->''"If you're not with me, then you're my enemy."''
-->-- '''Darth Vader''', ''Franchise/StarWars Episode III: Film/RevengeOfTheSith''

[[DescribeTopicHere Describe With Us or Against Us here,]] [[SelfDemonstratingArticle or you are my enemy!]]

In a nutshell, this is a form of extremism that does acknowledge that there's a [[GreyAndGrayMorality gray]] area between {{black and white|Morality}}, but that everything that isn't white is ''still'' as bad as black.

In fiction, a WriterOnBoard will hammer this point home through the use of {{Strawman Political}}s and {{Demonization}} to show that not being on the side of right is bad, no matter what other side you take. The only hope of these people is to [[EasyEvangelism turn to the side of right as fast as possible]].

The KnightTemplar and TheFundamentalist are characters prone to holding this particular belief due to their belief that they are "right" and the other people are "wrong." An EvilOverlord is also a likely candidate seeing all who surround him as either pawns to serve their purpose for him, or obstacles that must be removed at all costs. Totalitarian regimes ''love'' this trope, if your subjects have this mentality they will beg for your [[BigBrotherIsWatching protection]], thus a common theme in {{Dystopia}}n fiction.

TruthInTelevision, as anyone who has gone to a FlameWar on a political or religious (or anti-religious) MessageBoard can attest. Wiki/TheOtherWiki [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You%27re_either_with_us%2C_or_against_us can attest, too]]. The phrase "if you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem" is frequently used as a more polite-sounding version that nonetheless amounts to the same thing.

Note, this trope is not about whether any particular side is right or wrong, even [[GoldenMeanFallacy the middle side]]. It's just about the views of people that the only right answer is their side, and ''nothing else''.

SubTrope of FalseDichotomy.

See also BlackAndWhiteInsanity, ActivistFundamentalistAntics, and WeAreStrugglingTogether. May lead to NeutralityBacklash.

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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* ''Franchise/OnePiece'':
** But not if you are a main character: Your badass status allows you to be supportive or enemy of the World Government with abandon. Neutral countries, on the other hand, have to accept Government leadership, or their whole population will be deported and enslaved. Because the alternative is pirates.
** Essentially how the New World works. As it is demonstrated with the Worst Generation post-timeskip, the only way to survive is to overthrow the Yonko (ie. Law and Kid's alliances who are planning to topple Kaido and Shanks respectively) or swallow your pride and serve under them (ie. Bege and Drake).
* ''Anime/MobileSuitGundamSEED'':
** The Atlantic Federation does this with regards to [[TheGoodKingdom Orb]]. Orb has a mass driver, which the Atlantic Federation needs, so they give them this trope as an ultimatum[[note]]This was done mainly by Muruta Azrael; the other leaders of the Atlantic Federation were very reluctant to go along with it[[/note]]. It happens all over again in ''Anime/MobileSuitGundamSEEDDestiny'', (albeit done by [[WesternTerrorists Blue Cosmos]] / [[AncientConspiracy Logos]] this time) when the Destroy Gundam is unleashed on the western Eurasian Federation for being too sympathetic to ZAFT. Durandal also pulls this at the end of the series, stating that anyone who doesn't agree to his Destiny Plan is a threat to world peace, in with the aforementioned terrorists and deserve to be eliminated via KillSat.
** Kira himself shares this view to a point. Or at least this is what he tells Athrun after he repeatedly tries to justify his siding against Orb, and Kira promptly shuts him down by saying regardless of how he wants to view it, he's still attacking soliders of their nation and that makes him an enemy. He doesn't kill Athrun though, and in fact is largely forgiving of anyone fighting against him, unlike most of the other factions.
* In the ''Manga/ShamanKing'' anime, this is the reason [[KnightTemplar the X-Laws]] hunt down Yoh and his friends. Like Marco said, they become "too powerful to let [them] be."
* ''Anime/DragonBallSuper'': During the Future Trunks Saga, this is the reason [[spoiler:Goku Black and Future Zamasu [[KillTheGod killed all the gods]] in Future Trunks' timeline. As Black explains, he knew that none of the other gods would ever support or understand his plans or ideals, so they had to die to prevent them from trying to stop him.]]

