ''are'' reunited at the end, if briefly, but it turns out they have no feelings for each other anymore, especially since part of the torture they went through involved making them betray each other through using their worst fears against them in {{Room 101}}.]]
62	* In ''Literature/{{Overenskommelser}}'' by Creator/SimonaAhrnstedt, Beatrice and Seth have an extremely difficult time. To be fair, it partly is their own fault, but they also have to deal with [[BigBadEnsemble three villains]], who do everything to keep them apart. It takes them ''twenty months'' [[spoiler:and alas, Beatrice being raped and almost killed]] before they can solve their misunderstandings and find happiness together.
63	* ''Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians'': At the end of ''The Last Olympian'', the OfficialCouple [[spoiler:Percy and Annabeth]] are together complete with an UnderwaterKiss. Then came the SequelSeries ''Literature/TheHeroesOfOlympus''. In ''The Lost Hero'', [[spoiler:Percy's]] disappearance is a major plot point. Then, in ''The Mark of Athena'', they [[spoiler:end up falling into Tartarus. When shippers said they'd ship the pairing to Tartarus and back, they didn't know it would literally happen!]]
64	* ''Franchise/StarWarsLegends'': Han and Leia. There's the stuff that happens onscreen in the movies, then in the books there's the death of Chewie, the entire Yuzhaan Vong war, the death of their son Anakin, the galactic civil war and fighting with Luke, their older son turning to the Dark Side and killing his aunt... not to mention far too many kidnap and assassination attempts over the years. Luke and Mara kind of fall into it, but to a lesser extent. There is the whole thing with her illness and pregnancy during the war and the stress of the aforementioned civil war and Han and Leia ending up opposing them briefly.
65	* This is a fundamental trait of the ''Literature/SwordOfTruth'' series. Richard and Kahlan have been in love since early in the first book, but the increasing turmoil in the setting means they have to deal with separation, invasion, apparent betrayal, and ultimately save the world ten or twelve times before (and after) they can be together.
66	* Vicky Holmes, the Creator/ErinHunter author who writes the storylines and makes the major decisions for the ''Literature/WarriorCats'' series, often jokes that she likes doomed romance. And apparently this is true:
67	** [[spoiler:Graystripe and Silverstream]] are from different Clans, and it's very difficult to meet and even see each other, since [[StarCrossedLovers their relationship is forbidden by Clan law]]. [[spoiler:They're thrilled when Silverstream's expecting kits, but then she suffers DeathByChildbirth]].
68	** Oakheart and Bluestar were also from different Clans. Bluestar became pregnant with his kits, and he offered to join [=ThunderClan=] to be with her. However, she stood a good chance of becoming deputy - she wouldn't be eligible for the position with kits - and she felt it was her duty to become deputy since she felt the only other cat being considered for the position would lead the Clan to disaster. Though she wished it could be otherwise, she ended the relationship, and after her kits were born, she gave them to Oakheart to raise in [=RiverClan=].
69	** Perhaps part of the reason that so many of these {{Official Couple}}s are doomed is ''because'' they're forbidden. [[spoiler:Leafpool and Crowfeather]]'s relationship was forbidden in two ways - they're in different Clans, and she's a medicine cat, forbidden to take any mate. They ran off together for a while, but when disaster struck her Clan she realized that they needed her more than he did. [[spoiler:She secretly had his kits a short time later.]] He took a mate in his own Clan, though the authors have described that as a "marriage of convenience", and they seem to argue every time they see each other afterward - and [[spoiler:he refuses to acknowledge Hollyleaf, Lionblaze, and Jayfeather as his kits]]. Despite this, they still have some feelings for each other deep down, even though they never get back together.
70	** In a rare non-forbidden example, Brambleclaw and Squirrelflight. They became best friends after going on a long journey together, even though initially they were always irritated by each other. Their relationship was tested when he began to follow his evil father, and associate with his half-brother, who made no secret of his dream to rule all the Clans, and there was a bit of a LoveTriangle when Ashfur showed interest in her as well. Their relationship was eventually mended, and [=StarClan=] sent a vision of the two as mates, walking into the sky with stars trailing behind their paws in a single path - their destiny intertwined. Everything seemed fine - they had kits. [[spoiler:Then it was revealed that they weren't actually her kits; she'd been covering for her sister Leafpool, who, as a medicine cat, was forbidden to take a mate.]] They barely spoke to each other for at least two years, until Brambleclaw [[spoiler:became leader and chose her as his deputy]], admitting that she'd always done what she thought was right; they eventually have kits of their own.
