* {{Anvilicious}}
* BaseBreaker: Debra. To her fans, she's a beleaguered, long-suffering heroine with the virtues of a saint. But to her detractors, she's a hypocritical SmugSnake and KarmaHoudini. To most, she's somewhere in between.
** Raymond in later seasons, as he became much more callous, as well as spineless when it came to choosing between Debra and Marie.
** Marie is one herself. Some find her to be superior to Debra as she cares more for Raymond's well-being, others find her to be too meddling and self-centered to be likable.
* EnsembleDarkhorse: Frank, whose snarky behavior brought forth many FunnyMoments.
* FreudWasRight: Used in "Marie's Sculpture" with Marie's...rather "feminine" abstract statue.
-->'''Marie:''' ''Oh my God, I'm a lesbian.''
* FridgeBrilliance: In the epilogue to "The Angry Family", we learn that Michael's story was based on an animated TV series called "Monster Maniacs", not the Barones. Suddenly it all makes sense why a character based on Robert wasn't in Michael's book: There probably wasn't a fifth character in that "Monster Maniacs" show.
** It may seem rude for Frank to ask Marie for food when she's upset or angry, but Marie loves to cook, so Frank may very well be trying to calm her down and/or try to get her mind off what's making her upset by getting her to do something she loves. JerkWithAHeartOfGold indeed.
* GrowingTheBeard: The early episodes of the show weren't bad, but the characters hadn't been fully realized yet, which meant the show was originally kind of generic, and even kind of slowly paced. However, once the show and characters found it's footing (around the end of season 1, beginning of season 2) the show became memorable, relatable and pretty consistently well written.
* HarsherInHindsight: In one episode, there is a rather unpleasant scene where Ray tells Debra that he found out that their daughter Ally has been bullying another girl on the school bus. Debra shrugs it off, saying she doesn't think it's a big deal and that it's just kids being kids. When Ray asserts that bullying is indeed a big deal and notes that he and Robert are still scarred from their own experiences, Debra smirks and calls him a wuss, and then starts calling Ray names while the studio audience laughs, this scene is considerably less funny today due to the rash of bullying-related suicides and murders over the past few years.
** One episode revealed that Debra (and Marie) would tell their kids to think less of their fathers and covertly try to make themselves as the more adored and likeable parent. The episode treats this as a sneaky but wacky act on Debra's part (she pokes fun at Ray's inability to tell when she's gotten a new haircut, or how he's not always zipped up), but more serious on Marie's part (she derided Frank and told her young son how she couldn't understand how anyone can live with him). In real life, this is called Parental Alienation Syndrome, and is found in many mean-spirited and bitter divorces.
** When Robert comments on how he doesn't picture Frank outliving Marie. Peter Boyle died shortly after the series ended.
* InformedWrongness: Ray in practically every episode of the later seasons is portrayed as being wrong no matter what, whether or not it actually makes sense. Even in episodes where Debra does the exact same thing or does something worse, ''Ray'' will inevitably be the one forced to apologize and/or the one who gets humiliated at the end of the episode.
* ItsPopularNowItSucks: Initially, the sitcom was highly-touted by critics as a great new show that wasn't as popular as it deserved to be. Once the ratings started growing and the show became huge, the series was now considered an easy target for people mocking "modern sitcoms".
* JerkassWoobie: He was usually TheWoobie, but Robert did have some {{Jerkass}} moments.
** Ray as well. Not only does Debra become harder to live with as the series progresses, but Marie's smothering ''really'' screwed him up. For just two examples, he mentions having nightmares about a "crazy tree lady" who followed him to school (which Robert reveals was Marie), and she held him back a year in pre-school just because she liked their walks to it. And consequently, he is a lazy, whiny, [[ManChild immature]] MamasBoy.
** Debra, to an extent. Admittedly, part of her frustration can be traced to living opposite Raymond's parents, who drive a lot of people crazy throughout the series. Unfortunately, she chooses to take it out on Raymond, who doesn't exactly care much for living near them either (and even advised her '''not''' to do so in a flashback episode).
* RonTheDeathEater: Ray for some people, particularly those who view Debra as a saintly, long-suffering [[TheWoobie Woobie]]. Debra for those who find her to be extra-bitchy and seeing her smacking Ray in moments of annoyance as a horrible case of spousal abuse.
* SeinfeldIsUnfunny: The idea of having a sitcom that focused on the parents instead of the kids was a revolutionary idea at the time, which helped this show stand out. Nowadays, a lot more sitcoms focus on the adults than the kids.
* ShipToShipCombat: Robert/Amy shippers vs. Robert/Stefania shippers.
* {{Squick}}: From "Whose Side Are You On?", when Marie compares Ray to Frank:
--> '''Marie:''' "This is a good husband! Anytime you wanna trade places just say the word. I mean, if I was forty years younger and he wasn't my son-"
--> '''Ray:''' "Okay ma!"
* StrawmanHasAPoint: As the seasons went on, Ray generally morphed into the show's main strawman. A lot of times the show would seemingly attempt to paint Ray's opinion as the "wrong" one, even though Ray often ''did'' have a good point.
* UnintentionallyUnsympathetic: Debra.
* {{Wangst}}: Debra, especially in the later seasons.
* TheWoobie: Robert as the show's resident ButtMonkey. Constantly made fun of by Ray and Frank, neglected by Marie as a child, divorced, and constantly trying and failing to get away from his parents. Perhaps the hardest episode to watch for a Robert fan is the one where Marie, Judy, Stephania and Amy force him to sit down and listen as they discuss every single character flaw they can think of, even if they aren't actually flaws and are just things about him they personally dislike.
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