In a show where a main character is being raised by a single mom, there will be an episode where the divorced dad visits.

This rarely works in the reverse; perhaps reflecting the trend of children living with the mother, but more often than not a single father's wife is just dead. And in RealLife, custody for children almost always goes to the mother. [[note]] And the general belief that the mother is less likely to walk out on their kids than the father.[[/note]]

Compare WhenYouComingHomeDad

Contrast DaddyDidntShow.
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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* In ''Manga/KodomoNoOmocha'', Sana's (adoptive) mother's ex-husband shows up at their house a couple of times asking for money. Of course, due to the comedic nature of the show, he is likely to be (harmlessly) blasted with some sort of large weapon, sending him flying away. Played with in that Sana doesn't consider this guy a dad, and he doesn't consider her his daughter, since Misako's marriage ended before she found Sana.
* In ''Anime/{{Noein}}: Mo Hitori no Kimi e'' (To Your Other Self), both Haruka and Yu both seem to be being raised by single mothers and Haruka brings up child support and running away to Tokyo to live with her dad in an early episode. It turns out Yu's is just always at work, but Haruka's dad's monthly visits becomes a plot point when fellow quantum physicist Uchida plans to use it to catch him and get him to help her save the world from their mutual research. [[Literature/{{Discworld}} There's always bloody quantum.]]
* Yuki's divorced father Kurou visits him in the hospital more than halfway through ''Manga/FutureDiary''. [[spoiler:However, a chance for father-son bonding isn't the real reason he's there...]]
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[[folder:Comics]]
* Happens in ''ComicBook/{{WITCH}}'', and gets its own subplot. Will's dad, [[DisappearedDad Thomas Vandom]], threatens to take Will away from her mother if the latter doesn't give him the huge sum of money he wants.
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[[folder:Film]]
* The ''[[Literature/TheBabySittersClub Baby-Sitters Club]]'' movie had an example, where Kristy's DisappearedDad visits for the summer. He only reveals himself to his thirteen-year-old daughter (ignoring his fifteen-, seventeen-, and seven-year-old sons), forcing her to keep it secret and basically lie to her family and friends all summer, before he leaves unexpectedly because his job prospect didn't pan out. The main series has another example where Dawn and Jeff's dad visits Stoneybrook briefly before a summer trip. He has breakfast with his ex-wife, her NewOldFlame husband, and her stepdaughter. It's just as awkward as it sounds.
** The SpinOff series, ''Friends Forever'', had Kristy's dad get married again and finally remember that he has kids - because he wants the three oldest ones to be in the wedding. He doesn't even seem to remember that the youngest child (who was a baby when he left) exists, and is kind of a JerkAss throughout the whole thing.
* In the movie ''Film/{{Armageddon}}'', one of the guys who has to go to space visits his son. The mom doesn't tell the boy that this is his father, but that he's a salesman. Later, after taking part in a plan that saves the planet, they see the man on TV. When the boy says, "That salesman is on TV." The mom responds, "That's not a salesman. That's your dad."
** A similar thing happens at the end of ''Film/TheLongKissGoodnight''.
* One that does not end well in ''Film/TheRebound''.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* Another kind of inversion happens in ''AmeliasNotebook'' where Amelia gets a letter from her divorced father, then she comes to visit ''him''. There still seems to be tension between her parents, though.
* In ''Literature/{{Animorphs}}'' [[ActionGirl Rachel]] is visited occasionally by her father, who lives in another city. She actually seems closer to him than to her mom because they have a lot in common.
* A rare reversal in ''SweetValleyHigh'' as Lila lives with her single father and her mother lives in France. When Lila is nearly date raped and the therapy she receives isn't working, her dad reaches out to her mother. This leads to them eventually remarrying in Book #98: The Wedding.
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[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* ''Series/DesperateHousewives''
* ''Series/{{Monk}}'', who finally meets his dad, who is in trouble for a murder his boss committed.
* ''Series/TheParkers'' (on more than one occasion)
* ''Kate and Allie'' (many occasions for both divorced moms)
* ''Series/OneDayAtATime''
* ''Series/WhosTheBoss'' (multiple visits; one included a brief reconciliation with the mom)
** The first visit actually revealed they hadn't been divorced yet. He came back from an extended trip after being served with papers. That led to the attempted reconciliation.
