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* JerkassHasAPoint: Mrs. Young is supposed to come off as an unreasonably controlling helicopter parent when she badmouths Hardin and all of Tessa's friends as awful people, and says college has changed her. Which is kind of undercut by the fact that Tessa's time spent with Hardin ''has'' made her an objectively worse person, and that [[spoiler:Hardin only started dating Tessa because he and Zed made a dare on who could take Tessa's virginity first, and ''all their friends'' were in on it.]]
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* JerkassHasAPoint: Mrs. Young is supposed to come off as an unreasonably controlling helicopter parent when she badmouths Hardin and all of Tessa's friends as awful people, and says college has changed her. Which is kind of undercut by the fact that Tessa's time spent with Hardin ''has'' made her an objectively worse person, and that [[spoiler: Hardin only started dating Tessa because he and Zed made a dare on who could take Tessa's virginity first, and ''all their friends'' were in on it.]]

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* JerkassHasAPoint: Mrs. Young is supposed to come off as an unreasonably controlling helicopter parent when she badmouths Hardin and all of Tessa's friends as awful people, and says college has changed her. Which is kind of undercut by the fact that Tessa's time spent with Hardin ''has'' made her an objectively worse person, and that [[spoiler: Hardin [[spoiler:Hardin only started dating Tessa because he and Zed made a dare on who could take Tessa's virginity first, and ''all their friends'' were in on it.]]



* RealismInducedHorror: Some readers find the story particularly disturbing on account of how realistic Hardin and Tessa's relationship comes off, and not in a good way. It's noted that while there are lots of other popular romance books that arguably romanticize abusive behavior released around the same time, such as ''Literature/TheTwilightSaga'', ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGrey'' and ''Literature/ThreeHundredSixtyFiveDays'', these other books tend to have fantastical or exaggerated elements that make them less realistic (e.g. girl romances a sparkly vampire, college student dates a billionaire into BDSM, woman gets kidnapped by a mafia don who wants her to love him), whereas ''After'' is a largely grounded story with a mundane setting and characters, centered around a dysfunctional romance that comes off as highly plausible. Some readers have even stated [[AngstAversion they couldn't finish the series or outright avoided it]] because Hardin and Tessa's romance reminds them of their own abusive relationship and/or abuse people close to them went through.

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* RealismInducedHorror: Some readers find the story particularly disturbing on account of how realistic Hardin and Tessa's relationship comes off, and not in a good way. It's noted that while there are lots of other popular romance books that arguably romanticize abusive behavior released around the same time, such as ''Literature/TheTwilightSaga'', ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGrey'' and ''Literature/ThreeHundredSixtyFiveDays'', these other books tend to have fantastical or exaggerated elements that make them less realistic (e.g. , girl romances a sparkly vampire, college student dates a billionaire into BDSM, woman gets kidnapped by a mafia don who wants her to love him), whereas ''After'' is a largely grounded story with a mundane setting and characters, centered around a dysfunctional romance that comes off as highly plausible. Some readers have even stated [[AngstAversion they couldn't finish the series or outright avoided it]] because Hardin and Tessa's romance reminds them of their own abusive relationship and/or abuse people close to them went through.



* WhyWouldAnyoneTakeHimBack: Many people questioned why Tessa would take Harry/Hardin back, as the ending of ''After'' implies she does and the sequel confirms. She broke up with him after finding out he'd lied to her for the entirety of their relationship: [[spoiler: he initially only dated her to get her into bed on a dare and even after developing feelings for Tessa he kept this from her]]. He also spent a lot of their relationship being a controlling, condescending jerk to her. After they break up Tessa's life seems to greatly improve; she becomes more mature and responsible, including focusing on her studies, working on getting her dream internship, ditching toxic friends, and reconciling with her mother and ex-boyfriend. The only apparent pro to her staying with Hardin is regular sex, which doesn't really outweigh all the cons.

