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* AwardSnub: John Kerr's layered and sometimes heart-breaking performance didn't get so much as a nomination.
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* AwardSnub: John Kerr's Creator/JohnKerr's layered and sometimes heart-breaking performance didn't get so much as a nomination.
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* {{Anvilicious}}: The tacked on ending in the film version, where Laura's letter lectures Tom and the audience about how affairs are wrong.
* BestKnownForTheFanservice: The play had two such controversial scenes that were removed in the film adaptation.
** Tom is found sunbathing with a teacher who's suspected to be gay.
** Laura opens her cardigan before giving Tom the BigDamnKiss at the end.
** Tom is found sunbathing with a teacher who's suspected to be gay.
** Laura opens her cardigan before giving Tom the BigDamnKiss at the end.
* FairForItsDay: TheReveal is that Tom turns out to be straight, and the film removes the gay teacher who was fired over his sexuality. But it was still impressive for its day to actually tackle homophobia-charged bullying. Its statements about toxic masculinity have aged better (see below).
* {{Narm}}: There's some unintentional laughs for how the 'sister boy' taunts start in the film version; Tom is caught sewing with the faculty wives on the beach. It's an extremely sanitized version of what happens in the play.
* TheyWastedAPerfectlyGoodPlot: Deborah Kerr and John Kerr were saddened by the Hays Code forcing the film to remove the original context of why Tom is taunted. There, he was found sunbathing with a teacher who was gay, and gossip led to them believing they had an affair. That adds more weight to his decision to try and make a pass at Ellie, while also still showing the persecution that happened to people who actually were LGBT; the teacher is fired over the incident.
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** Laura as well when you think about it. She does appear to love or at least like Bill; she wants some affection from him. But either because of his obsession with being manly (or the hints that he could secretly be gay), she is extremely lonely. Tom appears to be her OnlyFriend.
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** Laura as well when you think about it. She does appear to love or at least like Bill; she wants some affection from him. But either because of his obsession with being manly (or the hints that he could secretly be gay), she is extremely lonely. Tom appears to be her OnlyFriend. Then there's TheReveal that she lost her first husband in World War I when he was only eighteen.
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* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: The story goes out of its way to deconstruct views of traditional masculinity and point out that sensitivity is its own value, but damn if it isn't an effective lesson. Likewise it shows that females can be just as nasty with this kind of behaviour - as shown by the faculty wives' teasing Tom when he shows he knows how to sew, and Ellie's mocking of him.
--> "Manliness is not all swagger and mountain climbing. It's also tenderness."
--> "Manliness is not all swagger and mountain climbing. It's also tenderness."
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* AccidentalAesop: Vito Russo, author of ''Film/TheCelluloidCloset'', was extremely critical of the film adaptation, feeling the filmmakers had less of an issue with homophobia than with straight men being MistakenForGay (not that the two, of course, are necessarily distinct issues). Russo sarcastically described the movie's moral as "Be kind to sensitive heterosexuals."
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* BrokenAesop: Vito Russo, author of ''Film/TheCelluloidCloset'', was extremely critical of the film adaptation, feeling the filmmakers had less of an issue with homophobia than with straight men being MistakenForGay (not that the two, of course, are necessarily distinct issues). Russo sarcastically described the movie's moral as "Be kind to sensitive heterosexuals."
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* ValuesResonance: The film is very ahead of its time with regards to bullying others for being different. Look at how many derogatory gay jokes can be found in media made in the 90s and early 2000s - but here it's shown just how awful it is to torment someone for possibly being gay. The psychological effects are not glossed over, and Bill is demonised for not putting a stop to the bullying.
* TheWoobie: Poor Tom. Bullied and ostracised just for being different. He's in serious need of a hug for most of the film.
* TheWoobie: Poor Tom. Bullied and ostracised just for being different. He's in serious need of a hug for most of the film.
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* ValuesResonance: The film is very ahead of its time with regards to bullying others for being different. Look at how many derogatory gay jokes can be found in media made in the 90s and early 2000s - but here it's shown just how awful it is to torment someone for possibly being gay. The psychological effects are not glossed over, and Bill is demonised for not putting a stop to the bullying.
bullying. While the film can't openly talk about homosexuality, its director Vincente Minnelli was LGBT himself, so he knew fully well what subject he was tackling. After the arrival of the 'Me Too' Movement, the film's statements about toxic masculinity have only aged better.
