"The pain is gone, I've succeeded. I feel strong too. I'm not afraid of you anymore! You won't kill me, I'll make you pay for everything you did to me!!!"In fiction, it's common for a character who has been abused or mistreated by another to eventually confront that person in order to move on with their life, and they discover that the person really was never as powerful as they thought, and that the abuse they suffered was the result of that person's own issues and insecurities. The abused may even take pity on the person who hurt them and decide that they're Not Worth Killing, and this is often the first step in a Humiliation Conga, as well as the culmination of an Hourglass Plot where the one-time victim ultimately overpowers their abuser. An unpleasant subversion of this takes place when, after being confronted, the abuser turns out to be even more dangerous than the abused realized. Unfortunately, the above can and does happen in real life. Not all bullies back down when challenged, some are neither cowardly nor insecure, just vicious. Compare Face Your Fears. See also Calling the Old Man Out for a specific variant of this. Not to be confused with I'm Not Afraid of You, when a threat loses its power (or disappears entirely) once a character is no longer afraid of it.
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Anime and Manga
- Brutally done by Lucy in Elfen Lied to the cruel kids who tormented her for so long after they push her too far by killing her dog in front of her. She snaps and kills them.
- In the Revolutionary Girl Utena series, Anthy's walking out on her brother Akio is one of these.
- There is a supernatural variety of this in Mnemosyne: the protagonist Rin is an immortal, and immortals fall into uncontrollable sexual drive when a creature called "angel" is nearby. The villain, who is an angel himself, uses this many times throughout the series to humiliate Rin but in the very end, Rin evolves into an immortal angelic being herself and sends the villain himself into uncontrollable sexual lust for her in their final confrontation.
- In Higurashi No Naku Koro Ni Kai, Satoko, with support from Keiichi, Rika, and oh yeah the entire village, confronting her abusive uncle Teppei, screaming that she hates him and for him to "GET OUT!!", despite being beaten while doing so. Just when he goes to attack again, the police bust in and capture him.
- Fullmetal Alchemist: When Dr. Marcoh finally decides to go face to face with his tormentor Envy, a Homunculus full of Philosopher's Stones, and shows why it's a bad idea to screw with a guy who made those stones for a living.
- Sora of Sukisho does this to Aizawa in the last episode, the guy who was responsible for torturing him and Sunao throughout their childhood, after being terrified of him for so long.
- In Nurse Angel Ririka SOS, Dewey undergoes a Heel–Face Turn, but it takes him a little while to shake his fear and servility towards his Big Bad ex-boss. Once he confronts his fear, it's on.
- In Fruits Basket, when Yuki tells Akito that he forgives him. Although Akito still gets mad and injures Yuki, it's obvious that Yuki doesn't fear him anymore, and since Akito controls the Zodiac through fear, it becomes clear that his power is waning.
- In the comic book Excalibur, Wolfsbane verbally confronts Reverend Craig, the abusive pastor who raised her and later tried to kill her when she was revealed as a mutant. She reduces him to tears by revealing that she knows he was her biological father and that her mother was a prostitute (with the implication that she could ruin him by making that information public).
- In a more recent storyline, Craig does turn out to be more dangerous. Unfortunately, he picks a bad time to show it: Wolfsbane has been brainwashed and has no fear response at all. She kills him and eats him.
- In Fray (a spinoff of Buffy the Vampire Slayer), our eponymous heroine breaks down and is unable to fight the first time she is confronted by the vampire that killed her brother. The second time, she just tosses aside her weapon and gets ready. Subverted when her sister crushes him with a car. And Fray comments she was about to get her ass kicked.
- During the Final Battle of Inner Demons, Apple Bloom realizes that the Darkness is feeding off of Twilight Sparkle's fear of it in order to grow strong enough to possess her again. Apple Bloom, who has been afraid of her destiny to fight the Darkness because she's meant to die during the fight, fights it anyway to protect Twilight and all of Equestria. Overcoming her fear helps Twilight overcome her own fears, and together they defeat the Darkness.