[[folder:Comic Books]]
* In the ''ComicBook/ChickTracts'', anyone who does not agree with Jack Chick's particular breed of fundamentalist Protestant Christianity is doomed to burn in hell. Even other Christians who have ''slightly'' different views are completely evil.
* When Creator/SteveDitko took a heavy turn into Objectivism, his heroes started to preach his viewpoint. That ''ComicBook/MrA"'' Creator/AlanMoore sings about? That was one of Ditko's, who claimed that man can either be good or evil with no in-between.
* ''[[Franchise/SpiderMan Spider-Man]]: ComicBook/BrandNewDay'' has [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin The Extremist]]. To him, you are either with the heroes or with the villains, and anyone who dares to criticize superheroes or even laugh at them is evil and schemes to blur the line between good and evil-- and therefore, must be eliminated. He even tried to kill the guy who made a website dedicated to laughing at Spider-Man--[[spoiler: who happened to be [[SelfDeprecation Peter Parker, himself]]]].
* ''ComicBook/ForeverEvil'': The Crime Syndicate deals with any dissenters with extreme prejudice. [[spoiler: Including their former alternate universe.]]
* ''ComicBook/TheTransformersMoreThanMeetsTheEye'':
** If all his other methods fail, [[{{Jerkass}} Prowl]] will try this option, even trying to use it on Ultra Magnus when the guy tries to call him on his BS before [[spoiler:Megatron's trial.]]
** Getaway, as well. [[spoiler:He spent a year going around the crew, asking who sympathised with Megatron, and who would side with Rodimus in a coup, wiping their memories if they gave an answer he didn't like. When the time comes, he has the people who disagreed kicked off the ship.]]
* ''ComicBook/MightyAvengers2013:'' During ''Last Days'', Steve Rogers declares as such to the Mighty Avengers. Either they're helping him hunt down the Illuminati, or they're the enemy. The team don't support either group, and decide to TakeAThirdOption.
* ''ComicBook/TheUltimates2015:'' During the ''Civil War II'' tie-in, an increasingly driven Carol Danvers begins saying this to the team. She doesn't get beyond "or" before America decides to declare herself against Carol, via the medium of a chair to the head.

[[folder:Fan Works]]
* Granny Hina's general attitude in ''FanFic/AnAlternateKeitaroUrashima'' is that anyone who doesn't go along with her scheming to set Keitaro up as manager is a 'horrible disappointment'. Most of the Hinata Girls have shades of this as well; [[ShrinkingViolet Shinobu]] is the only exception, which causes problems as she struggles with her mixed feelings about the whole awful situation.
* Inverted in ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8907405/1/Aegis Aegis]]'' where [[Film/{{Underworld}} Amelia]] declares that if [[Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer Xander]] isn't with the lycans, then he's with the vampires. He agrees when he realizes the other option is to be killed by one faction or the other.

[[folder:Films -- Animated]]
* Gaston in ''Disney/BeautyAndTheBeast'', when he's roused the villagers into a TorchesAndPitchforks mob against the Beast while Belle is trying to talk some reason into them ("If you're not with us, you're against us!").
* In ''Disney/AladdinAndTheKingOfThieves'' (third movie), the song "Are You In or Out?" is devoted to this trope.

