History Main / ArentYouGoingToRavishMe

* ''Series/MidsomerMurders'': In "Night of the Stag", a village leader wants to restart an ancient tradition where one night a year, the men of one village would descend on the neighbouring village and ravish the women; thereby ensuring genetic diversity in the villages. One of the women in the neighbouring village is very keen on the idea and says she will leave the door open for him. However, she is not happy when he ignores her and goes for her daughter instead.

* ''Literature/{{Worldwar}}'': Russian pilot Ludmila is on detached duty to Finland, and is both surprised and somewhat offended that the Finnish soldiers at the base she is stationed at make a big show of ''not'' trying to sneak a peek of her in the sauna, and it makes her think some quite unflattering things about the Finns' lack of manliness.

'''TitleCard:''' [[InstantlyProvenWrong THE MORNING AFTER "REAL FAST"]]

-->'''Captain Hero:''' ''[supposedly unconscious]'' Are you guys gonna f**k me or what?

** "Cheese Chasers", with Hubie & Bertie, Claude Cat and Marc Antony, takes it to psychosomatic extremes. Hubie and Bertie want Claude to eat them, then Claude wants Marc Antony to massacre him. Finding irreparable fridge logic in it all, Marc Antony wants the dog catcher to take him.

* Played seriously in ''Manhua/GoddessCreationSystem''. Mingyi, TheCasanova, is growing [[LadykillerInLove increasingly obsessed with Xiaxi]] especially since [[ILoveYouBecauseICantControlYou she keeps rejecting him]]. Apparently fed up with his advances, she strips off her clothes and tells him to flat out rape her if that will satisfy him and then just leave her alone. This is actually a carefully considered bluff on her part because his ego can't stand the idea that a woman could fail to fall for his charms, which makes taking her up on the offer basically impossible.

* ''Anime/{{Patlabor}}'': Invoked by Noa, of all people, in the "Red Labor Landing" episode where she and Asuma end up having to share a hotel room while they're on assignment. She frets over it in the furo and waits 'til he's asleep before turning in. But when he "awakes" and creeps toward her futon, she braces herself [[ThanksForTheMammary for the inevitable]]... except he completely ignores her and goes for her snack bag. Noa becomes outraged and clocks him. Though it's unclear whether she was upset that he tried to swipe her chips, or because he passed up a perfect opportunity to cop a feel!

If it's the hero who's [[ChasteHero refusing to take advantage of the heroine]], this can overlap with AboveTheInfluence or NotDistractedByTheSexy. Especially irritating if the character has been complaining that AllMenArePerverts; then complains when this happens. SisterTrope to WhyIsntItAttacking and TooKinkyToTorture. If the damsel just got saved from sexual assault and exhibits this trope for the hero, they probably GotOverRapeInstantly. Though in more realistic versions, the woman wants the hero to take her virginity and/or marry her in the hopes of not being assaulted again (because she's a less valuable target): this reasoning is absolutely TruthInTelevision, especially in more conservative societies. Also related (in a twisted, Freudian way) to ComplimentFishing. Also compare PowerDynamicsKink. For moments where the woman is angry because she ''was'' hoping to get some, see AllWomenAreLustful. If the man is very rich, she might be hoping to [[GoldDigger trade sex for money]] and disappointed because she believes his refusal means she has to remain poor.

** Non-sexual variant in one of the movies involving Brook ([[DemBones a walking skeleton]]) being offended that a swarm of flesh-eating insects went right past him to chase his fleshier crewmates. Bone has a lot of nutritional value, apparently.

* Yet another non-sexual example in ''[[https://m.fanfiction.net/s/3376586/1/ The Ghost Child and the Ghostbusters]]''. When Morbius is draining ghosts of their power, he dismisses the Box Ghost as "not worth his time." Boxy is offended and demands to have his power drained, though he quickly comes to his senses and flees.

* ''GenghisKhanToTheEndsOfTheEarthAndSea'': Temujin (who will later take the name UsefulNotes/GenghisKhan) defeats an enemy in battle only to find out that it's a woman, Khulan. She snarls that he's going to rape her now because that's what Mongols do, but Temujin refuses, saying that his people will no longer take women as "spoils of war." Later Khulan, who happens to be fantastically gorgeous, lets her hair down in Chinggis's tent and says "Why do you not bed me?" When he says again that the Mongols will no longer rape woman prisoners, she says that as a warrior, that's fine, but as a woman, she's giving herself to him. He obliges and they have sex.

