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1%%²%%²%%²%%²%%²%% This list of examples has been alphabetized. Please add your example in the proper place. Thanks!²%%²%%²%%²%%²²->''"A few months ago, [my girlfriend] was like 'Okay, it's going well, so, now, uh, I should meet your parents'. 'Cause that's what people do, when a relationship is going well. They meet each other's parents. And I've never understood that. I've never been with my girlfriend and thought like, 'Oh, honey. Tonight is going great. But do you know what would make it perfect? CHARLES and ELLEN MULANEY!'"''²-->-- '''Creator/JohnMulaney'''²²A tense moment in any relationship is the moment of meeting your future in laws, or introducing your love interest to your parents for the first time as the opinions of parents are powerful things. In many cultures, this is obligatory as a form of knowing and being close to each other's families. Everyone wants to make a good first impression in the face of possible disapproval and for this reason can be played for laughs or drama. See also: MeetingTheParentsSequel²²Related tropes: ObnoxiousInLaws, LoveObstructingParents, DatingWhatDaddyHates. May result in IfYouEverHurtHer.²----²!!Examples²²[[foldercontrol]]²²[[folder:Anime and Manga]]²* We get a flashback in chapter 7 of ''Manga/ICantUnderstandWhatMyHusbandIsSaying'' to when Hajime met Kaoru's father. It went surprisingly well despite Hajime being a hardcore otaku, although Kaoru get's a ThousandYardStare when she remembers it due to how embarrassing it was for her.²* Haru met Tsurezure's mother and older sister in chapter 30 of ''Manga/{{Ojojojo}}'' (although she was actually there to tutor him). She had talked to his older sister on the phone beforehand but they had assumed it was a prank call. PlayedForLaughs when Haru's father asks to meet Tsurezure, even though they already met before the RelationshipUpgrade.²* ''Manga/RentAGirlfriend''.²** PlayedForDrama with Mami. While protagonist Kazuya was happy enough with his first girlfriend Mami, Mami herself felt like he was rushing the relationship too much. Kazuya bringing her over to meet his parents was the straw that broke the camel's back, and she coldly breaks up with him for that among other things.²** Near the start of the series, Chizuru meets Kazuya's parents and paternal grandmother, while Kazuya meets Chizuru's grandmother Sayuri (her only surviving relative who's still in her life). The problem is not that anyone in the Kinoshita family dislikes Chizuru or Sayuri dislikes Kazuya- in fact, everyone is thrilled at the relationship. The problem is that ''because'' everyone concerned is so excited, Kazuya finds it difficult to let them down by revealing that Chizuru is not actually his girlfriend.²* ''Anime/SpacePatrolLuluco'': Keiji tells Luluco that she still has to do this in order to [[spoiler: give her the motivation to find Nova following his HeroicSacrifice.]]²-->'''Keiji:''' You're supposed to introduce your boyfriend to your dad, right?²* ''Anime/SummerWars'' starts off with Natsuki bringing Kenji to meet her family. Although it's something of a variation because it's her extended family rather than her parents and [[TheBeard they're not actually dating]].²* During the field trip to the West in ''Manga/BoardingSchoolJuliet'', Romio makes plans to formally introduce himself to Juliet's parents. (he already met Juliet's mother before, but that didn't give her a good first impression of him) Post-war tensions between their two countries aside, Romio is rather optimistic of the matter, even though other characters warn him repeatedly that it will go very, very wrong. [[spoiler:Complicating matters further is that Turkish, Juliet's father, was in Romio's shoes before, having previously had a SecretRelationship with someone from an "enemy country", only to have his hopes shattered when the secret got out and he became a pariah. Turkish doesn't want Juliet to go through the same hardships as he did.]] And thus Turkish serves as the final major obstacle for the OfficialCouple when he [[KnightOfCerebus finally shows up]].