If you are willing to really jump into cold water as I did, I am going to give you something to ease the jump. Certainty.
I need you to listen to track from the sountrack of the original Series. It is called "Poison". Knowing the context in which the Track is used triggers a wild range of emotions for me. Most of all, disgust, tension, fear, hope and empathy.
If you want to understand why people who have watched Shoujo Kakumei Utena all the way through are gushing about it, especially on TV Tropes
, you have to understand one thing.
For most male audiences, it is fucking painful to slog through.
You will change the language to japanese (which is a good thing).
There is this word in German, 'Faustregel', and it has the same meaning like the english 'rule of thumb'. 'Faust' = fist. There was this gag among my friends of the 'Faustregel of anime': "If you'd be be more embarrassed by someone walking in on you watching this, than by someone walking in on you watching anal fisting porn, don't bother."
To be honest, at first, the promise of romantic lesbianism was the only thing that kept me hanging on. It took really, really long before I was hooked. My stubbornness, my longing for context and my hope that it would become good at last were the engines that drove me forward. I regularly skipped the intro and outro, most of the fights, and each time I saw nanami. But then, all of a sudden, it became better. In the third arc at last you get everything you wanted all this time. Namely: Context, Progress and the feeling that you did invest your time the right way.
I won't talk flaws because they are subjective as all hell. You will spot more than enough. What I will say is that they made me ashamed of liking this Series. There shouldn't be such a thing as guilty pleasure. That's unhealthy.
Utena is hell of a ride, and I wholeheartedly recommend it.
I'll hereby give you the assurance that it is indeed good. And it WILL affect you on some level. Do you have what it takes? Do you have the self-awareness of your own sexuality, that it does not "make you girly" and "not a real man" if you watch it? Do you have enough Energy, enough Curiosity, enough courage to be vulnerable and enough open-mindedness to not dismiss it until it gets good?
PS: my initial review was 1800 words long.