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* ''Webcomic/SandraOnTheRocks'': As far as [[StraightGay Lavali's]] concerned, she has no hope of ever being [[EvilIsSexy with Eva]], even though she hit on Lavali and [[http://www.sandraontherocks.com/strips-sotr/scribbling_on_my_hand gave her her phone number.]] This is the reason she said she couldn't muster the nerve to call her:

One literary term for this type of character -- the girl who is too perfect to be obtained -- is the ''princesse lointaine''.[[note:note]]French for "faraway princess".[[/note]]

If there are class distinctions -- as there often are -- she is of a higher social rank than he. [[UptownGirl She comes from money]] [[BlueBlood and peerage]], and even if she's not the WorldsMostBeautifulWoman, she's probably [[InformedAttractiveness treated as such]] (with all the [[AttractivenessIsolation loneliness this implies]].) To top it all off, [[HerosMuse she's a paragon of virtue]] despite growing up with enough wealth to corrupt a saint. Her mere existence motivates the hero to great deeds: either to prove himself to her or to defend her honor or reputation, thus becoming [[TheChampion her Champion]].

One literary term for this type of character -- the girl who is too perfect to be obtained -- is the ''princesse lointaine''.[[labelnote:note]]French for "faraway princess"[[/labelnote]]

* ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'': Rias Gremory is seen as this by Issei Hyoudou. While it's very clear the two are in love with each other, Issei one-sidedly decided she was out of his league, since she's a beautiful top-ranked devil, and figured that she deserved someone better than a hopeless pervert like him. This becomes a problem as the series goes on since Rias wants to take their mutual feelings to the next level, but Issei is still treating their relationship as master-servant. It reaches its peak in Volume 10 when Issei claims Rias is his master and nothing else before the rest of the Club spells out the problem for Issei.

* ''LightNovel/ReZero'': From the moment Subaru met Emilia, he saw her as his ultimate dream girl and felt the need to fight for her to prove himself. It gets deconstructed when Subaru self-proclaims himself as her knight and disgraces her before all those present in the royal elections, attacking anyone who voices even the slightest negative opinion about her. Moreover, later during their quarrel, Emilia directly quotes this trope and accuses Subaru of idealizing her in his mind. Emilia also voices her disappointment with Subaru's behavior towards her, saying what she wanted was to be treated like a normal person. They sort it out later, with Subaru promising to try and start thinking of Emilia as a person even if he will still treat her like someone special to him.
* ''LightNovel/{{Shimoneta}}'': Initially, Anna is perceived to be the perfect girl and a model student by her peers and Tanukichi, who secretly nursed a crush on her. That changes after a single accidental kiss awakens her long-repressed hormones, causing Anna to become [[ExtremeLibido a horny]], [[TheJuggernaut nigh-unstoppable]] stalker. It shatters Tanukichi's ideal image of her and leaves him terrified.

In some works, a hero, possibly a KnightInShiningArmor, falls for a woman because she is perfect -- ''too'' perfect; flawless to the point where he could never actually be with her. Some knights, indeed, fall in love with a mere [[LoveBeforeFirstSight description of this lovely lady]], and find the ''idea'' of her to be motivation enough.

Contrast GirlNextDoor. See also CourtlyLove, SingleGirlSeeksMostPopularGuy (which applies more to high school settings) and GirlNextDoorTurnedSuperstar. Compare AttractivenessIsolation, which is often related. Often leads to LovingAShadow; may lead to SingleTargetSexuality and UnrequitedLoveLastsForever.

* Griffith from ''Manga/{{Berserk}}'' has shades of this, being not only a FatherToHisMen but an [[LongHairedPrettyBoy incredibly beautiful man]] in an otherwise gritty setting. His lieutenants [[TheProtagonist Guts]] and [[TheSquadette Casca]] are both implied to have feelings for him but see him as too perfect to approach, and end up falling for each other instead. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said of [[TheSociopath Griffith]]'s feelings [[{{Yandere}} for his lieutenants]]. When Guts overhears Griffith claim that his only friends are those he sees as equals, he temporarily quits Griffith's service and leaves on a journey to find himself; to say Griffith takes this poorly would be a [[MoralEventHorizon massive understatement]].

* ''Manga/DestinyOfTheShrineMaiden'' has a lesbian example. Chikane is such a perfect girl that even having the courage to propose to her elevates you above the other students. The main character, Himeko, is absolutely smitten by her and believes that she's living the dream when (due to one thing and another) she begins living with her. [[spoiler:{{Deconstructed}} -- crazy things happen and in the end, Chikane is revealed to be neither angel nor devil but just a girl the same age as Himeko]]. There's no such thing as a peerless lover.