²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Fan Works]]²* ''Fanfic/AdviceAndTrust'':²** It's mentioned in the passing in chapter 9 that Hikari was finally introducing Touji to her family. She probably would have done it sooner but [[spoiler: she had been under quarantine ever since Shinji and Asuka got her out of Unit-03.]]²** In a slightly less conventional example, Asuka and Shinji both meet each other's mothers during a cross-synch test in Chapter 10. Despite Kyoko's mental instability and Asuka viciously calling out Yui for all the crap she put Shinji through, it goes rather well.²* In the sequel of ''Fanfic/TheChildOfLove'', Asuka talked Shinji into meeting her parents while they were talking about their future wedding. Shinji wasn't really keen on it (her parents had abused her as much as his father abused him), but she convinced him.²* ''Fanfic/ACrownOfStars'': After Daniel brought them and their families to the Second Chances shelter, Hikari and Misato took advantage of the moment to introduce their respective significant others to their parents.²* ''Fanfic/ADiplomaticVisit'': ²** A non-romantic version happens in chapter 3 of the sequel ''Diplomat at Large'', when Rainbow Dash invites Scootaloo - her sister in all but blood - and her aunts over to meet her parents. Luckily, Windy Whistles and Bow Hot Hoof adore Scootaloo and happily accept she, Holiday and Lofty into the family. ²** Discussed in chapter 1 of the fourth story, ''The Diplomat's Life'', when Princess Twilight reunites with the human Flash Sentry and warns him that her parents are here and, knowing about her crushing on him the first time they met, want to meet him. He's not sure if he should be glad or scared, and Twilight admits that she's not sure either. She also cautions him that if her brother was here, it would ''definitely'' be a "run for it" situation.²* ''[[Fanfic/TheManyDatesOfDannyFenton Danny and Kara]]'':²** Chapter 8 has Kara meeting Jack and Maddie, appropriately titled "Kara meets the Fentons".²** Chapter 10 has Danny going to Metropolis to meet the Kents, appropriately titled "Ghost Boy Meets The Man Of Steel Part 1".²* Chapter 6 of ''Webcomic/DatingATeamMagmaGrunt'' has the titular Magma Grunt meeting Brendan's parents (it was entirely unplanned, Norman just happened to be passing by when the two of them were on a date and invited her over for dinner). Despite the very obvious age gap, his parents approve.²* In ''Fanfic/HellsisterTrilogy'', ComicBook/{{Supergirl}} sets up a meeting between her adoptive parents and her new boyfriend, although Dev-Em isn't keen on meeting people who -he thinks- will want to murder him for daring to touch their little girl. The meeting is awkward, and Kara's adoptive parents don't like their daughter's suitor at all, but they'll put up with him for her sake.²-->'''Kara:''' I'd like you to meet Mom and Dad.\²'''Dev-Em:''' Oh, capital. 'Good evening, Mr. and Mrs. Zor-El, I'm the man who's boffing your daughter.' 'Good of you, Mr. Em. It's about time somebody did.'²* It's mentioned in passing in ''FanFic/IAmNOTGoingThroughPubertyAgain'' that it was a lot less awkward and confusing [[PeggySue the second time]] that Sakura introduced her teammate-turned-enemy-turned-teammate-turned-boyfriend-turned-husband-turned-teammate-turned-boyfriend Sasuke to her parents. ²* ''Fanfic/MGLNCrisis'' ends with Nanoha introducing her parents to her boyfriend, girlfriend, and ''daughter'' (although they already know the former two). Poor Momoko faints from shock.²* ''Fanfic/OneYear'' has four examples- two for [[VideoGame/{{Persona 4}} Yu and Yukiko]], and two for [[BetaCouple Kanji and Naoto]].²** At the end of July, Yu meets Yukiko's parents, who'd known about his relationship with her for some time, even though Yukiko only recently told them about it. While Yukiko is somewhat nervous, the Amagis strongly approve of Yu, even if they conclude that it's too soon for him to tie the knot.²** In September, Naoto meets Kanji's mother. The meeting largely goes well, although Kanji's mother ends up asking Naoto some difficult questions about her future plans.²** In November, Kanji meets Naoto's grandfather. While the elder Shirogane quickly realizes that Kanji isn't detective material, and Kanji isn't looking forward to asking him for Naoto's hand in marriage, he concedes that the outcome was a good one.