-> ''"Jeez, where do you freaks find these understanding guys, and where do I get one?!"''
-->-- '''Shelly''', ''WapsiSquare''

So you are a freak of nature, a witch, a SuperHero, or a ChosenOne. You are loaded with supernatural powers, and between going to work or [[WakeUpGoToSchoolSaveTheWorld school]] you have some world saving duties to attend to that need to be kept secret. And on top of that, you also need to balance it out with a love life!

But you can't tell your boyfriend about it! He'd freak out and leave you, or worse. But then, you can't keep it a secret forever, either. At some point, one of your supernatural incidents will inevitably happen exactly when you were having a romantic dinner. Or maybe your relationship has simply reached the next level, and you feel that you need to be completely honest with him.

So what now? How will he react? Well, it turns out he's [[MilhollandRelationshipMoment perfectly okay with it]] (well, for the most part) and completely understands. That's right, as a reward for your sacrifices, the PowersThatBe will make sure that you end up with a truly noble and loving soul who loves you for who you are and doesn't care what you are. So no worries!

Compare FreakinessShame, when a disguise forms part of the powers. Compare to ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend for the ActionGirl [[InvertedTrope variant.]] Compare and contrast NonhumanLoverReveal, for the guy/girl who is on the other end of this trope. See also TheMasqueradeWillKillYourDatingLife, which is an aversion of this trope.
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!!Examples:
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[[folder: Anime and Manga ]]

* The central premise of ''[[NogizakaHarukaNoHimitsu The Secrets of Haruka Nogizaka]]''. The titular girl is an otaku.
* Ditto with ''[[LightNovel/OreNoImoutoGaKonnaNiKawaiiWakeGaNai My Little Sister Can't Be This Cute]]''. Except that the guy is not a boyfriend, but the big brother... [[BrotherSisterIncest yeah]].
* Austria from ''Manga/AxisPowersHetalia'', in regards to his VictoriousChildhoodFriend Hungary. While he's concerned for her well-being, in the end he knows that if she wants to fight, he better lets her... since she will go OneWomanArmy and destroy the enemy. Considering their childhood, [[LoveAtFirstPunch he knows it beforehand]]!
* Keiko Asakura from ''Manga/ShamanKing'' had been dumped by ''every'' single boyfriend she had when they learned she was able to see spirits. Until the last JerkAss left her and a penniless musician with similar abilities comforted her. That guy was Mikihisa, and she would marry him.
* Horribly deconstructed with [[spoiler: Shiso and Ceres]] in ''AyashiNoCeres''. [[spoiler: Shiso started like this, but being left helpless when he and Ceres got attacked [[IJustWantToBeSpecial made him very frustrated]], so he asked Ceres to give him a part of her powers [[DeclarationOfProtection so he wouldn't be a burden on her.]] But then, [[WithGreatPowerComesGreatInsanity said powers turned out to be too much to handle]], and it went FromBadToWorse...]]
* Shuuji in ''Manga/{{Saikano}}''. His girlfriend is a WMD? That's OK, things will work out. [[spoiler: Actually, they don't.]]
* Kenta Usui from ''{{Karin}}'', except for the boyfriend part. [[spoiler: Until the end, that is.]] Comes with him doubling as Karin's crush ''and'' the Marker family's SecretKeeper.
* In ''Manga/AwkwardSilence'' Toono Satoru's boyfriend is the only one who can read his seemingly blank and expressionless face (other than an old childhood friend of his who doesn't show up until later volumes) and understand his emotions.
* This is also central to the plot of ''Manga/{{Kotoura-san}}''. Haruka Kotoura was [[AllOfTheOtherReindeer friendless, socially stigmatized]] and [[BrokenBird severely traumatized]] due to her {{telepath|y}}ic powers, and by the time Manabe came into her life, she would actually [[LeaveMeAlone drive people away]]. Manabe successfully broke her shell and became protective of her; and by this way she gradually became more like what she actually is--a conventional {{moe}} heroine. The only issue is, he is a pervert and ''still'' couldn't really control his sexual fantasie s-- except those fantasies were all directed to her, rather than other.
* In ''DemashitaPowerpuffGirlsZ'', [[spoiler: Souichirou eventually finds out in episode 45 that his girlfriend, Sakurako, transforms into Sedusa whenever she's jealous or has doubts about her relationship with Souichirou. In a rather d'aww-worthy moment, Souichirou's reaction is to shout at Sedusa that he doesn't care, he loves Sedusa and Sakurako...because Sedusa ''is'' Sakurako!]]
* The majority of the Ashikabi in ''{{Sekirei}}'' are perfectly accepting of their HumanAlien {{Magical Girlfriend}}s. Minato in particular takes things in stride, and actively seeks any way he can help the girls out, whether it's providing emotional support, doing the laundry, or acting as the strategist.
* ''Franchise/KagerouProject'': Tsukihiko is this towards Azami; despite having [[{{Medusa}} snakes for hair]], [[ReptilesAreAbhorrent scaly skin]] and [[RedEyesTakeWarning threatening red eyes]] (and a multitude of dangerous powers, to boot), he treats her like a person instead of a monster, even knowing what she is, and that everyone else wants her dead.
* Tomoomi Hanamura is this to Shiho Kobayakawa in Manga/PrivateActress. Half in regards to her work as a Private Actress (then again he ''is'' one, too), and specially regarding [[spoiler: her being the [[HeroicBastard illegitimate daughter]] of two famous actors.]]