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* WhyWouldAnyoneTakeHimBack: Many people questioned why Tessa would take Harry/Hardin back, as the ending of ''After'' implies she does and the sequel confirms. She broke up with him after finding out he'd lied to her for the entirety of their relationship: [[spoiler: he [[spoiler:he initially only dated her to get her into bed on a dare and even after developing feelings for Tessa he kept this from her]]. He also spent a lot of their relationship being a controlling, condescending jerk to her. After they break up Tessa's life seems to greatly improve; she becomes more mature and responsible, including focusing on her studies, working on getting her dream internship, ditching toxic friends, and reconciling with her mother and ex-boyfriend. The only apparent pro to her staying with Hardin is regular sex, which doesn't really outweigh all the cons.
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** We're expected to sympathize with Hardin despite his {{Jerkass}} tendencies and extreme mood swings due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, where he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of readers and viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women.

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** We're expected to sympathize with Hardin despite his {{Jerkass}} tendencies and extreme mood swings due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, where he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of readers and viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women. From his viewpoints in the series alone, its shown that Hardin's immediate thought when even slightly angered by almost anyone is to consider enacting violence on them, causing the reader to view him more as a straight asshole rather than the deeply troubled bad boy which was probably intended.
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** Although Tessa's mother Carol makes some good points in not wanting her daughter to date Hardin, she doesn't come across all that well either. It would seem that we're supposed to see her as a JerkassWoobie whose controlling attitude with her daughter is caused by her having been abandoned by Tessa's alcoholic father (especially in the movies, where Caraol's personality and behavior is [[AdaptationalNiceGuy softened]] from the books). However, this hardly accounts for how nasty Carol gets with Tessa herself when she finds out about Hardin, accusing her of throwing away her future for a boy and claiming Hardin would only break her heart [[note]]Assumptions that, regardless of your views on Tessa and/or Hardin, she had no room to be making due to having ''zero'' insight about the state of their relationship[[/note]], calling her own daughter "a whore" and cutting her off financially when Tessa refuses to let her mother dictate her life anymore. Even when the first movie ends with Carol apologizing to Tessa, the next movie sees her go right back to being toxic, not informing Tessa about her father wanting to reconnect with her and ranting about Hardin again when Tessa rightfully condemns her for hiding this from her. This seemingly proves that Carol hasn't learned anything and ''still'' sees nothing wrong with controlling her daughter's life with no regard for what Tessa herself may want.

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** Although Tessa's mother Carol makes some good points in not wanting her daughter to date Hardin, she doesn't come across all that well either. It would seem that we're supposed to see her as a JerkassWoobie whose controlling attitude with her daughter is caused by her having been abandoned by Tessa's alcoholic father (especially in the movies, where Caraol's Carol's personality and behavior is [[AdaptationalNiceGuy softened]] from the books). However, this hardly accounts for how nasty Carol gets with Tessa herself when she finds out about Hardin, accusing her of throwing away her future for a boy and claiming Hardin would only break her heart [[note]]Assumptions that, regardless of your views on Tessa and/or Hardin, she had no room to be making due to having ''zero'' insight about the state of their relationship[[/note]], calling her own daughter "a whore" and cutting her off financially when Tessa refuses to let her mother dictate her life anymore. Even when the first movie ends with Carol apologizing to Tessa, the next movie sees her go right back to being toxic, not informing Tessa about her father wanting to reconnect with her and ranting about Hardin again when Tessa rightfully condemns her for hiding this from her. This seemingly proves that Carol hasn't learned anything and ''still'' sees nothing wrong with controlling her daughter's life with no regard for what Tessa herself may want.
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* RealismInducedHorror: Some readers find the story particularly disturbing on account of how realistic Hardin and Tessa's relationship comes off, and not in a good way. It's noted that while there are lots of other popular romance books that arguably romanticize abusive behavior released around the same time, such as ''Literature/TheTwilightSaga'', ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGrey'' and ''Literature/ThreeHundredSixtyFiveDays'', these other books tend to have fantastical or exaggerated elements that make them less realistic (e.g. girl romances a sparkly vampire, college student dates a billionaire into BDSM, woman gets kidnapped by a mafia don who wants her to love him), whereas ''After'' is a largely grounded story with a mundane setting and characters, centered around a dysfunctional romance that comes off as highly plausible. Some readers have even stated [[AngstAversion they couldn't finish the series or outright avoided it]] because Hardin and Tessa's romance reminds them of their own abusive relationship and/or abuse people close to them went through.
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* ItsTheSameNowItSucks: A common criticism is that every installment in the series basically follows the same plot: Tessa and Hardin fall out, reconcile and have sex, then one of them (usually Hardin) does something to upset the other, they break-up, Hardin does something extremely dangerous and destructive, they reconcile, rinse and repeat. The constant cycle of them breaking up and getting back together not only feels repetitive, for many audiences it starts to stretch credibility that they would even continue the relationship because of how miserable they are together, which isn't always fun for the audience either.