²** On Christmas Eve, Yukiko meets Yu's parents. This meeting is the most difficult of the four, since Yu's parents believe in him putting his education first and making whatever sacrifices are necessary for a better future- even his relationship with Yukiko, if necessary. After the meeting ends, they still hold this belief, but despite that, they come to like Yukiko.²* In chapter 7 of ''FanFic/TheSecondTry'', Shinji got to talk to his wife's stepmother for first time.²* ''Fanfic/SonOfTheSannin'':²** In Chapter 51, Temari asks Shikamaru when he's going to take her to meet his parents. Meanwhile, he's trying ''very'' hard to forget [[NoodleIncident his own first encounter with Rasa, which according to Kankuro was hilarious]].²** Chapter 76 reveals Fu has been staying with the Aburame Clan. She seems to be getting along with them just fine.²* ''Fanfic/TheWrongReflection'''s first chapter has Eleya introduce her operations officer-slash-boyfriend Gaarra to her family while attending her sister's wedding. Her parents are mildly annoyed that Eleya ''isn't'' planning to marry Gaarra anytime soon (it's because they're already in violation of fraternization rules as a [[TheCaptain commanding officer]] loving one of her senior staff).²* In the ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'', the essentially gentle and unworldly Wizard Ponder Stibbons is allowed a girlfriend. She's an Assassin and is a product of a border country in [[UsefulNotes/SouthAfrica Howondaland]] where there are occassional disagreements with [[DarkestAfrica the neighbours]] over the figurative garden fence. He discovers her family fit the picture of the AmoralAfrikaner, taken UpToEleven as a courtesy detail. His first encounter with PapaWolf and MamaBear is even more terrifying than the border war he has just, unwillingly, been drawn into at her side. Ponder adapts, and realises his in-laws are actually quite well disposed towards him. The alternative, he realises, would be unspeakable. Read more in the works of Creator/AAPessimal.²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Film -- Animated]]²* ''WesternAnimation/{{Shrek 2}}'' is about Shrek meeting Fiona's parents who aren't very happy about their daughter marrying an ogre. Her mother tries to accept it but her father is less than open minded, [[spoiler:he also secretly promised the Fairy Godmother Fiona would marry her son Prince Charming to repay her for making him human.]]²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Film -- Live-Action]]²* Much like ''Guess Who's Coming to Dinner'', ''Film/GetOut2017'' is about a white woman bringing her black boyfriend to her white parents and all of the awkwardness involved. It then gets much more horrifying.²* ''Film/GuessWhosComingToDinner'': A white woman brings home her black fiance to meet her parents. His parents later show up as well. The film came out in 1967, when interracial marriage had only recently been legalized.²** The races are flipped in the 2005 remake, ''Guess Who'', with a black woman bringing her white fiance to meet her parents.²* Midway through ''Film/MrBaseball'', Jack Elliot's Japanese girlfriend Hiroko takes him to dinner with her parents. In a twist on the IntroductionByHookup, Hiroko's father turns out to be Uchiyama, Jack's team manager. Jack and Uchiyama both realize they've been set up.²* In ''Film/BeauJest'', a young Jewish woman is dating a gentile man. She told her parents, who dislike him, that she would break up with him. So when her parents finally convince her to bring her new boyfriend to a family dinner, she hires an actor to play the role of her boyfriend. The problem? He isn't Jewish either, even though his name is Bob Schroeder. So the guy has to pretend to be Jewish, even though his only experience with Judaism was playing a role in a production of ''Theatre/FiddlerOnTheRoof''. In the end, though, after everything is revealed, it turns out her parents never had a problem with her dating gentiles. It was just that her previous boyfriend reminded them of a cousin they didn't like. [[spoiler:Naturally, she ends up breaking off her relationship and starting to date Bob for real, and he even seriously considers converting, having grown to like Jewish culture.]]