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[[folder: Comic Books ]]

* Kong is this to Kitty Pryde in ''ComicBook/UltimateSpiderMan'', even going so far as to yell "You're welcome!" at AllOfTheOtherReindeer for not thanking her when she saves their lives.
* Back in the Golden Age, Steve Trevor was this for Franchise/WonderWoman (a remarkably progressive move for the times), and not at all threatened by the idea of getting rescued by or mooning over a woman who was twenty times stronger than him. The Silver and Bronze Age characterizations of him were...[[TooDumbToLive unfortunately]] [[JerkAss less so]], which probably led to the relationship being deleted from continuity PostCrisis.
* In an old WhatIf comic, JimmyOlsen married ''{{Supergirl}}'' because of amnesia. Once she recovers and lets him know, he's totally fine with being married to {{Franchise/Superman}}'s cousin.

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[[folder: Fan Fic ]]

* [[http://www.fimfiction.net/story/106068/1/relax/intimacy Relax]] is an extremely heartwarming example. Why? Because the couple, Haye and Klee, initially met when the former bought her services as a prostitute. Not only is Haye completely cool with his girlfriend's occupation, but he also pays her just like any other client, despite the fact that she'd definitely do it with him for free.
* ''[[FanFic/UltimateSpiderWoman Ultimate Spider-Woman: Change With The Light]]'' plays it straight to an extent. When Mary Jane Watson's boyfriend Randy Robertson finds out that she's secretly a web-slinging superheroine, he's not so much upset by the fact that she's a superhero as the fact that she originally wouldn't tell him the truth about it. What ''really'' pisses him off, though, is when he learns that her ArchEnemy Jack O' Lantern knows her real identity.
* In the ''WesternAnimation/RiseOfTheGuardians'' fic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8751000/1/Guardian-of-Light Guardian of Light]]'', the main character Helen [[spoiler: discovers that Pitch is her father]]. Jack isn't her boyfriend [[spoiler: at this point]], but he doesn't hold this against her despite everything, and is willing to protect her at all costs.
* Lero Michaelides of Fanfic/DividedRainbow.

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[[folder: Film ]]

* In ''InnocentBlood'', FriendlyNeighborhoodVampire Marie has her understanding boyfriend Joe.
* In ''{{Film/Hancock}},'' Ray is pretty understanding when he finds out Mary is not only the same kind of FlyingBrick that Hancock is, but was also his wife.
* Antoine is this to WaifProphet Bernadette in Film/TheSongOfBernadette. This is ''only'' in fiction: in RealLife, they genuinely were JustFriends.
* Hiccup from ''How to Train your Dragon'' can be considered this to his CuteBruiser [[HotBlooded sort-of]] girlfriend Astrid. Especially in the TV episode 'The Fright of Passage'

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[[folder: Literature ]]

* Elend in Brandon Sanderson's ''{{Mistborn}}''. At least [[spoiler:until he gets superpowers himself.]]
* Seth in ''WickedLovely''. When Aislinn tells him that she can see faeries, he has exactly one moment of "Is this a joke?" before accepting it and trying to help her with her faery situation.
* In ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'', Carrot is completely understanding about his werewolf girlfriend Angua, even the part about her not being human for one week out of four. She's actually upset that he's ''not'' upset about this at one point.
--> ''That was almost...almost one of the ''annoying'' things about him. She suspected he wouldn't mind if she shaved her head, or grew a beard. It wasn't that he wouldn't notice, he just wouldn't mind, and for some reason that was very aggravating.''
* In ''[[Literature/BrasAndBroomsticks Parties and Potions]]'' by Sarah Mlynowski, Rachel is a witch and has to tell her human boyfriend Raf. It mainly escalates when she starts doing training for her witch "debutante ball" and ends up being gone whenever he wants to hangout with her. He is okay with it when he finds out, though.

