These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
Family-Unfriendly Aesop: The entire series seems to run on the idea that all girly girls/guys are actually evil manipulative bitches inside and only tomboys and guys who are manly (gay or otherwise) can be good people.