²* ''Film/MeetTheParents''. The first movie is about Greg [[EmbarrassingLastName Focker]] meeting his girlfriend's parents for the first time and trying to make a good enough impression to get their blessing to propose to her. The sequel, ''Meet The Fockers'', flips things around to show Pam and her parents meeting Greg's BourgeoisBohemian parents.²* Franchise/MarvelCinematicUniverse:²** A major subplot of ''Film/ThorTheDarkWorld'' is Jane Foster of Earth meeting Thor's parents, Odin and Frigga of Asgard. It's only slightly complicated by the fact that Asgardians are gods of Myth/NorseMythology and that any relationship Thor and Jane could have is a MayflyDecemberRomance; the real problem is why he brought her to Asgard in the first place.²--->'''Odin''': She does not belong here in Asgard any more than a goat belongs at a banquet table!\²'''Jane Foster''': Did he just...? ''[outraged]'' Who do you think you are?\²'''Odin''': I am Odin. King of Asgard. Protector of the Nine Realms.\²'''Jane Foster''': ''[chastened]'' Oh. Well I'm...\²'''Odin''': I know very well who you are, Jane Foster.\²'''Jane Foster''': ''[to Thor]'' You told your dad about me?²** In ''Film/SpiderManHomecoming'', Peter Parker goes to pick up Liz for the homecoming dance and meets her father at the same time. The scene quickly turns somber and then terrifying when [[spoiler: it's revealed that Liz's dad is the [[BigBad the Vulture]] who then figures out Peter is Spiderman and proceeds to quietly threaten him.]]²** ''Film/AvengersInfinityWar'': Parodied. Thanos the Mad Titan is a galactic conqueror and his "children" are kidnapped members of species he has culled. When Thanos is in the process of capturing his favorite daughter, Gamora, he meets Peter Quill, and treats it like a perfectly ordinary Meet The In-laws situation.²--->'''Thanos:''' Ah. The boyfriend.\²'''Quill:''' I like to think of myself as a Titan-killing, long-term booty call.²* ''Film/ImThinkingOfEndingThings'' has this as its premise. Jake is bringing his new girlfriend home to meet his parents. The dinner that proceeds is increasingly awkward and surreal.²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Literature]]²* ''Literature/CutAndRun'': Despite being a thriller/mystery series half the time, this is essentially the plot to ''Stars & Stripes''. While Zane meets Ty's family in book 2 of the series, book 6 is where [[spoiler: Ty's grandfather inadvertently outs them as a couple and Ty's mother welcomes Zane into the family.]] Zane initially visits his estranged parents while his father is recovering from an injury, but Ty comes along later and starts off this plot with Zane's parents. They aren't planning to have it be this at first, but after Zane comes out to his father the rest of the book shows how his family, their ranch hands, and the locals react to Ty being there.²* ''Franchise/StarWarsLegends'':²** In ''[[Literature/XWingSeries X-Wing: The Bacta War]]'', Corran Horn is introduced to girlfriend Mirax Terrik's father Booster when they inadvertently run into each other on Tatooine while the Rogues are trying to get supplies to go to war with Ysanne Isard. Booster is understandably furious that his daughter is dating the son of the man who once put him in prison (he later accepts them getting married but never really warms up to Corran).²* ''Literature/VorkosiganSaga'': The first half of ''Literature/CaptainVorpatrilsAlliance'' is largely about Tej meeting Ivan's family, starting with disreputable cousin Byerly and ending with Ivan's stepbrother, Emperor Gregor. [[spoiler:The second half is largely about Ivan meeting Tej's family, after they turn out not to be dead after all.]]²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Live-Action TV]]²* ''{{Series/Bones}}''²** Arastoo is terrified because his parents are old school and somewhat conservative and she’s Black, non-Muslim and a coroner. He argues with Cam and she’s reluctant to go. She does, but Arastoo thinks they’re rejecting her and they storm off before even eating. Fortunately they stop by later on to tell him they do accept Cam. ²** Hodgins was terrified of meeting Angela’s dad. But then, it *is* Billy Gibbons, so maybe not too surprising. Hodgins always acts scared of him even after marrying her.