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[[folder: Live Action TV ]]

* ''Series/GhostWhisperer'' features Jim the Understanding Husband.
* Both [[SubvertedTrope subverted]] and played straight in ''Series/{{Bewitched}}''. The original Darrin (Dick York) was less than understanding, to the point of being downright hostile to Samantha when she used her magic. TheOtherDarrin (Dick Sargeant), on the other hand, tried his hardest to be understanding, the point that it was more the fault of Endora and the rest of Samantha's family that TheOtherDarrin didn't get along with witches.
* Played with in the ''Series/SabrinaTheTeenageWitch'' TV series. Harvey ''does'' leave Sabrina when he finds out she's a witch, not out of intolerance but because she'd been using magic to mess with his life for years. He eventually does come back to her, though, and says he never had a problem with her being a witch per se.
* Zack was the "gay best friend" equivalent of this in ''Series/{{Heroes}}'', at least until ExecutiveMeddling got in the way.
* Unless she's dating one of the undead, Buffy never got this on ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer''. (Even Riley, who was himself a demon fighting super-soldier, had an inferiority complex due to dating a genuine superhero.) It's Willow who hit the boyfriend jackpot with Oz; upon being told the truth about the supernatural world she runs in, he replies, "Actually, it explains a lot," and just goes with the flow from there. Of course, Oz discovers he is a werewolf shortly after they begin dating, so he's more or less stuck in the supernatural world regardless, and Willow ends up having to play Understanding Girlfriend just as often.
* Tyler Ford in ''TheMiddleman'''s unaired season finale (released as a comic)...[[spoiler:at least, until MM pushes the ResetButton]].
* Allison's husband Joe on ''{{Medium}}'' believes in her powers and is understanding and accepting of them.
* In ''{{Series/Merlin}}'', 2x09. Merlin discovers [[spoiler: Freya turns into a bastet at night, but he isn't afraid and still takes care of her. He even pets her cat's head...]]
* In the TV version of ''Series/WonderWoman'', played by Lynda Carter, esp in the first season (set in WWII), Steve Trevor comes across as completely comfortable with the fact that Diana is more physically powerful than he is, and in fact manages to work with her and make himself actively useful while giving every impression of appreciating her for who and what she is...and doesn't come across as unbelievable or weak, either.
* In the TV version of ''TheTick'', Captain Liberty and another female superhero discuss the difficulties of finding a boyfriend while picking up their dry-cleaning. Seriously subverted in this episode.
* ''{{Roswell}}'' had Isobel and Jesse; she tries to send him away after he discovers she's an alien, but in the novel 'season 4', they end up together anyway.
* Played straight on ''{{Reaper}}'' with Andi. After she learns about Sam's masquerade, she is actually relieved to find out why he stood her up so often. [[TheMasqueradeWillKillYourDatingLife She was planning on breaking up with him before he told her]].
* This was a recurring problem for the ladies on ''Series/{{Charmed}}'', whose human love interests would either freak out at the idea of magic existing, or would end up six feet under very soon after learning and accepting the truth. Piper marries a [[GuardianAngel Whitelighter]], Leo ([[spoiler:but after he eventually loses his powers, he becomes this]]), Phoebe marries a Cupid, while Paige's husband, Henry (a 100% normal cop) plays this straight, his only reaction to her confession being mild surprise.
** This was also played straight by Grams' first husband [[spoiler:before he died]], but averted by every one after that. The girls' father, Victor, also seemed quite accepting (and is of the girls' magic in the present day), but it's implied Grams drove him away.

