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14	->''"When I had you to myself''\
15	''I didn't want you around''\
16	''Those pretty faces always made you''\
17	''Stand out in the crowd''\
18	''But someone picked you from the bunch''\
19	''One glance was all it took''\
20	''Now it's much too late for me''\
21	''To take a second look"''
22	-->-- '''Music/TheJacksonFive,''' "[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3Q80mk7bxE I Want You Back.]]"
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24	The [[GreenEyedMonster jealousy-spurred]] LoveEpiphany of a character who's in love with someone else, but has been [[SheIsNotMyGirlfriend in denial about this]] up until now.
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26	Before the crisis, the character is perfectly fine being JustFriends or [[SuspiciouslySpecificDenial totally platonic]] [[SlapSlapKiss bickering partners]] with another. But then, that other character gets romantically involved with an interloper, causing their [[UnresolvedSexualTension not-at-all]] love interest to [[CantLiveWithThemCantLiveWithoutThem suddenly feel the sting of their absence]]. Once they finally admit to themselves their feelings, the RomanticFalseLead's got hell to pay.
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28	In some works, this is the cue for a RelationshipUpgrade. In other works where StatusQuoIsGod, the envious one will stubbornly refuse to come clean and revert back to her "friend" self once the romantic complication is out of the picture. It's a [[AwLookTheyReallyDoLoveEachOther Aw Look She Really Does Love Him]] moment -- but a hidden one. This arc is especially common when the jealous one is a {{Tsundere}}.
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30	Sometimes this trope comes into play after a couple has broken up, with one side having convinced herself that she's over him until seeing her ex with a vixen causes her to gnash her teeth.
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32	If one partner ''isn't'' in denial and deliberately stages such an incident to make the other jealous and admit her feelings, he's pulling an OperationJealousy. Sometimes overlaps with UnrequitedLoveSwitcheroo -- a flip between which lover's love is unrequited. The writer might need to [[DerailingLoveInterests Derail the Love Interest]] if the new love is working out too well for the plot to continue.
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34	A SubTrope of LoveEpiphany.
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37	!!Examples:
38	[[index]]
39	* GreenEyedEpiphany/AnimeAndManga
40	* GreenEyedEpiphany/FanWorks
41	* GreenEyedEpiphany/{{Literature}}
42	* GreenEyedEpiphany/LiveActionTV
43	[[/index]]
44
45	[[foldercontrol]]
46
47	[[folder:Comic Books]]
48	* In ''ComicBook/{{Runaways}}'', Nico finally realizes that she does feel something for Karolina after the latter ends up in a relationship with Xavin. Inverted in a later arc, when Nico realizes that she ''doesn't'' really love her then-boyfriend Victor after finding that Lillie's attempts to flirt with Victor just annoy her rather than really angering her.
49	[[/folder]]
50
51	[[folder:Comic Strips]]
52	* Elizabeth of ''ComicStrip/ForBetterOrForWorse'' had this problem:
53	** One plot arc involved her breaking up by proxy with Anthony right before the school dance, only to get insanely jealous when the friend she'd had deliver the news felt sorry for him and opted to take him instead.
54	** Infamously, this plotline was later echoed and writ large when Anthony ''got married'', with Liz lamenting that [[ItsAllAboutMe she should have been the one he'd chosen instead]]. Therese, for her part, was openly cool and distrustful towards Liz; the comic treated this as though she was being snobbish rather than rightly clocking her as a potential threat to her marriage.
55	** Later on, [[spoiler:Anthony asked Liz to 'wait for him' while confessing how miserable he was in his marriage... and also how he'd blatantly lied to his wife, convincing her to have a child by promising that he'd be the one to take care of them, only to be ''shocked'' when Therese expected him to keep his word. Their marriage ultimately fell apart, with Anthony and Elizabeth's wedding serving as the final arc of the series]].