- Getting Back on Your Hooves: During their final Battle in the Center of the Mind, Checker Monarch takes on the form of an Ursa Major, knowing that Trixie is terrified of Ursas. However, after gaining some encouragement from her friends, Trixie is able to confront Checker, stating that while she may be afraid of Ursas, she's no longer afraid of her. Trixie then proceeds to kick Checker's ass.
- The Stars Will Aid Their Escape: Twilight and company ultimately feel this way about Herald/Nyarlathotep, who they're facing in his true form, as by this point, he's pretty much done everything he could to them, so they have nothing more to fear from him that they haven't already faced. This is unfortunate for Herald, who was banking on them being too afraid of him killing them to blast him point blank with the Elements.
"What was there to be afraid of, that it hadn’t already shown her?"
Films — Animated
- The eponymous Anastasia says this before unleashing her fury on Rasputin.
- The end of A Bug's Life has the ants realizing they kind of outnumber the grasshoppers a million to one, and suddenly they're not so afraid anymore and Zerg Rush the grasshoppers. Unfortunately, this is the subversive type, as it causes Hopper to have a breakdown. What makes this worse is that he already knows the ants outnumber the grasshoppers and that it could have serious consequences for the latter if the former figured that out, and thus must be kept in their place.
- At the end of The Ant Bully Lucas is not afraid of the bully anymore after his experiences with the ants.
- In Monsters, Inc., Boo confronts Randall, the monster in charge of scaring her, when he tries to push Sulley off a door suspended hundreds of feet in the air.
"She's not afraid of you anymore. Looks like you're out of a job."
Films — Live-Action
- The 1980s all-star version of Alice in Wonderland has Alice shouting this at the Jabberwocky.
- In the backstory of the teacher in Pay It Forward. However, it ends badly for him as his own (abusive) father decides to hit him with a 4x4 when his back is turned and then set him on fire.
- At the end of the original A Nightmare on Elm Street (1984), Nancy defeats Freddy for good when she turns her back on him, saying "You're nothing. You're shit." When Freddy tries to hurt her, he instead melts away into nothing, and the people he killed come back to life, implying that his power was dependent on his victims' fear of him. Then it turns out that Freddy's Not Quite Dead in a Diabolus ex Machina ending.
- Parodied in the comedy-horror film House (the one from The '80s, not the new film of the same name) when William Katt suddenly realizes that not being afraid of the villain will dispell all his power. Of course, when you're William Katt, nothing can scare you.
- At the end of Space Jam, the Monstars are being thoroughly berated by their boss, Mr. Swackhammer, for having lost the big basketball game that would've given him permanent control over the Looney Toons. When Michael asks the Monstars why they put up with this kind of abuse, the Monstars reply: "He's bigger..." *there is a pregnant pause, then the Monstars grin wickedly as they realize the truth of their situation* "...bigger than we used to be." They then stuff Mr. Swackhammer into a rocket and launch it, sending him back to Moron Mountain alone.
Sarah: Through dangers untold and hardships unnumbered, I have fought my way here to the castle beyond the Goblin City. For my will is as strong as yours, and my kingdom is as great... You have no power over me.
- James shouts this at the "rhino" in the film version of James and the Giant Peach.
- The movie version of Matilda: After a lifetime of living under The Trunchbull's thumb, Miss Honey finally stands up to her. "I am NOT seven years old anymore, Aunt Trunchbull!"
- In Drop Dead Fred, Lizzie Cronin is convinced to finally scream this at the mental representation of her domineering mother Polly.
- The heroine of Blood Simple. has this confrontation with a dying Villain Protagonist she thinks is her husband.
Abby: I'm not afraid of you, Marty.
Visser; (laughing) Well ma'am, if I see him, I'll be sure to give him the message.