71	** ''[[Literature/WarriorCatsDawnOfTheClans Dawn of the Clans]]'' starts out with an official couple of Clear Sky and Bright Stream, but then [[spoiler:Bright Stream gets killed by an eagle.]] And just when you think that [[spoiler:Clear Sky and Storm will work out, Storm leaves and dies, forgiving Clear Sky with her last breath. This ends up breaking Clear Sky pretty hard.]]
72	* ''Literature/TheWitchlands'': Safi and Merik. After a book's worth of {{UST}}, they finally have their first kiss (and a little more than just a kiss), but then they're forced to run, become separated, and eventually each of them is convinced that the other has died.
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76	* ''Series/AllMyChildren'':
77	** Cliff and Nina, the characters engaged in a decade spanning romance that saw the couple marry and divorce four times, with their fifth wedding sticking before the two left Pine Valley.
78	** Likewise Erica and Dimitri. While Dimitri seemed to be just another in Erica's long line of many forgettable husbands, the pairing proved to have such burning passion and chemistry they were able to survive even Erica's stabbing him in a fit of [=PTSD=], reliving her rape. The couple only really ended due to Michael Nader's drug problem in real life affected his performance, and his replacement, Anthony Abbido not sharing the same level of chemistry with Susan Lucci, and thus after a short stint, both Dimitri, and his long lost wife Alexis, left Pine Valley, and Erica, behind.
79	* ''Series/AsTheWorldTurns'':
80	** Luke and Noah of SoapOpera who were ''supposed'' to be a couple with problems, but Reid, the intended RomanticFalseLead for Luke, [[EnsembleDarkhorse became extremely popular with the fanbase]]. In an effort not to [[ShipToShipCombat upset either ship]], and being pressed for [[ScrewedByTheNetwork time]], [[WriterCopOut Luke didn't end up either of them.]] Reid was [[DeathOfTheHypotenuse killed off]] near the end and a grieving Luke didn't get back together with Noah.
81	** Played straight with the most of the other couples, such as Holden/Lily and Carly/Jack who have gotten married multiple times (though not always to each other) and ended up together by the finale.
82	* Leonard and Penny from ''Series/TheBigBangTheory''. The romance starts with Leonard's infatuation with Penny followed by her appreciation of his loyalty, kindness and what a great guy he is. Being cute and smart also turns her on. They break up after Leonard tells Penny he loves her and she can't say it back due to her insecurity over her intelligence. They both date other people however, they clearly still love each other and eventually get back together and Penny even says I Love You to him. The romance eventually concludes in marriage and settling down together although they still face some challenges. By the end of Season 12 they're finally secure and expecting a child.
83	* Booth and Brennan on ''{{Series/Bones}}'' in spades.
84	** Season 5-6: Booth struggles with his feelings for Brennan after a coma dream where they were married. He admits he loves Brennan but she runs away to an island in the Pacific. Booth trains soldiers in Afghanistan and brings home a girlfriend, causing Brennan to angst over missing her chance. Then finally, they get together and Brennan gets pregnant.
85	** Season 7-9 Cyber criminal Christopher Pelant enters the scene. He frames Brennan for murder, sending her on the run for three months until she manages to clear her name. Then when Brennan is finally ready to propose, Pelant forces Booth to reject the proposal without explanation or he’ll kill 5 random people.
86	** Season 9-10: Pelant is finally killed and the wedding happens. But Booth is caught in a conspiracy, with three heavily armed men attacking the couple, destroying their home and nearly killing Booth. Booth then gets arrested for murdering them. Brennan resorts to blackmail to get him out of prison and the murder of Lance Sweets nearly drives Booth rogue in his desperation for justice.
87	** Season 10-11: After being cleared, Booth is struggling to trust. Brennan gets pregnant again but the news causes Booth to fall prey to his gambling addiction after an undercover case. Brennan kicks him out until she can trust him again. They try to retire but it doesn’t last. Booth tries to help his brother but his brother is killed and Booth disappears trying to stop the sale of a list of undercover agents. He’s wounded again.
