These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
Crowning Moment of Heartwarming: She was engaged to John Cazale at the time of his death from cancer. They were also both in The Deer Hunter. When they were about to kick him off the film due to his cancer, she apparently also threatened to quit as well.