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[[caption-width-right:222:''I didn't KickTheDog, so [[DudeWheresMyReward where's my cookie?]]'']]

->'''Buffy:''' What are you doing?\\
'''Spike:''' Making this woman more comfortable. I'm not sampling, I'll have you know. Just look at all these lovely blood-covered people. I could, but not a taste for Spike, not a lick. I knew you wouldn't like it.\\
'''Buffy:''' You want credit for not feeding on bleeding disaster victims?\\
'''Spike:''' Well, yeah.
-->-- '''''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'''''

Bob just [[HobbesWasRight isn't good by default.]] Where some people cleave to good behavior more or less naturally, Bob does not, either through being a {{Jerkass}} or an outright villain. He needs to be pushed and prodded -- by himself and others -- into being a decent person, and because this process is a struggle for him and because his good behavior is above and beyond how he might be acting otherwise, he believes he deserves exceptional acknowledgement for his efforts.

This person Wants A Prize For Basic Decency. A character expects extra kudos for behaving in a situation like a decent human being instead of a {{Jerkass}}, even though basic humanity is expected of others by default.

It can inspire ThenLetMeBeEvil if the character is treated as a real villain despite their good deeds.

Compare ItsAllAboutMe, EntitledToHaveYou, DoggedNiceGuy, and CondescendingCompassion. Contrast DudeWheresMyRespect, in which a character ''does'' heroic things but gets no positive acknowledgement for it, and ThinkNothingOfIt, in which a character avoids being praised after doing heroic things. Also contrast strong cases of CrapsackWorld, where having a shred of humanity actually ''is'' exceeding any reasonable expectations. Furthermore, there is the idea of BlueAndOrangeMorality coming into play (where the person has inhuman or bizarre morals and standards to where 'basic human decency' is actually pretty high standards (or out of character) for them) [[noreallife]]
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!!Examples:

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[[folder: Anime & Manga]]
* Coupled with DeliberateValuesDissonance in ''AnatoliaStory''. Ramses abducts Yuri, and then tells her off for screaming and trying to escape. He tell her she isn't very grateful for how "nice" he's being, whereupon Yuri asks why the hell she should appreciate his kidnapping her as "nice". His response? He wasn't ''raping'' her while kidnapping her, was he?
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[[folder: ComicBooks]]
* The Kingpin in ''Comicbook/UltimateSpiderman'' explains to Peter that this is why normal people [[TallPoppySyndrome resent superheroes like Peter]]. Normal people, according to the Kingpin, are sheep who just want to do the bare minimum of what is expected of them and want someone like the Kingpin to give them a big cookie for it at the end of the day. Seeing heroes like Peter going above and beyond makes them realize that they don't really deserve that cookie.
* There is Zoe Zimmer from ''Comicbook/MsMarvel2014'', who is just ''concerned'' about the wellbeing and financial status of her classmates. She is even willing to shop where one of them works, and can't fathom why he wouldn't make coffee for her for this great act of charity. The others are divided whether or not her "concern trolling" is an [[AlphaBitch act]] or [[InnocentBigot cluelessness]]. [[spoiler:Exposure to TruthSerum reveals that she is genuinely mean.]]
* In ''ThePowerpuffGirls'' story "Everything Must Go," (DC Comics #48) Mojo Jojo conducts a yard sale of his destructive wares. The Amoeba Boys buy one of his items--a magnet that pulls the moon towards the earth on a collision course. When he intervenes and stops the machine, sending the moon back to its rightful place, he thinks he deserves a "thank you" from the girls. They lock him up in jail for starting the whole thing with his yard sale to start with.
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[[folder: FanWorks]]
* In the ''Manga/DeathNote'' fic ''[[http://archiveofourown.org/works/827529/chapters/1571549 Lab Specimen]]'' L thinks Light should be grateful to him despite L's invasive and dehumanizing treatment of him and [[spoiler: sexually assaulting him]] because at least L wasn't ''torturing'' him.
* In the ''Manga/DeathNote'' fic ''[[http://archiveofourown.org/works/616971/chapters/1112940 To Feel Alive]]'' Ryuk is quite put out when Light doesn't seem too thrilled when Ryuk makes the promise that [[KillYouLast his death would be quick and painless]]:
-->''Shouldn't he be grateful that he wasn't planning on giving him a painful, lingering death?''
* In ''FanFic/WishCarefully'', Lucius Malfoy thinks the women of the Cabal, who were kidnapped from their homes to be breeding concubines, should be grateful to him because he gives them whatever they want in reward for them birthing and "took them from poverty". And he lets them see their own children.
* In the ''Film/{{Maleficent}}'' fic ''[[http://archiveofourown.org/works/2038305/chapters/4425591 Your Servant, Mistress]]'' this trope is averted and discussed: Maleficent repeatedly congratulates Diaval on being a decent human being, and he's surprised that she thinks whatever he's done, or not done, noteworthy, assuming that everyone would act like this. He complains that she has really low standards at one point.

