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[[caption-width-right:350:There seems to be a [[VisualPun barrier]] between them.]]

->'He gave me this note for you,' Josie took a half-torn binder sheet out of her pocket and handed it over. It read: ''Too busy with work. Sort it out yourself. You're fine--Trust me. F.''\\
''Too busy?' Jim screwed up the note in his hand. 'Wonderful!' He shook his head in bitter frustration. 'Evavich is going to kill me and my brother doesn't care.'
-->-- ''Literature/JimSpringmanAndTheRealmOfGlory''

He's [[TheAce smarter, stronger, faster, more talented, and more refined]] than the hero, and -- just to add insult to injury -- he's probably sexier, too. His only problem seems to be moving his face out of that expression of bored, dignified disdain. And he just happens to be the elder brother of one of the main cast, which often gives them [[AlwaysSomeoneBetter a raging inferiority complex]].

Will most likely double as the IneffectualLoner and NobleDemon, thereby running the risk of becoming an EnsembleDarkhorse. May or may not be evil, ''strictly'' speaking, but is almost guaranteed to [[WorthyOpponent fight against the protagonists]] at one point, and spout off CrypticConversation to prove how much better informed they are. [[AlternateCharacterInterpretation May or may not]] be a StealthMentor. Often an integral part of an [[OrganizationIndex Evil Organisation]], and may be the EnigmaticMinion in that case.

Compare to AlwaysSomeoneBetter, who is also often an older brother, BigBrotherMentor, where the brother is more open as well as a leader, and BigBrotherBully, where the brother is mean towards younger siblings. Contrast BigBrotherInstinct, where the older brother instead goes out of his way to look after his younger siblings. A subtrope of TheStoic.