[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
* Parodied in ''Film/MontyPythonsLifeOfBrian'', where the splinter groups against the Romans [[WeAreStrugglingTogether hated each other as much as the Romans]]. While this was originally intended as a satire on the increasingly-fractured British Left in the late '70s (the Pythons were all for [[UsefulNotes/BritishPoliticalSystem Labour]] at the time, although Creator/JohnCleese has since become a Lib Dem), it turns out that the Jews in Jesus' day really were quite fractured and always squabbling against themselves instead of the Romans.
* ''Film/RevengeOfTheSith'': When Vader throws that line at Obi-Wan, he simply responds, "Only a Sith deals in absolutes" (which, ironically, is itself an absolute) and ignites his saber.
** The irony in Obi-Wan's response is often pointed out, but this does illustrate a key difference between Jedi and Sith, even though Palpatine pointed out some of their similarities. The Jedi believe in absolute Good and Evil, but acknowledge that most people are neutral in this conflict and that asking everyone to be on the side of Good would be too much, thus them remaining neutral is a good compromise. The Sith compromise the distinction between Good and Evil because they only care about themselves or at best their family, but they hate or despise anyone who isn't helping them and are thus absolutists on the matter of their own self-interests. Anakin's sentence is in line with a Darksider's psychology, Obi-Wan's was not the most fitting but it doesn't mean as much about the Jedis' hypocrisy as many believe.
* In ''Film/BenHur1959'', this mentality is what drove Messala to sentence Judah Ben-Hur to slavery. Messala wanted his friend Ben-Hur to turn in the Jews who were speaking against him and the Roman occupation. Ben-Hur refuses, so Messala tells him, "You're either with me or you're against me." Ben-Hur replies, "If those are my choices, then I am against you."
** Given that is was made in TheFifties, this is likely a reference to [=McCarthyism=], in which many Hollywood people were ruined for declining to name DirtyCommunists alleged to be among them.
* ''Film/{{Avatar}}'': Colonel Miles Quaritch while fighting Jake Sully at the climactic battle of The Tree of Souls.
--> "Hey, Sully, how does it feel to betray your own race? You think you're one of them? It's time to wake up."
* The world in the ''Film/{{Apocalypse}}'' film series is divided into who's believing who is God: Franco Maccalusso or Jesus Christ. Neutrality on the issue is brutally dealt with by the One Nation Earth agents and officers.
* In ''Film/XMenFirstClass'', Sebastian Shaw attempts to convince the young mutants on Xavier's team to join the Hellfire Club, and he warns them:
-->Choose freely, but know that if you're not with us, then by definition, you are against us.
* From ''Film/PiratesOfTheCaribbeanOnStrangerTides'':
-->'''Pirate:''' You're either with us or against us!
-->'''Philiip:''' [[TakeAThirdOption I am neither with you, nor am I against you]]!
-->'''Pirate:''' Can he do that?
-->'''Jack:''' He's religious; I believe it's required.
* In ''Film/TheRock'', Captain Frye makes this claim to Major Baxter during the MexicanStandoff. [[spoiler:Baxter hesitates, then draws on General Hummel, but spins and shoots Captain Darrow instead. He takes a bullet for his trouble.]]
* In ''Franchise/TheMatrix'', this is explicitly stated; any human seen in the Matrix who the Resistance hasn't unplugged can, at any time, become an indestructible monster capable of killing an entire team in seconds. An ExactWords twist comes up in the sequels; [[spoiler:Some Machines, such as Seraph and the Oracle, are ''not'' inimical towards humans, and Smith actually finds a way to download himself to a Resistance fighter and raise havoc in the Real World.]]
* ''Film/TransformersAgeOfExtinction'': Harold Attinger's rant, [[spoiler:his last words]], at Cade Yeager are him going of about how "there are no good or bad aliens, just us or them, and you choose them!" This only paints him [[spoiler:before his death]] as a massive {{Hypocrite}} as he was completely fine with letting so many of "us" die for his greed and prejudice towards Transformers.
* In ''Film/MagnumForce'', the [[DirtyCop renegade cops]], whose idea of justice is premeditated murder of the accused, try to use this to make CowboyCop [[Film/DirtyHarry Harry Callahan]] join them: "Either you're for us, or you're against us."
--> '''Harry:''' I'm afraid you've misjudged me.

