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* The case of David's affair with Bathsheba as addressed in [[Literature/BooksOfSamuel 2nd Samuel chapter 11]] of ''Literature/TheBible''. When a king calls you to be at his bedside, whether you're a married woman or not, how can you say no? Likewise, Absalom's going into his father David's ten concubines during his act of sedition against his father later on in 2nd Samuel can fall under this, as the concubines have little to no say of whether they would want to sleep with Absalom under such duress.

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* ''Fanfic/WedFlyAwayTogether'': Terra claims that she consents to having sex with Slade and that ''she's'' the one coming onto him, but it's likely she's lying to herself. She seems uncomfortable with it and, even if she did verbally consent, it's unlikely that she can legally consent due to her VagueAge. The fics also tag the stories under "Rape/Non-Con".


-->-- '''Sarah''' to '''Jareth''', ''Webcomic/GirlsNextDoor'', [[http://pika-la-cynique.deviantart.com/art/GND240-Passe-d-armes-468559406 "Passe d'armes"]]

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-->-- '''Sarah''' to '''Jareth''', (to '''Jareth'''), ''Webcomic/GirlsNextDoor'', [[http://pika-la-cynique.deviantart.com/art/GND240-Passe-d-armes-468559406 "Passe d'armes"]]



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* ''Series/BattlestarGalacticaReimagined'': In the episode "Six of One", Colonel Tigh orders Tory to seduce Baltar in order to [[spoiler:find out more information regarding the last Cylon model based on the latter's experiences in the Temple of Five]]. Tory agrees to do so, but it's shown that she isn't happy at all. Later, when she does seduce Baltar, she cries while they're having sex. Baltar misinterprets this ([[spoiler:because he knows that she's a Cylon]]) as thinking she's insecure and tells her that she does have feelings, and this apparently makes her feel better.

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* ''Series/BattlestarGalacticaReimagined'': ''Series/{{Battlestar Galactica|2003}}'': In the episode "Six of One", Colonel Tigh orders Tory to seduce Baltar in order to [[spoiler:find out more information regarding the last Cylon model based on the latter's experiences in the Temple of Five]]. Tory agrees to do so, but it's shown that she isn't happy at all. Later, when she does seduce Baltar, she cries while they're having sex. Baltar misinterprets this ([[spoiler:because he knows that she's a Cylon]]) as thinking she's insecure and tells her that she does have feelings, and this apparently makes her feel better.



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* The WebAnimation/YoutubePoop [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wc0CUOYs7Is "Very Uncensored Winnie the Pooh"]] begins with Pooh pressuring his friend Piglet into having sex.
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* The first story arc of ''Webcomic/{{Collar 6}}'' is about Mistress Sixx trying [[spoiler:and, for the most part, failing]] to find a balance between forcing Laura and Ginger to do what she wants and "forcing" them to do what ''they'' want, too.

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* The first story arc of ''Webcomic/{{Collar 6}}'' ''Webcomic/Collar6'' is about Mistress Sixx trying [[spoiler:and, for the most part, failing]] to find a balance between forcing Laura and Ginger to do what she wants and "forcing" them to do what ''they'' want, too.



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* The WebAnimation/YoutubePoop [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wc0CUOYs7Is "Very Uncensored Winnie the Pooh"]] begins with Pooh pressuring his friend Piglet into having sex.
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** And in TheMovie, [[spoiler:Akio has a FreakOut when he realizes that Anthy — [[DudeShesLikeInAComa who he'd thought was unconscious — was awake for at least part of while he was raping her after [[SlippingAMickey slipping her drugs in her drink]]. Anthy tries to calm him down and tell him that she's okay with it, but he stabs her in the chest before [[DrivenToSuicide throwing himself out the window]].]]

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** And in TheMovie, [[spoiler:Akio has a FreakOut when he realizes that Anthy — [[DudeShesLikeInAComa who he'd thought was unconscious was awake for at least part of while he was raping her her]] after [[SlippingAMickey slipping her drugs in her drink]]. Anthy tries to calm him down and tell him that she's okay with it, but he stabs her in the chest before [[DrivenToSuicide throwing himself out the window]].]]

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* ''Film/BerlinSyndrome'': Clare once has sex with Andi after he starts holding her captive, but of course this context makes it dubious how consensual it was, although she seemed willing otherwise.


There are two basic ways of portraying this, although they often blend into each other.

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This is popularly known as '''Dub Con''' (dubious consent). There are two basic ways of portraying this, although they often blend into each other.



* '''Type B''', popularly known as '''Dub Con''' (dubious consent): The plot would have you think consent was granted — but was it, really?

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* '''Type B''', popularly known as '''Dub Con''' (dubious consent): B:''' The plot would have you think consent was granted — but granted--but was it, really?