88	** Season 12: The son of a warlord Booth killed as a sniper seeks revenge, torturing and killing several people and attacking the safe house Brennan’s dad and the kids are at. Her dad dies fighting to save his grandchildren and the attacker is caught. However, he escapes while everyone is focused on Cam’s wedding and blows up the lab with explosives, causing Brennan a head injury and resulting in a final dramatic battle as the series ends.
89	** Angela and Hodgins as well. She forgot she was married before, they broke up because she had commitment issues, then got back together and married. She got pregnant and they faced the possibility of the baby being born blind due to a genetic issue. Later, Hodgins lost his family fortune to Pelant and worst of all he was paralyzed from the waist down in season 11, leaving him bitter and angry. He asks for a divorce, but Angela talks him out of it and things finally begin to get better. Angela even got pregnant again in the end of the series, though the explosion terrified them both.
90	* Buffy and Angel on ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer''. The fact that the first time they made love, Angel lost his soul, turned evil, and then tried to kill Buffy and end the world only later to have his soul brought back just in time for Buffy to have to send him to a hell dimension in order to save the world illustrates the point. Or perhaps Buffy's later quote when Angel was complaining of her current association with Spike does "What was the highlight of our relationship: when you broke up with me or when I killed you?"
91	** Also to a lesser extent Tara and Willow with Tara first being sent crazy by the BigBad and Willow's later magic addiction.
92	** This certainly happened to many of the principals on ''Series/{{Angel}}'''s spinoff. The show began to ship tease Ange/Cordelia in Season Three, ending with a planned romantic rendezvous at the disastrously-picked [[IDontLikeTheSoundOfThatPlace Point Dume.]] Cordelia was literally roadblocked by a higher power and beamed up from her car, while Angel was tazed and nailed inside a coffin at the ocean's bottom. When Cordy was redeposited on Earth, she inexplicably came down with amnesia (that old chestnut). [[spoiler:She eventually became a secondary BigBad of Season Four, being puppeteered by her own fast-aging, fallen angel offspring]], before landing herself into another coma. She did return in time to assist Angel in "You're Welcome" and confess her love, but [[spoiler:her brain activity had already ceased by that point, and the Cordelia he'd seen was just a temporary astral projection.]]
93	* Once ''Series/{{Castle\|2009}}'' and Beckett upgrade their relationship, this takes a pretty big turn. It goes like this, per season ender:
94	** Season 3: Castle declares his love for Beckett as she lay motionless from a sniper bullet.
95	** Season 4: After Beckett nearly dies, she realizes she only wants Castle.
96	** Season 5: Castle proposes to Beckett just as she takes a job with the Justice Department in Washington D.C.
97	** Season 6: Their wedding is interrupted by mysterious men who run Castle off the road, kidnap him for 2 months, then erase his memory of what happened.
98	** They finally get married in mid-Season 7.
99	** Season 8: Marriage hasn't stopped the trope. A hitherto unknown enemy related to Beckett's mother's murder surfaces, and she has separated from Castle to pursue her own private investigation into this. She's gotten multiple [[WhatTheHellHero speeches]] from people who've been in her shoes basically asking her what the hell she's doing. But she's already set her mind to this.
100	* ''Series/Charmed1998'' has Piper and Leo. They get together quickly, but he has to leave because he's a Whitelighter who gets reassigned. Then he comes ''back,'' but they can't really be together because the Elders forbid Witches and Whitelighters having relationships. Then Piper falls for her neighbor Dan, prompting a MuggleAndMagicalLoveTriangle. She picks Leo and they decide to fight the Elders, causing them to take Leo away again. Once they prove their devotion and manage to get married, it's ''still'' not over. Leo gets promoted to Elder status and has to leave the family (now including his infant son). When he comes back, it's only because he's killed another Elder (who was threatening said son) and is dealing with the emotional fallout of that. He gets put through a SecretTestOfCharacter by yet another Elder who manipulates his decisions to justify keeping him away from Piper, but manages to choose love, causing him to be depowered which leads to more angst. He then joins the Avatars out of belief that they can end the battle between Good and Evil, but can't tell Piper because she considers the Avatars the enemy. Once he realizes his mistake, the only way to snap Piper out of her brainwashing is to ''die in front of her'' ([[DeathIsCheap he gets better]]). And ''then'' the Angel of Death warns Piper that Leo has to die for real soon; she manages to convince the Angel of Destiny to spare his life by having him trapped in crystal for a year because she ''has to'' lose him in order to have the motivation to the final fight. She wins and gets him back, but because Phoebe and Paige died in the fight, she has to reset the timeline and lose him ''again'' in order to win the right way. ''Phew.''