56	[[/folder]]
57
58	[[folder:Film — Live-Action]]
59	* ''Film/BlastFromThePast'' has Creator/AliciaSilverstone go through this again as Eve, realizing her feelings for Adam when he's in the middle of dancing with a pair of blondes and he cheerily waves at her.
60	* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Cher realizes how much she loves Josh when she finds herself getting angry with Tai after the latter won't stop talking about how she's meant to be with him.
61	* This trope is essentially the plot of ''Film/MyBestFriendsWedding''. When Creator/JuliaRoberts's JustFriends buddy of a decade announces he's tying the knot, she secretly tries to break up said wedding so that the groom will marry her instead.
62	* In ''Film/PlanB'', Bruno broke up with Laura a year ago out of boredom but after seeing her happily together with another man, he becomes jealous enough to come up with the titular plan to win her back. However, he realizes at the end of the film that not only was his plan a completely stupid one, but he no longer wants to get back together with her after falling for someone else.
63	[[/folder]]
64
65	[[folder:Music]]
66	* Music/AvrilLavigne's "[=Sk8er=] Boi", the former {{Trope Namer\|s}}, is a song about a girl who is in denial about her love for a boy she knows until he's already been claimed by another (and become a superstar musician with his girlfriend while she's become a lonely single mother). Unusually for arcs invoking the trope, she doesn't get him in the end. Here the rival is the song's point-of-view character, possibly the artist herself -- more normally we follow the fate of the girl having the epiphany.
67	* "Judy's Turn to Cry" by Music/LesleyGore (the sequel to "It's My Party (And I'll Cry if I Want To)") has the singer get Johnny back this way. She starts dancing with another guy and it makes Johnny realize that he still wants to be with her.
68	* "Taken" by Music/OneDirection:
69	--> You only want me when I'm taken
70	* Music/{{Paramore}}'s "Misery Business" is an extended musical TakeThat to the former girlfriend in this situation, including calling her a whore. Given that, according to Hayley Williams, it's based on events from her own life, it's a possible twofer...
71	* Music/TobyKeith's "How Do You Like Me Now?" is about a guitarist/songwriter gloating through the radio at the girl who rejected him in high school and went on to marry some rich guy who never has time for his family. The video, on the other hand, makes it clear that his ex-crush still isn't very impressed with him.
72	* "Wasted Times" by Music/TheWeeknd, addressed to an ex-girlfriend (commonly believed to be Music/SelenaGomez).
73	--> Even though you put my life through hell\
74	I can't seem to forget 'bout you\
75	I want you to myself
76	[[/folder]]
77
78	[[folder:Puppet Shows]]
79	* In ''Series/TheMuppetShow'', Kermit was usually very disinterested in any of Miss Piggy's advances towards him; but whenever she became infatuated with a male celebrity guest, such as Christopher Reeve or Peter Ustinov, he would become jealous. She tried to invoke this trope when Avery Schreiber was the guest, but it didn't work (Scooter warned Kermit of her scheme ahead of time).
80	[[/folder]]
81
82	[[folder:Theatre]]
83	* In ''Theatre/DogInAManger'' by Lope de Vega, the secretary Theodoro has a love affair with one of Countess Diana's (his employer) maids. She discovers this, which forces her to reflect on her own feelings for him and kicks off the entire plot. Lampshaded when Diana makes him read and review a love letter she wrote " [[IHaveThisFriend for a friend who asked for some advice]]", where she outright states that she "loves because she is jealous" (in that precise order). Theodoro then writes an answer to that letter in which he hints that he loves her too, and which pushes her to (sort of) confess her love, thus further encouraging him.
84	* Tchaikovsky's ''Eugene Onegin'' has a tragic example: Eugene [[UnrequitedLoveSwitcheroo hadn't returned]] Tatyana's affections until after she married Prince Gremin, after which he realized that he had loved her all along. They meet, and it becomes clear that she still loves him as well, but she decides to remain faithful to her husband.