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[[folder: Film]]
* In ''Film/{{Maleficent}}'' it is implied that Stefan expects gratitude for not killing the title character, but merely [[spoiler: cutting off her wings.]]
* In ''La cintura di castita'', a hermit enlightens Boccadoro that though Delioso has been trying to abduct and even rape her, he didn't kill her though he could. And why? Because he '''loves''' you, my child!
* A downplayed example appears in ''Film/InTheLoop''. Toby, an aide of British cabinet minister Simon, is in Washington D.C for a meeting with a senior American government official. The night before, he goes out clubbing with an old university friend, hooks up with her and oversleeps, resulting in him missing the first half of the meeting. After Simon "reads him some extracts from the Riot Act" in response, Toby protests on the grounds that "it's not like I threw up in there, is it?" Unfortunately for him Simon's not impressed with this line of defence:
-->'''Simon:''' [[SarcasmMode No. You're right.]] I'm being unfair. I should be ''thanking'' you for ''not'' throwing up. ''Well done''. You're a ''star''. And you didn't wet yourself, did you? You're in the right city. You didn't say anything overtly racist. You didn't pull your ''dick'' out and start [[ADateWithRosiePalms plucking it]] shouting "Willy Banjo!" No, I'm being really unfair! You got ''so much'' right... without actually ''being there'' for the beginning of one of the most important moments of my career. ''Thanks''. You're a ''legend''.
* Zig-zagged in ''Film/ScentOfAWoman'', during the climactic hearing. [[DeanBitterman The dean]] intends to punish Charlie for not naming names, yet also intends to reward George for testimony that is only slightly less vague than Charlie's. After Frank's RousingSpeech, the school disciplinary committee, in addition to excusing Charlie from any further involvement in the case[[hottip:*:not to mention, deciding they ''can'' take action against the vandals after all]] declare that George's should ''not'' receive recognition or reward for his testimony.
* In ''Film/GuardiansOfTheGalaxy'', Yondu constantly reminds Peter Quill that were it not for him, his crew would have eaten him when he was a child. It's implied he's been bringing it up for the past twenty-six years.
-->'''Quill:''' Stop acting like you did me a favor by keeping them from eating me! Normal people don't eat people!