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* ItsTheSameNowItSucks: A common criticism is that every installment in the series basically follows the same plot: Tessa and Hardin fall out, reconcile and have sex, then one of them (usually Hardin) does something to upset the other, they break-up, Hardin does something extremely dangerous and destructive, they reconcile, rinse and repeat. The constant cycle of them breaking up and getting back together not only feels repetitive, for many audiences it starts to stretch credibility that they would even continue the relationship because of how miserable they are together, which isn't always fun for the audience either. Tessa lampshades the unhealthy relationship cycle at several points in the first book alone, but the plot inevitably gets her back together with Hardin.
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** We're expected to sympathize with Hardin despite his {{Jerkass]] tendencies and extreme mood swings due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, where he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of readers and viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women.

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** We're expected to sympathize with Hardin despite his {{Jerkass]] {{Jerkass}} tendencies and extreme mood swings due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, where he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of readers and viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women.

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* DiagnosedByTheAudience: Hardin's prone to mood swings, irrational jealousy, and violent behavior... but he's never been diagnosed with anything in-universe. Some reviewers, however, believe he may have both untreated PTSD and a personality disorder.



* DiagnosedByTheAudience: Hardin's prone to mood swings, irrational jealousy, and violent behavior... but he's never been diagnosed with anything in-universe. Some reviewers, however, believe he may have both untreated PTSD and a personality disorder.



** Tessa frequently slut-shames the women around her, cheats on her loving and sweet boyfriend with a man who takes pleasure in emotionally abusing her, and has a HolierThanThou complex that makes her unbearable.
** Hardin is also this, we're expected to sympathize with him due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women. 
** Though speaking of Tessa's mother Carol, she doesn't come across all that well either. It would seem that (at least in the movies) we're supposed to see her as a JerkassWoobie whose controlling attitude with her daughter is caused by her having been abandoned by Tessa's alcoholic father. However, this hardly accounts for how nasty Carol gets with Tessa herself when she finds out about Hardin, accusing her of throwing away her future for a boy and claiming Hardin would only break her heart [[note]]Assumptions that, regardless of your views on Tessa and/or Hardin, she had no room to be making due to having ''zero'' insight about the state of their relationship[[/note]] and cutting her off financially when Tessa refuses to let her mother dictate her life anymore. Even when the first movie ends with Carol apologizing to Tessa, the next movie sees her go right back to being toxic, not informing Tessa about her father wanting to reconnect with her and ranting about Hardin again when Tessa rightfully condemns her for hiding this from her. This seemingly proves that Carol hasn't learned anything and ''still'' sees nothing wrong with controlling her daughter's life with no regard for what Tessa herself may want.

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** We're supposed to sympathize with Tessa as a naive young woman who is trying to figure out who she is and what she wants from life, making mistakes along the way. The problem is that Tessa tends to be extremely judgemental - including frequently slut-shames slut-shaming the women around her, her - cheats on her loving and sweet boyfriend with a man who takes pleasure in emotionally abusing her, and has a HolierThanThou complex that makes her unbearable.
unbearable to many readers.
** Hardin is also this, we're We're expected to sympathize with him Hardin despite his {{Jerkass]] tendencies and extreme mood swings due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, where he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of readers and viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women. 