[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* ''Manga/AirGear'': Kaito Wanijima.
* Takeru of ''Manga/AkumaDeSourou'' is this to Yuzuru. Takeru is athletic, handsome, and popular, while Yuzuru is mostly mistaken for a girl and physically bullied at school. He studies hard to go to his big brother's school and even [[spoiler: stalks and blackmails Kayano]] just to get Takeru's attention.
* In ''Manga/AngelSanctuary'', Michael's Aloof Big Brother is ''Lucifer'', though most of this is told in the backstory and we only get to see the aftereffects.
* Suguru Aizawa of ''Manga/AreaNoKishi'' is often cold and aloof with his younger brother, Kakeru, and quite obviously disapproves of his brother's dream to become a professional [[UsefulNotes/FootyRules football]] trainer. It is hinted, however, that Suguru [[BigBrotherMentor may act this way]] because he knows that Kakeru is only truly happy when ''playing'' the sport he loves.
* Austria from ''Manga/AxisPowersHetalia'' starts as this, specially to young North Italy. Even in modern times, he's quite aloof compared with the rest of his entourage.
** The Netherlands is ''still'' like this to his younger siblings Belgium and Luxembourg. Poor Belgium still frets about how unsociable and penny-pinching he is.
** Switzerland seems like this at first glance, but it's [[KnightTemplarBigBrother very]] [[JerkWithAHeartOfGold much]] subverted.
* ''Manga/{{Bleach}}'': Byakuya is Ichigo's initial nemesis solely because of two conflicting vows, choosing to protect the law (made to his deceased parents) over protecting his sister (made to his deceased wife). Ichigo helps him resolve this conflict, turning him into a master of LoopholeAbuse. His BigBrotherInstinct now has full reign resulting in KnightTemplarBigBrother violence against anyone who dares injure Rukia, to whom he is now a BigBrotherMentor.
* ''Manga/BloomIntoYou'': In the SchoolPlay [[ShowWithinAShow that the main characters put on]], the main character, an amnesiac high school student who hears three completely different accounts about herself, apparently is one to her younger brother. He says that they had the same mother but different fathers, and tells his sister that she kept her distance from the rest of the family. He's somewhat bitter about it, noting that if she acted that way at home, she probably really was a cold and distant person, but holds out hope that they can reconcile once she gets home from the hospital. On the other hand, the main character suggests that she acted distant in order to keep the peace around her family, and even though her brother doesn't think she remembers his birthday, it's one of three important dates to her that, when added up, makes her cell phone password, so it's suggested that she may have cared more than she let on.
* A subversion of this appears in ''Manga/{{Bobobobobobobo}}'' with [[spoiler:Softon, who happens to be heroine Beauty's missing older brother.]] He initially sided with TheEmpire before his [[DefeatMeansFriendship defeat at Bo-bobo's hands]], and he ''does'' act very aloof and stoic throughout, even when he [[GRatedDrug pratfalls into the series' regular nonsensical gags.]] However, he is helpful to the main party, [[spoiler:and he is very protective of his sister, albeit discreetly.]]
* In ''Manga/Brave10'', Rokuro is one towards his younger twin, Nanakuma, as Rokuro is far less emotionally demonstrative. He doesn't hate Nanakuma like [[CainAndAbel Nanakuma hates him]] but in reality Rokuro's cold [[TheStoic stoicism]] only contributes to Nanakuma's [[InferioritySuperiorityComplex insecurities]] and anger.
* Yue from ''Manga/CardcaptorSakura'', though he's a lot nicer about it. More of a [[BigBrotherMentor brotherly mentor]].
** Though he's missing the aspects of TheRival, Touya Kinomoto definitely fits the personality type, having gifts the [[MagicalGirl heroine]] doesn't and continually teasing her (he ''is'' a big brother, after all). He does, though, care for her quite a bit, often directing IfYouEverDoAnythingToHurtHer {{subtext}} at her prospective LoveInterest.
* Lelouch vi Britannia of ''Anime/CodeGeass'' is initially an inversion, being warm and caring towards his little sister Nunnally, but later on, he dons a cold facade of a jerk for the sake of ''world peace.'' [[spoiler:Poor Nunnally only learns his motives when he's dying.]] He's also an interesting take on this trope, since he's the ''main character''.
** And Lelouch himself (though perhaps Nunners and by extension the whole of the Britannian royal family) has this in the form of Prince Schneizel.
* ''Manga/DeathNote'': Thanks to his sister Sayu, Light Yagami can be considered one, since he is too busy killing criminals to help her do her homework.
* Yamato/Matt from ''Anime/DigimonAdventure'' is an odd example of the trope, as he seems to try to be a more typical case of this, but gets flustered and angry so easily that he may as well kiss the "aloof" part (which he pulls more from being a loner) goodbye.
** One could argue it's because of Yamato's young age that he's mostly trying to ''act'' aloof in order to be seen as cool (many kids/young teens adopt "personas" based off of fictional characters they admire until they themselves figure out who they really are as people), but he genuinely cares about his baby brother too much to follow through with the trope's characteristics of being detached and insensitive to Takeru/T.K.'s well-being.
* As of the 2008 ''Manga/DragonBall'' OVA special, Vegeta can be considered one.
* Subverted in ''Manga/{{Eyeshield 21}}'' with Agon and Unsui. It's the younger twin that's perfect and gives the older one a raging inferiority complex. In terms of personality though, Unsui is definitely the aloof one
* [[BigBad Zeref]] from ''Anime/FairyTail'' fits this to T. He is way smarter, refined and talented than his younger brother [[spoiler: Natsu]] being considered the greatest genius that his academy as ever seen. He is also stronger and faster than him as he is the stongest wizard to have ever live and always has a calm and dignified expression on his face.
* The ur-example in anime would be Raoh, Kenshiro's older brother from ''Manga/FistOfTheNorthStar''. He was even the BigBad for most of the series, but eventually did a HeelFaceTurn.
** Hyoh, Kenshiro's actual elder brother from the SequelSeries, is a bit of a subversion. While a strong fighter by his own right, he is actually stated to be weaker than both Kenshiro and his former training partner, Kaioh (who just happens to be Raoh's true elder brother).
** On some occasions, Raoh is shown trying his hardest to keep up this image. He refuses to show either fear or love, even when he knows he's feeling these emotions, because he wishes to maintain his pride as the elder brother.
* Kurei from ''Manga/FlameOfRecca'' is Recca's EXTREMELY Aloof Big Brother (well, half-brother). Similar to the Byakuya Kuchiki example, Kurei is unable to openly display the kindness his allies ''know'' he has, and it very much stems from the traumatic past he has gone through and having the wrong man raise him.
* In ''{{Anime/Free}}'' Rin Matsuoka is this to his little sister Gou. For the most part, he's as cold and distant to her as he is with everyone else, though he does have moments that show he cares for her.
* ''Manga/FruitsBasket'': Ayame's BackStory shows him treating Yuki like this, as he was ten years older and Yuki was very sick as a child. His current wish to help and support Yuki is, he admits, trying to [[TheAtoner make up for it]].
* Pride from the ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'' manga, the oldest of the Homunculi siblings and always willing to tell his brothers how much they screwed up.
** He's also willing to ''eat them'' as well.
** Non-blood-related example, but Scar and Mei have a dynamic similar to this as well. Though the 'aloof' is a vast improvement over Scar's previous SerialKillerKiller occupation.
* Leonard Testarossa from ''LightNovel/FullMetalPanic! The Second Raid'', though more expressive than most.
* Osamu Sugo/Knight Shoemach of ''Anime/FutureGPXCyberFormula'', who is Asuka's older brother. He's actually more of a BigBrotherMentor, but he has this trait on several occasions, especially in the ''Double-One'' arc, when he challenges Hayato and the others.
* ''Manga/GameXRush'' has Ken, who is Memori's Aloof Big Bro in a somewhat more active sense - repeatedly taunts him, remains completely blank-faced at Memori's protests, but he's [[JerkWithAHeartOfGold really not a bad guy]].
* In ''Anime/GirlsUndPanzer'', Miho's older sister Maho appears to treat her coldly with the only thing she says to her in their first on-screen encounter being "I didn't think you'd still be doing tankery." [[spoiler:It turns out that this is a facade of a jerkass on her part, brought on by the pressures related to being Nishizumi heiress, and her reason for trying so hard to be a good heiress is so that Miho will be free to live and do tankery the way she wishes]].
* ''Franchise/{{Gundam}}'':
** ''Anime/MobileSuitGundam'': Char Aznable to [[spoiler:Sayla Mass (original names Casval Rem and Artesia Som Deikun)]].
** ''Anime/MobileFighterGGundam'': Played with surprisingly well and dramatically ([[NarmCharm considering the series]]). It seems [[spoiler:Kyouji Kasshu]] is a textbook and [[MagnificentBastard VERY cruel]] version of this...but by the end of the series, we see that he never ''truly'' was. His original personality was closer to a BigBrotherMentor, but he was ''forcefully'' turned into an Aloof Big Brother [[spoiler: BigBad due to the brainwashing given to him by the Devil Gundam and its DG Cells.]] He still uses his last bits of strength and sanity [[spoiler:to create a clone of himself with some more DG Cells and the dead body of the original Schwarz Bruder (whom the Devil Gundam fought and killed); said clone becomes Domon's BigBrotherMentor, the second Schwarz Bruder]].
** ''Anime/MobileSuitGundamWing'': Zechs Marquise (a.k.a. Milliardo Peacecraft) is so aloof that he concealed his identity completely from his sister, Relena, even as he maneuvered events to push her into accepting their family's legacy. She eventually learns of their relationship from his love interest, Lt. Noin, rather than from him directly.
* Ray Langren in ''Anime/GunXSword'', ever since his wife was murdered by the Claw.
* In ''Manga/HunterXHunter'', Killua's stoic older brother Illumi seems to give off this impression. The truth is that Illumi is incredibly protective of Killua; so protective, in fact, that he [[BigBrotherBully refuses to let him live his own life]], believing that it is his job as {{The Dutiful Son}} to make sure that Killua inherits the {{Family Business}}[[ProfessionalKiller assassination]].
%% * ''Manga/{{Hyakko}}'': Torako's older sister.
* Subverted by [[TheAce Yuki Aiba]], the Aloof ''Little'' Brother of ''Anime/InfiniteRyvius'' protagonist Kouji Aiba. Yuki is cooler, stronger, taller, smarter, and more competent than his awkward and dopey older brother. He even has a more active love life too.
* ''LightNovel/InfiniteStratos'' has Chifuyu Orimura, the big sister of the protagonist Ichika who has won the Mondo Grosso tournament using nothing but the same weapon Ichika's Byakkushiki is using right now. She has taken care of him since he was small after their parents abandoned them. She is also his homeroom teacher and combat instructor, which leads to many comparisons and expectations that he knows he's not ready to fulfill.
* Ryosuke Takahashi from ''Manga/InitialD'' fits this trope to a T. He's rarely ever seen displaying any emotion [[spoiler:even when a ghost from his past, the [[NamesToRunAwayFromReallyFast Shinigami]], is actually ''trying to kill him during a race'']]. He often spends his time either on a computer screen analyzing data from racing or tuning his car, and shows no connection to any character that isn't Takumi or his brother, [[spoiler:though this might have something to do with his implied DarkAndTroubledPast]].
* Sesshomaru from ''Manga/InuYasha''. He seems to be the only one better at fitting this trope than Uchiha Itachi. The only one more daunting than Sesshomaru in this manga (including [[BigBad Naraku]]) is... Sesshomaru's ''mother''.
* Tsubasa Ohgami (to Sohma) from ''Manga/KannazukiNoMiko''.
* ''Manga/{{Kekkaishi}}'''s Masamori is initially more capable than Yoshimori, the main character. He also rarely visits home, and is the leader of the Night Troops. Aside from his ManipulativeBastard AntiHero tendencies, he really does care for his family.
* Meta Knight to Kirby in ''Anime/KirbyRightBackAtYa''. Subverted in that Kirby's actually more powerful.
* Gwendal von Voltaire on ''LightNovel/KyoKaraMaoh!'' has this as his default setting, particularly toward his annoying youngest brother, Wolfram, who looks up to him and toward whom he stands in something of a fatherly role. He actually cares a lot, though, it's just that, because of what his mother's like, he's been playing the role of OnlySaneMan since he was [[OlderThanTheyLook thirty]] or so, and over the decades, it's gotten to him. (He currently runs the kingdom for Yuuri, is probably 200 or so, and looks forty-fivish and a lot older than his mother.) His other brother, Conrad, actually gets less support of any kind from him, but they understand each other better and Conrad's a bit of an emotional masochist, so it works out.