** In the prequel trilogy, it's implied that Padmé Amidala a bit of one to Anakin Skywalker. Upon first meeting her at the age of [[PrecociousCrush nine,]] he asks if she's an angel, said to be "[[WorldsMostBeautifulWoman the most beautiful creatures in the universe]]" and gives her a [[GoodLuckCharm hand-made charm]] to remember him by. Anakin [[SingleTargetSexuality never stopped thinking of Padmé]] despite not seeing her for ten years, is incredibly nervous about seeing her again and straight-up tells her she's [[ShesAllGrownUp grown more beautiful than ever.]] He is [[DevotedToYou devoted to protecting her]] and says [[TheChampion he will do anything she asks]]. It's played with, though, as Anakin actually ''does'' try [[DoggedNiceGuy to win her heart]] (and succeeds); he also spends enough time with Padmé that he gets to know the real her...and if anything, it makes him love her ''more''.
* In ''Film/{{Titanic 1997}}'', poor artist and drifter Jack is told "Ah, forget it, boyo. You're as like to have angels fly out your arse as get next to the likes of her" in regards to Rose, a beautiful upper-class passenger. However, it turns out Rose is a SpiritedYoungLady who would much rather be with the penniless but kind and free-spirited Jack, than her snobby and callous fiance Cal. She despises her stifling and close-minded upper-class lifestyle, with Jack encouraging her to try new things and let her hair down. By the midway point, Rose tells Jack she wants to run away with him once the ship reaches New York. Unfortunately, an iceberg nixes that plan, although Jack does everything he can to keep Rose alive, [[spoiler: even sacrificing himself for her and urging her to survive and live the life she always dreamed about]].

** The title character starts out as this for Ginny Weasley, in a rare male example. She develops a massive crush on him at the age of ten/eleven. He's famous in the Wizarding World as being the one who stopped Lord Voldemort when he was just a baby, is a talented Quidditch player, and stops Voldemort a second time in the first book. And then he only goes and ''saves Ginny's life'' in the second book. This is deconstructed and then subsequently reconstructed; Ginny is so awed by Harry she can barely ''speak'' to him and is extremely shy and awkward around him, while he's all but oblivious and is more interested in Cho Chang once he starts noticing girls. Hermione suggests that Ginny try to relax more and [[BeYourself just be herself]]; she also recommends she date other people instead of just waiting for Harry to notice her and see how that turns out. Subsequently, Ginny stops pining for Harry so much and becomes more [[GrewASpine confident]] and [[TookALevelInBadass assertive]], which Harry admires. In his sixth year, Harry finally falls for Ginny and they eventually begin dating; she admits she never truly gave up hope he'd return her affections, while as far as her brother and Harry's best friend Ron is concerned, Harry's the only boy 'worthy' of his sister. By the end of the series, [[spoiler: Harry and Ginny are [[HappilyMarried married]] with [[BabiesEverAfter three kids]]]].
** It's revealed that Lily Potter was this for [[spoiler: Severus Snape]]. He loved her ever since they were children, especially as she was one of the only people to ever [[BecauseYouWereNiceToMe treat him kindly]], but was never able to tell her how he felt. She was also considered way out of his league; she was beautiful, popular, a prefect, Head Girl and came from a loving middle-class family; [[spoiler: Snape]] was not especially attractive, came from a poor and abusive family, and his only friends besides her were bullies and Death Eater wannabes. [[spoiler: Snape]] ruined any chance of them ever being together when [[spoiler: Lily tried to defend him from the Marauders and in a fit of humiliation and anger, he called her a [[FantasticSlur Mudblood]] (which was very much the final straw for Lily, who disapproved of the company Snape kept)]]. Lily went on to marry James Potter, but [[spoiler: Snape]] never stopped loving Lily. It's telling that even though he joined the Death Eaters for a short time, he still loved Muggleborn Lily despite their pureblood supremacist beliefs, enough to betray Voldemort when he learned he intended to kill her. After her death, [[spoiler: Snape]] spent over a decade protecting her son and acting as a spy for Dumbledore to ensure her sacrifice wasn't in vain. Even Dumbledore was surprised to learn he still loved Lily after all this time, enough that his Patronus took the same form as her's. If you re-read the series, you'll notice that while [[spoiler: Snape]] regularly [[SpeakIllOfTheDead trash-talks]] Harry's father, he never says a word against his mother.