*TheWoobie: TheWoobie:
** Poor Tom. Bullied and ostracised just for being different. He's in serious need of a hug for most of thefilm.film.
** Laura as well when you think about it. She does appear to love or at least like Bill; she wants some affection from him. But either because of his obsession with being manly (or the hints that he could secretly be gay), she is extremely lonely. Tom appears to be her OnlyFriend.
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** Poor Tom. Bullied and ostracised just for being different. He's in serious need of a hug for most of the
** Laura as well when you think about it. She does appear to love or at least like Bill; she wants some affection from him. But either because of his obsession with being manly (or the hints that he could secretly be gay), she is extremely lonely. Tom appears to be her OnlyFriend.
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--> '''Laura:''' [[SarcasmMode Because he proved his courage?]]
--> '''Tom:''' Because he was married to you.
--> '''Tom:''' Because he was married to you.
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'''Tom:''' Because he was married to you.
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'''Tom:''' Because he was married to you.
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** And of course the famous line [[spoiler: "Years from now when you talk about this - and you ''will'' - be kind", cue BigDamnKiss]].
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** And of course the famous line [[spoiler: "Years from now when you talk about this - and you ''will'' - be kind", cue BigDamnKiss]].TheBigDamnKiss]].
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* HarsherInHindsight: Deborah Kerr trapped in a loveless marriage and tempted by a younger man? Only a few years later her own marriage would hit the rocks and she would have an affair with another man, leading to a divorce.
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* HarsherInHindsight: HarsherInHindsight:
** Deborah Kerr trapped in a loveless marriage and tempted by a younger man? Only a few years later her own marriage would hit the rocks and she would have an affair with another man, leading to adivorce.divorce.
** The first kiss between Tom and Laura - where he initiates it - is uncomfortably similar to the statutory rape allegations against Asia Argento. She was accused of having sex with Jimmy Bennett while he was underage, and later said to have paid him to keep the information secret. Her side of the story paints their friendship as a surrogate mother/son one much like Tom and Laura's is in the first part of the play/movie - and she later accused him of making the first move on her.
** Deborah Kerr trapped in a loveless marriage and tempted by a younger man? Only a few years later her own marriage would hit the rocks and she would have an affair with another man, leading to a
** The first kiss between Tom and Laura - where he initiates it - is uncomfortably similar to the statutory rape allegations against Asia Argento. She was accused of having sex with Jimmy Bennett while he was underage, and later said to have paid him to keep the information secret. Her side of the story paints their friendship as a surrogate mother/son one much like Tom and Laura's is in the first part of the play/movie - and she later accused him of making the first move on her.
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** In the play there's a plot point where a gay teacher is fired for being seen sunbathing with Tom. He's fired over his sexuality, but these days him being alone in such a situation with Tom would be seen as inappropriate - regardless of the gender of the student or the sexuality of the teacher.
** Ellie is said to regularly hook up with boys from the school, and she gossips to everybody about it. When Tom tries this, his father is actually proud. While Laura is disgusted with him being proud, emphasis is more on her not wanting Tom to make a pass at a woman he's not interested - rather than the idea of a grown woman taking advantage of teenage boys.
** Ellie is said to regularly hook up with boys from the school, and she gossips to everybody about it. When Tom tries this, his father is actually proud. While Laura is disgusted with him being proud, emphasis is more on her not wanting Tom to make a pass at a woman he's not interested - rather than the idea of a grown woman taking advantage of teenage boys.
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* BrokenAesop: Vito Russo, author of ''Film/TheCelluloidCloset'', was extremely critical of the film adaptation, feeling the filmmakers had less of an issue with homophobia than with straight men being MistakenForGay (not that the two, of course, are necessarily distinct issues). Russo sarcastically described the movie's moral as "Be kind to sensitive heterosexuals."
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** The play and the film hint that Bill is an ArmouredClosetGay, since he spends more time with his boys than he does with his wife. Then again there is also evidence that he struggles to connect with her emotionally because he was raised in a similar manner to the boys at the school.
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** The play and the film hint that Bill is an ArmouredClosetGay, since he spends more time with his boys than he does with his wife. Then again there is also evidence that he struggles to connect with her emotionally because he was raised in a similar manner to the boys at the school. Some sources have stated that Bill married Laura due to pressure from his colleagues.