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* ''Series/DasBoot'': Simone submits to Forster's sexual advance, probably out of fear he might discover Carla hiding in her apartment otherwise. However, later she tells him he forced himself on her. We don't hear or see all that went on beforehand too. Since she's a closeted lesbian though, it's likely Simone wouldn't have sex with him ''except'' in circumstances like this, whether or not he would have taken "no" for an answer.


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* Discussed in ''Literature/{{Worm}}'' between [[spoiler:Taylor]] and [[spoiler:Brian]], where she (who has had a crush on him for some time,) can't help but wonder if her caring for him after his horrific torture might lead into romance, but she is also fully aware that he's in a very vulnerable state and she needs to be careful not to manipulate him. [[spoiler:Later on, TheyDo, but consent is not an issue because, even though Brian is still traumatised, he is sane enough by that point to be able to make the decision]].



* Discussed in ''Literature/{{Worm}}'' between [[spoiler:Taylor]] and [[spoiler:Brian]], where she (who has had a crush on him for some time,) can't help but wonder if her caring for him after his horrific torture might lead into romance, but she is also fully aware that he's in a very vulnerable state and she needs to be careful not to manipulate him. [[spoiler:Later on, TheyDo, but consent is not an issue because, even though Brian is still traumatised, he is sane enough by that point to be able to make the decision]].

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** A rather complicated case of this with Rhaegar Targaryen and Lyanna Stark. While it's a common theory in the fandom, [[spoiler: and confirmed by the television adaptation]] that Rhaegar's 'rape' of Lyanna was in fact a consensual elopement, Rhaegar was in his twenties to Lyanna's fifteen at the time, and kept her imprisoned in the Tower of Joy under the eye of the Kingsguard, who fought her brother Ned to a standstill when he came to find her at the end of a brutal war, despite Lyanna crying out repeatedly for her brother. There's also the little matter of Rhaegar having left said tower to fight on the side of the man who had Lyanna's father and eldest brother burned alive and strangled respectively.


* In ''Fanfic/{{Severance}}'', it's vague whether Ash was a OneNightStandPregnancy, a ChildByRape, or the result of an affair. Delia mentions that Giovanni "had his way with her" with her, which sounds aggressive but could also mean that he just ignored her afterwards.

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* In ''Fanfic/{{Severance}}'', it's vague whether Ash was a OneNightStandPregnancy, a ChildByRape, or the result of an affair. Delia mentions that Giovanni "had his way with her" with her, her", which sounds aggressive but could also mean that he just ignored her afterwards.


* In ''Fanfic/{{Severance}}'', it's vague whether Ash was a OneNightStandPregnancy, a ChildByRape, or an affair. Delia mentions that Giovanni "had his way with her" with her, which sounds aggressive but could also mean that he just ignored her afterwards.

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* In ''Fanfic/{{Severance}}'', it's vague whether Ash was a OneNightStandPregnancy, a ChildByRape, or the result of an affair. Delia mentions that Giovanni "had his way with her" with her, which sounds aggressive but could also mean that he just ignored her afterwards.


->''"I'd like to dance with you tonight because we both want to, Jareth--no creepy coercive trickery or impaired consent. Does that work for you?"''

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->''"I'd like to dance with you tonight because we both want to, Jareth--no Jareth -- no creepy coercive trickery or impaired consent. Does that work for you?"''



Questionable Consent can be complicated. Let's say that Alice is very rich, while Bob is very poor with starving kids. Alice wants something from Bob. Something that he really doesn't want to give her. Maybe a kidney. Or maybe unprotected intercourse with no parental rights over the resulting child. Bob very reluctantly agrees, because he is desperate for money for food and medicine for his kids. But how free was his choice, really?

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Questionable Consent can be complicated. Let's say that Alice is very rich, while Bob is very poor with starving kids. Alice wants something from Bob. Something that he really doesn't want to give her. Maybe a kidney. Or maybe unprotected intercourse with no parental rights over the resulting child. Bob very reluctantly agrees, agrees because he is desperate for money for food and medicine for his kids. But how free was his choice, really?



Compare LeonineContract. AppealToForce and AppealToConsequences may be used; for extra NoYay, the even more extreme variant AnOfferYouCantRefuse might get used instead. AdaptationalConsent often overlaps, either clarifying one way or another whether a situation was truly consensual or doing the opposite and muddying a clear-cut situation into being Questionable. See also the UsefulNotes page on UsefulNotes/{{Consent}}. This trope is not to be confused with the webcomic that's only one letter away, ''Webcomic/QuestionableContent''.

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Compare LeonineContract. AppealToForce and AppealToConsequences may be used; for extra NoYay, the even more extreme variant AnOfferYouCantRefuse might get used instead. AdaptationalConsent often overlaps, either clarifying one way or another whether a situation was truly consensual or doing the opposite and muddying a clear-cut situation into being Questionable. See also the UsefulNotes page on UsefulNotes/{{Consent}}. This trope is not '''''not''''' to be confused with the webcomic that's only one letter away, ''Webcomic/QuestionableContent''.