101	* The slowly developing and frequently sidetracked relationship between Chuck and Sarah is the meta-plot of ''Series/{{Chuck}}''. [[spoiler:A later season episode implies that Sarah fell in love with Chuck on their very first meeting in the very first episode.]]
102	** [[spoiler:They officially got together only once and were together for the rest of the series. Outside love interests never came between them again and there was never any threat of a break-up.]] They did, however, continue to take turns getting kidnapped and almost dying.
103	* In ''Series/{{CSINY}}'' Danny and Lindsay have a mid-strength case of this syndrome. First, Lindsay pulls back because of what she's going through with the aftermath of a traumatic childhood incident she survived. Then,after a boy Danny's caring for is shot, Danny pulls away and even sleeps with the kid's mother once. After they get married and Lindsay has his baby, Danny is shot and temporarily paralyzed. Then barely a year later, they and their daughter are stalked by a deranged criminal who blamed Danny for losing his idyllic image of his brother. He battled Danny during the family's first vacation, and they only escaped because he was knocked over the railing of a lighthouse. Then, he shows up in their apartment, holds their daughter hostage and wants to kill all of them. Only Lindsay stops him. Then a year after that, there's Danny as a sergeant, getting grilled by IA because one of his rookies shot the wrong guy. The cop who did it accuses Danny of cheating because she's scared to tell the truth, and Lindsay has to pressure her to tell what really happened.
104	* ''Series/Daredevil2015'': Matt Murdock and Karen Page are set up for OfficialCouple status beginning in "Penny and Dime". Of course, the moment they start dating, Elektra reenters Matt's life and essentially hijacks him, causing him to falter in contributing to Frank Castle's trial. It doesn't help when Karen stumbles upon a wounded Elektra in Matt's apartment [[NotWhatItLooksLike and thinks he's cheating on her]]. While they're estranged for most of the third act of the season, in the final scene of season 2, Matt privately meets with Karen to reveal his secret identity, hinting at the possibility of them reconciling. They then spend ''Series/TheDefenders2017'' with Matt clearly interested in reaching out to Karen, but Karen is still guarded around him because she doesn't want to talk about killing James Wesley. After Matt's presumed "death", there seems to be an indication that they'll reconcile firmly in season 3.
105	* Crichton and Aeryn on ''Series/{{Farscape}}''. It starts with Aeryn's Peacekeeper training and associated baggage cooling her on the thought of romantic attachments. Then they start to fall for one another, leading to a kiss that scares Aeryn and Crichton's subsequent marriage to a planetary royal. Once that gets resolved they ramp up the WillTheyOrWontThey until the season 2 finale when they confess their love for one another. Unfortunately, Crichton is being controlled by Scorpius's neural clone and bashes Aeryn's head in right after. And then later in the episode Aeryn dies. She gets better in the season 3 premier and they finally say "I love you," but the HeroicSacrifice by Zhaan to revive her leads Aeryn to insist on not acting on it. Then Crichton gets duplicated, and the crews split up to escape Aeryn's mother. Aeryn and Crichton on Talyn get together for real, and then ''Crichton'' dies in a HeroicSacrifice (and this Crichton stays dead). So when the crews reunite on Moya, Aeryn turns cold and wants nothing to do with the surviving Crichton, and eventually leaves him behind at the end of the season when she goes off on her own. By the time Crichton and Aeryn reunite in season 4 she's now decided she wants him back, but now Crichton is giving ''her'' the cold shoulder with the aid of drugs given to him by Noranti. Aerynfinds out about this and reads him the riot act, at which point they ''finally'' get together for good. And then Aeryn gets kidnapped and tortured by the Scarrans. By the time Crichton gets her back and they defeat the plans of the Scarran Emperor in the series finale, the couple finally settles down to catch their breath, at which point Crichton proposes marriage to her, and Aeryn accepts. And then they get vaporized by an alien spacecraft in the cliffhanger ending (''Farscape'' was originally signed for two additional seasons, but was cancelled). Fortunately, the miniseries ''finally'' gives them their happy ending. Whew!
