They're a couple. He has the bruises to prove it.
A term used by anime fans to refer to the romantic pairing of a
Tsundere with a
Jerk with a Heart of Gold, and the inevitable
misunderstandings and conflicts that arise.
Despite the
conflict, there is
an attraction. This is
obvious to everyone except the couple. Confront them with the obvious, they'll deny it. When one gets clued in, they will do every thing in their power to play it off. The other soon does the same. Sometimes they will progress to admitting their
friendship but insist they are
Just Friends.
Might involve a
Can't Stand Them, Can't Live Without Them situation, or even
Domestic Abuse (but usually
Played for Laughs).
If there is a
love epiphany with one of these characters, expect it to change nothing, at least in the short term.
Rumiko Takahashi is the mistress of this trope; her works display it so well that anime fandom refers to it as a "
Takahashi Couple."
Many subsequent anime and manga creators have followed in her footsteps, especially after the popularity of
Ranma ½.
All examples (with the exception of Takahashi's own works) should be placed in Belligerent Sexual Tension.
Male Lead: Ataru Moroboshi is a
Casanova Wannabe,
Unlucky Everydude,
Jerk with a Heart of Gold.
Female Lead: Whichever one you think counts doesn't matter, because both Lum and Shinobu Miyake are
Tsundere.
Will They or Won't They? goes on forever, and is never resolved - although this may be due to a crossfire of
Ship Sinking and
Executive Meddling, since the author (who favored Shinobu) and the fans (who preferred Lum) disagreed about who should be the
Official Couple. In the end, the
Reset Button was hit, rather than let Ataru and Lum progress to "official"
Official Couple.
Male Lead: Yuusaku Godai, is an
Unlucky Everydude, usually a nice guy, to the point where he doesn't fit the
Jerk with a Heart of Gold stereotype so much as he's a lazy, cowardly, wishy-washy person who's rather immature and unable to say "no" to anybody, be it an unwanted girlfriend or a drunken flat-mate, although he is a bit of a
Covert Pervert, and often offends people with his attempts to please everyone. His progression from loser trying to get into college to responsible adult is one of the primary
Character Development aspects of the work. Much less of a jerk than other characters in Takahashi's work. Notably, his rival fits this mold a little better (as a good-hearted but very conceited rich boy) and has similar character development.
Female Lead: Kyoko Otonashi is a repressed
tsundere. Changed into a
Yamato Nadeshiko by the death of her first husband, her developing relationship with Godai brings the
tsundere back out.
Will They or Won't They? is finally resolved after 70 plus episodes. Ending on a definite note with Godai and Kyoko married and with a daughter named Haruka. Their issues were more serious and realistic {Godai's
wishy-washiness, Kyoko's
inability to let go of her late husband} than Takahashi's usual stubborn
Will Not Spit It Out.
Probably the most famous of the Takahashi works, providing the image above and together with
Kouji/Sayaka, the
trope codifiers for
Belligerent Sexual Tension.
Ranma:
Jerk with a Heart of Gold, probably due to his experiences growing up. Raised as a super-ultra-macho fighter by his
Jerk Ass father Genma, who put him in an
Arranged Marriage with one of Soun Tendou's daughters - the one who's ultimately "chosen" is Akane.
Akane:
Tsundere. Her type varies: the manga makes her a Type B (more deredere), the anime gives her more Type A (more tsuntsun) aspects than she had in the manga but she can still be considered a Type B. Due to the death of her mother very early in her life, Akane badly wishes to be more feminine, but as the only Tendo girl with martial arts skill her father raised her as a
Tomboy.
Ranma seems to be locked in a similar situation with all his possible
Love Interests. Shampoo loves him but she can also be very violent and possessive as well as prone to attack those who get in between once in a while, whereas Ukyo has
Childhood Friends deets but she also can get snippy to him (and both have been argued to have more than one whiff of
Yandere), and Kodachi is...
well,
herself.
Many a fan theory exists as to why they're so unable or unwilling to admit the obvious: a combination of Ranma's ultra-macho upbringing and Akane's
Kuno-induced misandry being the most popular. This may have also been due to the fact that no couple could really go anywhere
without horribly dishonoring most of the rest of them.
note On one hand Shampoo is considered as Ranma's legal wife in her village, plus she was Jusenkyou-cursed as a consequence of losing to his female self; on the other hand, Genma promised young!Ukyou that she and Ranma would marry, but later he stole her push-cart aka her "dowry" and ran off. Plus, they are still in high school so perhaps a lack of progress is understandable. At least some (minor) hints of progress at the very end - they hold hands. Ranma confess he loves Akane, although he denies it later.
InuYasha:
Jerk with a Heart of Gold.
Half-Human Hybrid born from the union between a human noblewoman named Izayoi and a powerful dog
Youkai only known as the Inu-No-Taishou ("leader of the dogs"). Raised in a rich human household, where people looked down on him for his origins. Lost his mother early in his life, then some years later he met a lonely
Miko named Kikyou who offered him kindness, and they fell in love
due to their common issues. They were planning to use the Shikon no Tama to make him a fullblooded human so he could live with Kikyou happily, but then... Naraku happened. Kikyou died, Inuyasha ended up pinned to a tree for 50 years until Kagome released him - logically, he has huge issues in regards to people.
Kagome Higurashi: Type B
Tsundere (deredere). Kikyou's reincarnation, a middle school student who lives in modern Japan. Is accidentally thrust into the past and, to protect herself and her surroundings, releases Inuyasha, and later teams up with him to retrieve the lost Shikon shards. Has a good heart, but latent self-esteem issues as well as quite the uncertainty in regards to her own place in the world - none of which is helped by the fact that, later, the original Kikyou is forcibly revived, dredging up Inuyasha's complex feelings for her and leaving Kagome both insecure about her own worth as a person, and wondering if she's necessary at all for him.
Inuyasha and Kagome are a variant: They clearly have come to an understanding as to their mutual feelings, so tend to have moments of
Aww, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other occasionally sprinkled into the denials, fighting, and plot-stretching bouts of
Cannot Spit It Out. They actually do become an
Official Couple towards the end of the manga (and appropriately enough, their romance then receives much
less attention until the end). Not to mention, thanks to
Character Development, Kagome warms up to Inuyasha quite faster than the standard Takahashi
Tsundere, and Inuyasha is slightly less prone to verbal abuse than the standard Takahashi
Jerk with a Heart of Gold. A far more standard example within the series would be the secondary couple, Miroku and Sango, although Miroku is less
Jerk with a Heart of Gold and more
Handsome Lech, with his incessant flirting with every girl the group meets being the primary trigger for the tsuntsun outbursts of Sango, who's normally a
Yamato Nadeshiko unless she's dealing with him.