* In ''Manga/MagicalGirlRaisingProject''. people are asked if they want to become real {{Magical Girl}}s, but they're not told that there's no backing out of being one. If they're forced to quit, or attempt to quit, they'll die of a heart attack because their body can't take the stress of having their powers removed.

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* In ''Manga/MagicalGirlRaisingProject''. people are asked if they want to become real {{Magical Girl}}s, but they're not told that there's no backing out of being one. If they're forced to quit, quit -- or attempt to quit, quit -- they'll die of a heart attack because their body can't take the stress of having their powers removed.



* This was the cause of ''major'' backlash when the first issue of ''ComicBook/RedHoodAndTheOutlaws'' showed [[ComicBook/TeenTitans Starfire]] as amnesiac and unable to remember individual humans' faces, which made the fact that she then slept with Roy Harper pretty iffy. Two later attempts at an AuthorsSavingThrow both failed for similar reasons: First it was shown that this was [[ObfuscatingStupidity an act]], but it still means that Roy didn't come out looking good since he slept with her even while thinking that she was amnesiac. And then it was ''further'' clarified that Roy believed that if he left, then she'd forget him, which adds a whole other level of Squick, as it's essentially putting a very lonely person (in this case Roy) in a position where the only way to keep one of their two friends is to never leave them. It probably wouldn't have gone well if Roy had wanted to end the relationship but retain a friendship.

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* This was the cause of ''major'' backlash when the first issue of ''ComicBook/RedHoodAndTheOutlaws'' showed [[ComicBook/TeenTitans Starfire]] as an amnesiac and unable to remember individual humans' faces, which made the fact that she then slept with Roy Harper pretty iffy. Two later attempts at an AuthorsSavingThrow both failed for similar reasons: First First, it was shown that this was [[ObfuscatingStupidity an act]], but it still means that Roy didn't come out looking good since he slept with her even while thinking that she was amnesiac. And then it was ''further'' clarified that Roy believed that if he left, then she'd forget him, which adds a whole other level of Squick, as it's essentially putting a very lonely person (in this case Roy) in a position where the only way to keep one of their two friends is to never leave them. It probably wouldn't have gone well if Roy had wanted to end the relationship but retain a friendship.



* ''Franchise/{{Tron}}: [[http://archiveofourown.org/series/46436 Endgame Scenario]]'': Jet was a [[VideoGame/TronTwoPointOh condemned prisoner at the time]], and Mercury tracked him down to try and see if he was truly on her side (working for [=Ma3a=] like he claimed), or not. She first threatened to kill him, but changed tactics, hoping to get him lowering his guard. Things went too far, partly because of the difference between human sex and Program energy melds, and Mercury realized what she had actually done far too late. Jet treats the whole matter as a misunderstanding and forgives her (having an explicitly consensual encounter with her later), but Mercury is less inclined to forgive herself, especially given that Jet is a (''[[AGodIAmNot very]]'' [[StopWorshippingMe reluctant]]) deity over her people.

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* ''Franchise/{{Tron}}: [[http://archiveofourown.org/series/46436 Endgame Scenario]]'': Jet was a [[VideoGame/TronTwoPointOh condemned prisoner at the time]], and Mercury tracked him down to try and see if he was truly on her side (working for [=Ma3a=] like as he claimed), or not. She first threatened to kill him, but changed tactics, hoping to get him lowering his guard. Things went too far, partly because of the difference between human sex and Program energy melds, and Mercury realized what she had actually done far too late. Jet treats the whole matter as a misunderstanding and forgives her (having an explicitly consensual encounter with her later), but Mercury is less inclined to forgive herself, especially given that Jet is a (''[[AGodIAmNot very]]'' [[StopWorshippingMe reluctant]]) deity over her people.



* ''FanFic/WeightOfTheWorld'': A non-sexual and non-romantic example. America uncomfortably defends [[spoiler: Atlas and Ozpinati's decisions concerning him and Vale.]] The therapist mentions it sounds like America was coerced and pressured into consenting to [[spoiler:the Aura transfer]]. For context, America was outnumbered, without allies, and in an unknown and secluded location when he was "[[SadisticChoice asked.]]" America comes to realize he had never had choice on whether or not to [[spoiler:become Vale]] in the first place since the process was already started, so in the end his "choice" was inconsequential.

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* ''FanFic/WeightOfTheWorld'': A non-sexual and non-romantic example. America uncomfortably defends [[spoiler: Atlas and Ozpinati's decisions concerning him and Vale.]] The therapist mentions it sounds like America was coerced and pressured into consenting to [[spoiler:the Aura transfer]]. For context, America was outnumbered, without allies, and in an unknown and secluded location when he was "[[SadisticChoice asked.]]" America comes to realize he had never had a choice on whether or not to [[spoiler:become Vale]] in the first place since the process was already started, so in the end end, his "choice" was inconsequential.