- Fantastic Four: Rise Of The Silver Surfer has a variation of this. The Surfer turns against his master, Galactus, and says "I no longer wish to serve you".
- Pulled by Josh in Insidious against the demonic old lady who had been stalking him and trying to take over his body since childhood. It doesn't work.
- In District 9, Wikus spends most of his time running from his former employers and Nigerian gang lords, who all want him dead. Then comes his Roaring Rampage of Revenge, which is interspersed by him yelling he's not afraid of them. This is an instance of this trope where he has not truly overcome his fear; he actually is afraid of them, and for good reason, but has simply become The Berserker at this point, and has an alien Mini-Mecha to help him.
- In Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, Voldemort, who has just reclaimed a physical body, wants to duel Harry in the graveyard of Little Haggleton. As he calls out Harry, Harry, who is hiding behind a tombstone, is clearly afraid for his life. But, since he knows there is no way out, he basically swallows his fear and comes out to face off with his parents' killer. "Fine, have it your way." It is this courage that carries him through the rest of the series.
- Scream 3: In the beginning, Sidney is revealed to be living as a recluse, convinced it is the only way to stay safe from psychotic killers from coming after her, and killing those around her. She lives in the middle of nowhere, locks and sets an alarm on her gate before locking and setting the alarm for her house. In the end she leaves her gate open behind her, and doesn't set the alarm for her house. When the wind blows the door open, she looks at it and walks away.
- The Hangover: In the first film of the trilogy, Stu is in a relationship with a shrill, controlling woman named Melissa. Despite the fact that Melissa mistreats Stu constantly and has even cheated on him, Stu makes excuses for her behavior and defends her when his friends point out how badly she treats him. At the end of the film, Stu finally decides that he's had enough and berates Melissa in front of an entire wedding party before dumping him.
- Kethry in Mercedes Lackey's Vows and Honor series was forced into marriage as a child and raped by a rather unpleasant guy, who left her emotionally scarred, but years later winds up being captured again by him once she's gone and become an extremely powerful sorceress. When he comes to see her and torment her again she realizes just how pathetic he is and ends up scaring the bejeezus out of him so that he runs away from her.
- Lale goes through this in her Final Battle in The Assassins of Tamurin
Glinda: Don't be afraid, Elphie.Elphaba: I'm not afraid... It's the Wizard who should be afraid of me.
- At the end of Hogfather, Susan Sto Helit unleashes a Not Afraid of You Anymore speech on Jonathan Teatime as only a badass governess can.
- Subverted in the same book for Teatime's wizard associate, who gets all fired up to invoke this trope on the vision of his childhood bully: after all, he's a grown man now, so can surely scare off some pesky kid. Too late, he realizes that he himself has become a little boy again...
- From Sourcery: "I did not throw you far enough!"
- Rincewind has a similar mental confrontation with the Great Spell inside his head in The Light Fantastic, lambasting it for ruining his life and then being too scared to help him against Trymon in the end.
- Also in The Truth, William De Worde has a brilliant moment of this with his father, after saying "Men like my father are bullies and they're the worst kind because they aren't cowards and if you stand up to them they only hit you harder." Granted William had a vampire for backup, but he didn't know that.
- In Dan Abnett's Gaunt's Ghosts novel Only In Death, Larkin is haunted by apparitions of the (dead) psychopathic killer Cuu. At the end, he defies him and declares he is joining the real Ghosts to die with them. The apparition vanishes.
- Invoked and then Subverted in the Everworld series. The witch Senna asks her half-sister if she's afraid of her. April, who the narrative makes clear is very much afraid, attempts to tell her the words of this trope. Senna's response is to use her powers to open the gateway between Everworld and the Old World, and then shove her sister's head through it.
Senna: "So much for 'maybe.' "
- In A Game of Thrones, Daenerys comes to realize that her unstable, abusive older brother Viserys is truly a weak coward who no longer has the power to hurt her.
