Invoked: Bob "I think you're pretty, that probably means you're a lesbian."
Exploited: Alice informs Bob that Carol is a lesbian in hopes he will rebound to her.
Defied: "You think I'm going to tell him? No way, this is too funny. I want to see how long it takes him to work it out!"
Deconstructed: Bob is informed that Alice is a lesbian. His response? "Oh, fair enough. What, you thought I should assume that from her haircut? Dude, how homophobic is that? And anyway, I figured she might be bisexual."