** The aforementioned masturbation scene: [[spoiler:Marcy]] grudgingly allows [[spoiler:Bert]] to watch her having sex with [[spoiler:Paul]] (in accordance with an agreement they made), but expressly forbids him from masturbating to the spectacle. But he masturbates anyway. Brings up all sorts of intriguing questions about whether a third party can grant or deny consent for a person to service their own body.

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** The aforementioned masturbation scene: [[spoiler:Marcy]] grudgingly allows [[spoiler:Bert]] to watch her having sex with [[spoiler:Paul]] (in accordance with an agreement they made), but expressly forbids him from masturbating to the spectacle. But he masturbates anyway. Brings up all sorts of intriguing questions about whether a third party can grant or deny the consent for a person to service their own body.



* ''Film/Deadpool2016'' has a non-sexual example in that Wade consents to be taken to a facility that claims to have an experimental cure for his cancer. He is not told, however, that this experimental cure is essentially non-stop torture, that it may or may not trigger latent mutant genes that he may or may not have, and that if does ''work'' he'll be sold as a slave-soldier to the highest bidder.
* In the Ruggero Deodato movie ''Film/JungleHolocaust'', this gets a sort of inversion: the protagonist, as he sinks deeper and deeper into savagery, rapes a native cannibal woman in a fit of rage in one scene after she tries to run away from him while he's employing her to help guide him through the jungle. As reviewer Nathan Shumate notes, however, her cannibal tribe is demonstrated throughout the film to be rather callous and amoral about sexuality and human life, so due to some serious DeliberateValuesDissonance, the woman doesn't exactly treat his raping her as being raped, but rather as his staking a legitimate claim to her the way any man in her tribe might (and as some are indicated to have tried to do elsewhere in the movie). As her tribe has basically raised her to see herself as belonging to anyone forceful enough to take her, she treats the protagonist as her new master from then on, and doesn't try to run away again.

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* ''Film/Deadpool2016'' has a non-sexual example in that Wade consents to be taken to a facility that claims to have an experimental cure for his cancer. He is not told, however, that this experimental cure is essentially non-stop torture, that it may or may not trigger latent mutant genes that he may or may not have, and that if it does ''work'' he'll be sold as a slave-soldier to the highest bidder.
* In the Ruggero Deodato movie ''Film/JungleHolocaust'', this gets a sort of inversion: the protagonist, as he sinks deeper and deeper into savagery, rapes a native cannibal woman in a fit of rage in one scene after she tries to run away from him while he's employing her to help guide him through the jungle. As reviewer Nathan Shumate notes, however, her cannibal tribe is demonstrated throughout the film to be rather callous and amoral about sexuality and human life, so due to some serious DeliberateValuesDissonance, the woman doesn't exactly treat his raping her as being raped, but rather as his staking a legitimate claim to her the way any man in her tribe might (and as some are indicated to have tried to do elsewhere in the movie). As her tribe has basically raised her to see herself as belonging to anyone forceful enough to take her, she treats the protagonist as her new master from then on, on and doesn't try to run away again.



* ''Film/UnderTheSkin'': The man who takes the disguised alien in after he finds her on the bus has sex with her, and he thinks she is a traumatized/mentally challenged human woman, which would make it debatable whether she could give informed consent. While she seems fine with this, it also doesn't look like she knows what sex even ''is'' exactly, pushing him off her after he apparently ejaculates to examine herself. Thus, it seems doubtful that she actually knew what was going on. So from either of their perspectives it's problematic.

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* ''Film/UnderTheSkin'': The man who takes the disguised alien in after he finds her on the bus has sex with her, and he thinks she is a traumatized/mentally challenged human woman, which would make it debatable whether she could give informed consent. While she seems fine with this, it also doesn't look like she knows what sex even ''is'' exactly, pushing him off her after he apparently ejaculates to examine herself. Thus, it seems doubtful that she actually knew what was going on. So from either of their perspectives perspectives, it's problematic.



* In ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'', which is in many ways a RomanceNovel with [[StereotypeFlip gender roles reversed]], not-yet-16-year-old Jerin Whistler is seduced by Princess Ren, who [[EatingTheEyeCandy feels him up]] despite his inarticulate protests and stated desire to [[VirginTension remain pure]]. She takes his arousal as more important than what he's saying; he even wonders how much force he can use to get away from a princess without getting in trouble, but soon rationalizes that this might be his only chance to be intimate with someone who's not a Brindle and participates happily. He says no and she backs off while he's still a TechnicalVirgin. When his sister learns about this she is initially '''furious''' with Ren for raping her brother but cools a little as he tries to explain.

