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joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
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#1: Feb 13th 2011 at 1:28:00 AM

What obligation (if any) do we owe our young? What responsibility does an individual have to to any prodigy? Why should having a child forced some one to sacrifice their time and money (as well as their personal dreams and freedoms) if they choose not to be a part in that child's life?

Note: this thread is about child support. it is NOT about gender injustices or double standards

edited 13th Feb '11 1:29:19 AM by joeyjojo

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#2: Feb 13th 2011 at 1:47:51 AM

Short version: Because if we don't give our young anything, society breaks.

Long version: We've evolved to have a need to take care of our young the same way we've evolved to have them. Smarter  *

, weaker  *, and longer maturation times = more parental responsibility. So basically the same reasons all animals take care of their young, but for longer because of our unique variations.

edited 13th Feb '11 1:48:41 AM by deathjavu

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Deboss I see the Awesomeness. from Awesomeville Texas Since: Aug, 2009
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#3: Feb 13th 2011 at 1:59:54 AM

Obligation: none. There is a good reason to though.

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joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
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#4: Feb 13th 2011 at 4:39:45 AM

Seeing how this delightful picture is on your troper page Deboss. I take it your not a kid person.

edited 13th Feb '11 4:40:55 AM by joeyjojo

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Talby Since: Jun, 2009
#5: Feb 13th 2011 at 4:58:54 AM

Parents have a responsibility to the children they choose to bring into the world.

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#6: Feb 13th 2011 at 5:12:53 AM

Our individual young, or the collective young? My children, or everyone's children?

MarkVonLewis Since: Jun, 2010
#7: Feb 13th 2011 at 8:29:30 AM

Eh, child support is one of those obligations that one can dodge, so long as one flees to Tijuana and lives under an assumed name.

CommandoDude They see me troll'n from Cauhlefohrnia Since: Jun, 2010
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#8: Feb 13th 2011 at 8:44:44 AM

I don't really feel like getting into the nuances of the sexist nature of child support, which is, almost always charged upon the father. Mostly because it is an incredibly tedious argument which I've no pleasure in taking.

Suffice to say, I don't believe child support should exist at all. And it fact, it's far too easy to abuse to allow it to continue.

edited 13th Feb '11 8:45:02 AM by CommandoDude

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MarkVonLewis Since: Jun, 2010
#9: Feb 13th 2011 at 8:47:41 AM

Yeah it's a system that has noble aims, but often poor execution. The system does need an overhaul to fix the various bugs.

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#10: Feb 13th 2011 at 8:51:24 AM

Parents have a responsibility to the children they choose to bring into the world.

What if they didn't choose to?

Our individual young, or the collective young? My children, or everyone's children?

I'd assume "my children". That only makes sense — as a civilization we impose horrible burdens on anyone who (actually) wants to take care of a non-blood related person, so I don't think we actually want to rationally impose such responsability over other's children, to top it.

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joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
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#11: Feb 14th 2011 at 3:33:42 AM

it just seems fundamentally wrong to me. Surely if anyone owes anyone anything, it's the child that is indebted towards the parent for giving them the gift of life.

edited 14th Feb '11 3:35:00 AM by joeyjojo

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LoniJay from Australia Since: Dec, 2009 Relationship Status: Pining for the fjords
#12: Feb 14th 2011 at 3:41:20 AM

Am I the only one who thinks that parents do have a duty towards their children?

I mean, somebody has to pay for their needs. They need parents of some description.

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joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
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#13: Feb 14th 2011 at 3:44:38 AM

Kids are leeches. Why can't they pull their own weight? Tell them to get a job.

edited 14th Feb '11 3:45:51 AM by joeyjojo

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LoniJay from Australia Since: Dec, 2009 Relationship Status: Pining for the fjords
#14: Feb 14th 2011 at 3:52:04 AM

Yes, you send those twoyearolds down the coalmine, joeyjojo...

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joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
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#15: Feb 14th 2011 at 4:13:24 AM

*Throws a copy of Atlas Shrugged at Loni jay's nose*

Stick that in your pipe and smoke it you hippie! tongue

edited 14th Feb '11 4:15:28 AM by joeyjojo

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#16: Feb 14th 2011 at 4:54:30 AM

Relevant.

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#17: Feb 14th 2011 at 4:59:39 AM

The child is not indebted because they did not ask for it, it was a donation in the hopes of eventual return.

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#18: Feb 14th 2011 at 5:02:11 AM

@Best Of Thanks for sharing that link, I needed a good laugh. [lol]

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#19: Feb 14th 2011 at 5:23:49 AM

Maddox delivers every time.

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joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
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#20: Feb 14th 2011 at 5:28:36 AM

* No more running, jumping, dancing, or fun. Kids don't deserve to have fun. They have to earn the air they breathe.
* Penalty for graffiti: Death. No more of this correctional center bullshit.
* Penalty for disobedience: Castration. Disobedient children don't deserve to procreate.
* Penalty for experimentation with drugs or sex: Castration and then Death. We want to send them a strong message about this one.
* Penalty for ditching school: Hmm.. I'm going with Death on this one, just to be safe.

* Penalty for being outside beyond curfew: No penalty. Any children outside beyond their curfew will fall victim to rabid dogs and vampires.
That should do it for now. With these rules, we shouldn't have any more problems with kids falling out of line. With total supervision, they can't screw up. And if they do, they will be shot. It's simple, and effective. Positive reinforcement in a child's life only leads to communism. Lets prevent it from ever happening again.
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edited 14th Feb '11 5:31:49 AM by joeyjojo

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#21: Feb 14th 2011 at 5:56:56 AM

I thought the plan was to release motorized chainsaws to roam the streets?

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#22: Feb 14th 2011 at 6:08:51 AM

Society has to collectively decide who it would prefer to support in these kinds of situations.

Children, the (more or less) blank slates that they are, only have a 50% chance of becoming douchebags later in life.

Parents that saddle the other parent with a child and skip out with no promise of support are more likely to trend higher on the scale.

Society has simply sided with the group that has a lower probability of being douchebags is all. (Plus, it hopes that the children receiving greater support will be less likely to become future douchebags.)

edited 14th Feb '11 10:04:01 AM by Meeble

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