How many subversions in this page are actually aversions?

Okay, I cleaned up a lot of natter. Folks, if you find something wrong with one of the examples, just change the original point. If you're unsure about your point of view, either post to the discussion here or Take It To The Forums.

Clipped this from the Anne Mcaffery block:

And let's not forget The Skies of Pern—apparently F'lessan has picked up some of his uncle's traits, because Tai was horrified when she realized that her dragon was in heat and there was a male dragonrider around. "How many times had she been violated?" F'lessan asks himself, before offering to make it better this time. Tai fights him until the moment the dragon takes over and she loses conscious control of her body. Afterwards? She says she liked it, and F'lessan and Tai are officially a couple.

F'lessan was trying to keep Tai from running off (which, apparently, isn't good for her or her dragon). He was also trying to get through to her (through her panic) that her experiences weren't the way mating flights were supposed to be.  ^*

^{How Tai neither received any schooling about greens' mating habits nor did anyone in her weyr pick up on her distress is a separate Wall Banger. I think the idea was supposed to be that the male riders were so used to mating flights and mating flight sex that they took it for granted that Tai knew about them as well and assumed she was giving full consent.}

F'lessan's whole deal was telling Tai "This is going to happen whether you or I want it to. I can show you a better way, but I can't if you don't choose to let me.'' A really messed-up version of Strangled By The Red String, perhaps. But not rape.

Shouldn't the title of this trope be 'Rape Is Love', not 'Rapeis Love' as it currently is?