²* ''Series/{{Cheers}}:''²** "Diane Meets Mom" is about [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin Diane meeting Frasier's mom]]. She's initially terrified that Hester Crane will disapprove of her, trying to run out on the dinner before it begins, but despite dominating the conversation, things seem to go well... until Hester takes advantage of Frasier's absence to tell Diane "stop seeing my son, or God as my witness, I will kill you."²** "Little Carla Happy At Last" has Carla meet her boyfriend Eddie's mother, who initially assumes Rebecca is Carla, and is so disappointed when informed otherwise that she tries insisting her son's joking. When it finally sinks in otherwise, she storms out, announcing in angry French that she refuses to let her son marry "some pregnant hussy".²** Much later on in the series, Woody has to meet his girlfriend Kelly's family (having already met her father, who despises him). Kelly's mom tries to seduce him, repeatedly, and Kelly's too ditzy to notice. A later episode has Woody meeting her grandmother, after having overworked himself at the bar and a gravedigger's job, leading to him believing Kelly's gran is someone he helped bury the night before and having a freak-out. [[spoiler:It turns out she ''is'', having arranged the whole thing to mess with Woody. But she actually likes him for trying to confront her about it.]]²* One episode of ''Series/GilmoreGirls'' has Rory taking Dean to Friday night dinner to meet her grandparents. However, things start going downhill when Richard starts pumping him about his grades and college plans.²* On ''Series/CrashLandingOnYou'': When Se-ri's stepmom meets with Jeong-hyuk, the hostile variation of this trope is discussed by GenreSavvy Joo-mok, who says that in K-dramas, the love interest's parents will either throw water at their faces or bribe them to break up. They are surprised when [[spoiler:Jeong-yeon instead expresses her approval and support.]]²* In ''Series/{{Friends}}'', Phoebe meets her boyfriend Mike's parents for the first time and initially acts very posh around them to impress them. After Mike encourages her to be herself, she horrifies them with stories how she spent her teenage years living on the streets after her stepfather went to prison and her mother killed herself.²* ''Series/Numb3rs'':²** The season four episode ''Pay for Play'' Charlie goes to meet Amita's parents, which stresses him out. Even though [[spoiler:things do get awkward, Amita's parents do eventually accept him after meeting him]].²* ''Series/ParksAndRecreation'':²** Leslie hosts a party to celebrate her and Ben getting engaged. Things go swimmingly at first... until Ben's divorced parents (plus his dad's new wife, who also happens to be the mother of his future half-brother) show up. Things get tense at many points throughout the episode, forcing the duo to put their foot down and demand that they put their differences aside until the wedding is over. Later in that series, the duo just decide to get married spontaneously, citing the absence of their parents as a plus. ²** This happens when Andy meets April's parents at their wedding, although things go surprisingly well and the drama's more or less non-existent.²* A season two episode of ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'' has Robin (who is currently dating Ted) meeting Ted's parents. Ted warns her that his mother always pesters his other girlfriends on when they plan on having children. However, Ted's mother instead encourages her to pursue her career, leading Robin to assume she does not like her. It turns out that Ted's mother simply doesn't want Robin to make the mistake of marrying too young as she did with Ted's father, who Ted doesn't know she recently divorced from.²* Subverted in the finale of ''Series/{{Sense8}}''. When Mun tells Diego that Sun brought him to meet her family, Diego responds that it must be getting serious between them. [[spoiler:Since Sun's only remaining family is her treacherous brother in prison, Mun is referring to her beloved dog.]] ²* ''Series/{{Soap}}'': Danny brings home his fiancees to meet his parents twice; both times it goes badly. The first time he's engaged to TheDon's bratty daughter and they hate each other. The second time she's black (Danny and his parents are white) and much tension ensues. When her parents come over to meet the Campbells, the mothers agree that it's a horrible idea for the two of them to get married, and ultimately Polly (the fiancee in question) breaks it off with Danny.