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[[folder: Literature]]
* In ''Literature/FireAndHemlock'', the protagonist's mother acts like she's a saintly martyr for watching the school's nativity play (in which her daughter plays a part), because it's ''boring'' - of course, in comparison to the ''father'' she is the better parent.
* Invoked in ''Literature/ThePictureOfDorianGray'', when Dorian realizes that his painting is reflecting all the hedonism he's committed, and thinks that not picking up this country girl he comes across will improve it. The painting promptly develops a smug grin of hypocrisy.
* One DaveBarry column has this insight into the male mindset: being little more than toilet-trained cavemen, they will occasionally perform an act of great heroism like doing the laundry without being asked or making spaghetti without setting the house on fire, only to be confused when other people (read: women) don't consider this an accomplishment worthy of a Nobel Prize.
* ''{{Twilight}}'':
** Edward Cullen has this mindset. "I'm not killing every random human in my path, I deserve a cookie!", even though he's never lifted a finger to stop anyone ''else'' from eating people, or tried to save anyone in danger of getting eaten, unless they're a member of his little familial unit. He claims to have eaten only bad people in the past to justify his actions but we can only take him at his word. His telepathy only works on surface thoughts, so he really can't tell the difference between someone genuinely plotting a murder and a person who might just be mad at their boss and ''fantasizing'' about committing a murder.
** Jacob's the same way--he forcibly kisses Bella against her will, not letting go until she punches him so hard she breaks her hand, and his only defense is basically, "Well, at least I didn't rape her."
* In the final ''IncarnationsOfImmortality'' book, two female characters learn that AllMenArePerverts, and gain a newfound appreciation for the amount of restraint the average man shows in not raping them. Yeesh...
* In ''Literature/HushHush'', Patch wants Nora to love and trust him... because he didn't kill her. And not that he was planning on killing her because he was lied to or brainwashed or anything. He wanted to kill her because it would make him human and thus let him feel things. [[SarcasmMode Truly, it was so wonderful of him to drag her to a motel room, isolate her from her friends and family, scare her out of her mind, and then assure her that he had no intention of going through with murdering her.]]
* Vern the dragon from Karina Fabian's ''Literature/DragonEyePI'' series thinks he's learned more patience and long-suffering than a dragon was ever meant to know now that he resists incinerating or eating anyone who happens to annoy him.
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[[folder: LiveActionTV]]
* In ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'', Spike the erstwhile evil vampire tries to impress Buffy by helping people injured in a roof collapse, and wants credit for not drinking their blood. This disgusts Buffy.
* In the ''Series/DoctorWho'' episode "Boom Town", Blon Slitheen has a nice chat with a young pregnant woman about family instead of eating her. The Doctor doesn't fall for it.
-->'''Blon:''' I spared her life.\\
'''Doctor:''' You let one of them go, but that's nothing new. Every now and then, a little victim's spared... because she smiled, cos he's got freckles, cos they begged. And that's how you live with yourself, that's how you slaughter millions, because once in a while, on a whim, if the wind's in the right direction, you happen to be kind.
* Gul Dukat of ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine'' shows continual annoyance that the Bajorans didn't give him any admiration or love for being a more merciful prefect during the military occupation of their world, and later even rants to Captain Sisko about how just he was in ordering proportional executions of alleged suspects in response to Cardassian deaths from a terrorist attack.
* Schmidt on ''Series/NewGirl'' harangues his friends to say he's a good person for saving a man from choking on gum (after crashing his bike and breaking both legs, for which Schmidt didn't even bother to call 9-1-1). This after he had just cheated on [=CeCe=] with Elizabeth and vice-versa, and tried to break up Jess and Nick [[NeverMyFault because he thinks they were to blame for the former.]]
* Happens with Meadow on ''Series/TheSopranos''. She throws a party at her grandmother's abandoned house, which gets completely trashed. When her parents later take her to task for it, she complains that they aren't giving her any credit for not trying Ecstasy at the party, which she totally could've done.
