->''"Okay. Look. We both said a lot of things that you're going to regret. But I think we can put our differences behind us. [[ForScience For science]]. [[YouMonster You monster]]."''
-->-- '''SelfDemonstrating/{{GLaDOS}}''', ''Videogame/{{Portal 2}}''

Alice does something nice for Bob out of the goodness of her heart. Bob's response to that is to go "Oh, you did it wrong. But that's okay, I forgive you." Alice bristles at his audacity.

In a variant, instead of using the {{Stock Phrase|s}}, Bob may just let Alice know he doesn't blame her for something because it's not her fault she's useless at whatever she was trying to do in the first place.

Sometimes there is genuine misunderstanding somewhere in there. Sometimes Bob is just [[LiteralMinded taking Alice too literally]]. Sometimes he's [[ComicallyMissingThePoint really that clueless]]. Sometimes he [[CannotTellAJoke just thinks he's being funny]]. Sometimes he's genuinely being a {{Jerkass}}. This doesn't need to be intentional-- it's only necessary that Alice interpret it this way: he has no authority to "lift blame" off her when whatever happened was not her fault in the first place, or it's something that's not even a real offense. [[PlayedForLaughs That's why it's funny]].

Other times, if the person being "forgiven" actually did apologize to the "forgiver", this could be used as a passive-aggressive way to accuse someone of BackhandedApology. Done the right way, this form of forgiveness is one to which the recipient '''can't''' take offense without ''ipso facto'' admitting that [[FridgeBrilliance their apology was insincere]].

Compare with BackhandedApology and StealthInsult. It's ForgivenButNotForgotten if the forgiveness is more grudging than sarcastic. See also {{Forgiveness}}.


[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* Luo Hao in ''LightNovel/{{Campione}}'' frequently forgives her opponents and allies for what she deems to be insults, weakness, or challenges to her dominance. She is so overwhelmingly arrogant that she views her forgiveness as a true gift. As an example, she has graciously allowed Godou's harem the privilege of looking at her without needing to then gouge out their own eyes for their impertinence.

[[folder:Films -- Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/MonstersVsAliens'': After dumping her earlier, Derek returns to Susan to forgive ''her'', because "it wasn't your fault you got hit by a meteor and ruined everything."
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Shrek}}'' has Donkey calling out Shrek for his behavior towards him, so Shrek cuts him off by saying, "Okay, Donkey, I forgive you...FOR STABBING ME IN THE BACK!"

[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
* Taken to a global scale in ''Film/{{Amadeus}}''. Salieri attempts to establish himself as a MessianicArchetype, claiming the events of the movie as his sacrifice:
-->'''Salieri:''' Mediocrities of the world, I absolve you!
* In ''Film/CoolAsIce'', Kathy's fiance watches her dance with Vanilla Ice at a party, and afterward takes her aside and forgives her for it. This is meant to be seen by the audience as evidence that he's a pompous asshole and she'd be better off dumping him for Ice.
* In ''Film/TheLostWorldJurassicPark'', Dr. Malcolm lets Peter Ludlow know that "when you try to sound like Hammond, it comes off as a hustle. I mean, it's not your fault. They say talent skips a generation. So, I'm sure your kids will be sharp as tacks."
* In ''Film/MeanGirls'', when Ms. Norbury makes all the girls in school confront the fact that they've been mean to someone else, one girl apologizes to another girl for calling her a gap-toothed bitch, because "it's not your fault you're so gap-toothed."
** So not only is she "forgiving" the girl for being gap-toothed, she's only apologizing for half of the insult.
* From ''Film/YouveGotMail'':
-->'''Frank:''' Since when do you get manicures?\\
'''Kathleen:''' Oh, I suppose you could never be with a woman who got manicures...\\
'''Frank:''' Never mind. It's okay. I forgive you.\\
'''Kathleen:''' You ''forgive'' me?

