These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
YMMV: My Sister's Keeper
Fridge Brilliance: We assume that Anna is the narrator in the prologue and it is Anna who tried to kill her sister Kate when she was three years old. It is actually Kate. The only other time she narrates is at the end. Note the use of the italics.
Diabolus ex Machina / Shocking Swerve: After winning the case, Anna is killed in a car accident and ends being brain dead. Her kidney is donated to Kate, rendering the whole thing pointless.
Averted in the film. Kate dies with dignity and Anna lives.
Sympathetic Sue: People who are less charitable to Anna accuse her of being this. It's not exactly helped by Jodi Picoult's narrative, since some people believe that her POV seeps into other characters and makes them few more than mouthpieces.
Tear Jerker: In the movie, Sara breaking down in front of Kate and Anna's narration telling us that Kate died that night
Jesse's motivations. He was almost completely ignored after Kate was diagnosed and Anna was born because he wasn't a match for Kate, and ended up destroying things because he'd never been able to fix them.
Wangst- Sara. A lot. All she ever talked about from when Kate was diagnosed to when Anna sued them was how sick Kate was. Lampshaded when her sister Zanne says, "You can't be a martyr all the time," and Sara mistakes her for saying "You can't be a mother all the time."
It should be clarified that Sara's martyr complex toward Kate's illness borders into some disturbingly narcissistic areas at some points, often using her "maternal instinct" and suffering to justify behavior that is outright neglectful, if not emotionally manipulative. Of example -
When Brian, the father, gives Anna the locket she pawns earlier in the book, Sara justifies shock at seeing him reward Anna's gift of marrow as (paraphrasing) "not occuring to her that suffering was worth rewarding, since they'd all been through so much of it." This is after she nearly refuses to see Anna after her operation (a very painful one, at that), claiming that she's too busy with Kate.
Outright admitting that she's given up on Jesse in the narrative, dismissing his emotional claim that she "doesn't know what it's like to be the kid who's sister is dying of cancer" by saying her experience as the mother of said child trumps his. She also accuses him of being a drug addict, only to be shocked into silence when he angrily explains that the injection marks are from donating platelets for Kate.
She repeatedly lies or dismisses Anna's decision to sue to both Campbell and various characters, saying that it's all a misunderstanding.
In one scene after interviewing with Campbell over the lawsuit, Sara accuses outright that Anna has "signed her sister's death warrant" because of it.
Even after the court hearing, where the revelation of Kate's support of Anna's lawsuit, Sara insists that while what she did may not have been fair, moral, or ethical, it was surely "right." In fact, the only apology she ever issues in the book is to Kate, not Anna or Jesse.
Sara's complex penetrates deep enough psychologically that it impacts even Kate. In a very telling scene in the novel, Kate, frustrated and overwhelmed by the constant regime of recurrent hospitalization, declares lucidly that she's had enough of it all. Instead of approaching her to speak honestly about it, Sara states with startling vituperation that it's "[Kate's] suicide."
The Woobie: Kate herself, through and through. Also, her sister, Anna.
Jerkass Woobie: In the movie adaptation, even the wangsting Sara gets her sympathetic moments when she broke down by Kate's side as her dying daughter in her deathbed slowly passes away in the same night.