These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
Family-Unfriendly Aesop - Remember, nobody's going to accept you the way you are! But if you pretend to be someone else entirely, maybe you'll get them to like you long enough that they won't be pissed off once the truth comes out.