* ''LightNovel/ReZero'': From the moment Subaru met Emilia, he saw her as his ultimate dream girl and felt the need to fight for her to prove himself. It gets deconstructed when Subaru self-proclaims himself as her knight and disgraces her before all those present in the royal elections, attacking anyone who voices even the slightest negative opinion about her. Moreover, later during their quarrel, Emilia directly quotes this trope and accuses Subaru of idealizing her in his mind. Emilia also voices her disappointment of Subaru's behavior towards her, saying what she wanted was to be treated like a normal person. They sort it out later, with Subaru promising to try and start thinking of Emilia as a person even if he will still treat her like someone special to him.

** It's strongly indicated Lyanna Stark was this to Robert Baratheon, as in [[Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire the books.]] He [[TheMourningAfter never got over her death]] and states she was "the one thing I ever wanted" and that "seven kingdoms couldn't fill the hole she left behind". Not even his wife Cersei Lannister, who at the time of their marriage was said to be the WorldsMostBeautifulWoman, could compare as far as Robert was concerned; none of the numerous other women he sleeps with can hold a candle to Lyanna, either. It's implied (outright stated in the books) that Robert had an overly idealistic view of Lyanna and [[LovingAShadow didn't truly know the real her]] – such as when he complains to Ned that she should've been buried somewhere she could see the sky instead of the crypt at Winterfell, only for Ned to remark that she's a Stark and belongs there with her family. It's eventually revealed that [[spoiler: Lyanna [[AllLoveIsUnrequited never returned Robert's affections]] and eloped with Rhaegar Targaryen instead; she was even convinced Robert [[WouldHurtAChild would've murdered her newborn son]] simply because of who his father was]].
** Daenerys Targaryen manages to be this to ''multiple'' people. Ser Jorah Mormont is head-over-heels for her and is one of her oldest and most devoted followers. He knows he has no chance with her, but he remains by her side nevertheless, wanting more than anything to see her on the Iron Throne. Even when she banishes him, he goes to extraordinary lengths to get back to her and is even willing to risk death fighting in gladiator games just so he can be near her. Although she doesn't return his love, Daenerys is deeply touched by his loyalty and regards him as a dear friend. Daario Naharis is also besotted with her, although he is far more forward about his feelings than Jorah. He is willing to screw over his commanders to take control of the Second Sons, bring them over to her side, and pledge his sword, life, and heart to her just days after they met out of infatuation and admiration for her. He is willing to do anything she asks, even vowing to kill her enemies anywhere in the world. When [[spoiler: she breaks things off with him]], he laments that no one else could ever compare to the Mother of Dragons and willingly (albeit grudgingly) [[spoiler: remains in Meereen to keep the peace]] at her command.

* This happens all the time in the ''TabletopGame/{{Pendragon}}'' game. The rules actually force knights to fall in love with (develop a Passion/Amor for) women, usually higher class noblewomen of the setting. One of the most common targets was Queen Guenever (sic).

* Kotonoha Katsura from ''VisualNovel/SchoolDays'' starts like this. The guys at her school either look at her from afar or [[BuxomBeautyStandard ogle her buxom figure]] without actually asking her for a date, since not only she's considered to be [[CuteBookworm beautiful and smart]] but also comes [[TheOjou from a millionaire family]]. (In the meantime, almost all the girls either ignore or bully her [[AttractivenessIsolation out of jealousy and envy]].) Makoto Itou is the first guy who ''ever'' asks her out, and he himself had also been also liking her from afar at first.

* Kotonoha Katsura from ''VisualNovel/SchoolDays'' starts like this. The guys at her school either look at her from afar or ogle her GagBoobs without actually asking her for a date, since not only she's considered to be [[CuteBookworm beautiful and smart]] but also comes [[TheOjou from a millionaire family]]. (In the meantime, almost all the girls either ignore or bully her [[AttractivenessIsolation out of jealousy and envy]].) Makoto Itou is the first guy who ''ever'' asks her out, and he himself had also been also liking her from afar at first.