** Conrad has, in turn, wound up doing a very different style of this to Wolfram, who, at the start of the series, resents him heartily and subjects him to [[FantasticRacism racial slurs]], though [[CharacterDevelopment he gets better about that]]. Interestingly, all the rancor as well as the divide come from [[RoyalBrat Wolfram]], who rejected [[StepfordSmiler Conrad]] when they were kids after finding out he was half human. Conrad is revealed to have, at one point, been an ''obsessively'' devoted big brother. The man evidently requires somebody to fixate on, meaning both [[AllLoveIsUnrequited Julia]] and [[TheHero Yuuri]] are essentially ''Wolfram replacements'' in his life.
*** He would be the world's most creepy boyfriend after all the ones that might actually hurt you.
** Yuuri's actual big brother, Shori, manages a little of this, despite the fact that ''he'' is deeply concerned with all things 'Yuu-chan', while Yuuri (a WideEyedIdealist with a HundredPercentAdorationRating who eventually becomes an AllLovingHero) finds his family annoying and grouches at Shori most of the time. Shori shares with Gwendal the history of being the OnlySaneMan in his family, since their parents' adorable insanity apparently led to a certain amount of neglect sometimes.
*** On the other hand, when plot-things requiring him aren't happening, Shori is usually either out or closeted in his room playing dating sims, making him aloof enough, and he's the freakishly talented one with a work ethic and ambition, putting Yuuri rather in the shade. The fact that all that ambition is channeled into making Yuuri's life easier is another matter altogether.
*** The fact that their parents always loved Yuuri better, either.
* Cicada from ''Anime/LastExile'', [[TheCaligula Maestro Delphine's]] [[TheDragon Dragon]] and BattleButler, arguably fulfills this in regards to Luciola, the BattleButler to Delphine's younger brother, [[{{Cloudcuckoolander}} Dio]]. However, they look nothing alike, are only revealed to be brothers in a throwaway line by Delphine, and are only seen onscreen together [[spoiler: when Luciola kills him to get to Delphine and save Dio.]]
* Rikka's big sister Touka in ''LightNovel/LoveChunibyoAndOtherDelusions'' {{invoked|trope}} and {{lampshaded|trope}} this trope. This is also a {{Deconstruction}}, as her aloofness results from her inability to handle her sister very well and her own emotional problems. As a result, she ends up hurting her sister more than helping when it comes to her time of need. Even she realizes this herself, and often asks Yuuta, who could connect with Rikka better, for help.
* Aoyagi Seimei from ''Manga/{{Loveless}}''. His feelings for his brother are... [[spoiler:[[BrotherSisterIncest more than a little creepy]].]]
* [[spoiler:Reito]] is [[spoiler:Mikoto]]'s Aloof Big Brother in ''Anime/MaiHime'', although she doesn't know it's him for a good while.
* Tiger from ''Anime/MonsterRancher'' is a particularly tragic example as he's one of the primary good guys, a tough, experienced bandit attempting to rescue his kidnapped younger brother, Gray Wolf. Over the course of the series, flashbacks reveal that they had exactly this kind of relationship, and though Tiger's intentions were good (well... he thought his brother was a wimp and tried to beat it out of him), he finds, to his horror, that Gray Wolf has joined the bad guys, pretty much for the sole purpose of being able to beat the shit out of his arrogant, aloof older brother.
** This is made worse by the fact that Gray Wolf has indeed got stronger, to the point where Tiger is forced to go for a fatal blow in order to win the fight. A grinning Gray Wolf notes that it's "typical of him" before slumping to the ground, leaving Tiger standing over the body of the very reason he joined the fight in the first place. Interestingly, Tiger makes a point of not angsting overly about this, however, considering his brother to have died bravely.
** And then, in the third season, Tiger's at it again, telling the (Phoenix-resurrected) Gray Wolf that they're not really brothers, only "thrown away in the same box". This turns out to be a ploy to get Gray Wolf mad enough not to hold back in their upcoming tournament match against each other.
* ''Manga/{{Naruto}}'':
** Itachi Uchiha. Kishimoto probably read the page and designed him from it that's how close the description is. Even the "more bishonen" part Itachi's always had way more real-life fangirls than Sasuke. This has since been subverted all to heck since it turns out that [[spoiler:Itachi actually had a huge brother complex with Sasuke, and most of his unkind or distant behavior was because, at age 13, he was trying to cope with his career as a human weapon, his best friend's death, and the fact that his family was planning to betray his village, forcing him to choose a side and kill people he owed loyalty to. Before he started trying to deal with the upcoming coup, he spent a good deal of time playing with his little brother, and he always loved him more than anything.]]
** Neji Hyuga starts out as an Aloof Older ''Cousin'' of Hinata's, thinking she's too weak to inherit the clan, seeing her determination to improve herself as foolish, and having a long-standing grudge against her side of the family but has a HeelFaceTurn. Hinata even addresses him as she would an older brother (appending "[[UsefulNotes/JapaneseSiblingTerminology -nii-san]]" to his name).
** Ibiki Morino is shown to be one toward his significantly younger brother, Idate Morino, in the Land of Tea filler arc, who, he believes, fails to understand trusting and helping other people enough to be a ninja.
* Keiichi Hiiragi in ''Anime/OnegaiMyMelody''; his younger brother, Jun, always resents that Keiichi is better in every single aspect.
* Surprisingly, in ''Manga/OnePiece'', it was revealed that NiceGuy Ace was this to Luffy when they were kids. Over time, he developed a BigBrotherInstinct and became a KnightTemplarBigBrother towards anyone who wants to hurt Luffy.
** [[spoiler:Amusingly, they aren't actually related. Garp pawned off both his son's son and his WorthyOpponent's son, who had come into his care, on the same set of bandits, where they eventually bonded.]]
* Ryō Kanzato from ''Anime/PersonaTrinitySoul''.
* Hachimaki in ''Manga/{{Planetes}}'' is one of these to his brother.
* Reiji, aka Reggie, from ''Anime/{{Pokemon}}'' inverts this by being [[NiceGuy a hell of a lot nicer]] than his ruthless younger brother, local JerkAss Shinji, aka Paul.
* Touga Kiryuu from ''Anime/RevolutionaryGirlUtena''.
* Kokoa Shuzen from ''Manga/RosarioToVampire'' has ''three'' of them. Two of them are [[SubvertedTrope subversions]].
** Moka seems to be an aloof sister, but Kokoa loves her because Moka is the only sister who treats her as a person. It should be noted that Moka does love all of her sisters.
** Kahlua also loves all of her sisters, including Kokoa. However, due to Kahlua's creepy nature as a berserk assassin, Kokoa is afraid of her even when Kahlua is cheerful and plays with her.
** Akua plays it straight, since her sisterly love being mostly focused on Moka, resulting that both, Akua and Kokoa, argue with each other about Moka. While Akua does love her sisters, she seems to ignore Kokoa a lot. Additionally, Kokoa is afraid of Akua, too.
* Aoshi Shinomori (to Makimachi Misao) from ''Manga/RurouniKenshin''.
* Phoenix Ikki from ''Manga/SaintSeiya'' is an excellent example of this trope: older brother of Shun and the strongest of all the bronze saints by far. Has elements of an IneffectualLoner in him to boot.
* ''{{Manga/Saki}}'' has her older sister Teru, who stopped speaking to her around the time their parents separated, [[SolomonDivorce each taking one daughter]], and now [[IHaveNoSon denies having a sister]], although they were closer in the past.
* Tomohiko Yamada from ''Manga/SatouKashiNoDanganWaUchinukenai''. Despite (or because of) his [[{{Hikikomori}} reclusive tendencies]], his family describes him as having: ''"no need to work, no need to live precariously. You can survive by watching, thinking, and speaking of what you are interested in... it's as though we are secretly rearing a beautiful creature."''
* Subverted by Takumi Aldini of ''Manga/ShokugekiNoSoma''. Takumi and his younger (by about three minutes) brother Isami are both well aware that Takumi is by far the better chef of them, but Takumi recognises just how good his brother is compared to nearly everyone else and encourages him to stand on his own two feet. The two also get along splendidly well, and work like a well-oiled machine during group assignments.
* ''LightNovel/{{Slayers}}'': Though she has yet to actually appear in the series, Luna Inverse absolutely terrifies her little sister, Lina. Yes, ''[[PersonOfMassDestruction that]]'' Lina Inverse. Just mentioning her sister in Lina's presence is enough to send her into a panic. As she seems content to stay in her home town working as a waitress, Luna doesn't really fill in the "rival" quota, but due to her nature as the Ceiphied Knight, she is incredibly powerful, rivaling even Xellos, one of the most powerful Mazoku in the world, who even Lina doesn't like the idea of fighting.
* From ''Manga/SnowWhiteWithTheRedHair'', there's Izana, the older brother of male lead [[RebelPrince Zen]]. He's not only the heir to the throne, he's also immensely capable and a subtle MagnificentBastard. He does seem to care about Zen in his own way, but he expresses said care by testing and questioning Zen's actions as a prince at every turn. He also doesn't approve much of heroine Shirayuki, seeing her as too ordinary and low-ranking to be connected to the royal family.
* Guess [[spoiler:Asura]] from ''Manga/SoulEater'' could count as this, as he always seems very calm and contained (except in his occasional freak-outs), compared the "need to know NOW" attitude of [[spoiler:his little brother Kid]].
* Racer X and Anime/SpeedRacer.
* Ralph Werec from ''Anime/StrainStrategicArmoredInfantry'' was also the BigBad.
* In the ''Manga/TokyoMewMew'' anime, Minto's older brother is this to her, coldly shrugging off her attempts to [[WellDoneSonGuy impress]] him in the episode in which he appears, although he gets to show that he cares for her by the end.
* This trope perfectly describes Neeba of ''Anime/TheTowerOfDruaga: The Aegis of Uruk'', who plays the literal Aloof Big Brother to IdiotHero Jil.
* ''Literature/TheEccentricFamily'''s Yaichirou tries to be this and mostly succeeds, but he cracks under pressure.
* Subverted to hell and back by Clari Net of ''Manga/ViolinistOfHameln''. In his introduction, he's set up to be this type of character--bishounen (ridiculously so), glasses, badass, haughty, serious, et cetera--and it becomes plucky lad Trom Bone's great ambition to earn Clari's respect. However... then we're introduced to Clari's ''actual'' little sister. To say that he fawns over her is a gross understatement. The other characters are left gobsmacked and so is the audience.
* Although he's shown to be a loving big brother in flashbacks, Folken Fanel from ''Anime/TheVisionOfEscaflowne'' is a typical Aloof Big Brother by the time the series begin, due to trauma and bitterness. [[spoiler:And when he drops the act, it's RedemptionEqualsDeath time]].
* In ''Manga/YowamushiPedal'' Shingo is this to the team.
* Seto Kaiba from ''Anime/YuGiOh''. Ryo Marufuji of ''Anime/YuGiOhGX'' as well.
** Ryo's a lesser case in the manga adaptation, as he initially thinks that his younger brother, who once throws a duel to spare his opponent's feelings, doesn't have the competitive spirit to be a pro, even if he has the talent. After seeing Sho in action at the [[TournamentArc school tournament]], Ryo is more impressed by his abilities.
* Kurama from ''Manga/YuYuHakusho'' to basically everyone on the main team, at first. Hiei from the same show could also be seen as an example, though his sibling is Yukina and he cares a lot about her. He first had his Jagan eye implanted so that he could find Yukina, and even stayed aloof after finding her.
** Shizuru Kuwabara would qualify as an Aloof Big Sister.
* ''LightNovel/SwordArtOnline'' has Kazuto "Kirito", the main character as this to his younger sister/cousin Suguha. After learning the truth about his parentage- that he'd been adopted by his maternal aunt and uncle after his parents died in a car crash, he started to distance himself from Suguha, having come to believe that it's impossible to truly know anyone. After being trapped in the eponymous video game for two years, though, Kirito learns that there is no "real" you out there, which means that you should simply trust the people you know, and this realization, along with the fact that he didn't know whether he'd see Suguha again, causes him to work to repair the distance once he's escaped. Unbeknownst to him, though, Suguha has become attracted to Kirito upon learning that he's her cousin (a crush that she's trying to get over), and initially believes that his warm behavior is sending mixed signals to her. They do manage to work things out and repair their sibling relationships, though.