* In a Thanksgiving episode of ''Series/MalcolmInTheMiddle'', Malcolm goes into a huge drunken rant about how he was [[AboveTheInfluence too nice a guy to sleep with a girl who was barely conscious when she came on to him.]] His family are unimpressed.
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[[folder: NewspaperComics]]
* One ''ComicStrip/BabyBlues'' strip featured Zoe excitedly telling her mom that she just saw her brother Hammie bend over in front of her, and ''didn't'' kick him! The last panel has her complaining about how hard it is to get brownie points.
* ''ComicStrip/ForBetterOrForWorse'': John flew into a blind rage and spanked Michael for not agreeing that he, as the child, owed his parents for feeding, clothing and housing him. Elly's objection was not that Michael didn't owe his parents every single cent spent on him with interest rates that would make a Mafia loanshark sick but that he lost his temper.
* In ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'', Calvin argues that since he's such a little hellion that being nice is difficult for him, any good deed he does should be worth five good deeds of some kid who ''wants'' to be good in terms of Christmas presents. Hobbes points out that the question of his good deeds is purely theoretical anyway, but Calvin insists that not putting a rock inside that last snowball was already something. Of course, this is [[ItsAllAboutMe Calvin]] we're talking about -- he's also stated that he's done his part in the world just by being ''born'' and thinks everyone else ungrateful for not thanking him for it.
%%* [[http://www.gocomics.com/pearlsbeforeswine This]] ''ComicStrip/PearlsBeforeSwine'' strip.
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[[folder:StandUpComedy]]
* A gem from Creator/ChrisRock's "Black People vs. Niggas" routine, which the thesis is "Everything white people don't like about black people, black people ''really'' don't like about black people." That would make an excellent page quote if not for the, ahem... [[NWordPrivileges controversial]] language;
-->"You know the worst thing about niggas? Niggas always want credit for some shit they ''supposed'' to do. A nigga will brag about some shit a normal man just ''does''. A nigga will say some shit like, "I take care of my kids." You're '''supposed''' to, you dumb motherfucker! What kind of ignorant shit is that? "I ain't never been to jail!" Whatchu want, a cookie?! You're not supposed to go to jail, you [[BuffySpeak low-expectations-having]] motherfucker!"
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[[folder: TabletopGames]]
* The ''[[{{Splat}} Book of Exalted Deeds]]'' from ''TabletopGame/DungeonsAndDragons'' [[DiscussedTrope discusses]] this when talking about what it is like to be truely "[[CharacterAlignment good]]", saying that one who cites all the evil things they have '''not''' done is at best neutral rather than an active force of good.
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[[folder: VideoGames]]
* In ''VideoGame/MassEffect1'', after rescuing Shepard and team from a volcanic eruption, Joker makes a comment about expecting a medal for the timely save. Renegade Shepard responds thusly:
-->'''Shepard:''' Saving my boots from burning lava is part of your job, Joker. We don't give medals to soldiers for doing their jobs.
* ''VideoGame/TheElderScrollsVSkyrim'': The Blades will eventually demand that the Dragonborn kill Paarthurnax, former lieutenant of Alduin and cause of many atrocities, or else they will refuse to help you any further. Paarthurnax asks for his life, and cites his long history of peace and meditation. He asks the player, [[ArmorPiercingQuestion "Which is better, to be born good, or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?"]] As [[AlwaysChaoticEvil a dragon]], [[MySpeciesDothProtestTooMuch he struggles constantly with his inherent tyranny]], and as a result one might very well be forced to concede that yes, he does indeed deserve not to be executed simply for not hurting anyone and being somewhat helpful to the player.
** Note that Paarthurnax does not whinge about this trope himself; he freely acknowledges that the Blades' fear of him is perfectly logical, is quite understanding should you choose to kill him, and never really claims to be "good" simply because he refrains from evil. Consequently, many players turn against the Blades for their insistence that he be killed for the crime of "being a dragon," especially since the arguments they use to support their case are essentially "killing dragons is what we do." For the record, if you do decide to kill Paarthurnax, he won't retaliate against you and will even wait until you've chipped off a large amount of his health before attempting to fly away, implying he's genuinely repentant about his past.

