Music / Dessa
But I've learned how to paint my face,
How to earn my keep, how to clean my kill.
Some nights I still can't sleep,
The past rolls back, I can see us still.
You've learned how to hold your own, how to stack your stones,
But the history's thick.
Children aren't as simple as we'd like to think.
Dessa (born Margret Wander) is an underground singer and hip-hop artist from Minneapolis, Minnesota and part of the indie hip-hop group Doomtree. Her lyrics vary from sharp and cutting to poetic and narrative. She is known for the feminist themes in several of her songs and has been described as a mix of Mos Def and Ani DiFranco
- 2005 - False Hopes
- 2010 - A Badly Broken Code
- 2011 - Castor, The Twin
- 2013 - Parts of Speech
Her work provides examples of:
- Age Progression Song: "Children's Work" and "The Chaconne".
- All Girls Want Bad Boys: Deconstructed in "Alibi", where the narrator is soothing a woman whose husband broke the law.
- All Take and No Give: A version with the giver as the controller in the relationship is the theme of "Seamstress"; it's implied to be stemming from a combination of a need to be needed and a fear of abandonment.
Fixing up boys is different that way;
You fix a bird, you buy a cage
- Badass Boast: The entirety of "Dutch", "The Bullpen", "Skeleton Key" and "Fighting Fish" is one.
- "Crew" has one about her music skills partway through, "If the hinges creak, then break the door down / All I need is a beat, I break a four-count".
- Badass Creed: "Seamstress". The creed of the seamstress is "you're pretty in pieces".
- The Caretaker: "Seamstress" is a dark take on this.
Plus, I never did need for a pattern
Just some good restraints and my bedside manner.
- The Charmer: The narrator of "Dear Marie"; "that charm of mine was easy to abuse".
- Cool Big Sis: "Children's Work" was written for her younger brother Max.
- Cloudcuckoolander's Minder: "Children's Work": "The little mystic, and his handler."
- "Anabelle" has her pleading the song's title character to 'come back down'
- "The Man I Knew" is a song about a decade-long relationship with a drug addict.
- Domestic Abuse: What the narator finds out is going on in "Dixon's Girl"- "You gotta be big to treat pretty girls bad".
- Drowning My Sorrows: Said by name in "Seamstress" and a theme touched on in multiple songs (including "Mineshaft 2" and "The Man I Knew"), coming from Dessa's own struggles with alcoholism.
- Easily Forgiven: Averted hugely in "Mineshaft 2" and "The Lamb".
- Framing Device: "Dear Marie" is a letter the narrator is writing to Marie.
- Friendless Background: Implied in "Children's Work": "Before you came along, I was a lone cub."
- Heel Realization: "Dear Marie" is about a woman who realizes for the first time how much she's hurt her loyal friend Marie, and writes a letter apologizing.
- Ironic Echo: In "Dear Marie", the narrator says that Marie warns her "that charm of mine was easy to abuse"; later, after the narrator has her Heel Realization about how badly she's treated Marie, Marie says "that charm of mine was to refuse".
- The Masochism Tango: "Matches to Paper Dolls", which is about a couple who are too attached/attracted to each other to leave even though the relationship hurts both of them.
- Motor Mouth: When Dessa really gets into rap-mode, she's scarily quick with her rhymes. For example, "Matches to Paper Dolls", "Mineshaft", and "Press On".
- My Future Self and Me: The narrator visits her past self to ask for a favor in "Mineshaft 2".
- Never a Self-Made Woman: Mentioned in "Dixon's Girl". Currently the page quote.
- Sanity Slippage: "If & When" has the narrator burning more and more things to keep the candle alight as she waits for her husband to come home.
- Second-Person Narration: "Mineshalf 2", although it switches to first person in the last verse
- Secret Keeper: A dark version in "The Lamb", where it's implied the narrator covered up a murder for her acquaintance.
- Sequel Song: "Mineshaft" released on Castor, the Twin deals with a painful break-up. "Mineshaft 2" dealt with the ex calling her up years later and asking for forgiveness.
- Shoutout: The chorus of "Everything Floats" (which the title is derived from) is a line from It.
- The Smurfette Principle: "The Bullpen", with the narrator channeling Dessa's experiences in the hip-hop scene.
- Take Me Instead: From "Children's Work": "When the wagon tipped, I prayed over your body. I asked God to take the damage out on me."
- True Companions: "Crew", which is about her group Doomtree, along with most of her collaborative works with other Doomtree members.
- From "Alibi": "If you ever need a place to sleep tonight, that's what family's for."
- UST: "Go Home" is about the narrator and a close friend struggling with the feelings that have grown between them.
- We Are as Mayflies: The central theme of "Momento Mori".
- Widow Woman: "If & When".
- Wise Beyond Their Years: The entirety of "Children's Work", with both the narrator and her little brother being wise in differnt ways: "Children aren't as simple as we'd like to think."
- Your Cheating Heart: Subverted in "Go Home", where the narrator persuades him to "go home to her, while you still can".