[[folder:Comic Books]]
* [[ComicBook/TheMightyThor Thor]] was portrayed this way in the ''Loki'' miniseries, in marked contrast to his Silver Age portrayal, wherein he couldn't see all of Loki's flaws through his BigBrotherInstinct.
* When the tension between them is portrayed from Alex Summers/Havok's point of view, his brother, Scott, aka ComicBook/{{Cyclops}}, fits this role to a tee; however, since Cyclops is a much more prominent member of the ComicBook/XMen, Havok usually comes off looking more like his AnnoyingYoungerSibling instead.
* Darkdevil to ComicBook/SpiderGirl, his cousin-slash-genetic-half-sister. They have a [[CloningBlues complicated]] family tree.
* In ''ComicBook/MotherPanic'', the titular character's brother is considerably older than her (he was in law school before she was in high school), so the two of them were never really close as siblings.

[[folder:Fan Works]]
* In ''Fanfic/FrozenHearts'', most of [[{{Disney/Frozen}} Hans]] siblings are this, as per canon, with Hugo, Harald and Helm being noted as the three who treated Hans like he was invisible. Some of them, such as [[NiceGuy Heins]], are a little better than that, but a few, such as Harald, are [[BigBrotherBully worse]]. [[spoiler:And this is before they find out what he's done and that he's a political liability]].
-->'''Horatio''': ''(to Hans)'' Did the queen even look at you?
-->'''Hugo''': Doubtful. Why pay attention to the runt?
* ''FanFic/AGrowingAffection'' in addition to Itachi, like canon, also has [[spoiler: Minato's older brother Gouki. He has trouble answering to Minato as Hokage, and telling Minato how proud he is.]]
* Averted in the ''Series/StarTrekTheOriginalSeries'' fanfic ''FanFic/OnceUponAFarmhouse''. Sam and Jim Kirk don't see one another often (thanks to Sam being away at a space school) but they are on very good terms.
* When you have a [[spoiler:adopted]] brother like Kerlongsj who as man, has earned the respect of several Infinite Stratos pilots, including the Brunhilde, you would think that Anaton has a lot of inferior problems. Strangely enough, in [FanFic/InfiniteStratosToTheOtherEndOfTheWorld], he and Kerlongsj aren't like that. They have a good relationship and don't seem to be bothered by the huge gaps between them. Kerlongsj knows Anaton will get close to him.
* Ann the Yellow Ranger in ''Power Rangers: Shuriken Force'' to her younger sister, being distant at best and is implied to hate her at worst.
* In ''Fanfic/{{Heimatfront}}'', Marco Nitzschmann (a GenderFlip and name-changed version of [[Anime/GirlsUndPanzer Maho Nishizumi]] in Germany near the end of UsefulNotes/WorldWarII) initially comes off as as somewhat cold toward his younger sister Maria, particularly since he'd rather not have her risk her life on the front lines, where she has no business being.
* In ''Fanfic/OneYear'', [[OriginalCharacter Hitomi]] hardly ever sees her older brother, who, as the eldest child and heir to their wealthy family, has his own responsibilities.
* ''Franchise/{{Tron}}: [[http://archiveofourown.org/series/46436 Endgame Scenario]]'': Played with when it comes to Tron and [[VideoGame/TronTwoPointOh Jet]]. Technically, they have the same father, which is why Jet considers Tron his older brother. Tron has zero idea what to make of Jet, however, as Programs do not have the same concept of family. This being post-''Film/TronLegacy'' [[spoiler: there's also all the psychological damage from "Rinzler" to factor in]]. Furthermore, despite Jet [[StopWorshippingMe hating his status]] [[AGodIAmNot as a User]] and doing everything he can to [[HideYourOtherness downplay it]], the fact he ''is'' one is a fact neither one can escape.
* ''Fanfic/ForumOfThrones'': Though they haven't been shown interacting with each other so far, the fact that Carvin just flat out left his little sister Ilish when she needed him the most paints him as this.