He was a pitiful thing. He had always been a pitiful thing. Why had she never seen that before? There was a hollow place inside her where her fear had been.
- In Warcraft: Lord of the Clans, Thrall experiences this when he confronts Blackmore, his abusive foster father. He reflects on how he had been afraid of him and worshiped him, when in the end he was only a miserable wreck.
- In Uprising, Kerrigan confronts Rumm, the officer who had abused her for a decade. She escapes captivity and deep fries his brain with her powers giving him a long overdue Karmic Death
- For the early books of The Wheel of Time, Rand is haunted by and in mortal fear of his Evil Counterpart Ishamael. In the last book of the series, Rand confronts Moridin- Ishamael in a new body- once again, this time after an epiphany that set him on the right path to fulfilling his destiny. Rand realizes that he and Moridin both stared into the abyss, but Moridin fell into nihilism and madness where Rand managed to overcome it. Seeing his enemy at last for what he truly is- a hollow shell of a man who would destroy himself and take reality with him rather than face the prospect of existing any longer- Rand expresses his amazement that he ever feared him, and tells Moridin that he's nothing more than an obstacle between Rand and the Dark One.
- In The Twilight Zone (1959) episode "A Piano in the House", a man buys a player piano with an unusual quality: when loaded with the correct music, it causes a person listening to it to express their true emotions and personality. He uses it to expose the personality flaws of his dinner guests so he can cruelly mock them. However, the piano eventually reveals his inner nature to be immature and frightened of other people, which causes him to be malicious and hateful. When the others learn this, they feel pity for him.
- In the The Twilight Zone (2002) episode "Azoth the Avenger is a Friend of Mine" Craig says this word for word to his father. His mother doesn't quote the trope name, her standing up to her husband to defend Craig implies this.
- That Mitchell and Webb Look The Green Clarinet Sketch. "Well I have a red tuba that makes you shit yourself."
- Shortly after the 2008 election, Chris Wallace was interviewed on The Daily Show and gave Jon Stewart a cookie as a gift from Karl Rove, with a strong implication that it was poisoned (Rove had told Wallace specifically which cookie out of the batch to pass on to him). The Studio Audience, smelling a rat, began yelling for Jon not to eat it.
Jon Stewart: Let me tell you why I'll eat it: Karl Rove can't hurt me anymore. [eats cookie]
Jon: Al Qaeda's opportunity is gone. For the last 10 years, Al Qaeda had the world's attention. They apparently wanted an ideology competition, and for all of our rights and wrongs, and the world's rights and wrongs, all Al Qaeda seems to have come up with is, "Uh, all right, we'll kill some Americans. How about killing some British people? Uh, maybe bombing Yemen or something. Shoe bomb doesn't work? How about an underwear bomb?" They have nothing. Can they still do damage? I'm sure. But we're back, baby.
- He also said the same thing about Al Qaeda after Osama Bin Laden's death in 2011.
- The powerfully telekinetic girl in Angel broke down when confronted with her abusive father, but she then managed to overcome her fear and throw him out a window and catch him a few feet from the pavement.
- In an early season one episode, Angel is sent to help a woman who has been stalked, for months, by an obsessive doctor who has found a metaphysical way of pulling his body parts so they can move around, under his control, even when they aren't attached to his body. In the climax, this woman, previously nervous and fearful as a result of paranoia, finally stands up to the man, realising that his stalking makes him feel better about himself and helps him gratify his own lack of self-worth. He loses his edge as a result and is defeated by a newly arrived Angel.
- In the season one Buffy the Vampire Slayer episode Nightmares, the Scoobies (and the rest of Sunnydale) have to deal with their worst nightmares being made manifest. Xander finds himself being chased by a Monster Clown. Then Xander stops, pivots, and slugs the Clown in the chops, laying him out flat. He's the only one of the Scoobies to effectively face his fears in this episode, although Buffy is able to harness her fear (being turned into a Vampire) to take down the villain of the episode.