* The concept of "War is Peace" in ''Literature/NineteenEightyFour'' boils down to this trope.
* In the ''Literature/SwordOfTruth'' series, one of the explicitly stated {{Aesop}}s is that our lives are our own, and we should do with them as we choose. Not a horribly warped lesson, right? Yet Goodkind turns this into a BrokenAesop with parts of the rest of the books that claim the only "real" choice for our lives is to fall in line with his views, and that any other choice just makes you as wrong than the bad guys. Even if people have been lied to all their lives, like the Hakens in ''Soul of the Fire'', they either side with Richard, or they have crossed the MoralEventHorizon, and should die like the evil swine they are.
** Similarly, the bad guys' whole belief system is based around the exact opposite idea, that your life should be spent only serving others, and if you are special in any way or, God forbid, try to enjoy life, you deserve everything the evil army is going to do to you. In fact, it's not so much "any other choice makes you wrong," as the only choices: Side with Richard (and probably be steamrolled by the Order anyway), be willingly oppressed by the Order and (probably) live, or get caught in between them and die either way. This is a world with no middle ground.
* Invoked by both sides near the end of ''[[Literature/{{Deryni}} Deryni Checkmate]]'', during the acrimonious Interdict debate in the Curia which began the schism in the Gwyneddian Church. At one point, Cardiel addresses a couple of junior bishops: "Siward? Gilbert? Do you stand with us? Or with Loris?" Loris finally hangs the lampshade when Cardiel (host of the assembly in Dhassa) orders him to leave: "Then it is war. All who side with the enemy shall be counted as the enemy. There can be no other alternative."
* In ''The Literature/{{Illuminatus}} Trilogy'', Hagbard Celine says, "People who say, 'You are either a part of the problem or a part of the solution' are usually the former."
** This was one common slogan activists used in TheSixties, making it a TakeThat.
* In ''Discworld/{{Thud}}!'', the narrator discusses the increasing dwarf/troll conflict and its effect of causing dwarfs and trolls to resign from the watch:
--> Some people would be asking: Whose side are you on? If you're not with us, you're against us. Huh. If you're not an apple, you're a banana!
* In ''Literature/TheThrawnTrilogy'', Borsk Fey'lya sees his political rivals as his enemies. He's not above leaving them to die, and thinks that everyone else thinks in similar terms. Thrawn in fact counts on Fey'lya acting this way to paralyze the New Republic and dispose of the people who pose a real danger to him, like Admiral Ackbar. This is a trait that most Bothan share; [[http://starwars.wikia.com/wiki/Bothan Bothan society]] is based around a system where the pursuit of power and influence were paramount, and it was quite normal to use backstabbing, political maneuvering and character assassinations against others to gain influence. However, they previously only did it within their own society; Borsk was either unable or unwilling to see that other races didn't operate this way. Thrawn, having analyzed species' psychology based on their artwork, knew and took full advantage of it.
* Belgarath defines the battle at the core of ''Literature/TheMalloreon'' as "them and us" at one point (as opposed to "good and evil", which he considers a dangerous game to start playing).
* In ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'' Melisandre believes that people either are on the side of her god [[LightIsNotGood R'hllor]] or that of the [[EvilIsDeathlyCold Great Other]]. She uses the analogy of a half-rotten onion to prove to Ser Davos that a man who is half-evil is still evil, not good.
* In the ''Literature/LeftBehind'' books, during the Tribulation, it eventually comes down to joining God or joining the Global Community, as both sides end up squashing any sign of neutrality on the issue.
* In ''Literature/DarknessAtNoon'', Rubashov recalls having enforced the principle that not to be absolutely with the Party was to be against the Revolution, and realizes he is doomed by that same principle now that the Party has decided to destroy him.
* Something of a ZigZaggedTrope in ''Literature/TheDivineComedy'' by Dante Alighieri. Illustrated in the form of this quote.
--> "The darkest places in Hell are reserved for those who remain neutral in times of a moral crisis."
** Considering what happened to him (Wiki/TheOtherWiki has a lot of information on that), this view becomes [[ItMakesSenseInContext understandable in hindsight.]]
* In "Literature/TheBleedingMan", the government official implies that the doctor's lack of enthusiasm for her plans would be troubling to the government higher-ups.
%%* A major part of ''Literature/{{Victoria}}''

[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* ''Series/OurMissBrooks'': Mr. Conklin's given Miss Brooks this ultimatum a couple times, in order to force her compliance with a dubious scheme of his. Usually, however, Mr. Conklin chooses to warn Miss Brooks that it's in his power to make her time at teaching at Madison High "either very pleasant or very ''miserable''."
* PlayedForLaughs on ''Series/TheColbertReport'', by being the basis of Stephen Colbert's life philosophy. "You're either with us or you're against us. It is either Coke or Pepsi. You're either gay or you fight it." Finally he states he divides the supermarket into "cheese" and "not cheese". He also tends to badger people, including guests, who do not fall into one of his two categories, with "Pick a side--we're at war."
* ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine'':
** Commander Kira tells this lesson to the Cardassians when they've started a rebellion. She's reminded in the same episode that Odo (her lover) used to be against the Bajorans while the Cardassians were occupying her planet.
** Kira to Odo: "We used to have a saying in the resistance, 'If you're not fighting them, you're helping them.'" Kira holds a very dichotomised view of "collaborators", particularly in the days immediately after the Cardassian Occupation, and one which is challenged on several occasions through the course of the series.
** In "The Darkness and the Light", members of her former terrorists cell were killed. Eventually she found that it was a Cardassian wounded in one of their bombings seeking revenge. He stated he'd been a civilian servant, not involved with the crimes against Bajorans, and worked in a building they bombed. Kira doesn't care-she considers them all guilty, as [[OccupiersOutOfOurCountry none of them should have been there on Bajor to begin with]]. Yes, there is a reason she admits to being a former ''terrorist''...
* [[BigBad Commander Dolim]] gives this ultimatum on ''Series/StarTrekEnterprise'' when he announces that the Reptilian and Insectoid Xindi have taken control of the EarthShatteringKaboom weapon and are going to use it on Earth. The other Xindi refuse to cooperate with him, and civil war breaks out.
* Russel Hantz tried this phrase on Sandra during ''Series/{{Survivor}} : Heroes Vs. Villains''. Backfired spectacularly when Sandra immediately told him she was against him, something those on the Survivor Jury loved.
* ''Series/{{Dominion}}'': During the [[GreatOffscreenWar Extermination War]], the higher angels declared neutrality, something that [[BigGood Michael]] respected. However, now that many of them have joined [[BigBad Gabriel]], that agreement has been invalidated; Michael tells the higher angels living in secret in Vega to either stand with him, or leave the city.
* Parodied in a 2014 episode of ''Series/TheDailyShow'', as Jon Stewart tries to talk about Israel's actions towards Palestine, [[TheComplainerIsAlwaysWrong only to be immediately shouted down by the Daily Show correspondents, who criticize him for being anti-Israel]], one of whom even calls him [[NoTrueScotsman a "self-loathing Jew"]]. This leads Jon to mention that being critical of Israel's actions does not imply approving Hamas' actions. [[HeadsIWinTailsYouLose However, this leads to the correspondents shouting at him for ignoring the plight of the Palestinian people]].
* In ''Series/PowerRangersSPD'', Emperor Grumm gave Piggy this ultimatum to ensure that he had his aid in his conquest of Earth. Even when Piggy said that he'd swear allegiance to him, Grumm ''still'' demanded he go into a pit of torture for a day to think it over.
* In the ''Series/{{Arrow}}'' episode [[Recap/ArrowS5E7Vigilante "Vigilante"]], Vigilante says this almost word-for-word to Comicbook/GreenArrow, regarding Vigilante's war on crime. Green Arrow, seeing Vigilante as the crazy KnightTemplar VigilanteMan he is, declares that he is against him.
* ''Series/GameOfThrones''. Queen Cersei Lannister tells her son Joffrey that "Everyone who isn't us is the enemy." This is all very well when House Lannister is the most powerful and wealthy family in the Seven Kingdoms, but after years of war drain their resources they make an alliance with House Tyrell. Cersei fails to understand the necessity for power-sharing, and her efforts to undermine the Tyrells instead of working with them cause disaster for everyone.