[[folder:Films - Animated]]
* Steve from ''WesternAnimation/ArthurChristmas'' is this, being much more of a pragmatic busybody than Arthur, and who spends a good part of the film annoyed with his younger brother's (increasingly drastic) antics.
* In ''Disney/{{Frozen}}'', Hans claimed that three of his twelve brothers pretended he didn't exist for two years. Elsa is a gender-flipped version but justified because the only reason she's so distant is because she is terrified of hurting Anna or someone else. [[spoiler:In the end, she gets over this once she learns to control her power, which she achieves in no small part ''because'' [[ThePowerOfLove she loves Anna]].]]

[[folder:Films - Live-Action]]
* Subverted in ''Film/{{Gattaca}}'' with the character of Anton, the aloof little brother.
* Brand in ''Film/TheGoonies''.
* Joshua in ''Film/LittleOdessa''.
* The Earl of Moray in ''Film/MaryQueenOfScots''.
* The title character of Creator/FrancisFordCoppola's ''Tetro'' left his little brother behind for Argentina with a note saying he'd explain it later. When he shows up in Argentina, Tetro continues to be aloof to him. [[spoiler:Then it turns out that he's not really his ''[[LukeIAmYourFather brother...]]'']]

* In Creator/StephenKing's novella ''[[Film/StandByMe The Body]]'', Gordie [=LaChance's=] (now-deceased) older brother is depicted in these terms (although not so in TheFilmOfTheBook).
* ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'' {{Gender Flip}}s this trope, and has [[PropheticName Eldest]] as an ''unquestionable'' CoolBigSis. She's the leader of her generation of the family and wears authority like her BadassLongcoat, coolly unemotional in most cases and enforcing discipline on her younger sisters with less concern for how they feel about it than what is best for the family. Rebellious Corelle, in particular, is at the brunt of her calm displeasure. She's softer and kinder to her little brother Jerin, wanting him to be happy and becoming absolutely enraged when she believes he's been raped, and she becomes [[DefrostingIceQueen slightly less aloof]] over the course of the story, while always remaining level-headed and dignified.
* ''Literature/{{Dragons}}'': David Rain takes on this persona towards Lucy in ''The Last Dragon Chronicles''.
* [[HolierThanThou Matt]] [[SexyPriest Castor]] in the ''Literature/FelixCastor'' novels tends to this. And then it all goes a bit BreakTheHaughty.
* [[spoiler: Murtagh]] of the ''Literature/InheritanceCycle'' fits this. He is the older, much more powerful brother of [[spoiler:Eragon]], who is also [[CainAndAbel on the opposite side of the war]]. The fandoms tend to treat him as an EnsembleDarkHorse.
* Ponyboy from ''Literature/TheOutsiders'' feels that his oldest brother, Darry, is this. Darry is the unofficial leader of their group, as well as one of the strongest and most mature. Darry's strict criticism leads Ponyboy to believe that Darry doesn't like him and that he is only another mouth to feed. However, he is proven wrong when Ponyboy finally realizes that Darry cares very much for him and is only strict on him because he wants the best for his youngest brother.
* ''Literature/PrettyLittleLiars'' Melissa to Spencer, also Jason.
* OlderThanTelevision: Mycroft in ''Literature/SherlockHolmes'', first appearing in ''The Adventure of the Greek Interpreter'' (1893). Not only is he Sherlock's older, richer, and more politically powerful brother, but he's also the only person in the Doyle canon that Sherlock acknowledges as his intellectual superior, and he even [[SherlockScan Out-SherlockScans]] Sherlock, though he is too [[BrilliantButLazy lazy to do detective work]] like Sherlock does, simply setting him on the right track (sometimes solely with information from the newspaper) as a mental exercise. This trope could be alternately named "'''The Mycroft'''" .
* [[KnightTemplar Galad]] to [[KnightErrant Gawyn Trakand]] in ''Literature/TheWheelOfTime''. His relationship to his younger half-sister [[PrincessClassic Elayne]] has elements of this.
* In ''Literature/TheMachineriesOfEmpire'', Berezan has an older sister who, like him, is a Kel, and a more successful and skilled one than him in pretty much every way. He notes that the only thing more annoying than her smugness about it is the fact that she doesn't seem to be aware that she's being snobbish in the first place.

