These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
YMMV: Blue Valentine
Award Snub: Ryan Gosling, surprisingly, didn't get nominated (though Michelle Williams was). And it's exclusion for a Best Picture nomination.
Draco in Leather Pants: A rare non-romantic, straight male example; young, aimless men are more likely to overidentify with Dean and characterize him as a good husband and father who is unfairly treated, instead of a pushy, needy, manipulative drunk who rarely takes Cindy's feelings into consideration.
Moral Event Horizon: Most right-thinking audience members should limit their sympathy for Dean when he drunkenly punches out Cindy's boss and gets her fired.