* 'Which Side Are You On?,' the classic union-organizing song from the 1930s.
-->They say in Harlan County
-->There are no neutrals there
-->You'll either be a union man
-->Or a thug for J. H. Claire

* On ''The Coodabeen Champions'', one-eyed [[UsefulNotes/AustralianRulesFootball Collingwood]] fan Digger once complained about how the umpires were running the game: "The way they were umpiring, you would have thought they didn't care whether Collingwood won or they didn't!". Tony pointed out that they weren't ''meant'' to care, prompting an angry rant.

* [[PlayingWithATrope Played with]] in Literature/TheBible. It's not so much as "us or them" as Jesus saying that ''neutrality'' on Him simply does not exist. Anyone who does good deeds is "for Him", even if they're an atheist, because GodIsGood. Anyone who does evil deeds (i.e. sin) is "against Him", because sin is basically "an offense against God", again, even if that person is an atheist. In other words, it is impossible not to choose a side because your actions choose it for you, rather than you making a conscious decision on the matter. This is distinct from salvation, which only comes through accepting Jesus', including His Divinity, sacrifice and resurrection, in faith.
** Luke 11:23: "He that is not with me is against me: and he that gathereth not with me scattereth."
** Luke 9:50 features an {{inver|tedTrope}}sion: "Jesus said to him, "Do not hinder him; for he who is not against you is for you." For context, this verse refers to a man who was casting out demons in Jesus's name, but was not among the disciples. So the disciples told him to stop. Thus, the above quote.

[[folder:Professional Wrestling]]
* Pro Wrestling Revolution was conceived as a member of the Wrestling/NationalWrestlingAlliance but in 2009 Fab Ramirez tried to expand, declaring if you weren't with Revolution, you were against Revolution, causing Billy Blade to [[RebelliousRebel break away and start Vendetta Pro in defiance of him]].
* An unfortunate example happened with Wrestling/{{TNA}} Wrestling president Dixie Carter, [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wn13PwaRQ6s giving a big speech]] to the wrestlers before an episode of iMPACT! in which she acknowledged the awful decisions being made by the company, and rather than do anything about it, told the wrestlers to shut up or leave. Either they were behind her, or they could leave the company. [[http://www.wrestlezone.com/editorials/article/it-just-keeps-getting-better-90269 This]] [[http://www.vivekwwe.com/wwenews/1585-wwe-reacts-to-tna-president-dixie-carter-speech.html did]] [[http://www.prowrestling.net/artman/publish/powelleditorials/article1008702.shtml not]] [[http://www.wrestling-edge.com/tna-news/tna-wrestler-reacts-to-dixie-carters-speech-details-on-the-black-machismo-invitational.html go]] [[http://www.wrestleview.com/news2009/1257714323.php over]] [[http://www.zimbio.com/TNA+Wrestling/articles/UVojvt1i_cO/Industry+Weighs+Dixie+Carter+Speech well]] [[http://www.camelclutchblog.com/dixie-carter-paul-heyman/ with]] [[http://www.ukff.com/lofiversion/index.php/t116095.html anyone]] at all.
* A {{Kayfabe}} example would be the {{Catchphrase}} of Wrestling/TheNexus. You're either Nexus, or you're against us!