[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* The extended universe of ''Series/DoctorWho'' gives us Irving Braxiatel, a brilliant, conniving, charming, and well-dressed Time Lord who also happens to be the Doctor's older brother. Given the number of complex manipulations and strategies he can juggle simultaneously, he is likely as intelligent or even more intelligent than the Doctor himself.
* ''Series/{{Elementary}}'''s version of Mycroft is the same and it pisses Sherlock off. [[spoiler: Then it turns out Mycroft is an [=MI6=] agent and it's later shown that Mycroft [[BigBrotherInstinct genuinely loves his brother and is extremely protective of him.]] The sole reason he resumed his espionage career was that if he didn't, Sherlock would have been arrested and tried for treason for unwittingly aiding a terrorist plot.]]
* It's retroactively revealed in ''Series/{{Frasier}}'' that the titular character seemed to have been one of these to Niles during Frasier's nine-year run on ''Series/{{Cheers}}'': although Niles wasn't actually mentioned until ''Frasier'' premiered, a flashback during ''Frasier'''s third season to the time gap between the finale of ''Cheers'' and the pilot of ''Frasier'' implies Niles was vaguely bitter that Frasier ran off to Boston and abandoned him for at least a decade, subjecting Frasier's presence on ''Cheers'' to a mild CerebusRetcon. Admittedly, it's fairly easy to connect the dots and come to the same conclusion without the implicit support of that flashback given Frasier and Niles' thick-as-thieves sibling relationship (which was ''not'' new CharacterDevelopment; they were like that since toddler age) as opposed to a more typical friendly-but-separated sibling relationship, Frasier being removed enough to not even mention Niles' existence in front of the cameras for nine years seems bizarrely OutOfCharacter in retrospect (on ''Frasier'', Frasier would probably be hard-pressed to stay away from Niles for nine ''days'').
* Robert Baratheon in ''Series/GameOfThrones'' seems to be the only man in the capital unaware of his brother Renly's OpenSecret relationship with Loras Tyrell.
* Nathan Petrelli in ''Series/{{Heroes}}''. It did help Peter become a better person for it, as Peter claimed that Nathan didn't bring him down, but rather built him up.
* Series/{{Monk}}'s brother is smarter, better at spotting small details, and more eccentric.
** Interestingly, Ambrose seems to think that Adrian is actually stronger and better than him.
* As with his literary counterpart, Mycroft Holmes of ''Series/{{Sherlock}}'' is a perfect example of this trope. It drives Sherlock up a wall. There's a ''reason'' why he'd prefer to work with [[TheNotLoveInterest John]] instead of his older brother. His older brother works for the British government and would most likely cause wars in countries. And he's emotionally distant.
* Alexis/Alex Meade qualifies as such in ''Series/UglyBetty''. Before her transition was established to be smarter, better looking, and more successful than her brother, Daniel, making him feel inferior. Also, she actively acted against her father and brother in season one.
* Wilhelm Winter from the German UsefulNotes/WorldWarII MiniSeries ''Series/UnsereMuetterUnsereVaeter'' is frequently critical and even cold towards his younger brother Friedhelm. The fact that Wilhelm is his commanding officer doesn't really help.

[[folder:Tabletop Games]]
* Lion El'Johnson, primarch of the Dark Angels chapter of SpaceMarines in ''TabletopGame/{{Warhammer 40000}}'', was very [[TheStoic stoic]] and a bit of a paranoid and secretive loner to boot. Indeed, he was the oldest of the Primarchs, and was a real no-nonsense guy in contrast to his rival and later [[VitriolicBestBuds best friend]], [[BoisterousBruiser Leman Russ]]. Many of his character traits were inherited to his chapter, and the Dark Angels tend to work alone to maintain [[TreacheryCoverUp dark secrets spanning all the way to the Horus Heresy]]. Though this is subverted in that Lion wasn't older than Russ by more than a few days, if at all (since the Primarchs are all transhuman clones of [[GodEmperor the same guy]]).

* Gabe is this to Natalie in ''Theatre/NextToNormal''- or at least, she perceives him as such based on their mother's favoritism.
-->'''Natalie:''' Superboy and the invisible girl/Son of steel and daughter of air/He's a hero, a lover, a prince/She's not there.