** Though speaking of Although Tessa's mother Carol, Carol makes some good points in not wanting her daughter to date Hardin, she doesn't come across all that well either. It would seem that (at least in the movies) we're supposed to see her as a JerkassWoobie whose controlling attitude with her daughter is caused by her having been abandoned by Tessa's alcoholic father. father (especially in the movies, where Caraol's personality and behavior is [[AdaptationalNiceGuy softened]] from the books). However, this hardly accounts for how nasty Carol gets with Tessa herself when she finds out about Hardin, accusing her of throwing away her future for a boy and claiming Hardin would only break her heart [[note]]Assumptions that, regardless of your views on Tessa and/or Hardin, she had no room to be making due to having ''zero'' insight about the state of their relationship[[/note]] relationship[[/note]], calling her own daughter "a whore" and cutting her off financially when Tessa refuses to let her mother dictate her life anymore. Even when the first movie ends with Carol apologizing to Tessa, the next movie sees her go right back to being toxic, not informing Tessa about her father wanting to reconnect with her and ranting about Hardin again when Tessa rightfully condemns her for hiding this from her. This seemingly proves that Carol hasn't learned anything and ''still'' sees nothing wrong with controlling her daughter's life with no regard for what Tessa herself may want.
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* DesignatedLoveInterest: Hardin and Tessa are intentionally written to have a [[SlapSlapKiss turbulent relationship]], but it's to the point they barely seem to like each other at all. Hardin is frequently cruel to Tessa, including insulting everything about her, picking petty fights with her, and constantly accusing her of abandoning him while simultaneously pushing her away. Heck, in the same sentence he asks her to move in with him, [[MasterOfTheMixedMessage he also calls her an annoying control freak]]. Tessa admits that Hardin often makes her feel angry, upset and worthless, and she's rarely happy in his presence, yet she claims to love Hardin warts and all. They don't even have much in common (they both read classic English literature, but Hardin tends to sneer at Tessa's opinions on the books) and the main reasons Tessa is drawn to Hardin is that he's a [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys good-looking 'bad boy']] who is willing to have sex with her, and thus more 'exciting' than her nice but dull high school boyfriend. Hardin initially only got with Tessa [[spoiler:as part of a bet to take her virginity]] but claims he truly fell for her, yet the only reasons he gives for liking her beyond sex is that she helps him cope with his trauma [[AllTakeAndNoGive (while giving her almost nothing in return)]], which sounds more like therapy than love. Throughout the series they constantly [[RelationshipRevolvingDoor break up and reconcile]], and can't seem to go a single day without fighting. They're so dysfunctional that ''the author'' stated she wasn't even sure if she wanted them to stay together.
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* DiagnosedByTheAudience: Hardin's prone to mood swings, irrational jealousy, and violent behavior... but he's never been diagnosed with anything in-universe. Some reviewers, however, believe he may have both untreated PTSD and a personality disorder.
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* DeathOfTheAuthor: The fanfic/novels and the films were intended to be a tale of love triumphing over hardship, and how Tessa and Hardin must both persevere in overcoming their issues to save their relationship. A lot of readers have instead pointed out that the story comes off as a textbook example of the cycle of abuse, and how it could easily be used as a cautionary tale against toxic and dysfunctional relationships. Anna Todd stated she wrote Hardin the way she did because she felt it made him more "realistic", to which some readers would say he cones off as a disturbingingly realistic portrayal of an abusive partner.

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* DeathOfTheAuthor: The fanfic/novels and the films were intended to be a tale of love triumphing over hardship, and how Tessa and Hardin must both persevere in overcoming their issues to save their relationship. A lot of readers have instead pointed out that the story comes off as a textbook example of the cycle of abuse, and how it could easily be used as a cautionary tale against toxic and dysfunctional relationships. Anna Todd stated she wrote Hardin the way she did because she felt it made him more "realistic", to which some readers would say he cones comes off as a disturbingingly disturbingly realistic portrayal of an abusive partner.
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* DeathOfTheAuthor: The fanfic/novels and the films were intended to be a tale of love triumphing over hardship, and how Tessa and Hardin must both persevere in overcoming their issues to save their relationship. A lot of readers have instead pointed out that the story comes off as a textbook example of the cycle of abuse, and how it could easily be used as a cautionary tale against toxic and dysfunctional relationships.