[[folder:Tabletop Games]]
* ''TabletopGame/{{Warhammer 40000}}'' demonstrates what happens when you mix this trope into a setting that runs on BlackAndGreyMorality. The results, from the Imperium of Man and Tau Empire, are not pretty. In the ''Literature/HorusHeresy'' novels, this kind of view is expressed by many who are joining the traitors.
--->'''Tarik Torgaddon''': If those are my choices, then I am against you.
** During the Horus Heresy, there was a planet called Bastion which tried to stay neutral in the big war and invited representatives from both the Emperor and Horus to make a case for which side to join. Unsatisfied, Horus ordered [[EarthShatteringKaboom Bastion to be obliterated]]. The message to other planets was simple: ''you even consider allying with the Imperium, and you die''.
** Pretty much the exact opposite situation occurred with the Forge World of Xana II. While a hive of scum and villainy by Forge World standards, they decided to stay neutral during the Heresy as they already had significant territory and stood to gain little. The Warmaster secured their support with promises of relics and freedom of research, and they promised him [[WaveMotionGun Ordinatus Minoris Engines]] in return. The Loyalists attacked just as the handover began, and although they succeeded in destroying or capturing all three Ordinatii, the assault both got their Navy Battlegroup shot to hell by the Xanatite defense fleet and broke open the high-security prison of Anacharis Scoria, Dark Archmagos. Taking command of the defence with his personal force of [[MadScientist enhanced combat robots]] he annihilated over half of the [[SpaceMarine Astartes]] assault force and committed the planet firmly to the Traitor cause, where it has supplied the Traitor Legions for over ten thousand years. [[NiceJobBreakingItHero Good job, Dark Angels]].
* ''TabletopGame/ForgottenRealms'' has a [[ChurchMilitant paladin Order of Samular]]. Once they hunted a demon and an elven community that happened to be between them -- surprise! -- didn't allow a little army of human heavy cavalry to crash through their territory just so... "thus allying themselves with the evil tanar'ri". More than a generation (human) later elves were still upset about the resulting bloodbath and paladins "wary of elves and their unknowable, inhuman ways".

* ''Theatre/TheCrucible'': "A person is either with this court or against it, there be no road between."
* In ''Theatre/AManForAllSeasons'', Thomas More does not like King Henry VIII's actions, but rather than complain, he keeps his mouth shut and refuses to say anything one way or the other. Unfortunately, Sir Thomas is widely known as one of the wisest and most honest men in the kingdom, and his silence makes his position on the issue pretty obvious to everybody. King Henry then lays down the gauntlet, and makes everyone in England swear an oath affirming his support of the King's actions, prompting the film's main conflict.

