Abandoned War Child

"I am a child of war. It's a poor way to start. My village was always ready to defend, or to placate, or to burn again. Eventually the fighting stopped, and left dozens of native graves and foreign babies. We war bastards banded together by instinct; most of us had the straw hair and flat faces of westerners, and we were easy marks. Native kids would find one or two of us alone and build their adrenaline with shouts of Your father killed my father until someone took the first step in with a raised arm or a stick."
Mars, "The Eye of the Storm" by Kelley Eskridge

Often times during or after a war, women are left single mothers to half-foreign children. This can be due to their lover abandoning them after the war, prostitution which ends up in pregnancy, rape, or their lover dying during the war.

This trope can focus on the experience of either the mother or the child, sometimes both. Often the women left behind and their children face derision and ostracism, often in the form of Slut-Shaming the mother for having a child out of wedlock, whether the child was conceived consensually or not. The child so subjected may be a victim of Half-Breed Discrimination.

Related tropes include Men Are Tough and Women Are Delicate, as the character's father was a soldier and their mother is typically portrayed as a poor abandoned maiden. If the protagonist of a story, this character is likely a Heroic Bastard; if a villain or a jerkass, they're likely a Bastard Bastard.

Examples:

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    Anime and Manga 

    Comic Books 
  • A flashback to Watchmen's version of The Vietnam War has the Comedian approached by a Vietnamese woman he'd impregnated, who demands he be a father. He refuses, saying he plans to go back to the US and forget all about her, whereupon she slashes him across the face with a broken beer bottle and he shoots her dead.

    Fan Works 
  • Tao from Embers is the child of an Earth Kingdom woman and a Fire Nation soldier who raped her during the initial invasion of the city of Taku. As a result, he loathes his father (whom he never met), the Fire Nation, and everything associated with it.

     Film — Live-Action 
  • The 1977 film Green Eyes is about a man who was a soldier in The Vietnam War who decides to go look for the toddler son he had with a prostitute he fell in love with in Vietnam. All he knows is that his son looks a lot like him and has green eyes. The "green eyes" were likely due to an illness, especially since both parents have brown eyes. The child died several years ago as an infant, however the man ends up befriending and then adopting an older boy who is an orphan.
  • In 1922 silent film The Toll Of The Sea (which is an adaptation of Madame Butterfly set in China instead of Japan) a Chinese woman named Lotus Blossom fell in love with an American soldier and married him. They had a son together but he left on a voyage before learning of the child. Her peers find her ignorant for believing he will come back and take her to America, and cite others who have fallen for the same trap. When her husband does return, he comes back with news that he married his childhood sweetheart. Lotus Blossom decides to give their toddler-aged son to them by telling the boy that she was really taking care of him for his real parents. She then kills herself by jumping into the ocean.
  • The Dark Knight Rises reveals that Henri Ducard prior to becoming the leader of The League of Shadows, was a mercenary hired by a warlord. However, Ducard and the warlord's daughter fell in love. The furious warlord was set to throw Ducard into a Hellhole Prison, but abruptly changed Ducard's sentence to exile instead. Unknown to Ducard, the warlord's now pregnant daughter was thrown into the prison instead, where she eventually gave birth. Years later the young child escaped and found Ducard.
  • The central plot of Savior is kicked off when Guy, the main character, meets Vera, a Serb woman captured, raped, and impregnated during The Bosnian War. She is released as part of a prisoner exchange mere hours before giving birth, and the results of trying to go home again aren't pretty for either her or her daughter.

    Literature 
  • In the Time Wars series, part of the backstory of Forrester, the leader of the Time Commandos, is that when he was a young soldier he once had an affair with a local girl while temporarily separated from his unit, and then had to abandon her when his comrades found him again. (With the additional complication that, because it was a time war, this happened not only in a different country but in a different century.) Their son grows up with a massive grudge, and becomes the series's main recurring antagonist.
  • Mars, the protagonist of the Short Story "The Eye of the Storm" by Kelley Eskridge, is one of several war bastards in her village. The legitimate children tended to gang up on them and bully them, eventually leading to the death of Mars' friend Ad Homrun. Mars reacts by getting her half-brother Tom to teach her to fight and eventually leaves the village to find work in the capital as a royal guard.
  • In Alexis Carew: The Little Ships, Alexis encounters a young woman on Giron who was impregnated by one of Alexis' shipmates while they were all being held there as prisoners of war two years earlier in Mutineer (the other officers had given parole and were housed in the town; Alexis had refused out of concern for the enlisted crew). The narration comments that the enlisted crew are required to have contraceptive implants to prevent such accidents, but officers aren't.