106	* ''Series/{{Friends}}'': A thousand times Ross and Rachel. The writers admitted they planned to keep milking their issues until the end of the series, so by the end it's hard to remember they ever had a relationship at all. Averted with Monica and Chandler who didn't break up ''once''. After upgrading from FriendsWithBenefits to a serious relationship the pair stayed together, in-love and ended HappilyMarried. They also retained the fandoms patience.
107	* Luke and Lorelai of ''Series/GilmoreGirls''. After four seasons of {{UST}}, they start going steady and even got engaged at the end of the season. The wedding gets called off when Lorelai realized that Luke found out about a secret love child of his and didn't tell her about it. Lorelai even somewhat lampshades the trope when she realizes that all of the wedding preparations were going by perfectly and was expecting something to go wrong along the way. By next season, showrunner Amy Sherman-Palladino and her husband weren't working on the show anymore, leading to nearly an entire season where Luke and Lorelai were broken up. Everyone ''knew'' they would get back together because advertisements for the show continued to show the couple together, it was just a question of when they would. It wasn't until the last few minutes of the series finale that they renewed the relationship.
108	* Meredith and Derek from ''Series/GreysAnatomy''. The first season ends with Derek's wife showing up just as they're about to get together officially and the second has Meredith as his mistress. The third was somewhat stable but in season 4 Meredith messes with Derek's clinical trial and he finds out about it, breaking up with her. They almost get married in season 5, but then [[WhyWasteAWedding give the wedding to their friends]]. In season 6 Derek is shot by a gunman in the hospital and Meredith has a miscarriage while operating on him. And then in season 11, Derek is killed.
109	* Vanessa and Ethan on ''Series/PennyDreadful'': In Season 1, both are with various different people, but their official couple status is hinted at in several moments, most noticeably in the episode "Possession" where Vanessa confesses to who she thinks is Ethan that she may be in love with him. The romance is ramped up to 11 in Season 2 when the show mythology becomes about their coupling, implying [[ReincarnationRomance it is fated]] and it will prevent the apocalypse. However, their romance arc is affected by both characters' CantHaveSexEver and they only share one kiss before Ethan turns himself into the police and shipped off over 3,000 miles away. Vanessa thinks he has abandoned her. In Season 3, though they are promoted as the show's Official Couple and the mythology around the importance of their connection is again ramped up, they never actually meet until the very last episode of the entire series, in which [[spoiler:Ethan has to kill Vanessa to save the world.]] In the end, they only ever kissed twice - the FirstKiss and the LastKiss - never consummated anything, and were never really in an acknowledged romantic relationship, only {{UST}} straight to angst and separation, straight to [[spoiler:character death]].
110	* ''Series/SpartacusBloodAndSand'': Granted it is a show about people who have been [[MadeASlave enslaved]] and stage a GladiatorRevolt. Naturally this makes their romantic lives complicated to put it mildly. But even the comparatively well-off Roman elite tend to have relationships of the UnholyMatrimony or DestructiveRomance sort. ''Nobody'' has a drama-free relationship!
111	* Stefan and Elena from ''Series/TheVampireDiaries''. Their romance and relationship drives the plot of the entire series. Although Stefan and Elena have endured endless obstacles (varying from minor to major) trying to keep them apart, Stefan and Elena still manage after all the problems to come back together, surprisingly stronger then ever before. Some minor examples throughout the series include Stefan pulling away from Elena because of his secret blood issues in season one. Another minor example is Stefan and Elena breaking up because of Katherine threatening to harm everyone Elena loves in season two. One major example is in season three, Stefan sacrificing himself to Klaus in order to save Damon's life and protect Elena. During this time, Stefan left Elena and Mystic Falls, turned off his emotions (his humanity) and became a Ripper. With Stefan being a Ripper with no emotions, Stefan had almost tried to kill Elena by biting her under Klaus compulsion. Despite Stefan not feeling anything, Elena was determined to bring Stefan back and get him to turn on his humanity again so that he could feel. This was a huge obstacle and struggle that Stefan and Elena faced in the series. Regardless of how bad or awful things get, somehow, Stefan and Elena manage to overcome the problems, be together happily as if nothing ever happened and come back together as a couple stronger then ever before.
112	* ''Series/{{Velvet}}'': In the first half of the series, Ana and Alberto endured a broken engagement, [[RunawayBride being left at the altar]], and a marriage to someone else before getting together. Then the second half of the series happens...