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* In ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'', which is in many ways a RomanceNovel with [[StereotypeFlip gender roles reversed]], not-yet-16-year-old Jerin Whistler is seduced by Princess Ren, who [[EatingTheEyeCandy feels him up]] despite his inarticulate protests and stated a desire to [[VirginTension remain pure]]. She takes his arousal as more important than what he's saying; he even wonders how much force he can use to get away from a princess without getting in trouble, but soon rationalizes that this might be his only chance to be intimate with someone who's not a Brindle and participates happily. He says no and she backs off while he's still a TechnicalVirgin. When his sister learns about this she is initially '''furious''' with Ren for raping her brother but cools a little as he tries to explain.



** Lampshaded in ''Proven Guilty'', when (in response to Molly explicitly trying to seduce him) Harry rejects her on the grounds that she's underage and recently had a very traumatic experience ([[spoiler:being kidnapped and tortured by the Fae]]). Molly insisted that neither of these were relevant, but later concedes he was right to stop her.[[note]]Which doesn't stop the fandom arguing whether or not a relationship between the two would be ethical ''at present''.[[/note]]

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** Lampshaded in ''Proven Guilty'', when (in response to Molly explicitly trying to seduce him) Harry rejects her on the grounds that she's underage and recently had a very traumatic experience ([[spoiler:being kidnapped and tortured by the Fae]]). Molly insisted that neither of these were was relevant, but later concedes he was right to stop her.[[note]]Which doesn't stop the fandom arguing whether or not a relationship between the two would be ethical ''at present''.[[/note]]



* ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGrey'': Ana is told that being Christian's sub is up to her, and that she can negotiate the terms of their contract if she wishes. When she sends him an e-mail, joking that she wants their deal to be off (before she even signed the contract), Grey goes to her apartment, ties her to the bed, and rapes her until she changes her mind. Whenever she tries to renegotiate anything of the contract, he tries to talk her out of it.
* Rampant throughout ''Literature/TheHungerGames'', where District teenagers have the option to 'choose' the Games (by stepping in for another or increasing their chances in the lottery), but for those in the poorer Districts it is by no means a free choice.

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* ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGrey'': Ana is told that being Christian's sub is up to her, her and that she can negotiate the terms of their contract if she wishes. When she sends him an e-mail, joking that she wants their deal to be off (before she even signed the contract), Grey goes to her apartment, ties her to the bed, and rapes her until she changes her mind. Whenever she tries to renegotiate anything of the contract, he tries to talk her out of it.
* Rampant throughout ''Literature/TheHungerGames'', where District teenagers have the option to 'choose' the Games (by stepping in for another or increasing their chances in the lottery), but for those in the poorer Districts Districts, it is by no means a free choice.



** Daenerys is part of an ArrangedMarriage with barbarian warlord Khal Drogo. On their wedding night, Drogo seeks her consent and she does verbally give it, but it's still problematic for a few reasons. She's 13, and he's his 20s. It's not clear that he would have accepted a "no" had she given one. And even if ''he'' would have, her brother and (abusive) guardian since infancy, Viserys, makes it very clear that Daenerys would face terrible consequences for failing to please Drogo. After their wedding night, Drogo--who hails from a culture in which MaritalRapeLicense is the standard--does not bother even going through the motions of seeking consent, and does rape her several times.

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** Daenerys is part of an ArrangedMarriage with barbarian warlord Khal Drogo. On their wedding night, Drogo seeks her consent and she does verbally give it, but it's still problematic for a few reasons. She's 13, and he's his 20s. It's not clear that he would have accepted a "no" had she given one. And even if ''he'' would have, her brother and (abusive) guardian since infancy, Viserys, makes it very clear that Daenerys would face terrible consequences for failing to please Drogo. After their wedding night, Drogo--who Drogo -- who hails from a culture in which MaritalRapeLicense is the standard--does standard -- does not bother even going through the motions of seeking consent, consent and does rape her several times.



* The Actives of the ''Series/{{Dollhouse}}'' all technically volunteered to allow their bodies to be imprinted with artificially designed personalities to be rented out for five years, with signed contracts to prove it. However, the volunteers range from an otherwise mentally sound veteran looking for a cure for his PTSD in exchange for work at the Dollhouse, to convicts promised a shortened prison sentence or newly accused criminals facing jail, to a paranoid schizophrenic [[spoiler:who was actually being drugged by a jealous stalker to induce her mental illness]]. The circumstances meant that the people had little choice but to consent and that some of them might not be considered mentally fit to consent at all, making the voluntary nature of the Actives dubious. Even more than that, the very concept of giving a consent to ''literally everything for five years in advance with no possibility of retraction'' seems highly questionable in itself, looking suspiciously like slavery.