* ''Series/GilmoreGirls'' (though in this case, the parents were never married to begin with. multiple visits; one brief reconciliation with mom. One attempted reconciliation with catastrophic effects)
* Hank Summers appears in the first-season ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'' episode, "Nightmares," and is supposed to meet Buffy, but cancels, a few other times over the series's run.
** JossWhedon was raised by a single mother. Coincidence?
** It got the point where, in the 5th season, after [[spoiler: Joyce dies and Dad doesn't even show up for the funeral]], Dawn going to live with their Dad is listed as only a slightly preferable alternative to foster care if Buffy were to be deemed an unfit guardian.
** PlayedWith and GenderFlipped in season six--when Buffy was temporarily dead Willow and Tara became Dawn's [[ParentalSubstitute substitute]] [[HasTwoMommies mothers]], but later they broke up and Tara moved out. In "Smashed" she and Dawn go out together in what seems intended to represent a sort of parental visitation.
** Seems to be an example of CharacterizationMarchesOn, Hank's appearance in the season finale indicated that he genuinely cared for Buffy, and his divorce from Joyce came out of irreconcilable differences(if the second season finale offers any hint), not from some sort of parental neglect. It isn't until the third season that his incompetence as a parent truly becomes apparent
* A few times in ''Series/TheSuiteLifeOfZackAndCody''.
* Interestingly ''Series/TheSarahJaneAdventures'' has an example of a child with divorced parents living with their father. This trope isn't used because the Mum shows up so often that she's a DropInCharacter. It's later played straight when Clyde's father pays a visit for the first time in five years in ''"The Mark of the Berserker"''.
* ''Series/SportsNight'' has a Visit to Divorced Dad by Casey's son Charlie.
* ''Series/TheFreshPrinceOfBelAir'' used it for a VerySpecialEpisode where Ben Vereen appears as Will's career-first father. Initially Will is excited, but when Uncle Phil tries to warn him against getting his hopes up, Will throws it back in his face. Of course, Mr. Smith plans on leaving without telling Will, triggering a CrowningMomentOfAwesome PapaWolf rant from Philip, as well as a combined TearJerker-cum-CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming at the end when Will's attempt to look strong in the face of this latest abandonment fails and, breaking down, asks Phil, "How come he don't want me, man?"
* ''Series/{{Castle}}'' inverts this trope, since Rick Castle is raising his daughter Alexis (or in [[ManChild his case]], [[WiseBeyondTheirYears possibly the other way around]]) and they get the occasional visit from his even more irresponsible ex-wife. (Even one of his ''other'' ex-wives, who isn't Alexis's mother, occasionally turns up to spend time with her.)
* Inverted in ''TheSecretLifeOfTheAmericanTeenager''. Amy and Ashley live with their dad George([[spoiler: or did until Amy moved in with Ricky and Ashley went on a road trip with Toby]]). Their mom, Anne, and their baby brother Robbie live in another town near Anne's ailing mother. The girls (and occasionally George) sporadically visit Anne and Robbie. Anne keeps up semi-regular phone communication, but never really physically visits them, except when she's dropping Robbie off for his time with George.
* ''GossipGirl'' has done this with both parents. Blair's father (who comes to visit once or twice per season) and Dan and Jenny's mother (who appeared in a minor arc in season one).
* ''Series/ModernFamily'', with Gloria's ex-husband (Manny's father).
** Also reversed, when Jay's ex-wife visits (though both of her children are now adults).
* ''Series/{{Eureka}}'' does the GenderFlipped version when Zoe's mom shows up. In a twist, she's showing up because it's her turn to get custody, and Carter needs to convince her not to [[PutOnABus put Zoe on a bus]] back to Los Angeles.
* ''Series/TheVampireDiaries'' has a two episode arc in which Caroline's dad shows up. Of course, then he proceeds to torture her.
* In the ''Franchise/PowerRangers'' episode "Return of an Old Friend", the parents of the Rangers are kidnapped and used as hostages. This includes Kimberly's divorced parents, with the dad being in the middle of this.
* Several episodes of ''Series/NewYorkUndercover'' focus on this trope between Det. Williams and his son, G.
