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smokeycut Since: Mar, 2013
#86351: Nov 27th 2015 at 5:15:45 AM

Is it possible to fall in love for someone all over again? I don't mean falling for them, getting over it, and then falling for them again.

I mean falling for someone, being with them and feeling that same love the whole time, and then falling for them on an even deeper level.

I'm feeling that right now.

Cozzer Since: Mar, 2015
#86352: Nov 27th 2015 at 5:34:03 AM

Well, "love" is an arbitrary definition we give to an arbitrary set of emotions in the first place so yeah, I'd say it definitely is. I had a couple of moments like that, they were some of the best. :P

PrinceConor I will finish what you started. from Earth Since: Apr, 2013 Relationship Status: Non-Canon
I will finish what you started.
#86353: Nov 27th 2015 at 6:42:49 AM

With a long term relationship, you either fall deeper in love or you fall out of love in boredom and complacency.

Also, Cozzer, I remember you had some issue you were talking about a few pages back. What was it? Did it get resolved? Or am I completely misremembering? Sorry in that case.

anyone know why asscaps has that particular name?
Cozzer Since: Mar, 2015
#86354: Nov 27th 2015 at 6:43:48 AM

Hmm... I believe you're mistaking me for somebody else. I don't remember posting about any issue here. Still, thanks for the concern!

PrinceConor I will finish what you started. from Earth Since: Apr, 2013 Relationship Status: Non-Canon
I will finish what you started.
#86355: Nov 27th 2015 at 7:37:37 AM

No problem. So many people, so many posts. You can get confused sometimes.

edited 27th Nov '15 1:16:29 PM by PrinceConor

anyone know why asscaps has that particular name?
IchigoPockyChama from my new account Since: Dec, 2013
#86356: Nov 27th 2015 at 11:37:09 PM

So I'm in a threesome now.

That's actually really exciting XD

Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#86357: Nov 27th 2015 at 11:47:00 PM

I feel like it'd kinda kill the mood to be posting on a forum during a threesome.

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
SmytheOrdo Wide Eyed Wonderman from In The Mountains Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
Wide Eyed Wonderman
#86358: Nov 27th 2015 at 11:49:18 PM

I DID IT

David Bowie 1947-2016
IchigoPockyChama from my new account Since: Dec, 2013
#86359: Nov 27th 2015 at 11:51:08 PM

Lol XD

I think "polyamorous relationship" was the right term, whoops XD

SmytheOrdo Wide Eyed Wonderman from In The Mountains Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
Wide Eyed Wonderman
#86360: Nov 28th 2015 at 12:26:36 AM

I GOT HER NUMBER GAIZ

I STILL HAVE MY GAME

David Bowie 1947-2016
Nexus Mostly A Lurker from The Other Side Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Singularity
Mostly A Lurker
#86361: Nov 28th 2015 at 2:27:43 AM

I'm most likely not going to see my crush again until the week of Christmas.sad

https://www.fanfiction.net/u/548347/
Quag15 Since: Mar, 2012
#86362: Nov 28th 2015 at 7:41:41 AM

[up][up]Congratulations, Smythe.[tup]

[up]It's rough right now, but you'll get to see her, with due patience.

PrinceConor I will finish what you started. from Earth Since: Apr, 2013 Relationship Status: Non-Canon
I will finish what you started.
#86363: Nov 28th 2015 at 9:43:49 AM

Nexus, I've been through that separation anxiety, even worse with not being able to text. My advice is to take care of yourself. Do what makes you happy.

anyone know why asscaps has that particular name?
Nexus Mostly A Lurker from The Other Side Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Singularity
Mostly A Lurker
#86364: Nov 28th 2015 at 2:42:45 PM

Work will definitely keep me VERY busy for the next couple weeks, so hopefully it'll make me too tired to think about her too much.