113	* Series/VeronicaMars and Logan Echolls. You can almost lose count of the number of times they get together, break up, get back together, break up again, and so forth. [[spoiler: By Season 4, they finally seem to have settled down for good and end up getting married in the finale... and then Logan ends up getting abruptly killed at the end of the episode.]]
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117	* Habaek and Soah from ''Manhwa/TheBrideOfTheWaterGod''. Anytime it seems their relationship is going farther, the universe brings some more problems to them; either of trust, with other gods or some LoveTriangle.
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121	* The debut albums by Music/TakingBackSunday, Music/BrandNew and Music/StraylightRun (along with Taking Back Sunday's second album) are four people's perspectives on a RealLife instance of this.
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125	* ''Theatre/RomeoAndJuliet'', the original StarCrossedLovers: Initially, both are greatly in love with each other. However, as the plot moves past the romance, kin and family are killed: [[spoiler:Mercutio for Romeo and Tybalt for Juliet]]. As both are torn by grief, they are at risk of being separated by their FeudingFamilies. With both families ready to destroy each other by play's end, [[spoiler: Romeo and Juliet both commit suicide in grief at having lost each other. Juliet was under the effect of a potion and appeared dead. Romeo proceeds to commit suicide and Juliet follows suit after him.]]
126	* This also occurs in ''Theatre/{{Othello}}'', climaxing in [[spoiler:Othello murdering Desdemona and killing himself]]. Even worse, the entire plot was [[spoiler:being carefully choreographed by [[ManipulativeBastard Iago]].]]
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130	* At the beginning of ''VideoGame/StarCraftIIHeartOfTheSwarm'', after a very long series of confrontations and problems of all kinds which even involved one giving a death threat to the other as vengeance for killing a friend, Jim Raynor and Sarah Kerrigan finally get the OfficialCouple status, [[spoiler:despite the fact that it doesn't last as much]]. ''VideoGame/StarcraftIILegacyOfTheVoid'' puts them through even more before [[spoiler:an ambiguous {{Stinger}} that seems to finally let them have their happy ending]].
131	* ''Franchise/MortalKombat'':
132	** Liu Kang and Kitana frequently deal with this, to the point of almost being star-crossed. They can't marry due to their clashing lifestyles (nevermind that she is ''[[MayflyDecemberRomance centuries]]'' older than he is and will outlive him--at least in the original timeline), he gets killed in ''Deadly Alliance'' and remains a zombie for the next few games, they both end up dead in the 2011 game, and the list goes on.
133	** ''VideoGame/MortalKombatX'': has Johnny Cage and Sonya Blade, who, after surviving two Mortal Kombat tournaments and Outworld's invasion to Earthrealm, after all is said and done, hook up and even have a daughter, Cassie Cage. Some time during the 20-year TimeSkip between the Story Mode's first and second chapter, they divorce due to job issues, but over the course of the following chapters they gradually reconcile.
134	* ''VideoGame/FridayNightFunkin'': Boyfriend and Girlfriend are dating, but actually being able to ''[[InterruptedIntimacy consummate]]'' that relationship, along with spending time together in general, is constantly thwarted by evil overbearing parents and people coming out of the woodwork to challenge them. And since the game relies on the two never seriously getting their alone time, they go through weeks of being interrupted.
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138	* ''VisualNovel/SchoolDays'' is likely the darkest and edgiest this trope will ever get. Though the OfficialCouple were Makoto and Kotonoha. Makoto and Sekai proceeded to sleep together. Makoto sleeps with just about everything that moves. [[spoiler: In the end, depending on what rendition of School Days you are referencing, we have variations of Sekai murdering Kotonoha and Makoto to Kotonoha murdering Sekai.]]
139	* ''VisualNovel/FateStayNight'' in the Fate route/Anime. The Saber-focused Fate route has Shirou and Saber come to love each other. With the war at an end we get a BittersweetEnding with the romance entering StarCrossedLovers territory. With the BigBad and his Dragon defeated, [[spoiler: the Holy Grail war ends, Saber returns to the past to finally allow her body to die and complete the myth of King Arthur. If you play the [=PS2=] port [[HundredPercentCompletion and complete EVERY single requirement]], the RevisedEnding allows Saber and Shirou to be together. [[DiedHappilyEverAfter Even if it's]] [[TogetherInDeath in death]].]]