* Happens pretty regularly on ''MyNameIsEarl''. One episode involved Earl discussing his list for Dodge's class [[spoiler: and it's revealed that he is Dodge's biological father.]] Another episode involved signing the kids out of camp to take them to Mystery Fun Land...only to find that the amusement park has been torn down. [[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming Dodge and Earl Jr. forgive "Old Daddy" and cross "Never took the kids to Mystery Fun Land" off the list]].
* ''Series/{{Blossom}}'' is the living-with-father variety. On a couple of occasions the mother (who just walked out on the family one day) comes back for a visit. The last time, Blossom's dad tells her not to come back.
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* ''Webcomic/RedString'' inverts this. Reika decides to visit her father while she's in Tokyo. Upon entering, she discovers that her father has not only remarried, but he already has a son that was born around the time of the divorce (plus another one on the way). [[spoiler:Then her father reveals that Reika was an unplanned pregnancy.]]
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* ''Erika's New Perfume'' has the title character's father take her trick-or-treating in a four-comic StoryArc.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Braceface}}''
* ''WesternAnimation/TheWeekenders''
* ''WesternAnimation/RocketPower'' with Sam's workaholic father.
* ''WesternAnimation/PepperAnn'': her father visits fairly often, though as a blimp pilot he's usually away.
* ''WesternAnimation/HomeMovies'' (on multiple occasions; the divorced dad eventually evolved into a {{Recurrer}}.)
* Happens to Buster in ''WesternAnimation/{{Arthur}}'', though sans melodrama on his part. It eventually culminates with Buster leaving for an extended period to travel with his father. Later to be used as fodder for a spin-off series.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{WITCH}}'' features this a couple times with Will's dad, especially in the episode "Q for Quarry".
** It happened in the original comics, too. However, Will's dad there isn't so nice...
* In one of those rare reversals, [[WesternAnimation/DrKatzProfessionalTherapist Dr. Katz]] actually has custody of his son, and is visited by his ex-wife only once for Thanksgiving.
* {{Inverted}} on ''WesternAnimation/PhineasAndFerb,'' where main character [[MadScientist Dr. Doofenshmirtz]] occasionally goes through with his evil plans while his [[MadScientistsBeautifulDaughter daughter]], Vanessa, is visiting; most of the time she's with Doofenshmirtz' ex-wife, but unlike most of the men on this page he keeps regular contact. Even if she sometimes [[BumblingDad wishes he wouldn't]].
** Averted, however, with both Phineas and Candace's [[DisappearedDad biological dad]] or Ferb's [[MissingMom biological mom]], about whom nothing is known. [[WordOfGod The creators]] have gone on record as saying they're unimportant, since they would just rather focus on the Flynn-Fletchers as a [[HappilyAdopted happily blended]] family. Notably, the kids all refer to both parents as Mom and Dad.
* ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'' had a few episodes sort of like this, when [[DumbBlonde Luanne]], a WomanChild who lives with her aunt and uncle, got visits from both of her parents. The mom had previously been in jail, while her dad [[spoiler:[[RetCon had been as well]]]].
* ''WesternAnimation/WheelSquad'' had an episode where Jessica's father visited her.
** It's unclear if Emilie might have a similar experience, since it's not known if her birth father died or simply divorced her mother.
* An interesting subversion of this trope occurs in the Emmy-nominated ep of ''WesternAnimation/AsToldByGinger'', "Hello Stranger", where Ginger invites him to see her read a poem. However, [[DaddyDidntShow he never shows up]]. Dad would, however, later visit Ginger in "An Even Steven Holiday Special" and "Losing Nana Bishop".
* ''WesternAnimation/MonkeyDust'' had a recurring sketch in the first series based around this. In each sketch a divorced dad has a custody visit with his young son Timmy; only to [[DrivenToSuicide kill himself in various horrible ways]] when Timmy talks about how great the mother's new boyfriend is. The divorced dad eventually discovers that his ex's boyfriend is [[YourCheatingHeart Timmy's real father]], but on this occasion decides not to kill himself and just be there for Timmy. However, in the last sketch featuring the characters, the dad commits suicide yet again on discovering that a now-teenage Timmy has become a juvenile delinquent.
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