Though I'm now wondering if I should ask her about her relationship status on Facebook, or just wait until I see her again in person. Seems like something that's better to be asked in person, but at the same time, it probably isn't something I should wait on.

https://www.fanfiction.net/u/548347/
PrinceConor I will finish what you started. from Earth Since: Apr, 2013 Relationship Status: Non-Canon
I will finish what you started.
#86365: Nov 28th 2015 at 2:47:50 PM

Don't think about her. You can't really do that much about it. I would wait to ask her in person. Be prepared for anything to happen. If she asks why you want to know, tell her why. It is a sign of maturity to admit your feelings when you are ready to do so. I have failed at this. Perhaps I missed opportunities, perhaps not. I don't know. Be prepared.

anyone know why asscaps has that particular name?
Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#86366: Nov 28th 2015 at 4:30:09 PM

Take some advice: obsessing over a crush, especially if you haven't actually tried asking them out (like, actually asking them out), it never helps mentally.

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
Konkfan7 Konknitive Dissonance from Roselle Since: May, 2013 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
Konknitive Dissonance
#86367: Nov 28th 2015 at 4:31:57 PM

Me and Nova-chan did a Skype call with video and audio and everything~

It was amazing.<3

EpicBleye drunk bunny from her bed being very eepy Since: Sep, 2014 Relationship Status: In Lesbians with you
drunk bunny
#86368: Nov 28th 2015 at 7:47:04 PM


This post was thumped by the Eldritch Flyswatter of Horror

"There's not a girl alive who wouldn't be happy being called cute." ~Tamamo-no-Mae
wehrmacht belongs to the hurricane from the garden of everything Since: Dec, 2010 Relationship Status: YOU'RE TEARING ME APART LISA
belongs to the hurricane
#86369: Nov 28th 2015 at 8:12:13 PM

Take some advice: obsessing over a crush, especially if you haven't actually tried asking them out (like, actually asking them out), it never helps mentally.

Basically.

As I've said many times in the past, the default is for people to NOT be interested in you and not the other way around, so getting too invested in it even before you've done anything is just setting yourself up for disappointment. it's unfortunate but that's simply the way it is.

it's happened to me a lot of times before, and i still struggle with this sometimes, but you really shouldn't try and get too attached because it never does you any good.

Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#86370: Nov 29th 2015 at 4:24:50 AM

I wasted pretty much my entire teenage years doing that (blame underconfidence and dangerously low self-esteem on my part), and all it really did for me was make me more self-loathing and bitter for no good reason. Took me years to fix myself from that, and I still fall back into those bad habits from time to time.

Basically, check yo'self before you wreck yo'self.

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
MarkVonLewis Since: Jun, 2010
#86371: Nov 29th 2015 at 6:39:46 PM

I hear that. Did the same, more or less.

In better-ish news, lately I've been hooked on upbeat romantic-ish pop, and even when hammered it hasn't sent me into either a bitter anger or deep depression. Kind of makes me feel... hopeful. Positive.

This is weird, but oddly comforting.

SmytheOrdo Wide Eyed Wonderman from In The Mountains Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
Wide Eyed Wonderman
#86372: Nov 29th 2015 at 9:18:15 PM

I snuggled with my coworker who I like today after we evacuated the store in 20 degree cold :) happy

edited 29th Nov '15 9:22:11 PM by SmytheOrdo

David Bowie 1947-2016
MrMatt Currently listening to stuff Since: Nov, 2013 Relationship Status: Don't hug me; I'm scared
Currently listening to stuff
#86373: Nov 29th 2015 at 9:28:10 PM

Okay but hold up, why were you evacuating the store?

EpicBleye drunk bunny from her bed being very eepy Since: Sep, 2014 Relationship Status: In Lesbians with you
drunk bunny
#86374: Nov 29th 2015 at 9:39:51 PM

he was the one who had planned it in order to snuggle his coworker

how nefarious

"There's not a girl alive who wouldn't be happy being called cute." ~Tamamo-no-Mae
SmytheOrdo Wide Eyed Wonderman from In The Mountains Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
Wide Eyed Wonderman
#86375: Nov 29th 2015 at 9:48:20 PM

the world may never know

David Bowie 1947-2016

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