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[[folder: Video Games ]]

* In ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIII'', Serah wanders into some ruins and is made a [[BlessedWithSuck Pulse l'Cie]]. Public opinion of Pulse l'Cie being... rather low, she tries to break up with Snow so he won't be associated with her should she be found out. He refuses to accept this, demands an explanation, and upon being told the truth says he will do anything to help her and [[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming proposes a few days later]].
* In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'' a non-mage Hawke can be this if romancing Anders or Merrill. Particularly if the player character is on the friendship path.
** [[DarkAndTroubledPast Fenris]] and [[GoodBadGirl Isa]][[EthicalSlut bela]] count, too. In fact, if Fenris tries to apologize for breaking up with Hawke in the second act, one of Hawke's lines is "[[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming I understand. I always understood]]."
* At PandorasTowerUntilIReturnToYourSide, Aeron discovers his girlfriend Elena is cursed and will transform into a monster if not cured. Even with his his girlfriend in a [[BodyHorror half demonic state]], he throws away his old life and start exploring dangerous towers, just to kill monsters and feed Elena with their flesh to reset the curse timer and try to cure her (and give her gifts when he can). You could say Elena is a really lucky girl.
* A major part of several romances in the ''Franchise/MassEffect'' series, especially with the non-humans, is Shepard being this about their various issues. Aside from the inherent problems of romancing, say, a drell or a quarian, the strongest is probably Jack, who only really warms up to Shepard when she realizes he cares ''despite'', not because of, her history and nature -- that is to say, he truly loves her rather than pitying her. Of course, given the people Shepard is willing to let into the RagtagBunchOfMisfits ("Asari? Krogan? ''TURIANS!?''") it's only to be expected.
** Also featured with the romance between Female Shepard and Garrus Vakarian, particularly in [=ME3=]. No matter what Shepard's done, [[spoiler: such as bringing on the destruction of the quarian race or sabotaging the genophage cure,]] Garrus will still support and care for you. Heck, even when you ''break up with him'' he's totally understanding and remains warm to you when most people would "get in the skycar and leave".
* In ''VideoGame/LollipopChainsaw'', Juliet's boyfriend Nick seems less bothered about the fact that his girlfriend is a zombie hunter armed with a magic chainsaw, and more concerned with the fact that [[ALoveToDismember she chopped his head off to save him from being turned into a zombie]].

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[[folder: Webcomics ]]

* [[LampshadeHanging Lampshaded]] in [[http://wapsisquare.com/comic/understanding/ this]] ''WapsiSquare'' comic. Also the page quote.
* {{Subverted}} (although this may be a retrospective way of seeing it) in ''Webcomic/SluggyFreelance''. Leo seems to be accepting of all the weird things ZoŽ tells about happening to her - but it turns out that was only because he thought she was lying. In the words of another jerk he hangs out with, "You've got to respect a girl who realizes romantic relationships are based on lies and goes to town with it!" As soon as Leo finds out it was all true, he feels betrayed, and they eventually break off.

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[[folder: Web Original ]]

* In ''Literature/{{Worm}}'', Defiant (i.e. [[spoiler:Armsmaster]]) becomes one of these to Dragon when she reveals that she is [[spoiler:an artificial intelligence]].

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[[folder: Western Animation ]]

* Despite Candace's fanatical attempts to put a stop to WesternAnimation/PhineasAndFerb's projects, and her general tendency to [[LawOfDisproportionateResponse blow minor problems out of proportion]], her crush Jeremy never, ever seems to lose his cool, and they eventually end up going steady.
* ''{{Futurama}}'': Fry [[FreakyIsCool doesn't seem to have a problem]] with Leela's [[{{Cyclops}} big ol' eye]]. In fact, when Leela [[IJustWantToBeNormal gets a prosthetic second eye]] in "The Cyber House Rules", Fry is the [[OnlySaneMan only one who objects]], saying that he [[FreakinessShame liked her better the way she was]]. Eventually she [[StatusQuoIsGod renounces her decision]], admitting Fry was [[TheCuckoolanderWasRight right all along]]. ([[RuleOfFunny Although she still tells him to shut up after he cheers]])
* In ''WesternAnimation/TeenTitans'' there's the episode where Starfire turns into a chrysalis, her species' own version of puberty, and Robin chases after her, even after seeing all her weird changes. Later when he meets up with her again, he tells her he would have come for her even if she hadn't changed back to looking perfectly normal. Daww...
** Added on to that, while Robin is far from useless in a fight, he has no actual superpowers. Starfire is capable of flying, shooting energy bolts out of her hands, and can punch out villains twenty times her size.
* In SuperRobotMonkeyTeamHyperforceGo, Chiro lovingly sticks with his sweet, caring, adorable, and brave girlfriend Jinmay... even though he knows she's a robot.
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