    Live-Action TV 
  • Played with in the NCIS Christmas Episode "Newborn King", where Gibbs' team is protecting a female Marine who was impregnated by an Afghan tribal prince she fell in love with on a deployment. Since the father was later killed by the Taliban, this makes her child potentially the heir to the tribe, which sends mercenaries to kidnap the mother.
  • In Star Trek: Deep Space Nine the Cardassians left a number of half-Cardassian children behind during the Occupation of Bajor (most of them not consensual, whether due to forced prostitution or ordinary rape), and even some full-blooded Cardassian children who became separated from their parents during the withdrawal. One of the half-Cardassians, Tora Ziyal, Gul Dukat's daughter by his Bajoran mistress, is a Recurring Character. The children face considerable Fantastic Racism from Bajorans in the wake of the Occupation's atrocities.
  • This informs Deadshot's background on Arrow. He came home to a beautiful toddler who didn't recognize him, and didn't get the chance to get to know him before PTSD-driven aggression drove him out of his home.
  • The A-Team episode "The Sound of Thunder" has the Team hired by a man who learned he has a child from the Vietnam War (these sure seem a common subtrope in American media).

    Music 
  • The end of the song "Gentleman Soldier" by The Dubliners has the soldier refusing to marry the young woman he slept with, as he was already married with three children. She later has his child, but doesn't even know the father's name.
  • Implied in "Runs in the Family" by Amanda Palmer, which is about how your genes can effect your mental and physical health:
    My friend's depressed
    She's a wreck
    She's a mess
    They've run all sorts of tests
    And they guess it has something to do with her grandmother's grandfather's grandmother
    Civil war soldiers who probably infected her

    Theater 
  • In Miss Saigon, Kim and Chris fall in love when Chris is a Marine stationed in Saigon during the Vietnam War. Chris intends to take Kim back home with him, but is forced to leave her behind when the US forces are evacuated, leaving Kim to raise her son as a single mother.
  • In Man of La Mancha, Aldonza sings:
    And then there's my father. I'm told that young ladies
    Can point to their fathers with maidenly pride.
    Mine was a regiment, here for one hour,
    I can't even tell you which side.

    Video Games 
  • In Pillars of Eternity, the previous Watcher, Maerwald, vacillates between his own personality and those of two of his past lives. The Soldier was fathered by a Glanfathan marauder who raped an Aedyr settler woman. The Raider was killed by militia afterwards, and the Soldier's mother told him his father was a soldier who had died before he was born, not knowing the Raider had reincarnated as the Soldier. For his part, Maerwald has long lost the ability to tell himself apart from the two past lives.
  • Mega Man Battle Network: Long ago, Baryl's father was a soldier who fought in foreign wars, and thus he left Baryl in the care of his friend, Dr. Wily. When he eventually dies, Wily's thirst of revenge returned, and it influenced Baryl as well.
  • Kazuhira Miller from the Metal Gear series was fathered by an American occupation soldier who had sex with a Japanese prostitute following the end of World War II. After he was sent back to the States, she was forced to raise Kaz alone, though while they were together he treated her like a wife and left her enough money to create her own store before leaving.

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    Western Animation 
  • One of the Starlight Girls in Jem is Ba Nee. She was born in Vietnam but was sent to America after her mother's death, and lives at a foster home that Jem And The Holograms run. She is obsessed with finding her Disappeared Dad however the others consider him dead. All that Ba Nee knows is that he's a redhead, so she has a tendency to latch onto random redheaded men and think they're her father. She finds her father in the finale. It turns out he married her mother in Vietnam however had to go back to war. He had amnesia due to an injury and didn't remember his wife. After being reunited with Ba Nee, they live together.
  • The Simpsons: In "The Regina Monologues", the Simpsons visit England, with Grandpa Abe Simpson going to try and find a woman he had a one-night stand with the evening before D-Day. In the epilogue they find each other, and it turns out Homer has a half-sister named Abbie. Abe panics and runs for the plane.

    Real Life 
  • This was a real problem in Britain during and immediately after the war years. In middle-late 1945, the USA recalled practically all its service personnel home. But with virtually all British males having been called up, human nature meant the Americans had left a lot of little memories behind them. Many British servicemen returning from overseas service were less than pleased to find children they had not fathered. Many were given up for adoption or ended up in orphanages. Children fathered by black Americans were especially unfortunate in this respect.
  • People from countries in the Middle East sometimes refer to green-eyed individuals as having "Crusader eyes", due to a belief that they're descended from children fathered by Europeans during the Crusades (the typical Middle-Easterner is statistically much more likely to have brown eyes).

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