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** Another skit involved an aging Stretch Armstrong no longer able to stretch. He has surgery to restore his stretchiness but is told to wait until his stitches heal. He doesn't listen, and he dies. His wife remarries ComicBook/PlasticMan, prompting her son to exclaim that he's not his real dad.

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** Another skit involved an aging Stretch Armstrong Toys/StretchArmstrong no longer able to stretch. He has surgery to restore his stretchiness but is told to wait until his stitches heal. He doesn't listen, and he dies. His wife remarries ComicBook/PlasticMan, prompting her son to exclaim that he's not his real dad.

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** ComicBook/{{Raven}} outright disowns her own biological father, the demon lord Trigon, due to being [[AbusiveDad a terrible excuse]] [[ArchNemesisDad for a father]].

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** ComicBook/{{Raven}} outright disowns her own biological father, [[ArchnemsisDad the demon lord Trigon, Trigon]], to his face due to him being [[AbusiveDad [[AbusiveParents a terrible excuse]] [[ArchNemesisDad for a father]].father, who only sired her to bring about TheEndOfTheWorldAsWeKnowIt and did nothing to raise her.
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* ''Series/{{Angel}}'': Angel's son Connor, raised by Angel's sworn enemy in a hell dimension, gets off at least one of these Eastwood-style. He later identifies [[TheSoulless Angelus]] as his real father (who he wants to kill). In a later episode, his mother Darla's ghost appears to him and tries to stop him from murdering an innocent, but he rejects her, too.

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* ''Series/{{Angel}}'': Angel's son Connor, raised by Angel's sworn enemy in a hell dimension, gets off at least one of these Eastwood-style. He later identifies [[TheSoulless Angelus]] as his real father (who (whom he wants to kill). In a later episode, his mother Darla's ghost appears to him and tries to stop him from murdering an innocent, but he rejects her, too.

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This is either a loophole for someone who really is in the wrong and wants a reason to end the argument without defending themselves, or a way for a Good-aligned (or [[EvenEvilHasStandards standards-bearing]]) offspring to inform their Evil-aligned parent [figure] that they have [[MoralEventHorizon crossed]] [[YouMonster the]] [[ThisIsUnforgivable line]] and is no longer worthy of respect, admiration, or obedience. It can also be delivered to deliberately hurt a parental figure who genuinely feels that they ''are'' their parent in every sense but the biological. In this case, the accusation typically leads to guilt on both sides, and usually a last-minute apology and reconciliation...unless it turns out to be [[PartingWordsRegret the last time they ever speak]].

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This is either a loophole for someone who really is in the wrong and wants a reason to end the argument with someone who isn't their biological parent without defending themselves, justifying themself, or a way for a Good-aligned (or [[EvenEvilHasStandards standards-bearing]]) offspring to inform their Evil-aligned parent [figure] or parental figure that they have [[MoralEventHorizon crossed]] [[YouMonster the]] [[ThisIsUnforgivable line]] and is are no longer worthy of respect, admiration, or obedience.obedience (in which case, it can include biological parents). It can also be delivered to deliberately hurt a parental figure who genuinely feels that they ''are'' their parent in every sense but the biological. In this case, the accusation typically leads to guilt on both sides, and usually a last-minute apology and reconciliation...unless it turns out to be [[PartingWordsRegret the last time they ever speak]].
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* ''Literature/TheFamousFive'': In ''Five Go Adventuring Again'', George is in trouble for going into her father's study, and takes a certain pleasure in refusing to answer Mr Roland's questions about it, as he is not her father.
--> '''Mr Roland:''' Georgina, did you go into the study last night?
--> '''George:''' I'll answer my father's questions, not yours.
--> '''Mr Roland:''' What you want is a good spanking. And if I were your father, I'd give it to you!
--> '''George:''' You're not my father.

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* In ''Literature/{{Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix}}'', Sirius tells Molly that Harry is "not her son." Her response? "He's as good as." [[spoiler:Later, he does become her son... in-law.]] To make this variant more interesting, Harry feels touched by this... but then goes against Mrs. Weasley's wishes anyway.