[[folder:Video Games]]
* Sho from ''VideoGame/BattleArenaToshinden''. He was playing the mentor role on his younger brother, but then left suddenly. Now he "Goes where the Wind Blows".
* ''Franchise/BlazBlue'', plays with this trope a lot with the three main characters. Ragna was originally very close with both of his younger siblings Jin and Saya when they were children, but once Saya grew ill and Jin grew especially needy, he distanced himself from the latter to tend to the former. Naturally, Jin started to resent Saya because of this, making ''him'' this trope toward her. Fast forward to the present timeline where Ragna & Jin are adults and their relationship is especially estranged due to their sister being taken from them when they were children. Complicating things is how Noel looks ''very'' much like their sister due to being a clone of her, which causes all of their old issues to resurface.
* Dauragon C. Mikado from ''VideoGame/TheBouncer''.
* Magus from ''VideoGame/ChronoTrigger'', despite the fact that he is, ironically, a younger brother to an important character of the series.
* Yuuya Kizami of ''VideoGame/CorpseParty'' has a bad relationship with his older ''sister'', Haruna, particularly when he was a child. A flashback has him insist that if ''he'' had a younger sibling, he'd be much better than his sister and brother (who he's implied to not be very fond of, either). [[spoiler:Haruna might have been a bit nicer had Yuuya not been so interested in ''torturing animals''. And his entire encounter with Yuka is good example of why he should ''never'' be allowed to have a younger sibling.]]
* ''VideoGame/DeadOrAlive'''s heroine, Kasumi, displays some of this towards her half-sister, Ayane, especially in ''Dimensions''.
* Vergil from the ''VideoGame/DevilMayCry'' series fits this trope to a tee despite being Dante's ''twin'' brother. He is, at least, the older twin.
* ''Franchise/FinalFantasy'':
** Golbez of ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyIV'' is ''very'' aloof, mostly due to being BrainwashedAndCrazy for most of the game. He's a more conventional example in ''VideoGame/DissidiaFinalFantasy'', in which he's pretty much TheMole and so can't do much more than be a StealthMentor without breaking cover.
** Sephiroth, at least in the ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyVII'' prequel ''VideoGame/CrisisCore'', is arrogant and aloof, but still capable of being friendly and considerate, which explains why both Zack and Cloud looked up to Sephiroth and considered him a hero and role model. Unfortunately, this makes Sephiroth's FaceHeelTurn all the more traumatic for both Zack and Cloud during the infamous [[GoMadFromTheRevelation Nibelheim Incident]].
** Though she's the main character, Lightning of ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIII'' acts like this towards her younger sister after being PromotedToParent. She becomes a tough soldier to protect Serah, but along the way dropped things like friendliness and affection. This leads to some major PartingWordsRegret when Serah says she's been indelibly cursed as a l'Cie.
** Dycedarg Beoulve of ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyTactics'' ''initially'' appears to be an extreme case of this toward his younger half-brother [[TheHero Ramza,]] while the middle brother, Zalbag, plays the more mild example of the trope. This gets subverted ''hard.'' [[spoiler: Ultimately, Dycedarg shows himself to truly be a merciless and uncaring man who likely cares nothing for his family beyond what his name and lineage grant him. Zalbag plays the trope more straight, with it in part playing into his FatalFlaw]]
* ''VideoGame/FireEmblem'':
** ''VideoGame/FireEmblemElibe'':
*** Lord Uther of Ostia is slightly like this towards his HotBlooded brother, Hector.
*** From the same game, Karel is definitely like this to Karla, though he mellows out [[spoiler: after she dies]].
** Also, [[JerkWithAHeartOfGold Innes the Sniper]] and [[TheOjou Tana the Pegasus Knight]] from ''VideoGame/FireEmblemTheSacredStones'', although they have a CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming in their A support that resolves it.
** Xander from ''VideoGame/FireEmblemFates'' plays with this. While he does care about all of his siblings, best shown in his supports with Leo and Camilla, he also admits that he invokes this trope a bit in order to take care of all his princely duties.
*** In the Hoshidan side, Hinoka turns out to be this for Takumi and Sakura. She admits to Azura admits that despite loving both her and her younger siblings, she did not spend a lot of time with them because of her Sky Knight training in order to save the Avatar. In fact, the Supports of the game may quite possibly be the first real bonding time she's ever had with them, and she's genuinely stunned when finding out how angry Takumi is at her for it ''and'' how Sakura thinks they're nothing alike. Her love for them is not up to discussion, but she became so focused on training and on the Avatar that she ''heavily'' neglected Takumi and Sakura's emotional needs.
* Riku from ''VideoGame/KingdomHearts'' can be seen as a more expressive example to Sora, though not actually being directly related.
* Adelheid Bernstein from ''VideoGame/TheKingOfFighters'', as a contrast to his little sister Rose, who does all the talking for him.
** [[SubvertedTrope Eh, not really]]. When XIII kicks in, [[BigBrotherInstinct Adel]] is extremely distressed over Rose's well-being [[OutOfCharacterAlert since she has started hiding things from him]] [[spoiler:(like becoming the host of the KOF tournament)]] and deeply fears that something ''horrible'' is behind her change. [[spoiler:Since [[UnwittingPawn Rose]] has been {{brainwashed}} by Botan from Those Of The Past, he's right.]]
* Lloyd from ''Videogame/TheLegendOfDragoon''.
* Proto Man/Blues in his original ''VideoGame/MegaManClassic'' incarnation.
** Despite no longer being brothers, Blues/[=ProtoMan.EXE=] and his operator fill this role in the ''VideoGame/MegaManBattleNetwork'' games, arguably more than the original.
* ''VideoGame/{{Mother 3}}''. Claus starts off as the energetic brother (while Lucas, the main character, is the shy and coddled one), but eventually becomes the Aloof Big Brother after [[spoiler:he is killed by the Mecha-Drago trying to avenge their mother's death. His body is found by Pigmasks and (because of his ability to use PK Love) he is mechanically altered into becoming a silent, ruthless servant to the Pig King]].
* Alex Mercer of ''{{VideoGame/Prototype}}''. [[spoiler:Well, the real Alex, that is]].
* Moritsune from ''VideoGame/{{Shinobi}}''.
* Elzam V. Branstein in ''VideoGame/SuperRobotWars Original Generation''. This is a subversion: Elzam puts on an aloof facade as part of his whole NecessarilyEvil facade his organization is portraying. After he drops it, he turns out be quite kind and friendly, if a bit Stoic.
** Also, [[VideoGame/SuperRobotWarsCompact3 Folka Albark]] is like this towards Fernando Albark. And on the other hand, Altis Tarl is the Aloof Big Brother for Folka.
** With how things goes, it is possible that this trope is now being subverted by [[VideoGame/SuperRobotWarsAdvance Axel Almer]] towards Lamia Loveless. At one point, he mentioned that she never beat him in any sparring match, and is pretty much an all around more efficient soldier in battle, having been around in the Shadow Mirror way longer than she ever did (thus more experience). Then he saved her from certain death, and as things goes, they're now the only remains from the Shadow Mirror. He may not be her brother, but he pretty much fills in the 'Aloof' part to a tee, thus Axel can be considered Lamia's ''Aloof Senior Captain''.
* ''VideoGame/TalesSeries'':
** Asch and Van from ''VideoGame/TalesOfTheAbyss'' are both prime examples of this trope; Van is Tear's older brother and Asch is [[spoiler:the template Luke was cloned from]].
** Hubert from ''VideoGame/TalesOfGraces'' actually inverts this perfectly. He has every relevant characteristic: he's serious, aloof, practically emotionless when he's not frustrated with everyone around him, he beats up Asbel in a DuelBoss encounter, and mostly everyone recognizes that he [[spoiler:rules Lhant]] much more efficiently than his brother. A [[OneHitKill certain bug]] and his ImpossiblyCoolWeapon made him a certified fandom badass. When Asbel tries to be nice or tries to repair their relationship, Hubert tends to shoot him icily down. When they do get closer, Hubert frequently gives Asbel advice, on everything from the party's next step to girl trouble. Why is this inverted? Because Hubert is Asbel's ''younger'' brother.
** Kratos from ''VideoGame/TalesOfSymphonia'' fits this trope to a tee in regards to Lloyd, despite not being his older brother - [[spoiler:their relationship eventually evolves into a [[Theatre/OedipusRex wholly different type of familial conflict]] as the truth comes out.]]
* The protagonist, Sadwick, in ''VideoGame/TheWhisperedWorld'' has a big brother who is this combined with BigBrotherBully. He constantly reminds Sadwick of how much better he is at everything.
* Jin Uzuki of ''VideoGame/{{Xenosaga}}'' is like this to Shion, though it turns out that he ''does'' care a lot about Shion -- he just feels that he has to keep his distance.
* ''[[Franchise/ShinMegamiTenseiPersona Persona]]'':
** The ''VideoGame/Persona2'' duology plays with this. In ''Innocent Sin'', Tatsuya Suou's older brother Katsuya comes across as a cold-hearted jerk preoccupied with his job. However, ''Eternal Punishment'' shows things from Katsuya's point of view, revealing that while he does resent having to sacrifice his own ambitions in order to raise Tatsuya on his own, he still loves his brother dearly.
** ''VideoGame/Persona5'' has Sae Niijima, who's been [[PromotionToParent single-handedly raising her younger sister Makoto after their father's death]]. Sae cares for Makoto, but due to the pressures of her own job as a public prosecutor, is often fairly distant. Sae also harbors various issues of her own, such as blaming her father for getting himself killed and leaving her with the responsibility of raising Makoto, and [[spoiler:secretly being jealous of Makoto, to the point where Sae's Shadow becomes the demon of Envy]].
* In ''Franchise/TheElderScrolls'' series, this is technically the case for Alduin, the [[OurDragonsAreDifferent draconic]] BeastOfTheApocalypse. He is the "firstborn" of Akatosh's (the [[DragonsAreDivine draconic]] God of Time and TopGod of the [[SaintlyChurch Nine Divines]] pantheon) which includes all other dragons and [[GodInHumanForm Dragonborn]], and he's by no means a friend to any of them.

