Short version: Because if we don't give our young anything, society breaks.
Long version: We've evolved to have a need to take care of our young the same way we've evolved to have them. Smarter *, weaker *, and longer maturation times = more parental responsibility. So basically the same reasons all animals take care of their young, but for longer because of our unique variations.
edited 13th Feb '11 1:48:41 AM by deathjavu
Look, you can't make me speak in a logical, coherent, intelligent bananna.Obligation: none. There is a good reason to though.
Fight smart, not fair.Seeing how this delightful picture is on your troper page Deboss. I take it your not a kid person.
edited 13th Feb '11 4:40:55 AM by joeyjojo
hashtagsarestupidParents have a responsibility to the children they choose to bring into the world.
Our individual young, or the collective young? My children, or everyone's children?
Eh, child support is one of those obligations that one can dodge, so long as one flees to Tijuana and lives under an assumed name.
I don't really feel like getting into the nuances of the sexist nature of child support, which is, almost always charged upon the father. Mostly because it is an incredibly tedious argument which I've no pleasure in taking.
Suffice to say, I don't believe child support should exist at all. And it fact, it's far too easy to abuse to allow it to continue.
edited 13th Feb '11 8:45:02 AM by CommandoDude
My other signature is a Gundam.Yeah it's a system that has noble aims, but often poor execution. The system does need an overhaul to fix the various bugs.
What if they didn't choose to?
I'd assume "my children". That only makes sense — as a civilization we impose horrible burdens on anyone who (actually) wants to take care of a non-blood related person, so I don't think we actually want to rationally impose such responsability over other's children, to top it.
Fanfic Recs orwellianretcon'd: cutlocked for committee or for Google?it just seems fundamentally wrong to me. Surely if anyone owes anyone anything, it's the child that is indebted towards the parent for giving them the gift of life.
edited 14th Feb '11 3:35:00 AM by joeyjojo
hashtagsarestupidAm I the only one who thinks that parents do have a duty towards their children?
I mean, somebody has to pay for their needs. They need parents of some description.
Be not afraid...Kids are leeches. Why can't they pull their own weight? Tell them to get a job.
edited 14th Feb '11 3:45:51 AM by joeyjojo
hashtagsarestupidYes, you send those twoyearolds down the coalmine, joeyjojo...
Be not afraid...*Throws a copy of Atlas Shrugged at Loni jay's nose*
Stick that in your pipe and smoke it you hippie!
edited 14th Feb '11 4:15:28 AM by joeyjojo
hashtagsarestupidThe child is not indebted because they did not ask for it, it was a donation in the hopes of eventual return.
Fight smart, not fair.@Best Of Thanks for sharing that link, I needed a good laugh.
There's no justice in the world and there never was~Maddox delivers every time.
Quod gratis asseritur, gratis negatur.edited 14th Feb '11 5:31:49 AM by joeyjojo
hashtagsarestupidI thought the plan was to release motorized chainsaws to roam the streets?
Fight smart, not fair.Society has to collectively decide who it would prefer to support in these kinds of situations.
Children, the (more or less) blank slates that they are, only have a 50% chance of becoming douchebags later in life.
Parents that saddle the other parent with a child and skip out with no promise of support are more likely to trend higher on the scale.
Society has simply sided with the group that has a lower probability of being douchebags is all. (Plus, it hopes that the children receiving greater support will be less likely to become future douchebags.)
edited 14th Feb '11 10:04:01 AM by Meeble
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What obligation (if any) do we owe our young? What responsibility does an individual have to to any prodigy? Why should having a child forced some one to sacrifice their time and money (as well as their personal dreams and freedoms) if they choose not to be a part in that child's life?
Note: this thread is about child support. it is NOT about gender injustices or double standards
edited 13th Feb '11 1:29:19 AM by joeyjojo
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