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Sirius tells Molly that Harry is "not her son." Her response? "He's as good as." [[spoiler:Later, he does become her son... in-law.]] To make this variant more interesting, Harry feels touched by this... but then goes against Mrs. Weasley's wishes anyway.anyway.
** In the same book, this is invoked by Molly herself. When Sirius passes on a message that the Order has found out about Harry's secret Defence Against the Dark Arts group, he tells Ron that his mother says he must not participate in the group. He then adds that she ''advises'' Harry and Hermione not to proceed either, but does not have the same authority over them.
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* ''Series/The100'' fic “[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/22142056/ The Skaion Walks Tonight]]” sees the title character of Kent Griffin (sent to Earth as an infant to protect him from the Ark’s one-child policy) deliver the equivalent of this to his biological mother, Abby, after learning of her role in the death of his father, although Kent is still willing to accept Clarke as his sister.
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* In ''VideoGame/GrowingUp'', Wendy hates being reminded to do her homework that she often remarks that the protagonist is acting too much like [[EducationMama her parents.]]
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* In ''VideoGame/IWasATeenageExocolonist'', Vace tells Utopia off for warning him not make any "stupid" risks at the Swamps, telling her that she's "not [his] aunt" and that he can fight the xenos there on his own.
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* ''VisualNovel/HigurashiNoNakuKoroNi'' featured this with Rena, formerly Reina, Ryugu and her own mother. Mrs. Ryugu cheated on her husband with a lover whom she brought Rena to meet on several occasions, with Rena unaware of who the man really was. After her mother decided to officially divorce her husband and begged Rena to come live with her, Rena made it clear she didn't want anything to do with her mom after the way she tried to manipulate and turn Rena against her dad. Rena went as far as to drop the "I" from her name to represent her removal of her mother from her life.

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* ''VisualNovel/HigurashiNoNakuKoroNi'' featured ''VisualNovel/HigurashiWhenTheyCry'' features this with Rena, formerly Reina, Ryugu and her own mother. Mrs. Ryugu cheated on her husband with a lover whom she brought Rena to meet on several occasions, with Rena unaware of who the man really was. After her mother decided to officially divorce her husband and begged Rena to come live with her, Rena made it clear she didn't want anything to do with her mom after the way she tried to manipulate and turn Rena against her dad. Rena went as far as to drop the "I" from her name to represent her removal of her mother from her life.
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* In ''WebVideo/DreamSMP'' Fundy says this about Wilbur after L'Manberg becomes Manberg under Schlatt. [[spoiler: He's lying, and he's TheMole although even the Pogtopia leaders don't know.]]

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* In ''WebVideo/DreamSMP'' ''WebVideo/DreamSMP'', Fundy says this about Wilbur after L'Manberg becomes Manberg [[TyrantTakesTheHelm under Schlatt. [[spoiler: He's lying, Schlatt]]. [[spoiler:He's lying and he's TheMole although is TheMole, but not even the Pogtopia leaders don't know.[[LaResistance Pogtopia]] leaders, ''including Wilbur'', know about this.]]
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* ''Film/INotStupidToo'', a film revolving around ParentalNeglect and its damaging effects on teens, reaches a high point where the protagonists Tom and Cheng both rejects their parents, choosing to [[TheRunaway flee from their homes]] to join a gang. Tom's father Steven managed to track down his son, only for Tom to reject Steven in front of his gang.
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* PlayedForLaughs in ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark.'' Several seasons after Clyde's mother died, his father is seen dating a woman named Janice in "WesternAnimation/SouthParkNotSuitableForChildren." While every indication seems to be that she's a GoodStepmother, practically all of Clyde's dialogue toward her is screaming that she's not his real mom.
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* ''{{ComicBook/X23}}'' has this reaction to Comicbook/OldManLogan, adamantly refusing to accept that he's in any way like the man she knew and came to accept as her father.

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* ''{{ComicBook/X23}}'' has this reaction to Comicbook/OldManLogan, ComicBook/OldManLogan, adamantly refusing to accept that he's in any way like the man she knew and came to accept as her father.