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* The Actives of the ''Series/{{Dollhouse}}'' all technically volunteered to allow their bodies to be imprinted with artificially designed personalities to be rented out for five years, with signed contracts to prove it. However, the volunteers range from an otherwise mentally sound veteran looking for a cure for his PTSD in exchange for work at the Dollhouse, Dollhouse to convicts promised a shortened prison sentence or newly accused criminals facing jail, to a paranoid schizophrenic [[spoiler:who was actually being drugged by a jealous stalker to induce her mental illness]]. The circumstances meant that the people had little choice but to consent and that some of them might not be considered mentally fit to consent at all, making the voluntary nature of the Actives dubious. Even more than that, the very concept of giving a consent to ''literally everything for five years in advance with no possibility of retraction'' seems highly questionable in itself, looking suspiciously like slavery.



* Oh ''Series/{{Glee}}'' and Quinn's pregnancy arc. It was already implied that Quinn's sexual encounter with Puck might not have been what she wanted, since she told him she only did so "because she was drunk and feeling fat that day". But then a flashback at the end of Season One reveals that [[spoiler:she ''explicitly'' told Puck that she didn't want to have sex, but he turned her around by telling her that all her friends in the chastity club have had sex with him, she'll be forgotten by all of them in three years anyway, and then he lies about having protection. Not to mention the scene implies [[ButLiquorIsQuicker he's deliberately getting her drunk on wine coolers ]]]]. And to top it off, [[FridgeHorror it's all]] PlayedForLaughs.

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* Oh ''Series/{{Glee}}'' and Quinn's pregnancy arc. It was already implied that Quinn's sexual encounter with Puck might not have been what she wanted, wanted since she told him she only did so "because she was drunk and feeling fat that day". But then a flashback at the end of Season One reveals that [[spoiler:she ''explicitly'' told Puck that she didn't want to have sex, but he turned her around by telling her that all her friends in the chastity club have had sex with him, she'll be forgotten by all of them in three years anyway, and then he lies about having protection. Not to mention the scene implies [[ButLiquorIsQuicker he's deliberately getting her drunk on wine coolers ]]]]. And to top it off, [[FridgeHorror it's all]] PlayedForLaughs.



* One episode of ''Series/{{House}}'' had Cameron get high and booty call Chase. He briefly asks whether this is right and Cameron admonishes him not to be a good guy. When they discuss this later there is no talk of consent. But Cameron does get mad at the patient-of-the-week for telling her that this kind of thing will make you happy, when "self-destructive" would be more accurate.

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* One episode of ''Series/{{House}}'' had Cameron get high and booty call Chase. He briefly asks whether this is right and Cameron admonishes him not to be a good guy. When they discuss this later there is no talk of consent. But Cameron does get mad at the patient-of-the-week for telling her that this kind of thing will make you happy, happy when "self-destructive" would be more accurate.



** Angelic possession in general can be considered a form of this, as angels require humans' permission to possess them, but it's clear that the vessels are not always fully informed about what exactly the possession entails, and it's ''not'' clear exactly what sort of liberties possessees anticipate angels will take with their bodies. In a season five episode, Castiel considers having sex [[spoiler:(although ultimately doesn't)]], but makes no mention whatsoever of his vessel Jimmy's opinion on the matter. Apparently Castiel's interpretation of Jimmy's permission is that he has been given complete autonomy to do whatever he pleases while within Jimmy's body, but Jimmy is a married man and it's not known if he would agree to his body being used for sex. Although Castiel spent what appears to be a couple of days discussing the possibility of being a vessel with Jimmy before permission was given - it may be that he spelled out his possession would give him the right to do ''anything'' while in control. Angels can also torture people (quite horrifically) until they give consent, so that also raises questions.

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** Angelic possession possession, in general general, can be considered a form of this, as angels require humans' permission to possess them, but it's clear that the vessels are not always fully informed about what exactly the possession entails, and it's ''not'' clear exactly what sort of liberties possessees anticipate angels will take with their bodies. In a season five episode, Castiel considers having sex [[spoiler:(although ultimately doesn't)]], but makes no mention whatsoever of his vessel Jimmy's opinion on the matter. Apparently Apparently, Castiel's interpretation of Jimmy's permission is that he has been given complete autonomy to do whatever he pleases while within Jimmy's body, but Jimmy is a married man and it's not known if he would agree to his body being used for sex. Although Castiel spent what appears to be a couple of days discussing the possibility of being a vessel with Jimmy before permission was given - it may be that he spelled out his possession would give him the right to do ''anything'' while in control. Angels can also torture people (quite horrifically) until they give consent, so that also raises questions.



-->"So itís not actually a song about rape - in fact itís a song about a woman finding a way to exercise sexual agency in a patriarchal society designed to stop her from doing so. But itís also, at the same time, one of the best illustrations of rape culture that pop culture has ever produced. Itís a song about a society where women arenít allowed to say yesÖwhich happens to mean itís also a society where women donít have a clear and unambiguous way to say no."

