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Fridge Brilliance: Pat's Trigger for his stalking of the ex is "My Cherie Amour", a song about a guy who loves a woman from afar. Given that he's got a restraining order against him forbidding him from even being near the school she worked at as a teacher and she won't give him the time of day, she's as unreachable and distant to him as the woman in the song was to the singer.