- In season five of Lost, Locke ominously tells Ben that he's not afraid of anything Ben can do anymore. This is a clue that it's not really Locke.
- In the old Buck Rogers TV series, there was a sorcerer/rabble rouser, played by Jack Palance(!), who could strike anyone dead with a magical touch...but only if that person believed in and feared his power. Buck Rogers figures this out and destroys his power by publically demonstrating that it is hollow.
- In the fifth episode of the first series of Being Human, Annie gives an incredible Not Afraid of You Anymore speech to her fiancee/murderer Owen, in which she confronts him over her murder, then tells him the Secret Only The Dead Know, causing him to Go Mad from the Revelation.
- In the episode "Profiler, Profiled" on Criminal Minds, Derek Morgan has a scene at the end where he tells off the UnSub Carl Buford, the man who raped him repeatedly when he was young in what is essentially just one big moment of this. Eventually, the UnSub gets so desperate that he unintentionally reveals his crimes to the police, exposing himself as the monster he truly is. As he gets taken away, Derek tells him to go to hell while the UnSub can only beg desperately.
- Done a few times in EastEnders with Domestic Abuser storylines:
Little Mo: What's wrong, Trevor? Cat got your tongue?
- Little Mo against Trevor. After a prolonged abusive relationship, Little Mo finally snaps and attacks him with an iron. When he later attempts to kill them both in fire, she stands up against him and manages to escape while he burns.
- Subverted in the Supernatural episode On the Head of a Pin. Dean is forced to confront the demon, Alistair, who tortured him in Hell. Despite the fact that Alistair is chained up and Dean is fully armed, Alistair manipulates Dean, messes with his head, and eventually gets loose and beats the crap out of him.
- Horatio Hornblower, "Retribution": Midshipman Wellard was abused by paranoid captain Sawyer who thought Wellard conspired against him and had him beaten up constantly to confess to imaginary mutiny. When Sawyer's later confined in his cabin, completely mad and dosed with laudanum, Wellard stands up to him. Their ship is taken, and Wellard feels desperate about their court-martial and probable charges of mutiny. He claims he wants to help his lieutenants because either Kennedy, Hornblower or him could be accused of causing captain's accident. His idea is to shoot him, but he cannot do it as Sawyer reached the Alas, Poor Villain point and then had a rare moment of sane mind. Nevertheless, Wellard tells him that he's not his whipping boy now, and when he gets slapped, he tells him he's no man for striking him. Sawyer admits that Wellard's brave. Moments later, they stand united against their enemy.
- In the final episode of Power Rangers Zeo, Rita tells Mondo she and Zedd didn't fear him any longer. And yet, Zedd pretended otherwise to trick the Machine Empire.
- Said not to the villain, but by the villain in World of Warcraft at the climax of the battle with the Lich King in Icecrown Citadel. Arthas, who is indeed a terrifying threat to all of Azeroth, has just had the cursed sword Frostmourne shattered by Tirion Fordring, releasing the souls it has stolen and breaking his power. As he floats, helpless against the finishing blow, he utters these immortal words.
Arthas: "Now I stand, the lion before the lambs, and they do not fear. They cannot fear."
- Ariel in Drowtales winds up confronting Syphile, the woman who (badly) raised her, and after Syphile tries to kill her Ariel turns on her, shouts the trope name, and uses Syphile's own weapon against her. But she still needs her butt saved in the end as Syphile decides to taint her.
- A silent variation occurs in El Goonish Shive during a dream sequence, when Grace sees her second alien side, which initially snarls at her, and Grace simply reaches out and hugs it, representing her acceptance of that part of herself.
- Attempted in Venus Envy by Zoe against the personification of her fears, but since she hasn't completely gotten over them yet it doesn't work.
- In a recent arc in T. Campbell's Fans!, Ally demonstrated that she no longer feared Keith Feddyg by saying the last three words that he wanted to hear from her; "I forgive you."