[[folder:Visual Novels]]
* In the ''Franchise/AceAttorney'' series, Lana Skye is a female version to her little sister Ema. However, it is revealed that she used to be warm and affectionate and only withdrew into herself and became cold after [[spoiler: the SL-9 Incident, due to Gant blackmailing her. She was [[BigSisterInstinct doing it all for Ema]] though, and after the truth of SL-9 is revealed, she eventually goes back to her old self.]]
** Franziska von Karma also views her adoptive brother Miles Edgeworth as this, saying that he's always gone on ahead by himself while leaving her behind. Despite being exasperated by Franziska's incredibly competitive personality, Edgeworth does care for her, though.
* [[spoiler:Rin Tohsaka]] from ''VisualNovel/FateStayNight''. She does not make it very obvious she cares for her younger sister, and will retreat to her "we're just strangers" mask when around her. [[spoiler:It turns out that Rin had hoped that Sakura, who'd been given up to the Matou family while both were young, was living a peaceful and easy life that Rin couldn't have as a magus, and this admission, combined with Rin nearly dying rather than kill Sakura, helps the sisters reconcile.]]
* Sayuri in ''VisualNovel/{{Kanon}}'' was an aloof elder sister to a brother, but meant well; she wanted her brother to grow up like their father, a man of high social standing. [[spoiler:Her guilt over that treatment of her brother, ''plus'' his early death, caused her to become a ThirdPersonPerson.]]
** Kaori treats her IllGirl sister Shiori as if she never existed, as a way to avoid the pain of her eventual death. She gets better.
* In a sense, Shizune is this to her brother Hideaki in ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo''. She is better than him in virtually every way possible (other than the obvious fact that she is deaf and he isn't), and it's rather obvious that relations between them are... tense, to say the least. This only adds more fuel to the conflagration that the utterly dysfunctional Hakamichi family already is.

* Webcomic/DominicDeegan's older brother, Jacob, is an excellent example.
** Dominic can be this to his little brother, Gregory, as well.
* Dave's Bro from ''Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}''. So far, he has kicked Dave's ass [[CherryTapping with a ventriloquist's dummy]], flown off on a rocket board, [[spoiler:cut a meteor in half ''while standing on it'', and fought the BigBad to a standstill, minutes after the latter had destroyed two planets]]. Oh, and he may or may not be a [[{{Squick}} puppet fetishist]].
** However, Dave later admits that while he tried to convince himself his Bro was just "stern" or "aloof", he was actually just an [[AbusiveParents abusive]] asshole.
* In ''Webcomic/{{MYth}}'', Hades is this to his brothers. He's in better terms with Poseidon while Zeus hates him with passion. [[spoiler:In ''A Promise'' is revealed that Hades willingly made Zeus hate him because "He (Hades) was his (Zeus) weakness".]]
* In ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'', Carol is an Aloof Big Sister to Sarah. She has never been shown interacting with Sarah and ''didn't even recognize her little sister's best friend'' when she interviewed Susan. She gives Sarah an inferiority complex and as Dan [[http://www.egscomics.com/index.php?id=1187 puts it]]:
-->From Sarah's perspective, Carol is in many ways similar to an older, idealized version of herself who has one of her fantasy jobs.

[[folder:Web Original]]
* Lizzie Bennet is Aloof Big Sister in ''WebVideo/TheLizzieBennetDiaries'' to Lydia. It becomes heartbraking after a few PlayedForLaughs moments in episodes when you realize that Lydia is desperately trying to reach out to her, feels probably a bit alone, and doesn't have a close big sister like Lizzie has in Jane to help her deal with the stress.
* In-universe, The Other Guy to WebVideo/TheNostalgiaCritic. He has a couple of PetTheDog moments, but mostly he's the "dark overlord that controls [him]" and doesn't care about his problems.
* ''WebAnimation/DSBTInsaniT'': Killer is very distant and rather cold towards his twin sister Killdra.

[[folder:Western Animation]]
* Norbert of ''WesternAnimation/TheAngryBeavers'' started out as one, but as the show progressed, he became less aloof and more self absorbed.
* [[spoiler:Zuko]] post-HeelFaceTurn becomes a combination of this and a BigBrotherMentor for Aang on ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender''.
** And his ''little sister'' kept pulling it on ''him'' until then.
* In ''WesternAnimation/EdEddnEddy'', [[TheGhost Eddy's brother]] [[spoiler:until TheMovie]].
* Prince Daring Charming vs his younger brother Dexter Charming, in ''Franchise/EverAfterHigh''. While Daring is confident, handsome, and has all students, male and female, fawning in awe of his greatness, Dexter is awkward, is a lot less perfectly chiseled and coiffured ([[{{Adorkable}} though he still is good looking in his own right]]), and is implied to be almost as unpopular as Raven Queen--but not as feared, obviously.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'' has this too with Mako as the aloof brother to Bolin, and later [[spoiler:it turns out Amon was this to Tarrlok as children, though he was much more openly affectionate before his father's abuse.]]
* Dennis Lee of ''WesternAnimation/TheLifeAndTimesOfJuniperLee'' is one of the fantasy role playing and anime fanboy variety.
* Optimatus in ''WesternAnimation/LoonaticsUnleashed''.
* Rigby's muscular, cooler, taller, friendlier, smarter brother, Don, from ''WesternAnimation/RegularShow'' actually subverts this, since Don is actually the younger brother.
* In ''WesternAnimation/ThunderCats2011'', Lion-O's older brother, Tygra, is introduced as this: haughty, distant, and AlwaysSomeoneBetter, even disdainful of Lion-O's WideEyedIdealist and LostTechnology studying ways. When LostTechnology proves real and their kingdom falls to invaders, Tygra's mask slowly falls away to reveal a deeply conflicted, [[TheResenter resentful]] BrokenAce.