''Since You Went Away'' is a black and white film from 1944, directed by John Cromwell.

The Hiltons are a well-to-do family living somewhere in FlyoverCountry. Patriarch Tim Hilton has just left for service in UsefulNotes/WorldWarII when the movie starts, leaving his wife Anne (Claudette Colbert) and their daughters Jane (Jennifer Jones) and Brig (16-year-old Creator/ShirleyTemple) to cope with life on the home front while Tim is away. Forced to save money after losing Tim's civilian salary, the Hiltons take in a boarder, Col. Smollett, whose grandson Bill (Robert Walker) falls for Jane.

Also stars Joseph Cotten as Navy Lt. Tony Willett, an old friend of the Hilton family who obviously carries a torch for Anne. Produced by David O. Selznick for Creator/UnitedArtists. Nominated for a large passel of Oscars, and won some of the minor ones.


* AltarTheSpeed: Lampshaded and then averted. Jane and Bill discuss getting married right away just before the TrainStationGoodbye, but decide against it.
* AnyoneCanDie: Well, not ''anybody'', but anybody who's left for the war.
* TheCameo: Creator/LionelBarrymore has one short scene as a clergyman.
* ComingOfAgeStory: One of the main plot elements is Jane growing from immature teenaged girl to a grown woman.
* DancesAndBalls: The town puts on a dance for the soldiers at the local Army base, complete with girls brought in to dance with the soldiers.
* DeathByChildbirth: The fate of Bill's mother, as he explains to Jane.
* DeathNotification: Sort of. Anne receives the standard telegram, but it says that Tim is missing in action. The later telegram informing the family that Bill was killed in Italy arrives offscreen, with Anne telling Jane after Jane comes home.
* FatalFamilyPhoto: Mr. Mahoney the grocer shows Anne a picture of his son, who's in the army. Not long after, his son is killed in a training accident.
* TheGhost: Tim never appears onscreen but his presence looms throughout the movie, via many refrences to him as well as several pictures of him in the Hilton residence.
* GrumpyOldMan: Col. Smollett is cranky and cantankerous, complaining about his eggs and the dog and the peculiarities of the Hilton household.
* HaveAGayOldTime;
** "Do you know of any place here in this gay metropolis where I can conquer my two passions at the same time?"
** "This powderbox is not too gay."
* HypocriticalHumor: "This whole moral breakdown is caused by drinking and nothing else. They sure serve rotten Scotch at this bar."
* {{Intermission}}: The "Entr'acte" comes slightly more than halfway through this three-hour film, after the Hiltons receive the MIA telegram.
* {{Mammy}}: Hattie [=McDaniel=] plays--wait for it--a sassy black maid.
* {{Melodrama}}: Much tragedy, heightened emotions, and crying to be had.
* ParlorGames: The Hiltons play Charades from time to time. The super-dignified Col. Smollett has to act out "bottoms up".
* SleepingSingle: Amusingly still done in a movie where one half of the married couple is absent. In one scene Anne jumps from her bed into Tim's and breaks down weeping.
* StarCrossedLovers: In an ironic twist, they are played by an actor/actress couple in the middle of a divorce, because the actress is having an affair with the screenwriter/producer.
* ThunderEqualsDownpour: Jane and Bill are having an ideal afternoon on a farm when the sound of thunder comes out of nowhere. Boom, before they can even make it to the barn, it's pouring rain.
* TrainStationGoodbye: The TropeMaker, as Jane sees Bill off when he's going away to war. There are declarations of love, there's Jane running after the moving train, there's BIll handing her a keepsake (his watch) from the moving window.
* TheVoiceless: Brig's very shy friend Gladys, who pops up from time to time to signal Brig with a "Pssst!" but never talks. Fiinally at the end she manages to gasp out a "Merry Christmas."
* WrenchWench: Anne eventually goes to work as a welder.