85	* In ''Theatre/TheMerryWidow'', Danilo refuses to address the question of whether he still loves his recently-widowed OldFlame Hanna, because he doesn't want it to seem that he's only interested in the money her late husband left her, but his reaction when he hears that she's engaged to marry someone else makes his real feelings clear.
86	* In ''Theatre/TwelfthNight,'' when Orsino learns that the [[TheDulcineaEffect object of his affections,]] Olivia, has married his servant Cesario, Orsino loses it -- and realizes that he's fallen in love with ''Cesario''.
87	[[/folder]]
88
89	[[folder:Video Games]]
90	* ''VideoGame/ThirteenSentinelsAegisRim'' Most of the main characters have one.
91	** Hijiyama struggles with his feelings for Okino since he's another man, but gets upset whenever the latter flirts with another guy, to the point of even punching one of them out.
92	** Kisaragi and Ogata both stubbornly deny their feelings for each other, but become jealous if they hear that the other was giving someone else attention.
93	* A non-romantic variant of this happens in ''VideoGame/{{Persona 4}}''. Rise, an IdolSinger who's on hiatus, is forced to realize how much she actually used to love being an idol in part because of her jealousy over the rising popularity of her rival Kanami, who's seen as Rise's replacement.
94	* ''VideoGame/SuperRobotWars'' games play with this trope and [[Anime/MazingerZ Kouji Kabuto]]. Kouji in ''Anime/MazingerZ'' has LoveInterest in the form of Sayaka. Kouji also appears in ''Anime/UFORoboGrendizer'', where he has another LoveInterest, Maria Grace. Both of them are {{Tsundere}}s. It's a RunningGag that whenever they meet in ''VideoGame/SuperRobotWars'' game, they ''both'' get hit by a GreenEyedEpiphany and start fighting over him. The best part? Kouji has no idea what's going on.
95	* ''VideoGame/ValkyriaChronicles'' plays with this trope when dealing with Welkin and Alicia. Welkin's mannerisms and (for the lack of a better word) obsession with nature put Alicia off in the early going, but as the game progresses, she begins to appreciate how Welkin's knowledge gets them out of rough situations. [[Anime/ValkyriaChronicles The anime]], however, jacks it up.
96	[[/folder]]
97
98	[[folder:Visual Novels]]
99	* ''VisualNovel/DokiDokiLiteratureClub'': [[GenkiGirl Sayori]] has one after she gets you, the MC, to join the Literature Club. Instead of making her happy, it caused her pain. [[spoiler: This ''did not'' help her [[HiddenDepths horrible]] [[DrivenToSuicide depression]].]]
100	[[/folder]]
101
102	[[folder:Webcomics]]
103	* ''Webcomic/BittersweetCandyBowl'': [[spoiler:LUCY. Oh dear god, ''Lucy.'' After nearly a decade of BelligerentSexualTension with NiceGuy Mike, she finally realizes she's in love with him - almost a year after he gets back together with Sandy! [[FromBadToWorse To add insult to injury]] Lucy's [[VitriolicBestBuds constant teasing]] has pushed Mike to the point where he wants nothing to do with her. Can you say [[BrokenBird "heartbreak?"]]]]
104	* Margaret from ''Webcomic/CollegeRoomiesFromHell'' only starts to return Dave's affections when he finally starts to return Blue's.
105	* ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'': Elliot and Sarah are childhood friends. Sarah isn't in denial about her feelings, but Elliot pretends he doesn't notice, and he's dating Nanase. When Sarah finds this out, she runs off crying. Who steps up to the plate and fixes things? ''Nanase'', of course, by dumping Elliot so she can move on and he can be with Sarah. It helps that [[spoiler:Nanase later realizes she's a lesbian and this is why she never felt sexually attracted to Elliot.]]