'''Robin:''' I already [[Franchise/{{Batman}} have a father]]. ''[cue pan up to [[ShoutOut bats flying overhead]]]''

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'''Robin:''' I already [[Franchise/{{Batman}} [[ComicBook/{{Batman}} have a father]]. ''[cue pan up to [[ShoutOut bats flying overhead]]]''
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* In ''LetsPlay/DreamSMP'' Fundy says this about Wilbur after L'Manberg becomes Manberg under Schlatt. [[spoiler: He's lying, and he's TheMole although even the Pogtopia leaders don't know.]]

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* In ''LetsPlay/DreamSMP'' ''WebVideo/DreamSMP'' Fundy says this about Wilbur after L'Manberg becomes Manberg under Schlatt. [[spoiler: He's lying, and he's TheMole although even the Pogtopia leaders don't know.]]
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Compare[=/=]contrast with IHaveNoSon, to which the teen may fire back with this trope. Note that this trope is not generally related to IAmNotYourFather, since it's usually understood by both parties that the person really ''isn't'' their father (and that's the point). Not to be confused with DisownedParent, which is when a person rejects their biological parent.

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Compare[=/=]contrast with IHaveNoSon, to which the teen may fire back with this trope. Note that this trope is not generally related to IAmNotYourFather, since it's usually understood by both parties that the person really ''isn't'' their father (and that's the point). Not to be confused with DisownedParent, which is when a person rejects their biological parent. \n Overlaps with NotBloodNotFamily if a person says this because of a lack of blood ties.
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* In ''Literature/DolphinSong'', Melody comes home from school upset about [[AlphaBitch Priscilla]] and takes it out by arguing with her stepmum Felicity. She says, 'Who do you think you are anyway? You're not my mother. Why don't you just leave me alone!'
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* In ''WebVideo/HeartOfElynthi'', Fritz said this to Astrapio as the former sees Dozin as her real father and her birth father abandoned her when she was so young.

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* ''Literature/HighSchoolDXD'':
** Akeno Himejima is repulsed that her biological father, Baraqiel, wasn't able to save Shuri Himejima from being murdered by her own relatives. As such, she crosses the DespairEventHorizon and refuses to think of him as her father for a while. However, by Volume 7, she reconciles with him thanks to Issei Hyoudou's help to the point that they defeat Loki.
** Vali Lucifer considers Azazel as his true father, as his grandfather Rizevim [[spoiler:had Vali's biological father abuse him years before]]. Even when [[spoiler:Vali's biological father died]], that's as far as reconciliation goes.


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* ''Literature/HighSchoolDXD'':
** Akeno Himejima is repulsed that her biological father, Baraqiel, wasn't able to save Shuri Himejima from being murdered by her own relatives. As such, she crosses the DespairEventHorizon and refuses to think of him as her father for a while. However, by Volume 7, she reconciles with him thanks to Issei Hyoudou's help to the point that they defeat Loki.
** Vali Lucifer considers Azazel as his true father, as his grandfather Rizevim [[spoiler:had Vali's biological father abuse him years before]]. Even when [[spoiler:Vali's biological father died]], that's as far as reconciliation goes.
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* ''Franchise/StarWars'' fanfiction in general portrays Leia with this attitude toward Vader.



* ''[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/13720386/chapters/31519857 We’re Still Going to Try]]'', a ''Franchise/MyHeroAcademia'' fic, has Shouto do this to Endeavor after Endeavor accidentally hurts Izuku and Shouto gets really ticked off.
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* ''[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/13720386/chapters/31519857 We’re Still Going to Try]]'', a ''Franchise/MyHeroAcademia'' fic, has Shouto do this to Endeavor after Endeavor accidentally hurts Izuku and Shouto gets really ticked off.
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* ''{{Series/Bones}}'': Booth makes it clear that he considers his grandfather to be his real father because his actual father was abusive and Booth and his brother were rescued by their grandfather as young kids.
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** Zola gets upset and tells her mom's boyfriend Andrew "You're not my dad" after he tries to help fix the wings of her butterfly costume. She later opens up and tells him that her (now dead) dad fixed them once, and she's scared of forgetting him.

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