- In the final arc of Dominic Deegan, Dominic expresses amazement that he ever feared the Beast. It wasn't nearly as scary once he knew its true ultimately pathetic nature. In the author's own words, knowledge of the Beast diminished it.
- In Erfworld The Dittomancy Doubel of King Slately, upon seeing Parson, says "There is the Lord of Hampsters himself. Large and terrible. Yet I do not fear him." While Parson had not tormented Slately himself, he did hold Parson largely, if not entirely, responsible for croaking two of his sons, The real King Slately, a massive number of Jetstone units, and driving Uniroyal (whose queen was a close friend of Slately) to extinction. His fearsome reputation as a Warlord amongst other leaders of Erfworld was largely written in the blood of Jetstone and Uniroyal soldiers, despite not actually commanding most of those battles.
- Played with in All Hail King Julien. After their old tyrant king tries to take his position back, the lemurs realize they aren't afraid of him any more and work together to drive them away. Unfortunately, he learns from the experience and makes sure he gives the kingdom plenty to be afraid of next time.
- Subverted in Recess. Gus, the awkward new kid, after asking his Army veteran father for advice, attempts to invoke this trope by challenging the bully that has continually hounded him... only to be shocked when the bully nonchalantly accepts the challenge, and then gives him a severe beating off-screen, which he accepts thinking there's nothing else he can do at this point. Touched by Gus' courage, the rest of the playground stand up against the bully, upon which he slinks off in a huff.
- Ron Stoppable from the series Kim Possible really fits this trope. Being that he was afraid of things that were ridiculous things (or perhaps, not so ridiculous), throughout the series, he overcome many of them, such as when he decided to stop running from his mutant enemy Gill and fight back, and more notably he conquered his childhood fear of monkeys, even accepting their nature as the source of his mystical martial arts powers. Even before that, he no longer felt intimidated by his personal Arch-Enemy Monkey Fist, just annoyed.
- Invoked by Kevin's stepfather in Ben 10: Ultimate Alien: He stands up to the mutated, out of his mind Kevin, declaring "I'm not afraid of you anymore, Kevin."
- A variation in Avatar: The Last Airbender: this trope is not openly stated, but is certainly present when Zuko confronts his father, Firelord Ozai, and tells him what he thinks of him. While the main focus of the confrontation is Zuko's realisation that he has no reason to desire Ozai's love and respect, his refusal to back down when he is threatened fits this trope. Granted, the specific moment he chooses for the confrontation means he doesn't actually have anything to fear from him for a short time, but even when the moment passes, he keeps his courage.
I can airbend? [beat] I can airbend!
- In the sequel series, Korra has a similar moment in the first season finale where she realizes that despite Big Bad Amon taking her bending away she is able to airbend for the first time in her life and proceeds to kick his ass after most of a season of being terrified of him.
- Subverted in season 4. Korra thinks saying this to previous big bad Zaheer's face will help her get back up to par, but he immediately proves her wrong. He then helps her do it for real so she could take on the current big bad.
- The subversion happens in The Spongebob Square Pants Movie tired of running, Patrick Star decides to confront Dennis, the vicious bounty hunter that has been chasing them during the movie...only to be smacked by him.
- Done on Ozzy and Drix, when Hector, who has been hounded by a nightmare about a monster he saw in a horror movie for weeks, finally stands up to the creature in his dreams, to save Ozzy and Drix. Once he does, he realizes that the monster was just that, a simple figment of someone elses imagination, that had no real power.
- In the Justice League Unlimited episode "The Return", the incredibly powerful android Amazo returns to Earth looking for Luthor. Luthor spends most of the episode understandably terrified of the superpowered android whom he deceived and manipulated previously. Luthor later realizes that Amazo didn't really want revenge but was merely searching for meaning in his empty existence which he believed Luthor could give him. Luthor coldly remarks that he no longer fears Amazo. He just pities him.