106	* ''Webcomic/SkinHorse'': Marcie has started 'dating' ChickMagnet[=/=]WholesomeCrossdresser Tip. [[spoiler: Slightly less effeminate Chris (who is begrudgingly forced to admit that he understands why Marcie is attracted to [[EvenTheGuysWantHim Tip]] [[StupidSexyFlanders a little too well]]) won in the end when his jealousy forced him to make a move for Marcie... which ''may'' have been Tip's [[ThePlan intention all along.]] For the record, Tip's reaction to being dumped was essentially "K. Can we still have sex?"]]
107	* In ''Webcomic/Sparklecare2018'', Uni feeling sick about Barry liking Polly (even though everyone likes Polly) is what makes him realize he has a crush on Barry.
108	[[/folder]]
109
110	[[folder:Web Original]]
111	* In ''Literature/ShadowOfTheTemplar'', Sandra's jealousy of Mike's relationship with Diana is one of the major things that lead to them becoming a couple at the end of the third book.
112	* Episode 68 of ''WebVideo/EmmaApproved'' (a modern adaption of ''Literature/{{Emma}}'') has Harriet telling Emma about her feelings for Alex Knightley, and her belief that her feelings might be returned. Emma insists to the camera that she can't believe Alex and Harriet are a probable couple.
113	-->'''Emma:''' But Alex ''can't'' be with anyone. I can't imagine him with anyone, ever! I mean anyone other than ... [[[LoveEpiphany trails off with a shocked expression.]]]
114	[[/folder]]
115
116	[[folder:Western Animation]]
117	* Subverted in the "Burning Low" episode of ''WesternAnimation/AdventureTime'' when it is made to appear that Princess Bubblegum is jealous of Finn dating the Flame Princess, even including an overwrought "I thought I was ready for this!" after she found out. [[spoiler:In the end, she's actually conflicted because she knows that extreme romantic feelings would stoke Flame Princess's flames to the point of destroying the planet, and she's aware that she'd consequently have to hurt Finn by forcing him to stop dating Flame Princess.]]
118	* ''WesternAnimation/CodeLyoko'': Tired of this trope rearing its ugly head over and over again between her and Ulrich, Yumi finally decides to put a stop to it by once and for all being JustFriends. The plan has failed [[UnresolvedSexualTension as marvelously as you would expect]].
119	* In the ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'' episode "Stuck Together, Torn Apart," Peter and Lois are advised by a marriage counselor to go on a trial separation and date other people after Lois becomes frustrated with Peter's jealousy over her having coffee with an old boyfriend. At first, Lois is supportive of the idea of a trial separation, but when she witnesses Peter on a date with Jennifer Love Hewitt it provokes her into a jealous rage. Because of that, Lois can finally understand how Peter can get so jealous, and the couple resolves to live with their mutual jealous natures.
120	* ''WesternAnimation/KimPossible'':
121	** Ron's jealousy towards Kim's relationship with [[WesternAnimation/KimPossibleMovieSoTheDrama Eric]] is what ultimately made him realize that he has feelings for Kim.
122	** The convenient Mankey/Monkey concerns Ron had about Kim's earlier boyfriend, Josh... although Ron helped her somewhat with that romantic pursuit despite his misgivings.
123	** The same happened to Kim herself when she jelled against Ron and Yori. And Ron's growing friendship with Felix as well, which was especially amusing since Kim apparently has a "Ron Night" each week, of which both she and her parents are aware, and yet she didn't consider that maybe they had a little more going on than simple friendship.
124	* In ''WesternAnimation/StarVsTheForcesOfEvil'', Star Butterfly constantly encouraged her friend Marco Diaz to ask out his crush, Jackie-Lynn Thomas. In "Bon Bon The Birthday Clown", when Marco and Jackie finally go out, Star becomes insanely jealous.
125	** This is directly mirrored in "Lava Lake Beach" with Marco's jealousy of seeing Star kiss Tom.
126	[[/folder]]
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