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* DeathOfTheAuthor: The fanfic/novels and the films were intended to be a tale of love triumphing over hardship, and how Tessa and Hardin must both persevere in overcoming their issues to save their relationship. A lot of readers have instead pointed out that the story comes off as a textbook example of the cycle of abuse, and how it could easily be used as a cautionary tale against toxic and dysfunctional relationships. Anna Todd stated she wrote Hardin the way she did because she felt it made him more "realistic", to which some readers would say he cones off as a disturbingingly realistic portrayal of an abusive partner.
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** Hardin is also this, we're expected to sympathize with him due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him.

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** Hardin is also this, we're expected to sympathize with him due to his DarkAndTroubledPast but he only starts a relationship with Tessa just to make her fall for him and then leave her (it's much worse in the book, he starts a competition with Zed to see who could take her virginity first with [[{{Squick}} the bloodied sheets from their first night as proof]]) which makes him highly unlikable to a majority of viewers. Not to mention him acting possessive over Tessa before and after they break up, getting mad when she begins hanging out with Trevor and questioning if they had sex or not when it's not his business. No wonder Tessa's mom threatened to cut her daughter off upon seeing him. His FreudianExcuse doesn't even make much sense; the root of his trauma is seeing [[spoiler:his mother gang-raped]] (which was in-directly his alcoholic father's fault), which you'd think would make him more sensitive to stuff like men being abusive towards or taking advantage of women. Instead, it's the ''opposite'', with Hardin coming off as misogynistic in his poor treatment of women. 
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* TooBleakStoppedCaring: The series is a romantic drama focusing on the trials and tribulations of Tessa and Hardin's relationship, while also dealing with issues like Hardin's childhood trauma and the resulting behavioral problems. However, many readers have a hard time caring what happens because almost all the characters are insufferable jerks who constantly make each other miserable, including the OfficialCouple themselves. Hardin is supposed to be a flawed person, but he's so awful to the people around him (''especially'' Tessa, his supposed true love) and lacking in redeeming qualities that he comes off as deeply unsympathetic. Tessa is better than Hardin (not that this is difficult) but still comes off as highly judgemental and naive to the point of foolishness, and if readers aren't exasperated by her they're often pitying her for being used as Hardin's emotional punching bag. Considering that every book in the series generally follows the same formula, it's unsurprising lots of readers get emotionally burnt out.

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* CriticalDissonance: While the novels and films have strong followings and are very profitable, critics slammed both for their derivative plots, wooden dialogue, and underdeveloped characters.
* DesignatedHero: Both the books and the movies try their damndest to make us root for the [[HolierThanThou smug, sanctimonious]], [[TheDitherer dithering]] adulterer that is Tessa, and the lying, [[ManipulativeBastard manipulative]], [[HairTriggerTemper short-tempered]] [[{{Jerkass}} jerk]] that is Hardin.

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* CriticalDissonance: While the novels and films have strong followings and are very profitable, critics slammed both for their derivative plots, wooden dialogue, and underdeveloped characters.
characters and romanticisation of abusive relationships.
* DeathOfTheAuthor: The fanfic/novels and the films were intended to be a tale of love triumphing over hardship, and how Tessa and Hardin must both persevere in overcoming their issues to save their relationship. A lot of readers have instead pointed out that the story comes off as a textbook example of the cycle of abuse, and how it could easily be used as a cautionary tale against toxic and dysfunctional relationships.
* DesignatedHero: Both the books and the movies try their damndest to make us root for the [[HolierThanThou smug, sanctimonious]], [[TheDitherer dithering]] adulterer that is Tessa, and the lying, [[ManipulativeBastard manipulative]], [[HairTriggerTemper short-tempered]] [[{{Jerkass}} jerk]] that is Hardin. For a lot of audiences, it doesn't work, and they both come off as supremely selfish and dysfunctional people who cause most of their own problems.



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* ItsTheSameNowItSucks: A common criticism is that every installment in the series basically follows the same plot: Tessa and Hardin fall out, reconcile and have sex, then one of them (usually Hardin) does something to upset the other, they break-up, Hardin does something extremely dangerous and destructive, they reconcile, rinse and repeat. The constant cycle of them breaking up and getting back together not only feels repetitive, for many audiences it starts to stretch credibility that they would even continue the relationship because of how miserable they are together, which isn't always fun for the audience either.