[[folder:Video Games]]
* ''Franchise/DragonAge'':
** ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'': The BigBad Loghain's game-long paranoia regarding Orlais ([[FantasyCounterpartCulture Fantasy Medieval France]]), and his conviction that they're using the [[WorldWreckingWave the Blight]] as a smokescreen to send in Grey Warden spies to infiltrate and retake Ferelden ([[FantasyCounterpartCulture Fantasy Medieval England]]) from within, becomes so intense by the end-game that he's ''convinced'' that you're either with him and thus the nation's continued freedom, or you're against Ferelden's independence and are an Orlesian spy/sympathizer.
** In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'', tensions between the mages and the templars in Kirkwall reach a peak when [[spoiler:Anders blows up the Chantry]] that Hawke is forced to either side with the mages and protect them from the Templars or side with the Templars and exterminate the mages.
*** By Act III, Meredith is so paranoid that she believes that anyone who disagrees with her is a blood mage's slave. She refuses to acknowledge the possibility that her fellow Templars might disagree with her entirely of their own free will. You're either with her, or with the blood mages. [[spoiler:This gets even more pronounced when she whips out her lyrium idol sword, which was the cause of Bartrand's insanity and also what pushes her to the edge.]]
*** [[spoiler: By the end of the game, Anders has deteriorated to the point that anybody who does not explicitly share his exact opinions on mage freedom fighting is just as bad as an enemy. It's difficult to say how much of this is from Anders himself and how much comes from [[EnemyWithin Vengeance]].]]
** ''VideoGame/DragonAgeInquisition'': Sera claims to [[MySpeciesDothProtestTooMuch dislikes elven culture's]] "us against them" attitude toward humans, yet ironically holds this view between nobles and commoners, and "elfy elves" verses everyone else. It also comes to a head in her romance with a [[PlayerCharacter Elven Inquisitor]], as [[spoiler:she'll force you to choose between your elfy beliefs or the relationship]].
-->'''Sera:''' Take your elves. I'm just people.
* The AI in the ''VideoGame/{{Civilization}}'' series often act like this: Trade with them, or be considered enemy; trade with their enemies and also be considered enemies. This is particularly visible in ''IV''; there, it's near impossible to stay neutral unless you have the forces and tech advanced so no one want to wage war against you anyway, unless you have a different religion as [[TriggerHappy Isabella]], who invokes "With Us or Against Us" on your state religion.
* ''Franchise/TheElderScrolls''
** In ''[[VideoGame/TheElderScrollsIIIMorrowind Morrowind]]'', Balmora Mages Guild Stewardess Ranis Athrys has this attitude toward any mages who do not join the Mages Guild. Several of the quests she gives involve convincing these outsider mages to join the Guild, and in most cases, [[JoinOrDie killing the mage]] in question is an acceptable quest resolution to her.
** ''[[VideoGame/TheElderScrollsVSkyrim Skyrim]]'':
*** Ulfric Stormcloak is like this. In the words of Jarl Balgruuf:
----> '''Balgruuf (paraphrased)''': "To not fight with him is to side against him!"
*** Jarl Balgruuf of Whiterun is desperate to try remain neutral in the conflict. When first asked what side he supports, he replies "[[TakeAThirdOption Whiterun's]]". He eventually is [[NeutralNoLonger forced to choose]], however and lends his support to the Empire.
*** After a certain point in the main quest [[spoiler: the Blades discover that the Dragonborn has been working with Paarthurnax, who is a dragon and the former right hand of [[BigBad Alduin]], and they refuse to cooperate with him any further unless he kills Paarthurnax for his past crimes against mankind. The player doesn't have to do this to finish the main quest, but the Blades cannot be convinced to let their grudge go.]]
----> [[spoiler:'''Delphine''']]: "It's your choice Dragonborn: us or him."
* ''VideoGame/WorldOfWarcraft'':
** The Scarlet Crusade believes its holy purpose is to destroy the Scourge. However, they believe that anybody who has not joined the Crusade is likely a carrier of the plague and is thus their enemy as well. Only when preparing to face Kel'thuzad have they grudgingly worked alongside other groups.
** Garrosh officially adopts this philosophy as of ''Tides of War'', declaring that all members of the Horde, even those who aren't in a military occupation (including civilians and shopkeepers) must swear absolute loyalty to him and him alone, or be put to death.
* In ''VideoGame/PlayStationAllStarsBattleRoyale'':
** This is the reason for [[VideoGame/InFamous Good!Cole MacGrath]] starting up a rivalry with [[VideoGame/MetalGearRisingRevengeance Raiden.]]
--> '''Good!Cole''': You're either gonna help me, or I'm gonna stop you... here.
** This is also why [[VideoGame/ApeEscape Spike]] fights [[VideoGame/ParappaTheRapper Parappa]]. Parappa questions Spike's constant pursuit of monkeys, and asks him if he dislikes fun. Spike comes to the conclusion that Parappa must be working for [[BigBad Specter]] if he's defending the monkeys at all.
* ''VideoGame/DiabloIII'': Due to their half-angel half-demon heritage, humans of Sanctuary are UTTERLY hated by most angels and demons, to the point of being obsessed with killing them even more than their "eternal enemies". The madmen among humans tend to return the sentiment. Examples include:
** Demonkind decided to stop fighting angels and focused specifically on mankind, recognizing their potential and their corruption of evil itself. Belial and Azmodan in particular wage bloody and COSTLY war instead of taking the smart route and stealing what they need to destroy everyone. Their hatred of humanity MADE THEM STUPID (The player character manages to figure out the LORD OF LIES and utterly decimates the armies of the GREATEST BATTLEFIELD COMMANDER OF THE BURNING HELLS).
** Angelkind could not stomach the demonic corruption of humanity, and left them to die as they focused on defending the High Heavens and fighting in pandemonium, even as the armies of the damned were routed straight to Sanctuary. Imperius constantly berates the Player Character, and Malthael went insane with a thirst for human souls.
** Some humans find both of these attitudes disgusting and plan to kill anyone in their way, regardless of alignment. Examples include Zoltan Kulle and the Templar Grand Master.
* In the second part of the ''VideoGame/BioShockInfinite'' DLC ''Burial At Sea'', Elizabeth is making her way through the newly war-torn Rapture when Ryan gets wind of her and contacts her wondering what she is doing in the city and offers to let her fight for him. She makes it clear she's on her own mission and doesn't want anything to do with Rapture or his war. But Ryan, paranoid as always of outsiders, takes that to mean she's a "parasite" and sics his splicers on her.
* Namm, the angelic god of justice from the ''VideoGame/NexusWar'' series, is so absorbed with the necessity of his war with the ManipulativeBastard demon lord Tlacolotl that he considers anyone not as dedicated to the war as he is to be a real or potential enemy. Casualties of this so far include mortals who haven't become angels fast enough, anyone who tries to sit the war out, angels who don't have perfect scores on the KarmaMeter, and [[spoiler:Azazel, another angelic deity]] who Namm didn't think was supporting him enough. Namm's attitude is the main [[DarkMessiah recruitment]] method for Tlacolotl, yet at the same time Tlacolotl really ''is'' enough of a threat to the universe that it's not clear whether Namm is actually wrong or not.
* In ''[[Videogame/{{X}} X3: Albion Prelude]]'', the Terran Conflict has this in spades in the war zones. The two human factions, the [[HumanityIsAdvanced high-tech]] Earth State ("Terrans"), and their LostColony, the Argon Federation, are locked in a GuiltFreeExterminationWar. Even if you're a loved Guardian of Earth in the Solar system and celebrated Federation Marshall in Argon Prime, the Argon Federation navy will blow your ships up left and right in the conflict zone because the Terrans like you more. The same applies with the Terrans if your reputation is ever so slightly higher with the Argon. If you're neutral with both, they'll take turns blowing your crap up. However, outside of these war zones both sides will happily sell you battleships even if they just blew your stuff up two systems over.