²* ''Series/{{Seinfeld}}'':²** "The Rye" revolves around the complications that result from [[SlobsVsSnobs George's cranky lower-middle-class New Yorker parents meeting his fiancée Susan's wealthy, stuck-up mother and father]]. Not only does the dinner itself go about as well as you expect, a feud between the families ensues after Frank and Estelle, who brought a loaf of rye bread to the dinner, take it home with them after the Rosses fail to serve it. Meanwhile the Costanzas are disgruntled because Susan's parents didn't have coffee cake. ²--->'''George:''' So they didn't give you a piece of cake. Big deal!\²'''Estelle:''' It is a big deal. You're supposed to serve cake after a meal. I'm sorry. It's impolite.\²'''Frank:''' Not impolite...it's ''stupid,'' that's what it is. You gotta be stupid to do something like that!\²'''Estelle:''' Your father's absolutely right. We're sitting there like idiots drinking coffee without a piece of cake!²** In "The Calzone," a male friend of Elaine's loses a bet he makes with her about actors in ''Star Wars,'' meaning that he owes her dinner. Jerry thinks that he purposely made a losing bet so that he could take Elaine on a date without asking her out. Elaine is skeptical until the guy, who has arranged another dinner with her under a non-romantic pretext, brings his parents along to meet her. ²[[/folder]]²²[[folder: {{Theatre}}]]²* The premise of ''Theatre/BeauJest'' is that Sarah's family is pressuring her to introduce them to the nice Jewish doctor she's dating. Except that he's fictional, so she hires an actor to portray him. HilarityEnsues.²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Video Games]]²* ''VideoGame/MassEffectAndromeda:'' After Jaal's LoyaltyMission, he takes Ryder to meet his family, his trained military commando true (birth) mother included (angara have multiple mothers due to their societal norms). This happens regardless of whether Jaal is romanced or not, but if he is, his mother takes a shine to Ryder, for which Jaal is sorry.²-->'''Jaal:''' My mother is going to ''love'' you. ... sorry.²²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Webcomics]]²* The ''Website/DeviantArt'' comic ''[[https://www.deviantart.com/nintendrawer/gallery/8042216/meet-zah-marios Meet zah Marios]]'' made by artist Nintendrawer, is all about [[Franchise/SuperMarioBros Luigi taking Daisy]] to meet his parents. The previous comic ''[[https://www.deviantart.com/nintendrawer/gallery/381984/i-d-like-you-to-meet- I'd like you to meet...]]'' had an accidental example when Daisy's parents visit her house right during her first date with Luigi, and the poor plumber gets off with the wrong foot with Daisy's father.²* There was a story arc in ''Webcomic/SandraAndWoo'' where Larisa went over to dinner at Landon's place for the first time. Landon's religious mother was convinced that she was either a witch or a succubus destined to give birth to the Anti-Christ. On the other hand, his father got along with her perfectly. [[spoiler: Fortunately, his mother isn't an issue anymore since they got divorced and the father has custody.]]²* ''Webcomic/TrippingOverYou'': Milo first meets his boyfriend Liam's father when they're getting ready to move in together, soon after Liam [[ComingOutStory comes out]]. Milo nearly strangles himself with his tie out of nerves before Liam explains that his father is just as anxious for Milo's approval.²-->'''Milo:''' Wait, what?\²'''Liam:''' He's been worrying about this for days. I've actually seen him prep less for some of his [court] cases.²[[/folder]]²²[[folder:Western Animation]]²* ''WesternAnimation/StarWarsRebels'': In [[Recap/StarWarsRebelsS2E14Homecoming "Homecoming"]], when Kanan meets the father of Hera, his [[ImpliedLoveInterest maybe/maybe not wife/girlfriend/whatever]], he's so nervous he mixes up the names of his own crew members. They quickly hit it off... which causes friction between Kanan and Hera, since Hera still hates her father.²[[/folder]]²²----

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