* ''Manga/MakenKi'': Usui falls for [[ElegantGothicLolita Himegami]], who's considered to be [[HeadTurningBeauty one of the hottest girls]] at Tenbi Academy. Which made his chances of hooking up with her seem unlikely to begin with; becoming much less likely once he and the others learn she's [[spoiler: the daughter of Yamato no Orochi]]. Meaning, she's both [[BlueBlood royalty]] ''and'' [[spoiler: a demi-goddess]]! But she [[{{Subverted}} subverts it]] near the end of chapter 65, when she tells him [[http://www.mangatown.com/manga/maken_ki/c065/21.html she's not above him]] and finally provides him with [[http://www.mangatown.com/manga/maken_ki/c065/22.html a faint glimmer]] [[http://www.mangatown.com/manga/maken_ki/c065/23.html of hope.]]
* Griffith from ''Manga/{{Berserk}}'' has shades of this, being not only a FatherToHisMen but an [[LongHairedPrettyBoy incredibly beautiful man]] in an otherwise gritty setting. His lieutenants [[TheProtagonist Guts]] and [[TheSquadette Casca]] are both implied to have feelings for him but see him as too perfect to approach, and end up falling for each other instead. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said of [[TheSociopath Griffith]]'s feelings [[{{Yandere}} for his lieutenants]]. When Guts overhears Griffith claim that his only friends are those he sees as equals, he temporarily quits Griffith's service and leaves on a journey to find himself; to say Griffith takes this poorly would be a [[MoralEventHorizon massive understatement]].
* ''LightNovel/{{Shimoneta}}'': Initially, Anna is perceived to be the perfect girl and a model student by her peers and Tanukichi, who secretly nursed a crush on her. That changes after a single accidental kiss awakens her long-repressed hormones, causing Anna to become [[ExtremeLibido a horny]], [[TheJuggernaut nigh-unstoppable]] stalker. It shatters Tanukichi's ideal image of her and leaves him terrified.
* ''LightNovel/ReZero'': From the moment Subaru met Emilia, he saw her as his ultimate dream girl and felt the need to fight for her to prove himself. It gets deconstructed when Subaru self-proclaims himself as her knight and disgraces her before all those present in the royal elections, attacking anyone who voices even the slightest negative opinion about her. Moreover, later during their quarrel, Emilia directly quotes this trope and accuses Subaru of idealizing her in his mind. Emilia also voices her disappointment of Subaru's behavior towards her, saying what she wanted was to be treated like a normal person. They sort it out later, with Subaru promising to try and start thinking of Emilia as a person even if he will still treat her like someone special to him.
* ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'': Rias Gremory is seen as this by Issei Hyoudou. While it's very clear the two are in love with each other, Issei one-sidedly decided she was out of his league, since she's a beautiful top-ranked devil, and figured that she deserved someone better than a hopeless pervert like him. This becomes a problem as the series goes on since Rias wants to take their mutual feelings to the next level, but Issei is still treating their relationship as master-servant. It reaches its peak in Volume 10 when Issei claims Rias is his master and nothing else before the rest of the Club spells out the problem for Issei.
* ''Anime/Danganronpa3'': Hajime Hinata, a talentless Reserve Course student, can’t understand why an Ultimate like Chiaki Nanami would want to hang out with him. Chiaki reassures him that his lack of talent doesn’t matter and she just has fun playing video games with him, but Hajime’s feelings stay the same. Wanting to be seen as her equal, and therefore worthy of being with her, ends up [[spoiler:being one of Hajime’s primary reasons to partake in the Izuru Kamukura Project.]]

* In ''[[Film/AKnightsTale A Knight's Tale]]'' the peasant William falls in love with the noble lady Jocelyn.

* In ''Film/{{Titanic 1997}}'', poor artist and drifter Jack is told "Ah, forget it, boyo. You're as like to have angels fly out your arse as get next to the likes of her" in regards to Rose, a beautiful upper-class passenger. However, it turns out Rose is a SpiritedYoungLady who would much rather be with the penniless but kind and free-spirited Jack, than her snobby and callous fiance Cal. She despises her stifling and close-minded upper-class lifestyle, with Jack encouraging her to try new things and let her hair down. By the midway point, Rose tells Jack she wants to run away with him once the ship reaches New York. Unfortunately, an iceberg nixes that plan, although Jack does everything he can to keep Rose alive, [[spoiler: even sacrificing himself for her and urging her to survive and live the life she always dreamed about]].