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-->"So itís not actually a song about rape - in fact fact, itís a song about a woman finding a way to exercise sexual agency in a patriarchal society designed to stop her from doing so. But itís also, at the same time, one of the best illustrations of rape culture that pop culture has ever produced. Itís a song about a society where women arenít allowed to say yesÖwhich happens to mean itís also a society where women donít have a clear and unambiguous way to say no."



** Thetis is a sea nymph who originally tries to escape marrying Peleus by VoluntaryShapeshifting. He overcomes this by holding on to each form and refusing to let go, until finally she agrees to marry him. How happy this marriage turns out is DependingOnTheWriter.
** Helen is married to another man, when Paris carries her off to Troy. It's unclear whether she goes off with him due to force, MindControl, or of her own free will.

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** Thetis is a sea nymph who originally tries to escape marrying Peleus by VoluntaryShapeshifting. He overcomes this by holding on to each form and refusing to let go, go until finally finally, she agrees to marry him. How happy this marriage turns out is DependingOnTheWriter.
** Helen is married to another man, man when Paris carries her off to Troy. It's unclear whether she goes off with him due to force, MindControl, or of her own free will.



* ''Literature/TheOdyssey'': Odysseus' extramarital relations with Circe and Calypso have shades of this. He became Circe's bed-mate because that was one of the conditions she demanded in exchange for helping him get back home. He became Calypso's partner because he was stranded on her island, and saying no to a deity is usually a pretty bad idea. In his heart he was always devoted to his wife Penelope.

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* ''Literature/TheOdyssey'': Odysseus' extramarital relations with Circe and Calypso have shades of this. He became Circe's bed-mate because that was one of the conditions she demanded in exchange for helping him get back home. He became Calypso's partner because he was stranded on her island, and saying no to a deity is usually a pretty bad idea. In his heart heart, he was always devoted to his wife Penelope.



* Three years ago in ''Fanfic/PromisesKept'', Glinda had sex with Fiyero while on a date but she regretted it even during the act. When Elphaba asks Glinda if Fiyero forced himself on her, Glinda declines. Glinda mentions that she had wanted to stop it, but she felt she was too far-gone to do so.

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* Three years ago in ''Fanfic/PromisesKept'', Glinda had sex with Fiyero while on a date but she regretted it even during the act. When Elphaba asks Glinda if Fiyero forced himself on her, Glinda declines. Glinda mentions that she had wanted to stop it, but she felt she was too far-gone far gone to do so.



* In ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'', Barney's numerous conquests are based largely on deception. Of the over two hundred women he's slept with, he has bedded three (Quinn, Nora and Robin) by being himself. All of Barney's sexual partners consented, but almost none consented with a full understanding of who he was and what his intentions were. Also, given that most of the women he has sex with are shown to be comically unintelligent and gullible, and some appear to be mentally unstable, he is clearly taking advantage of them, even if he isn't coercing them into sex.

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* In ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'', Barney's numerous conquests are based largely on deception. Of the over two hundred women he's slept with, he has bedded three (Quinn, Nora Nora, and Robin) by being himself. All of Barney's sexual partners consented, but almost none consented with a full understanding of who he was and what his intentions were. Also, given that most of the women he has sex with are shown to be comically unintelligent and gullible, and some appear to be mentally unstable, he is clearly taking advantage of them, even if he isn't coercing them into sex.



** In Hanako Ikezawa's route: After Hanako and Hisao have [[FanDisservice very awkward]] [[TheirFirstTime first-time sex]], it occurs to him that while she didn't say "no", she didn't say "yes" either. Between that and her [[ShrinkingViolet very meek personality]], he fears that she may have just gone along with it because she was afraid to say no, and gets the idea that that he might have raped her because he misinterpreted her feelings. However, it's a subversion. Hanako later explains that she wanted to have sex with him — although she didn't manage to express it properly because of her anxiety — and what they did was actually consensual the whole time. Furthermore, if you rewatch that scene, Hisao asks her permission before each activity he initiates, and she gives him some kind of implicit or nonverbal consent each time. It also becomes clear that Hanako deliberately brought Hisao to her room [[SexAsARiteOfPassage for that purpose]]. It just happened that neither of them was really ready for it.

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** In Hanako Ikezawa's route: After Hanako and Hisao have [[FanDisservice very awkward]] [[TheirFirstTime first-time sex]], it occurs to him that while she didn't say "no", she didn't say "yes" either. Between that and her [[ShrinkingViolet very meek personality]], he fears that she may have just gone along with it because she was afraid to say no, and gets the idea that that he might have raped her because he misinterpreted her feelings. However, it's a subversion. Hanako later explains that she wanted to have sex with him — although she didn't manage to express it properly because of her anxiety — and what they did was actually consensual the whole time. Furthermore, if you rewatch that scene, Hisao asks her permission before each activity he initiates, and she gives him some kind of implicit or nonverbal consent each time. It also becomes clear that Hanako deliberately brought Hisao to her room [[SexAsARiteOfPassage for that purpose]]. It just happened that neither of them was really ready for it.


