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Values Dissonance: Luttrel is a very conservative Christian from the American South, and has effectively no common ground with the also very conservative Muslim Pashtun. Still, he admires their courage and commitment to their idea of honor, and when describes the the Pashtun attitude towards women, and admits that while their extreme views "may not work for downtown Dallas," it seemed to work well enough for them.