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Monique's relationship with Absinthe is essentially this. The most recent example of their relationship is when Xanthe had noticed that Monique was having a good time with another woman, and the enlightened spy duo note that Absinthe was wearing pants for some reason. This is also an example that's lampshaded constantly, mostly by Squig.