* In another ChivalricRomance, ''Sir Degravant'', Degravant, persecuted by his neighbor, falls in love with the man's daughter and risks himself on a venture to his enemy's lands, where he catches a glimpse of her and has to fight free. Later he wins TheTourney [[StandardHeroReward in which her hand is the prize.]]
* ''Literature/TheKharkanasTrilogy'':
** Invoked with Lady Hish Tulla, who is one for both Anomander Rake and Silchas Ruin. They consider her the WorldsMostBeautifulWoman and thus, even though both have scored first base before, they still see her as unreachable and virtuous and only to be worshiped from afar.
** Dragged through the mud and deconstructed with Enesdia. Her betrothed Andarist has delusions about her IncorruptiblePurePureness. Her brother Kadaspala has an unhealthy obsession -- though not of a romantic nature -- with how pure and virtuous she is and considers her impending marriage to be detrimental to those qualities. Others consider her vain and spoiled. She is none of these extremes and the only one who sees that -- Cryl Durav -- thinks she only considers him her adopted brother and is unreachable for him for other reasons.
* Lyanna Stark to Robert Baratheon in ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'', to the point that he fought in a rebellion (partly) in order to rescue her. After Lyanna died, Robert became a broken man, bitter over having to marry someone else. When Robert grumbles that Lyanna would have let him do what he wanted to if he had married her, Ned (Lyanna's brother) comments that Robert only saw Lyanna's beauty, not her personality.

* Essentially how Dan Humphrey falls in love with Serena van der Woodsen on ''Literature/GossipGirl''. Many of their problems as a couple arise from the fact that she can't possibly live up to the image of her he's created in his mind.

* In ''VideoGame/HorizonZeroDawn'' poor Varl is perpetually in this place with respect to Aloy. Whether she is an outcast or "Anointed", there's always a gap between her and the tribe that cannot be bridged. She's a bit like Joan of Arc was- there's too much religious awe there to see her as a normal person.

* This was Creator/RalphHayesJr's intention for Lily in ''Under the Lemon Tree''. [[http://www.rhjunior.com/under-the-lemon-tree-0029/ Didn't work.]] Utterly forgotten by ''Webcomic/GoblinHollow.''
* In ''Webcomic/{{Oglaf}}'', a young woman who [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor wishes for beauty]] turns into a GaussianGirl who is also this -- too beautiful for any man to dare court her.

* ''Anime/Danganronpa3'': Hajime Hinata, a talentless Reserve Course student, can’t understand why an Ultimate like Chiaki Nanami would want to hang out him. Chiaki reassures him that his lack of talent doesn’t matter and she just has fun playing video games with him, but Hajime’s feelings stay the same. Wanting to be seen as her equal, and therefore worthy of being with her, ends up [[spoiler:being one of Hajime’s primary reasons to partake in the Izuru Kamukura Project.]]

Contrast GirlNextDoor. See also CourtlyLove and SingleGirlSeeksMostPopularGuy (which applies more to high school settings). Compare AttractivenessIsolation, which is often related. Often leads to LovingAShadow; may lead to SingleTargetSexuality and UnrequitedLoveLastsForever.

* ''LightNovel/{{Shimoneta}}'': Initially, Anna is perceived to be the perfect girl and a model student by her peers and Tanukichi, who secretly nursed a crush on her. That changes after a single accidental kiss awaken her long-repressed hormones, causing Anna to become [[ExtremeLibido a horny]], [[TheJuggernaut nigh-unstoppable]] stalker. It shatters Tanukichi's ideal image of her and leaves him terrified.

* ''Manga/DestinyOfTheShrineMaiden'' has a lesbian example. Chikane is such a perfect girl that even having the courage to propose to her elevates you above the other students. The main character, Himeko, is absolutely smitten by her and believes that she's living the dream when ([[WakeUpGoToSchoolSaveTheWorld due to one thing and another]]) she begins living with her. [[spoiler:{{Deconstructed}} -- crazy things happen and in the end, Chikane is revealed to be neither angel nor devil but just a girl the same age as Himeko]]. There's no such thing as a peerless lover.

* ''LightNovel/{{Shimoneta}}'': Initially, Anna is perceived to be the perfect girl and a model student by her peers and Tanukichi, who secretly nursed a crush on her. That changes after a single accidental kiss awaken her long-repressed hormones, causing Anna to become [[ExtremeLibido a horny]], [[TheJuggernaut nigh unstoppable]] stalker. It shatters Tanukichi's ideal image of her and leaves him terrified.