* WhyWouldAnyoneTakeHimBack: Many people questioned why Tessa would take Harry/Hardin back, as the ending implies she does. She broke up with him after finding out he'd lied to her for the entirety of their relationship: [[spoiler: he initially only dated her to get her into bed on a dare and even after developing feelings for Tessa he kept this from her]]. He also spent a lot of their relationship being a controlling, condescending jerk to her. After they break up Tessa's life seems to greatly improve; she becomes more mature and responsible, including focusing on her studies, working on getting her dream internship, ditching toxic friends, and reconciling with her mother and ex-boyfriend. The only apparent pro to her staying with Hardin is regular sex, which doesn't really outweigh all the cons.

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* WhyWouldAnyoneTakeHimBack: Many people questioned why Tessa would take Harry/Hardin back, as the ending of ''After'' implies she does.does and the sequel confirms. She broke up with him after finding out he'd lied to her for the entirety of their relationship: [[spoiler: he initially only dated her to get her into bed on a dare and even after developing feelings for Tessa he kept this from her]]. He also spent a lot of their relationship being a controlling, condescending jerk to her. After they break up Tessa's life seems to greatly improve; she becomes more mature and responsible, including focusing on her studies, working on getting her dream internship, ditching toxic friends, and reconciling with her mother and ex-boyfriend. The only apparent pro to her staying with Hardin is regular sex, which doesn't really outweigh all the cons.

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* JerkassHasAPoint: Mrs. Young is supposed to come off as an unreasonably controlling helicopter parent when she badmouths Hardin and all of Tessa's friends as awful people, and says college has changed her. Which is kind of undercut by the fact that Tessa's time spent with Hardin ''has'' made her an objectively worse person, and that [[spoiler: Hardin only started dating Tessa because he and Zed made a dare on who could take Tessa's virginity first, and ''all their friends'' were in on it.]]



* UnintentionallySympathetic: We're supposed to view Noah as an annoying tattletale who's holding Tessa back, and not feel bad for him when she starts cheating on him. However, he's a much kinder and stable person than Hardin and has been there for Tessa ever since her dad left her. While him tellling Tessa's mom about Tessa drinking at a party may be a bit overbearing, it's understandable considering the fact that: Tessa hasn't drank before, she's at a party full of strangers who could take advantage of her, and her father's an alcoholic and Tessa could (and does) end up developing an addiction.

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* NightmareFuel: When he's not being a whiny petulant twerp, Hardin can be a terrifyingly toxic person, especially when drunk. The fact that, on two separate occasions, he's resorted to property damage and outright violence really does ''not'' send a good implication for anyone who'd try to date him.
* UnintentionallySympathetic: We're supposed to view Noah as an annoying tattletale who's holding Tessa back, and not feel bad for him when she starts cheating on him. However, he's a much kinder and stable person than Hardin and has been there for Tessa ever since her dad left her. While him tellling telling Tessa's mom about Tessa drinking at a party may be a bit overbearing, it's understandable considering the fact that: Tessa hasn't drank before, she's at a party full of strangers who could take advantage of her, and her father's an alcoholic and Tessa could (and does) end up developing an addiction.

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** Tessa frequently slutshames the women around her, cheats on her loving and sweet boyfriend with a man who takes pleasure in emotionally abusing her, and has a HolierThanThou complex that makes her unbearable.

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** Tessa frequently slutshames slut-shames the women around her, cheats on her loving and sweet boyfriend with a man who takes pleasure in emotionally abusing her, and has a HolierThanThou complex that makes her unbearable.


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** Though speaking of Tessa's mother Carol, she doesn't come across all that well either. It would seem that (at least in the movies) we're supposed to see her as a JerkassWoobie whose controlling attitude with her daughter is caused by her having been abandoned by Tessa's alcoholic father. However, this hardly accounts for how nasty Carol gets with Tessa herself when she finds out about Hardin, accusing her of throwing away her future for a boy and claiming Hardin would only break her heart [[note]]Assumptions that, regardless of your views on Tessa and/or Hardin, she had no room to be making due to having ''zero'' insight about the state of their relationship[[/note]] and cutting her off financially when Tessa refuses to let her mother dictate her life anymore. Even when the first movie ends with Carol apologizing to Tessa, the next movie sees her go right back to being toxic, not informing Tessa about her father wanting to reconnect with her and ranting about Hardin again when Tessa rightfully condemns her for hiding this from her. This seemingly proves that Carol hasn't learned anything and ''still'' sees nothing wrong with controlling her daughter's life with no regard for what Tessa herself may want.
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* AuthorsSavingThrow: For those who didn't like Hardin and Tessa's relationship, it's the fact that the movie removed some of the toxic scenes found in the book, as well as [[AdaptationalNiceGuy making them at least slightly better people than in the book]].
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* BaseBreakingCharacter: You guessed it–Hardin. Depending on who you ask, he’s either a misunderstood, lonely young man with a troubled past or an abusive, womanising sociopath whose interest in Tesse is purely sexual.