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[[folder: Webcomics]]
%%* There's a ''SurvivingTheWorld'' [[http://survivingtheworld.net/Lesson1538.html strip]] with an...[[CrossingTheLineTwice interesting]] take on this.
* There was a ''Zogonia'' strip that went something like:
-->'''Kev''': I can't believe you don't trust me! All those times when I was on guard duty, I could have slit your throat while you slept and taken all the treasure, but I ''didn't''! And this is the thanks I get?
-->'''Domato''': I was never really asleep.
-->'''Kev''': Yeah, I know.
* In the ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'' prequel, ''On The Origin Of [=PCs=]'' we have a Belkar example. He thinks he deserves a reward for the restraint he showed by not killing ''all'' the barmaids in a tavern brawl, and suggests that if humans don't want him to murder people, they should put up a sign saying "Thank you for not killing more than five of us".
-->'''Prison Guard''': We don't want you to kill ANY of us!
-->'''Belkar''': Now you're just being unreasonable!
* ''Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}'': Cronus believes that the other characters should be totally impressed that he doesn't ''nearly'' lord his [[FantasticCasteSystem highblood status]] above them all as much as he could.
* ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}'': Slick managed to do something good and Nana goodheartedly gave him a cookie and he mildly rubbed it in Xanthe's face. This trope would be in play, but he actually didn't really expect to get a cookie.
* ''Webcomic/{{Katamari}}'' has Ace, whose desire for personal recognition makes him a completely self-absorbed {{Jerkass}}. Upon learning that his {{Snowlem}} cousin Sherman has mostly melted and needs help building up a body, Ace refuses to help until the other brings up a potential reward.
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[[folder: WebOriginal]]
%%* [[http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ this article]] on Website/{{Cracked}}.
* Youtuber [=the1janitor=], talks about how a lot of guys claiming to be in the "Friend Zone" are really [[EntitledToHaveYou entitled]] {{Extreme Doormat}}s that [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rZu-tBi7DM really aren't as nice as they claim to be.]]
--> "Look dude, the world doesn't owe you shit for being nice, and girls don't either. You're supposed to be nice to people. You don't get a cookie for doing what people are supposed to be doing anyway."
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[[folder: WesternAnimation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'': The group is talking about Zuko's sudden FaceHeelTurn, and Toph cites setting Appa free instead of leaving him to rot as one good thing he's done.
-->'''Sokka:''' ''(sarcastically)'' Oh, hurray! After a lifetime of evil, at least he didn't add animal cruelty to the list!\\
'''Toph:''' I'm just saying that considering his messed up family and how he was raised, he could have turned out a lot worse.\\
'''Katara:''' You're right, Toph. [[SarcasmMode Let's go find him and give him a medal]]. The "[[BuffySpeak Not-As-Much-Of-A-Jerk-As-You-Could-Have-Been]] Award"!
* In ''XMenEvolution'', after [[{{Antivillain}} Lance]] saves an elderly lady (out of genuine decency) from a train wreck Wanda caused and the lady richly rewards the Brotherhood, the Brotherhood begins to do "good deeds" -- but only for the reward, occasionally engineering the situations in the first place. When their reputation collapses and the rewards vanish, they go back to their typical IneffectualSympatheticVillain routine.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Homer once saved Mr Burns' life by allowing Bart to be a donor during a blood transfusion, solely on the basis that he expected some kind of reward from Mr Burns. When the only reward he got was a thank-you note addressed to Bart, he sent him an abusive letter in return.
* On ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark,'' [[TokenEvilTeammate Cartman]] is freaking out around Christmastime about whether or not he's been "nice" enough to merit Santa's favor. He suggests that brushing his teeth counts as a "nice" action, only for his "naughty and nice accountant" to note that that doesn't really count.
* ''MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'': Even after notionally "reforming", Discord has distinct shades of this, claiming to be just as good a friend of the Mane Six as they are to each other in spite of all the trouble he's caused (and ''keeps'' causing) and then complaining when they don't immediately return the sentiment. Being {{the Trickster}}, how much of this is genuine sentiment and how much just to jerk somepony's (usually Twilight's) chain {{for the lulz}} isn't always easy to discern.
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