* AwardSnub: John Kerr's layered and sometimes heart-breaking performance didn't get so much as a nomination.
* {{Fanon}}: Due to Tom's love of music and drama, some fans have theorised that he wanted to be put in a house full of drama club students or musicians - but his father forced him to room in a jock house.
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** And of course the famous line [[spoiler: "Years from now when you talk about this - and you will - be kind", cue BigDamnKiss]].
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** And of course the famous line [[spoiler: "Years from now when you talk about this - and you will ''will'' - be kind", cue BigDamnKiss]].BigDamnKiss]].
* HilariousInHindsight: Deborah Kerr scandalised audiences by offering herself to an eighteen-year-old boy. A few years later in ''Film/TheInnocents'' she'd go even younger and share a passionate kiss with a boy of ''eleven''.
* HilariousInHindsight: Deborah Kerr scandalised audiences by offering herself to an eighteen-year-old boy. A few years later in ''Film/TheInnocents'' she'd go even younger and share a passionate kiss with a boy of ''eleven''.
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* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: The story goes out of its way to deconstruct views of traditional masculinity and point out that sensitivity is its own value, but damn if it isn't an effective lesson.
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* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: The story goes out of its way to deconstruct views of traditional masculinity and point out that sensitivity is its own value, but damn if it isn't an effective lesson. Likewise it shows that females can be just as nasty with this kind of behaviour - as shown by the faculty wives' teasing Tom when he shows he knows how to sew, and Ellie's mocking of him.
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* AmericansHateTingle: When Robert Anderson tried to open a Paris production of the play, he noticed that French producers found the play extraordinarily ''un''-dramatic (apparently due to differing cultural and sexual mores) and were thus reluctant to stage it.
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* AlternateCharacterInterpretation: The letter from Laura at the end gives the impression that the entire film is Tom's idealised version of what happened. He imagines Laura as a saint trapped in a loveless marriage to a man who doesn't appreciate her, thus employing GoodAdulteryBadAdultery.
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* AlternateCharacterInterpretation: AlternateCharacterInterpretation:
** The letter from Laura at the end gives the impression that the entire film is Tom's idealised version of what happened. He imagines Laura as a saint trapped in a loveless marriage to a man who doesn't appreciate her, thus employingGoodAdulteryBadAdultery.GoodAdulteryBadAdultery.
** The play and the film hint that Bill is an ArmouredClosetGay, since he spends more time with his boys than he does with his wife. Then again there is also evidence that he struggles to connect with her emotionally because he was raised in a similar manner to the boys at the school.
** The letter from Laura at the end gives the impression that the entire film is Tom's idealised version of what happened. He imagines Laura as a saint trapped in a loveless marriage to a man who doesn't appreciate her, thus employing
** The play and the film hint that Bill is an ArmouredClosetGay, since he spends more time with his boys than he does with his wife. Then again there is also evidence that he struggles to connect with her emotionally because he was raised in a similar manner to the boys at the school.
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* HarsherInHindsight: Deborah Kerr trapped in a loveless marriage and tempted by a younger man? Only a few years later her own marriage would hit the rocks and she would have an affair with another man, leading to a divorce.
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* JerkassWoobie: Bill when you think about it. He struggles to connect with his wife because he's afraid of letting her in. So despite leaning close to SadistTeacher, [[spoiler: Tom's discovery of him alone ten years later]] is still quite sad. [[spoiler: Laura's letter shows guilt for effectively ruining his life]].
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* AlternateCharacterInterpretation: The letter from Laura at the end gives the impression that the entire film is Tom's idealised version of what happened. He imagines Laura as a saint trapped in a loveless marriage to a man who doesn't appreciate her, thus employing GoodAdulteryBadAdultery.
* EndingFatigue: A few fans of the play feel the additional scene with Tom reading Laura's letter results in this.
* SugarWiki/FunnyMoments: Al attempting to teach Tom to walk differently. He quickly realises he has no idea how the 'right' way to walk is, and Tom spends a few hilarious seconds imitating Al's walk.
* SugarWiki/HeartwarmingMoments:
** Laura talks about her first husband, who died trying to prove his courage to his peers.
--> '''Tom:''' I bet he died happy.
--> '''Laura:''' [[SarcasmMode Because he proved his courage?]]
--> '''Tom:''' Because he was married to you.
