I really don't understand the appeal of blowjobs, or how they're sexualized. Why is it straight to get a blow job from a girl but gay to get it from a guy? I mean, they do it the exact same way. They just suck. I doubt anybody could tell the difference if they closed their eyes.

In general, a sex act between a man and a woman is straight and a sex act between two men is gay.

that is the most commonly used line in gay for pay videos, "Come on dude, a mouth's a mouth"

"Why is it straight to get a blow job from a girl but gay to get it from a guy? I mean, they do it the exact same way. They just suck. I doubt anybody could tell the difference if they closed their eyes."

You could say the same for anal sex (giving). It's supposed to be more than just the physical feeling; it's mental as well. Like there is also a difference between engaging in sexual acts with a person one loves and some other person, even if they are of the same gender.

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edited 30th Oct '09 2:27:32 PM by jaimeastorga2000

That's a rather odd question Some Guy, there's a rather simple logic to sex and it's orientation; two men in sexual act is homosexual act.

Also, fun fact, a percentage of women can't open theirm mouth wide enough for that. Most guys can.

Maybe my confusion is stemming from the fact that I've always been under the impression that we're supposed to give out blowjobs like cotton candy or something. Like, this is something that's appropriate to do if you've known someone for only a few hours. As opposed to "real" sex.

But then again some people don't think anal sex is real sex either, so I don't know.

edited 30th Oct '09 2:35:16 PM by Some Guy

I will never give a blowjob. That thing is not getting in my mouth. Not to mention the ejaculation. No no no!

Seeing I haven't ever been in a meaningful realtionship, I haven't done any of that. I totally would, though. I do find the act of giving it arousing as well.

Interesting thing; oral sex has become more popular since porn featuring it has become more prominent.

Marry me, Katrika.

I've never understood the appeal of blowjobs on a personal level, either. I mean, there's teeth in there. Isn't the entire reason Vagina Dentata is so horrifying is because there's teeth down there? There's always teeth in mouths. Well, most of the time.

And I mean, it just seems demeaning. You pee with that! Sure, if we're married I'll let you put it there, but I eat with my mouth, no way.

And what would I gain from it? Nothing! It seems to mainly fufill the guy.

It is my dream to mouth-fuck a person without her dentures.

Eeeeugh.

They would have to be elderly, too, so whole nother level of wrong.

Wait...what? Your lack of pronouns makes that confusing. Also, arousing.

Seriousposting: I don't get blowjobs either. To be honest, so far as blowjobs are concerned, I can't help but mentally put myself in her place, and it disgusts me.

Someguy: Who are you talking to?

AOD: Thank you. Some guys might go, 'Hey, it's part of the package'. I'd hate that. I wouldn't stay with them.

edited 30th Oct '09 2:45:47 PM by Katrika

What I don't like about blowjobs is that (Or So I Heard, this all comes from anecdotes and the media) they seem to make men suddenly out-of-character and superdominant.

That's also where the sperm comes from to make those nasty, pee-y little things that become you and me.

Fun fact: your mouth has more germs than a penis.

edited 30th Oct '09 2:48:38 PM by insofar

I don't know, even if they didn't gross me out, it seems like it's inherently dominant for the guy. I wouldn't like that.

I have the same level of experience as Meat, though. I'm remaining celebate until marriage.

Insofar: I'm allowed to have my opinions. I'm 16. I'm not habing sex for a long time. And if I find it gross? My right. So don't tell me to grow up. I'm not a grown up. I admit it.

edited 30th Oct '09 2:49:34 PM by Katrika

So, did you stop beating your girlfriend before or after you came in her mouth?

Find it gross all you like, but don't make psychological judgment calls about how it's degrading or disgusting or demeaning to women.

So, are you saying I should give blowjobs? How the fuck is that your business what I feel is gross or not? I feel my point is valid.

If a woman wants to, I won't judge. But I don't ever want to.

edited 30th Oct '09 2:52:36 PM by Katrika

Putting myself in her place, I go "Mmmmmmmm."

"Maybe my confusion is stemming from the fact that I've always been under the impression that we're supposed to give out blowjobs like cotton candy or something. Like, this is something that's appropriate to do if you've known someone for only a few hours."

I've never heard of that, except maybe from ultra-conservatives who think the world is going to hell in a handbasket and the new generation has no morals and there is a decay and decadence in culture and get off my lawn, you darn kids!

"And what would I gain from it? Nothing! It seems to mainly fufill the guy."

You get to know you made the person receiving it feel good. Same reason someone would eat a female, or two people might masturbate each other, either as fuck buddies or as partners expressing their affection for each other in a physical way by giving pleasure to each other.

Eh, I suppose. I wouldn't know. I suppose I'm saying, if a woman wants to do it, alright, no prob. But you shouldn't feel obligated to do it, and I personally don't want to.

I don't know, AOD, if I ever decide to engage in a lesbian relationship, I'll let you know.