** Daenerys Targaryen manages to be this to ''multiple'' people. Ser Jorah Mormont is head-over-heels for her and is one of her oldest and most devoted followers. He knows he has no chance with her, but he remains by her side nevertheless, wanting more than anything to see her on the Iron Throne. Even when she banishes him, he goes to extraordinary lengths to get back to her and is even willing to risk death fighting in gladiator games just so he can be near her. Although she doesn't return his love, Daenerys is deeply touched by his loyalty and regards him as a dear friend. Daario Naharis is also besotted with her, although he is far more forward about his feelings than Jorah. He is willing to screw over his commanders to take control of the Second Sons, bring them over to her side and pledge his sword, life, and heart to her just days after they met out of infatuation and admiration for her. He is willing to do anything she asks, even vowing to kill her enemies anywhere in the world. When [[spoiler: she breaks things off with him]], he laments that no one else could ever compare to the Mother of Dragons and willingly (albeit grudgingly) [[spoiler: remains in Meereen to keep the peace]] at her command.

* In ''VideoGame/LovePlus'', Manaka is seen as this by the other students due to her great grades, beautiful looks, amazing tennis skills, [[TheOjou high-standing family]], and overly-polite behaviour. For this reason, no-one really tries to get close to her, causing her some deal of angst and social awkwardness as she isn't sure how to make genuine friends. One background character even says at one point that it's like she lives in a totally different world to everyone else.

* Played with and/or deconstructed over the course of the original ''Franchise/StarWars'' trilogy, vis a vis Han Solo and Princess Leia Organa. In the very first film (''[[Film/ANewHope Episode IV: A New Hope]]''), the pirate mercenary Han, after a heated argument with the recently rescued princess/senator/revolutionary, nevertheless admits feelings for her, and begins to ask farm boy main protagonist Luke Skywalker (who also has romantic designs on her) "You think a princess and a guy like me..." only to be cut off with a very curt and blunt "no". Han and Leia, of course, become romantically entangled over the course of the later movies and eventually marry.

If there are class distinctions -- and there usually are -- she is of a higher social rank than he. [[UptownGirl She comes from money]] [[BlueBlood and peerage]], and even if she's not the WorldsMostBeautifulWoman, she's probably [[InformedAttractiveness treated as such]] (with all the [[AttractivenessIsolation loneliness this implies]].) To top it all off, [[HerosMuse she's a paragon of virtue]] despite growing up with enough wealth to corrupt a saint. Her mere existence motivates the hero to great deeds: either to prove himself to her or to defend her honor or reputation, thus becoming [[TheChampion her Champion]].

* ''Manga/KannazukiNoMiko'' has a lesbian example. Chikane is such a perfect girl that even having the courage to propose to her elevates you above the other students. The main character, Himeko, is absolutely smitten by her and believes that she's living the dream when ([[WakeUpGoToSchoolSaveTheWorld due to one thing and another]]) she begins living with her. [[spoiler:{{Deconstructed}} -- crazy things happen and in the end, Chikane is revealed to be neither angel nor devil but just a girl the same age as Himeko]]. There's no such thing as a peerless lover.

* Jasmine is a deconstructed example to ''WesternAnimation/{{Aladdin}}''. She's a princess while he's a penniless 'street rat'. He doesn't believe she'd ever want to be with someone like him after discovering she's royalty and so wishes to become a prince to be worthy of her. However, Jasmine dislikes stuffy, image-obsessed princes; she genuinely liked Aladdin when he thought she was just another peasant like him and behaved accordingly, hates being treated like a "prize to be won" and rejects 'Prince Ali' until he starts acting more like his usual self. In the end, Jasmine says she loves Aladdin just the way he is and the Sultan ends up changing the law, so that Jasmine can marry whomever she chooses instead of being required to marry a prince.
* In ''WesternAnimation/TheNightmareBeforeChristmas'', Jack Skellington is a rare male example for Sally. She loves him from afar and risks getting in trouble with her creator to sneak out and see Jack. However, she [[CannotSpitItOut can't bring herself to actually tell Jack how she feels]] because [[InsecureLoveInterest she's just a lowly ragdoll]] while he's the Pumpkin King whom everyone adores, which is especially emphasised in "Sally's Song". She does still attempt to warn him when she receives an ominous premonition about his attempts to run Christmas, being the only one to do so, out of concern for him. [[spoiler: Luckily for Sally, in the end Jack approaches ''her'' after she helps save them all at great personal risk, and they end up as a couple]].