* In ''Fanfic/{{Severance}}'', it's vague whether Ash was a OneNightStandPregnancy, a ChildByRape, or an affair. Delia mentions that Giovanni "had his way with her" with her, which sounds aggressive but could also mean that he just ignored her afterwards.



* Three years ago in ''Fanfic/PromisesKept'', Glinda had sex with Fiyero while on a date. She regretted it even during the act. Elphaba asks Glinda if Fiyero forced himself on her, which Glinda declines. Glinda mentions that she had wanted to stop it, but she felt she was too far-gone to do so.

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* Three years ago in ''Fanfic/PromisesKept'', Glinda had sex with Fiyero while on a date. She date but she regretted it even during the act. When Elphaba asks Glinda if Fiyero forced himself on her, which Glinda declines. Glinda mentions that she had wanted to stop it, but she felt she was too far-gone to do so.



* Dragon-aligned characters in ''VideoGame/TheSecretWorld'' are, after a kidnapping by a mute monk and an infodump by an ex-professor, brought up to a hotel room and receive oral sex from a woman, [[LesYay regardless of gender]] and [[HeroicMime without your character saying a word]]. Not only does the orgasm lead to a {{flashback}} to someone else's memories of a Filth attack in London, which isn't terribly sexy, it's also uncomfortably rapey. Given that the Dragon's philosophy, that may even be the point.

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* Dragon-aligned characters in ''VideoGame/TheSecretWorld'' are, after a kidnapping by a mute monk and an infodump by an ex-professor, brought up to a hotel room and receive oral sex from a woman, [[LesYay regardless of gender]] gender and [[HeroicMime without your character saying a word]]. Not only does the orgasm lead to a {{flashback}} to someone else's memories of a Filth attack in London, which isn't terribly sexy, it's also uncomfortably rapey. Given that the Dragon's philosophy, that may even be the point.

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* Extensively played with and deconstructed in ''FanFic/CabinFeverPartingShot'', including one example of [[ADateWithRosiePalms self-performed masturbation]]:
** [[spoiler:Bert]] has sex with [[spoiler:Karen]] while she is extremely drunk. Though she is conscious and is presumed to have consented, all indications are that she never would've done so had she been sober.
** Zigzagged when [[spoiler:Bert]] attempts to have sex with [[spoiler:Marcy]]. Although ultimately she decides to reject him, for a brief moment [[NotIfTheyEnjoyedItRationalization she feels a little excited by his foreplay and considers allowing him to have his way with her]]. It would've been a case of Questionable Consent if she had, as his advances were completely uninvited.
** [[spoiler:Both Jeff and Bert]] try - and fail - to secure a good time with [[spoiler:Marcy]] under these circumstances, by pressuring her to reluctantly agree to [[spoiler:be the grand prize of their shooting contest]].
** [[spoiler:Marcy]] does this to [[spoiler:Paul]] when she suddenly decides to follow through on what was ostensibly a mock-attempt to win her favors, by initiating a real sexual encounter with him. [[spoiler:Paul]] is clearly stunned when the farce becomes real; he has stumbled in to a situation that has slipped out of his control. Though he ultimately becomes a willing participant.
** The aforementioned masturbation scene: [[spoiler:Marcy]] grudgingly allows [[spoiler:Bert]] to watch her having sex with [[spoiler:Paul]] (in accordance with an agreement they made), but expressly forbids him from masturbating to the spectacle. But he masturbates anyway. Brings up all sorts of intriguing questions about whether a third party can grant or deny consent for a person to service their own body.
** Deconstructed and ultimately averted by [[spoiler:Paul]] as he lays in bed with [[spoiler:Marcy]] after they've had sex. [[spoiler:Paul]] is eager for an encore round, but as [[spoiler:Marcy]] is now fast asleep, she can't formally consent. [[spoiler:Paul]] debates whether her consent for the sex they'd just had can be carried forward for a second round. Ultimately he decides it would be disrespectful to have sex with her while she slept and so he doesn't.

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* ''Webcomic/HashtagBlessed'': Joanna "consented" to taking part in an ancient prophecy involving choosing one of seven gods to impregnate her, simply by swiping right on a weird profile in a dating app. Should have read the EULA first. That being said, after the contract itself is set in stone, she has full authority on how the dating works and how she will choose. Furthermore, the gods didn't even get a theoretical option to consent--they were all simply chosen by fate and informed that if the contract was broken, everyone involved would die.

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