** A weird one is Al tearing Tom's pyjamas as a sort of MercyKill during the event. It's essentially all he can do to stop them tormenting him further. Overall Al appears to be a good-hearted boy who looks out for Tom, and is just a victim to peer pressure.
** And of course the famous line [[spoiler: "Years from now when you talk about this - and you will - be kind", cue BigDamnKiss]].
* HoYay: One of the boys' traditions is a bit of horseplay that involves ripping each other's pyjamas off. And there's a very homoerotic scene of them playing on the beach - not unlike the famous scene in ''Film/TopGun''.
* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: The story goes out of its way to deconstruct views of traditional masculinity and point out that sensitivity is its own value, but damn if it isn't an effective lesson.
--> "Manliness is not all swagger and mountain climbing. It's also tenderness."
* TearJerker:
** [[spoiler: Tom's failure with Ellie, leading to a suicide attempt. It doesn't work but it's a horrible thing to have to happen to such a young boy]].
** Earlier in the film is Al having to tell Tom that his father wants him to move houses so they won't be rommates again.
* ValuesDissonance:
** One of the reasons Tom's father worries he might be gay is that he has his hair longer than the other boys. Namely that he doesn't wear it in a crew cut. Naturally this completely flies over the head of modern viewers today - and the idea of long hair being thought of as a sign of homosexuality is very much a ForgottenTrope.
** There's also the rather submissive way Laura reacts to all of Bill's blusters. She apologises for getting him mad and acts subservient towards him despite him being the inattentive partner.
* ValuesResonance: The film is very ahead of its time with regards to bullying others for being different. Look at how many derogatory gay jokes can be found in media made in the 90s and early 2000s - but here it's shown just how awful it is to torment someone for possibly being gay. The psychological effects are not glossed over, and Bill is demonised for not putting a stop to the bullying.
* TheWoobie: Poor Tom. Bullied and ostracised just for being different. He's in serious need of a hug for most of the film.
* EndingFatigue: A few fans of the play feel the additional scene with Tom reading Laura's letter results in this.
* SugarWiki/FunnyMoments: Al attempting to teach Tom to walk differently. He quickly realises he has no idea how the 'right' way to walk is, and Tom spends a few hilarious seconds imitating Al's walk.
* SugarWiki/HeartwarmingMoments:
** Laura talks about her first husband, who died trying to prove his courage to his peers.
--> '''Tom:''' I bet he died happy.
--> '''Laura:''' [[SarcasmMode Because he proved his courage?]]
--> '''Tom:''' Because he was married to you.
** A weird one is Al tearing Tom's pyjamas as a sort of MercyKill during the event. It's essentially all he can do to stop them tormenting him further. Overall Al appears to be a good-hearted boy who looks out for Tom, and is just a victim to peer pressure.
** And of course the famous line [[spoiler: "Years from now when you talk about this - and you will - be kind", cue BigDamnKiss]].
* HoYay: One of the boys' traditions is a bit of horseplay that involves ripping each other's pyjamas off. And there's a very homoerotic scene of them playing on the beach - not unlike the famous scene in ''Film/TopGun''.
* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: The story goes out of its way to deconstruct views of traditional masculinity and point out that sensitivity is its own value, but damn if it isn't an effective lesson.
--> "Manliness is not all swagger and mountain climbing. It's also tenderness."
* TearJerker:
** [[spoiler: Tom's failure with Ellie, leading to a suicide attempt. It doesn't work but it's a horrible thing to have to happen to such a young boy]].
** Earlier in the film is Al having to tell Tom that his father wants him to move houses so they won't be rommates again.
* ValuesDissonance:
** One of the reasons Tom's father worries he might be gay is that he has his hair longer than the other boys. Namely that he doesn't wear it in a crew cut. Naturally this completely flies over the head of modern viewers today - and the idea of long hair being thought of as a sign of homosexuality is very much a ForgottenTrope.
** There's also the rather submissive way Laura reacts to all of Bill's blusters. She apologises for getting him mad and acts subservient towards him despite him being the inattentive partner.
* ValuesResonance: The film is very ahead of its time with regards to bullying others for being different. Look at how many derogatory gay jokes can be found in media made in the 90s and early 2000s - but here it's shown just how awful it is to torment someone for possibly being gay. The psychological effects are not glossed over, and Bill is demonised for not putting a stop to the bullying.
* TheWoobie: Poor Tom. Bullied and ostracised just for being different. He's in serious need of a hug for most of the film.