** The title character starts out as this for Ginny Weasley, in a rare male example. She develops a massive crush on him at the age of ten/eleven. He's famous in the Wizarding World as being the one who stopped Lord Voldemort when he was just a baby, is a talented Quidditch player and stops Voldemort a second time in the first book. And then he only goes and ''saves Ginny's life'' in the second book. This is deconstructed and then subsequently reconstructed; Ginny is so awed by Harry she can barely ''speak'' to him and is extremely shy and awkward around him, while he's all but oblivious and is more interested in Cho Chang once he starts noticing girls. Hermione suggests that Ginny try to relax more and [[BeYourself just be herself]]; she also recommends she date other people instead of just waiting for Harry to notice her and see how that turns out. Subsequently, Ginny stops pining for Harry so much and becomes more [[GrewASpine confident]] and [[TookALevelInBadass assertive]], which Harry admires. In his sixth year, Harry finally falls for Ginny and they eventually begin dating; she admits she never truly gave up hope he'd return her affections, while as far as her brother and Harry's best friend Ron is concerned, Harry's the only boy 'worthy' of his sister. By the end of the series, [[spoiler: Harry and Ginny are [[HappilyMarried married]] with [[BabiesEverAfter three kids]]]].

* Jasmine is a deconstructed example to ''Disney/{{Aladdin}}''. She's a princess while he's a penniless 'street rat'. He doesn't believe she'd ever want to be with someone like him after discovering she's royalty and so wishes to become a prince to be worthy of her. However, Jasmine dislikes stuffy, image-obsessed princes; she genuinely liked Aladdin when he thought she was just another peasant like him and behaved accordingly, hates being treated like a "prize to be won" and rejects 'Prince Ali' until he starts acting more like his usual self. In the end, Jasmine says she loves Aladdin just the way he is and the Sultan ends up changing the law, so that Jasmine can marry whomever she chooses instead of being required to marry a prince.

In some works, a hero, possibly a KnightInShiningArmor, falls for a woman because she is perfect --''too'' perfect; flawless to the point where he could never actually be with her. Some knights, indeed, fall in love with a mere [[LoveBeforeFirstSight description of this lovely lady]], and find the ''idea'' of her to be motivation enough.

* In ''WesternAnimation/TheNightmareBeforeChristmas'', Jack Skellington is a rare male example for Sally. She loves him from afar and risks getting in trouble with her creator to sneak out and see Jack. However, she [[CannotSpitItOut can't bring herself to actually tell Jack how she feels]] because [[InsecureLoveInterest she's just a lowly ragdoll]] while he's the Pumpkin King whom everyone adores, which is especially emphasised in "Sally's Song". She does still attempt to warn him when she receives an ominious premontion about his attempts to run Christmas, being the only one to do so, out of concern for him. [[spoiler: Luckily for Sally, in the end Jack approaches ''her'' after she helps save them all at great personal risk, and they end up as a couple]].

** In the prequel trilogy, it's implied that Padmé Amidala a bit of one to Anakin Skywalker. Upon first meeting her at the age of [[PrecociousCrush nine,]] he asks if she's an angel, said to be "[[WorldsMostBeautifulWoman the most beautiful creatures in the universe]]" and gives her a [[GoodLuckCharm hand-made charm]] to remember him by. Anakin [[SingleTargetSexuality never stopped thinking of Padmé]] despite not seeing her for ten years, is incredibly nervous about seeing her again and straight up tells her she's [[ShesAllGrownUp grown more beautiful than ever.]] He is [[DevotedToYou devoted to protecting her]] and says [[TheChampion he will do anything she asks]]. It's played with, though, as Anakin actually ''does'' try [[DoggedNiceGuy to win her heart]] (and succeeds); he also spends enough time with Padmé that he gets to know the real her...and if anything, it makes him love her ''more''.

** Dragged through the mud and deconstructed with Enesdia. Her betrothed Andarist has delusions about her IncorruptiblePurePureness. Her brother Kadaspala has an unhealthy obsession -- though not of a romantic nature -- with how pure and virtuous she is and considers her impending marriage to be detrimental to those qualities. Others consider her vain and spoiled. She is none of these extremes and the only one who sees that, Cryl Durav, thinks she only considers him her adopted brother and is unreachable for him for other reasons.