* In ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'', Granny Weatherwax has a way of graciously not blaming Magrat for things that were clearly not Magrat's fault (and may have been Granny's).
* In Book Two (''Literature/FoolMoon'') of ''Literature/TheDresdenFiles'', Lt. Karrin Murphy shoots in Harry's direction to save him from some crazy who was about to kill him. Harry, who was facing the opposite way at the time, hadn't seen his attacker and thought she shot at ''him'' instead, because she doubted his loyalties. However, he ''had'' previously betrayed her trust, so he decides he can't blame her for thinking him a bad guy and he forgives her for shooting him. Murphy thinks he's a big idiot for thinking that way, and lets him know it.
** It should say something that the moment was [[CrowningMomentOfheartwarming enough to restore their friendship]]. Yup, they're VitriolicBestBuds to the finest.
* Hazel to Anne in ''[[Literature/AnneOfGreenGables Anne Of Windy Poplars]]'' in her parting letter.

[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* From ''Series/ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia'':
-->'''Dee:''' Okay, I did try, it just didn't happen to work out.\\
'''Frank:''' It's not your fault, sweetie. You're just not pretty enough.\\
'''Dee:''' Wow, thank you! That's my dad, everybody.
* From ''Series/{{Sherlock}}'':
--> '''John:''' ''(after Sherlock [[TheWatson explains clues]])'' Why didn't I think of that?
--> '''Sherlock:''' Because you're an idiot. ''*John opens mouth to retaliate*'' No no no, don't be like that, [[InsufferableGenius practically everybody is]].
* In ''[[Series/LifeOnMars2006 Life on Mars]]'', after a prisoner dies in his cell, Sam sees Annie crying and reassures her that it wasn't her fault. She can't believe he thinks she needs to be told that.
* In ''Series/TheWestWing'', after Josh and Amy have spent the episode in one of their usual semi-political-semi-personal power struggles, he comes up to tell her he forgives her for her side of it. She starts to take offense, but then Abbey prompts her to accept it for the sake of keeping the peace. She says in a monotone, "Thank you for forgiving me, Josh, I appreciate that," and then mutters, "Jackass."

* From ''Radio/TheGoonShow'':
-->'''Major Bloodnok:''' How dare you call me Major Bloodnok!\\
'''Seagoon:''' That's your name.\\
'''Major Bloodnok:''' In that case, I forgive you.

* A darker version is used in Ibsen's ''Theatre/ADollsHouse''. Nora Helmer has borrowed money to send her seriously ill husband Torvald on a trip that saves his life. Unfortunately, the man who lent her the money (who is Torvald's employee) blackmails her that he'll tell her husband unless she gets him a promotion. After some complications, Torvald finds out what she did and [[UngratefulBastard snaps at her]] because the blackmail and her actions reflect badly on [[ItsAllAboutMe him]] (especially since she had committed forgery at some point). Then he finds out that the other man changed his mind about blackmailing him. He generously "forgives" her and gives her a good deal of the "you didn't know better" part of the trope. Nora coldly thanks him, but then she proceeds to give him TheReasonYouSuckSpeech and leaves the house. The exit scene is described as the most dramatic doorslam in the history of theatre.

[[folder:Video Games]]
* ''Videogame/{{Portal 2}}'' has this in spades, mostly on the part of SelfDemonstrating/{{GLaDOS}}, who's spent an undefined but ''very long'' time reliving the last few minutes of her defeat at Chell's hands [[AndIMustScream on endless repeat]] and is (perhaps understandably) very bitter.

[[folder:Western Animation]]
* In the ''[[WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons Simpsons]]'' episode, "The Nedliest Catch", Homer convinces Ned that Edna's previous sexual encounters should not break Ned and Edna up when they were such a perfect couple. Ned invites Edna over to his place to apologize for freaking out, and then announces his forgiveness. They come down to a MakeUpOrBreakUp and...that's the end of the season. The viewers vote for which happens. [[spoiler: The viewers voted that they should stay together]].
* In the ''WesternAnimation/AlvinAndTheChipmunks'' episode "Funny, We Shrunk the Adults", Simon accuses Alvin of shrinking his lab coat. When it turns out that the coat belongs to one of Theodore's dolls, Simon snobbishly "accepts" Alvin's "apology", instead of apologizing for falsely accusing his brother.