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* BaseBreakingCharacter: You guessed it–Hardin. Depending on who you ask, he’s either a misunderstood, lonely young man with a troubled past or an abusive, womanising sociopath whose interest in Tesse Tessa is purely sexual.
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* UnfortunateImplications: The series has copped a lot of criticism for condoning [[https://www.theckmprospector.com/?p=1233 abusive relationships]] and [[https://wherestheline.info/popular-book-series-and-film-after-glorifies-unhealthy-relationship-dynamics/ Hardin’s possessive behaviour towards Tessa]].

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!For [[Literature/{{After}} the book]]:
* NightmareFuel: The whole book; see ParanoiaFuel below.
* ParanoiaFuel: The rules are always changing; break one and it's a one way ticket to 'Operation Turnaround' [read: your grave]. What might some of these rules be? Did you have a cell phone on your person at school? What about gum? Anything red? Did you eat lunch alone? Oh, and Big Brother's watching you. And by watching you, I mean ''really'' watching you. Yes, even 50 miles away. Remember your sweet history teacher? The one who didn't report that sweet, A++ girl who broke a rule? Yeah, she had a "Health Emergency". And don't expect your parents to help you, they've been brainwashed. Everything is for your own good. And they could come for you at any time -- right in the middle of a normal school day, even if you've done nothing wrong. Have fun at school, dear.
* UnintentionalPeriodPiece: It's not entirely irrelevant, but the description of email newsletters somehow "brainwash" the parents is ''very'' 2003. Email is treated as somehow magical and very dangerous, and Prose failed to predict that propaganda would soon advance far beyond email newsletters.

!For [[Film/{{After}} the film]]:
* SpecialEffectsFailure: The fog is pretty clearly CGI as they walk through it.
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* EndingAversion: Even those who liked the movie or considered it [[SoOkayItsAverage "meh"]] thought that the ending implying that Tessa and Hardin will come back together was unnecessary, as it undermines [[AesopAmnesia Tessa's character arc]].
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* BaseBreakingCharacter: You guessed it–Hardin. Depending on who you ask, he’s either a misunderstood, lonely youth with a troubled past or an abusive, womanising sociopath whose interest in Tesse is purely sexual.

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* BaseBreakingCharacter: You guessed it–Hardin. Depending on who you ask, he’s either a misunderstood, lonely youth young man with a troubled past or an abusive, womanising sociopath whose interest in Tesse is purely sexual.
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* UnintentionallySympathetic: We're supposed to view Noah as an annoying tattletale who's holding Tessa back, and not feel bad for him when she starts cheating on him. However, he's a much kinder and stable person than Hardin and has been there for Tessa ever since her dad left her. While him tellling Tessa's mom about Tessa drinking at a party may be a bit overbearing, it's understandable considering the fact that: Tessa hasn't drank before, she's at a party full of strangers who could take advantage of her, and her father's an alcoholic and Tessa could(and does)end up developing an addiction.

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* UnintentionallySympathetic: We're supposed to view Noah as an annoying tattletale who's holding Tessa back, and not feel bad for him when she starts cheating on him. However, he's a much kinder and stable person than Hardin and has been there for Tessa ever since her dad left her. While him tellling Tessa's mom about Tessa drinking at a party may be a bit overbearing, it's understandable considering the fact that: Tessa hasn't drank before, she's at a party full of strangers who could take advantage of her, and her father's an alcoholic and Tessa could(and does)end could (and does) end up developing an addiction.

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