** Daenerys Targaryen manages to be this to ''multiple'' people. Ser Jorah Mormont is head-over-heels for her and is one of her oldest and most devoted followers. He knows he has no chance with her, but he remains by her side nevertheless, wanting more than anything to see her on the Iron Throne. Even when she banishes him, he goes to extraordinary lengths to get back to her and is even willing to risk death fighting in gladiator games just so he can be near her. Although she doesn't return his love, Daenerys is deeply touched by his loyalty and regards him as a dear friend. Daario Naharis is also besotted with her, although he is far more forward about his feelings than Jorah. He is willing to screw over his commanders to take control of the Second Sons, bring them over to her side and pledge his sword, life and heart to her just days after they met out of infatuation and admiration for her. He is willing to do anything she asks, even vowing to kill her enemies anywhere in the world. When [[spoiler: she breaks things off with him]], he laments that no one else could ever compare to the Mother of Dragons and willingly (albeit grudgingly) [[spoiler: remains in Meereen to keep the peace]] at her command.

In some works, a hero, possibly a KnightInShiningArmor, falls in love with a woman based solely on his perceived image of her as so perfect that he could never actually be together with her. Some knights had, indeed, fallen in love with the princess owing to [[LoveBeforeFirstSight hearing descriptions of her, without seeing her]].

If there are class distinctions, she is of a higher social rank than he is. [[UptownGirl She usually comes from a wealthy family]], [[BlueBlood and an old family]], and is treated [[InformedAttractiveness as if]] she's the WorldsMostBeautifulWoman, which might give her AttractivenessIsolation. To top it all off, [[HerosMuse even if she is spoiled she's actually a genuinely worthwhile lady]]. The hero is generally determined to fight to prove his worthiness of her, or to defend her honor or reputation, thus becoming TheChampion to her.

Contrast GirlNextDoor. See also CourtlyLove. Compare AttractivenessIsolation, which is often related. Often leads to LovingAShadow.

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* In ''Film/{{Titanic 1997}}'', Jack is told "Ah, forget it, boyo. You're as like to have angels fly out your arse as get next to the likes of her."

** The title character starts out as this for Ginny Weasley, in a rare male example. She develops a massive crush on him at the age of ten/eleven. He's famous in the Wizarding World as being the one who stopped Lord Voldemort when he was just a baby, is a talented Quidditch player and stops Voldemort a second time in the first book. And then he only goes and ''saves Ginny's life'' in the second book. This is deconstructed and then subsequently reconstructed; Ginny is so awed by Harry she can barely ''speak'' to him and is extremely shy and awkward around him, while he's all but oblivious and is more interested in Cho Chang once he starts noticing girls. Hermione suggests that Ginny try to relax more and [[BeYourself just be herself]]; she also recommends she date other people instead of just waiting for Harry to notice her and see how that turns out. Subsequently, Ginny stops pining for Harry so much and becomes more [[GrewASpine confident]] and [[TookALevelnBadass assertive]], which Harry admires. In his sixth year, Harry finally falls for Ginny and they eventually begin dating; she admits she never truly gave up hope he'd return her affections, while as far as her brother and Harry's best friend Ron is concerned, Harry's the only boy 'worthy' of his sister. By the end of the series, [[spoiler: Harry and Ginny are [[HappilyMarried married]] with [[BabiesEverAfter three kids]]]].

Contrast GirlNextDoor. Compare AttractivenessIsolation, which is often related. Often leads to LovingAShadow.

* ''Manga/MakenKi'': Usui falls for [[ElegantGothicLolita Himegami]], who's considered to be [[HelloNurse one of the hottest girls]] at Tenbi Academy. Which made his chances of hooking up with her seem unlikely to begin with; becoming much less likely once he and the others learn she's [[spoiler: the daughter of Yamato no Orochi]]. Meaning, she's both [[BlueBlood royalty]] ''and'' [[spoiler: a demi-goddess]]! But she [[{{Subverted}} subverts it]] near the end of chapter 65, when she tells him [[http://www.mangatown.com/manga/maken_ki/c065/21.html she's not above him]] and finally provides him with [[http://www.mangatown.com/manga/maken_ki/c065/22.html a faint glimmer]] [[http://www.mangatown.com/manga/maken_ki/c065/23.html of hope.]]

* Played with and/or deconstructed over the course of the original ''Film/StarWars'' trilogy, vis a vis Han Solo and Princess Leia Organa. In the very first film (Episode IV: A New Hope), the pirate mercenary Han, after a heated argument with the recently rescued princess/senator/revolutionary, nevertheless admits feelings for her, and begins to ask farm boy main protagonist Luke Skywalker (who also has romantic designs on her) "You think a princess and a guy like me..." only to be cut off with a very curt and blunt "no". Han and Leia, of course, become romantically entangled over the course of the later movies and eventually marry.