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143	* Dad Egbert and Mom Lalonde from Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}. They may be an Official Couple, but that doesn't mean they're exempt from [[spoiler: being killed off]].
144	** Later on, [[spoiler: Kanaya and Rose]] become an OfficialCouple, but since they're still dealing with the side effects of [[MostDangerousVideoGame SBURB/SGRUB]] they are obviously not out of the woods yet. Not to mention being [[CabinFever trapped on a meteor for three years]] and [[spoiler: Rose's alcoholism]].
145	* ''Webcomic/YumisCells'':
146	** Yumi and Woong have to deal with Woong's friend Sia attempting to drive them apart, and then Woong's insecurities about his failing studio cause them to break up.
147	** Yumi and Babi go long-distance for a few months and then take up careers that are less stable and more time-consuming than their office jobs. Babi then hires a part-timer [[spoiler:who catches feelings for him and quits. When Yumi finds out, she is upset that he hid this from her and breaks up with him. When they get back together a few months later, Yumi realizes she [[DeadSparks doesn't love him anymore]] and [[RejectedMarriageProposal turns down his marriage proposal]] before they part ways for good]].
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151	* The WebVideo/DreamSMP, being a CrapsackWorld, has been a major cause of trauma for ''[[DysfunctionJunction everyone on the server]]'', including and not limited to those in relationships. In fact, most of the canonical relationships have [[LoveHurts caused no shortage of pain and angst to those within it]]. This goes to the point that currently, the only (semi-)stable relationships on the server appear to be Puffy and Niki, who haven't interacted on-screen in ''months'', and "[[LampshadeHanging love is dead]]" is a [[Memes/DreamSMP recurring meme]] within the fandom.
152	** In this universe, Philza allegedly fathered Wilbur with a Samsung Smart Refrigerator, which he claims to now be in a dump somewhere. [[MakesJustAsMuchSenseInContext It's best not to question how this happened]]. Although this is later {{subverted\|Trope}} by Philza retconning this from the lore, it still doesn't take away whatever's going on from the ''other'' relationships on the server.
153	** Following in his father's footsteps, Wilbur had a son, Fundy, with Sally, a salmon. Sally is also apparently a MissingMom, with Wilbur misplacing her or, as some have claimed, eating her. [[MakesJustAsMuchSenseInContext It's best not to question how this one happened either]].
154	** [[spoiler:In a HopeSpot during Tommy's [[TraumaCongaLine Exile Arc]], Mexican Dream got killed by his girlfriend, Girl Dream/Mamacita's SpearCounterpart, Dream.]]
155	** Sam and Ponk were valentines and dated briefly, but saying that their relationship didn't end well is an {{understatement}} — Sam flirting with [[SmallRoleBigImpact Andrea Botez]] during her date with Jack prompted Ponk to join [[ReligionOfEvil the Eggpire]], blaming Sam for breaking his heart; and later in the series, [[spoiler:Ponk was caught stealing a key card to [[TheAltacraz Pandora's Vault]], which was SeriousBusiness to Sam... who proceeded to canonically kill him in retaliation, [[ColdBloodedTorture torture him]] to get the key cards back, and [[AnArmAndALeg cut Ponk's arm off]] for refusing to oblige. Yes, this relationship seriously ended with one of the people involved joining a {{cult}} and having a limb sliced off by his ex-boyfriend.]]
156	** Quackity has had [[LookingForLoveInAllTheWrongPlaces very terrible luck with love]] in the roleplay. Among his more serious relationships, [[spoiler:his past abusive relationship with Schlatt still traumatizes him to this day, and when he finally got into a somewhat stable relationship with Karl and Sapnap, in a convoluted deconstruction of PoorCommunicationKills (and [[LossOfIdentity memory problems]] on Karl's part), their unintentional abandonment of him to build a country of their own ends up being [[TraumaCongaLine the straw that broke the camel's back]], which finally caused him to [[DespairEventHorizon abandon his idealism]] and fully follow in [[WellIntentionedExtremist Wilbur's]] footsteps down a spiral. A couple of months after that, he's still ''very'' evidently heartbroken, and has unofficially decided that he was going to make his issues ''[[WoobieDestroyerOfWorlds everyone's]]'' problem through a mixture of PsychologicalProjection and [[ManipulativeBastard manipulation]]. And that's not even going into the Fiancés' SecondActBreakup in "Las Nevadas" Episode 4...]]
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