[[folder:Western Animation]]
* A few of the more {{Anvilicious}} episodes of ''WesternAnimation/CaptainPlanetAndThePlaneteers'' were like this.
* Zapp Brannigan in ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'' views the Neutral Race this way. "With enemies you know where they stand, but with Neutrals, who knows?" Therefore he decides to crash the Planet Express ship into their capital. "Another heroic battle in the war between Good and Neutral!"
* Demona says this in the pilot of ''WesternAnimation/{{Gargoyles}}'': "If you are not my ally, then you are my enemy."
* Lock-up in ''WesternAnimation/BatmanTheAnimatedSeries'' actually says, "If you're not part of the solution, then you're part of the problem." (Throughout the episode, he also blamed the "liberal media," as well as "gutless police, mindless bureaucrats, and coddling doctors" for society's problems, so he's really more of an outright criticism of conservative argumentation.)
** In a different episode, Poison Ivy is also shown to have this view, and she also says the above sentence almost exactly the same way: Anyone who isn't treating plant life like they would their own children, to her, is someone who must be destroyed, hence why she is at odds with Batman before he even does anything.
* In one episode of ''WesternAnimation/{{Daria}}'' Jane begins dating a guy named Nathan who is really into 1940s nostalgia, to the point that she begins dressing in 40's styled clothing on a daily basis. Eventually, Nathan proves to be a StrawFan after his passive aggressive insults to Jane's clashing wardrobe leads an exasperated Jane to state "it's a fad, it's just for fun." Nathan counters about how he's one of the true believers left after everyone else moved on to a new fad, and Jane is either with them or against them. Jane kicks him out after he makes a disgusted comment about her owning sweatpants.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'': Used repeatedly throughout Book 2, usually by [[HotBlooded Korra]] herself, most frequently on Mako when he's less than one hundred percent supportive of her efforts to get someone, anyone to fight the Northern Water Tribe's occupation of her homeland.
** It also gets turned against Korra when she gets between a group of Northern and Southern Water Tribesmen about to fight one another. The Southerners get angry at her for not taking their side.
* In ''WesternAnimation/TeenageMutantNinjaTurtles2003'', this is the main reason the Shredder takes on the Turtles for the first time, with them having turned down [[WeCanRuleTogether his offer to join him]] after learning who he really was, he declared this. And anyone who is his enemy, he destroys without mercy.