Line #9 Analysis/Netorare


1	!Why is the genre so unpopular? ...and for some a GuiltyPleasure?
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3	As one might effortlessly predict, many people seriously detest this genre/trope. It might have to do with the oft-idealised nature of relationships in the anime/manga culture, along with the fanbase's obsession with {{purity\|Sue}} -- a phenomenon apparent by the popularity of tropes like SacredFirstKiss, YamatoNadeshiko, MyGirlIsNotASlut or {{Moe}}. That is to say, Otakudom seems to have a strong connection with a specific, sugary perception of romantic relationships, built around pure, sincere, genuine commitment. Hence Netorare, being at the opposite side of the SlidingScaleOfIdealismVersusCynicism, tends to rub people the wrong way. In spite of all the hate, some people are genuinely attracted to this kind of story, for [[MindGameShip various]] [[MyGirlIsASlut reasons]]. Inversely, most fans of the genre are also obsessed with purity, which is what makes it all the more enticing when that purity is broken.
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5	There's also the fact that much of the genre is the emotional equivalent of TorturePorn, so even people who aren't that interested in purity get {{squick}}ed. Adding more to this is that [[{{Blackmail}} blackmailing]] someone for the sex is VERY common in these kinds of plots, which usually would be a lot more enforced against in real life (being the serious crime known as sexual extortion).
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7	Furthermore, it is also frequently argued that the genre has some element of misogyny inherent to it, exactly because it goes the extreme opposite route of the classic "purity" ideal, while still being based on the same fundamental ideas. Whereas the "purity" ideal taps into several sexist tropes, because of the lusciously high standards it expects women to adhere to, Netorare's sexist trappings, on the other hand, comes from its typical plot structure centering around the female love being incredibly easily "persuaded" to give into mindless lust and abandon the male protagonist without a second thought simply through being thoroughly impressed with another man's display of sexual prowess. And it is essence, the idea that a woman will become [[DefiledForever irrevocably "tainted"]] if she isn't "sufficiently" chaste (even if she frequently ends up being stripped of said chasteness unwillingly or at the very least under duress), still very much takes the center stage in these type of stories and is rarely ever challenged or questioned.
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9	!Cuckold; the Genre
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11	Expanding the analysis above and using the {{Cuckold}} trope as a source on why Netorare is more hated.
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13	Many female love interests take the form of an ideal woman. They would often be the YamatoNadeshiko/Moe girlfriend, childhood friend, or a married woman. As explained above, all of them invoke an aura of their [[MyGirlIsNotASlut typical]] [[ProperLady womanhood]] [[TheIngenue purity]] (especially in Japan where the traditional view is strong). Seeing them becoming [[CorrupttheCutie corrupted]] and promiscuous invoke the fears into the male audience on women breaking the barrier of their cultural standards.
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15	However, another factor in the hatred of Netorare is the degradation of males' self-esteem. Commonly, the male protagonist is involved in a situation where they are unable to do anything when their girl is taken away by another man, and often they are [[ForcedtoWatch forced to witness]] the girl slowly becoming corrupted (AKA a "slut"). The girl's reasoning to choosing the new man is because he is a "good lay" while the male protagonist is unable to satisfy her on the emotional and especially sexual level. The typical ending to visual novels and hentai is where the male character is left off in his [[ExtremeDoormat miserable and pathetic state]] as a [[VirginShaming lonely virgin]] (or simply loser) while the girl is whisked away having wild sex with one or many men. With the lack of confidence and self-esteem to do anything for their lover, it arouses sexual jealousy from the males, hence the most common phrases or thoughts are "Why won't you do it with me?" or "I'm the one you're supposed to have sex with." It also goes back to the old views of the {{cuckold}} -- someone who sleeps with another man's love interest will receive ''massive'' victory over the man who has been cheated which leaves him humiliated and victimized. While that view is not outright shown nowadays, that stigma is still intact psychologically.
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17	Thus, Netorare is essentially cuckold as a genre, but taken to an extremely brutal level. It not only induces a [[TooBleakStoppedCaring depressing]] message regarding love and trust, but it also murders the male audience's perception toward women and their own masculinity -- i.e. [[LousyLoversAreLosers someone who cannot satisfy their lover is a loser]]. And given that the protagonists are supposed to be characters the average male fans can [[AudienceSurrogate relate]] to, the reactions are to be expected.

Context Analysis / Netorare