* In a Non-Sexual example, Marvin's black friend Miles from ''Film/TheAnimal'' considers it racist that people won't say anything when he does clearly wrong things (like smoking in an airport) out of WhiteGuilt and not wanting to look racist. By the end of the movie [[spoiler:he claims that all the killer beast man was him all along so that the angry mob won't hurt Marvin. The crowd immediately decides to dissipate because they don't want to get involved in the lynching of a black man. Miles immediately starts protesting.]]
-->'''Miles:''' [[spoiler:Oh, of course! Let's not kill the monster man just because he's black!]]

* A tamer variant in ''WebVideo/FateStayNightUnlimitedBladeWorksAbridged'', when a terrorized Shirou runs away from [[AxeCrazy Rin]] trying to murder him, he hides himself in a classroom and barricades the door. Rin tries to get him to willingly open the door by [[IHaveBoobsYouMustObey promising to let him touch her breast]]. When he [[SurprisinglyRealisticOutcome understandably answers that no, copping a feel on her isn't, in fact, worth letting her kill him]], she screams in rage and tries even harder to murder him.

* One ''ComicBook/JosieAndThePussyCats'' comic has a thief break in the Cabots' summer villa and sorted his mother's jewelry case to retrieve a bunch of smuggled gemstones that Melody accidentally bought, then left without taking anything when he failed to find the stones. When the group discovers the break-in, Alex is offended that the thief has passed up on his family heirlooms, which are actually more valuable than the ones the thief is trying to get.

* The gag manga ''The Female Hero and the Shota Orc'' has this as one of the incentives for the main heroine, who tends to lament "I want to be assaulted soooo bad..." she meets the titular orc when she hears people yelling that there's one in town, only to be dissapointed to find out it's a child. She then offers to bring him back to his village, thinking that all the burly orcs will mistake her for kidnapping the boy and would gangbang her as retaliation... only to have them give her a great dinner and the best room in the inn as thanks. She then starts making her way to the castle of the Demon King (with the young orc tagging along), hoping to get ravaged on the way.

*** Once Darkness learns from Megumin that male orcs, which are allegedly infamous for their ExtremeLibido and attacking women the second they lay eyes on them, have become extinct because [[AllWomenAreLustful the libido of their female counterparts is even more extreme]], [[HeroicBSOD she immediately shuts down and collapses on the ground]].

* ''WesternAnimation/FireAndIce1983'': Near the end, damsel in distress Teegra is brought into the throne room of the big bad, Nekron, by his mother Juliana. Juliana tells him that she has done this specifically so he can breed with Teegra. Nekron first refuses, at which point Teegra asks if they cannot even be friends for the sake of peace. Nekron embarks on a "screw you" rant, during which he states that he finds the idea of peace and mating with Teegra (who by all reasonable standards fits the attractive female stereotype) to be repulsive, eventually throwing her in the dungeon.

** A sketch with a bunch of teenagers (''Scooby-Doo'') looking around an old mansion. The two guys are subsequently raped by the "Rape Ghost." One ugly heavy girl isn't and this upsets her because she actually wants it.

* In ''WesternAnimation/ScoobyDooMusicOfTheVampire'', the gang learn that the vampire is planning to kidnap a maiden who is pure of heart to be his bride, shortly before Fred gets a text from Daphne that she's been kidnapped. Velma spends a second muttering that she's pure of heart too, and how come no one ever kidnaps ''her''?
* ''WesternAnimation/ScoobyDooMysteryIncorporated'' has an episode where the monster is a puritanical ghost attacking girls for being immodest (short skirts, painted faces, basically, being pretty). He repeatedly harasses Daphne, but assures Velma that she's the model of purity and thus safe from his wrath. She takes especial pleasure in [[ScoobyDooHoax unmasking this particular "ghost."]]

* Princess Amalia Sheran Sharm of ''WesternAnimation/{{Wakfu}}'' sometimes expresses her annoyance that perverted would-be kidnappers always show much more interest in her (admitedly gorgeous) bodyguard Evangelyne than in herself.

* The first episode of ''Anime/LostUniverse'' has a variant. Millie's on the auction block, the bidding's about to begin, and the auctioneer announces that bidding will start at 10 credits, a pittance. Millie is quite annoyed at this.