->''She would gladly have spent her whole life touching Daario, tracing his scars and making him tell her how he'd come by every one.''
-->-- ''ASongOfIceAndFire''

A scene (usually after sex) where the heroine asks the hero how he got the [[DentedIron various scars on his body]]. This gives him a chance to [[RealMenGetShot reveal his badass nature]] or MysteriousPast without appearing boastful to the audience. If this scene happens [[ShirtlessScene before the two become lovers]], it's a good opportunity for {{Fanservice}} and UnresolvedSexualTension as she [[EatingTheEyeCandy studies his body closely]].

Tends not to be gender-reversed as BeautyIsNeverTarnished. When women do have scars it's meant to hint at a DarkAndTroubledPast, which they are often [[TheyreCalledPersonalIssuesForAReason unwilling to talk about]]. But there are exceptions, as seen below.

Can combine with acquiring new scars, in the AfterActionPatchup.

See also GoodScarsEvilScars, ScarsAreForever, and CoveredWithScars. Related to EveryScarHasAStory.
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* ''{{Berserk}}'' gives us that rare gender-flipped example when Guts inspects Casca's arrow-wound scars [[spoiler: right before they make love]], since Casca is just as much as a [[ActionGirl badass fighter]] as he who has [[CoveredWithScars earned her fair amount of scars from battle.]] She is at first embarrassed by them... but that doesn't stop Guts from finding her [[AmazonianBeauty totally attractive.]]
** Casca does this to Guts too, as she recants about all of the scars that he got while trying to protect her from General Adon and his troops. In one extremely sexy moment, she licks one of the wounds that she recently gave him, and says that she someday wants a scar on her body given to her by Guts. [[{{Foreshadowing}} Hmmm...]]

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[[folder: Comic Books ]]

* Has happened multiple times with Bruce (Franchise/{{Batman}}) Wayne.
* It happened between [[ComicBook/{{Daredevil}} Matt Murdock]] and Milla Donovan during the "Hardcore" arc.

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[[folder: Fan Fic ]]

* Relatively common in {{shipping}} fanfics, if one of the charas involved has any kind of scars.
* Male ''and'' female example: this is the main point of the ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'' fanfic [[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/6494704/1/Much_Better_Now Much Better Now.]] After Mai checks out the scars all over Zuko's body, he notices hers, including some she got by self-harming when she was younger.
* A [[SlashFic male-on-male]] example is the entirety of the ''Film/{{Skyfall}}'' one-shot [[http://archiveofourown.org/works/572921 Corpore Sano]] -- contrasting the film's recurring motif of damage and Bond's combat scars with those of Q's carefully and deliberately administered self-harm scars.
* One KnightsOfTheOldRepublic fanfic had Carth and Canderous get a little drunk and boastful, which leads them to start stripping and comparing battle scars. Now, the ''Mando'ade'' has an impressive collection, but so does the Republic War vet. Carth's about to show off the nastiest one he has (which requires dropping trou) when the crew's women come in Fem!Revan then shuts them ''both'' up by showing off ''her'' nastiest one.

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[[folder: Film ]]

* The famous scene in ''LethalWeapon3'' where Martin Riggs and Lorna Cole start talking about the injuries they got as {{Cowboy Cop}}s; Cole chickens out when Riggs starts stripping off to show his properly.
* Spoofed in ''Film/LoadedWeapon1'' when Destiny shows off her various cosmetic surgery mishaps in comparison to Colt's over-the-top war wounds.
* In ''Film/TheReturnOfSwampThing'' features a villainous example when a pair of male and female mercenaries in employ of the MadScientist BigBad flirt by showing off their scars. One of the guy's is a scratch from a former lover.
* ''Film/IRobot'' (2004). A {{UST}} moment (though not one that's ever consummated) occurs between Detective Spooner and robopsychologist Susan Calvin when she examines his artificial arm and ribs; this leads to the scene where Spooner explains how he got the injury and why he doesn't trust robots.
* Both played straight and subverted in ''Film/WorkingGirl'', when Tess asks Jack about the scar on his chin post-coitus. He initially claims it was a knife wound from an attempted mugging, but immediately recants and tells the much more mundane and embarrassing true story.
* Happens in ''Film/BrotherhoodOfTheWolf'' during the hero's love scene with the local HighClassCallGirl, each scar [[EveryScarHasAStory being a hunting memory]]. She draws a dagger and marks him with one more, as a memory of her.
* Happens to the titular serial killer in ''TheStepfather II'', when his current love interest notices the knife wound he received at the end of the first film. He gives a BS response about how he was attacked by a former and extremely unstable patient of his.
* ''Film/TheBigRedOne''. In a deleted scene the German sergeant protagonist receives a (non-sexual) massage from a French woman who asks about the injuries we've seen him receive earlier in the movie.
* In ''Film/RocknRolla'' two Russian mobsters compare their scars while waiting in the car. Culminating with the tougher one presenting a scar he claims to be left by the tank track.
* ''Film/{{Hancock}}'' has a rather odd version in which Mary tells Hancock where he got all his scars. He has amnesia, and doesn't remember any of them.
* Discussed rather than seen in ''Film/MrAndMrsSmith''. The morning after their DestructoNookie John and Jane Smith are talking about past hits, and the permanent injuries they have as a result.
* The famous scar comparison scene in ''{{Jaws}}''.
* ''ChasingAmy'' has a scene modeled after that in Jaws, only Banky and Alyssa are comparing injuries they received while performing oral sex.

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[[folder: Literature ]]

* A subversion of the "mysterious badass" version occurs in ''Literature/CatchTwentyTwo'' when Yossarian, an American WWII bombardier, asks the Italian woman he has just slept with about the scars on her back. She tells him that she got them in an American air raid. She doesn't seem to take it personally though, because WarIsHell.
* An after-sex version happens in SMStirling's post-apocalypse novel ''DiesTheFire''. An ex-recon Marine is asked about a scar he got during Desert Storm. He says it's from an RPG, causing the [[AcronymConfusion puzzled woman to wonder]] how you get a scar during a RolePlayingGame.
* It's not after sex because they're not yet married and Taysan society doesn't countenance premaritals, but Jay shows off as many of his scars as are decently visible to Ashlenn in the third ''Literature/{{Spaceforce}}'' book. He omits to mention that one of them was received in a beating from the henchman of a husband he cuckolded.
* ''Fair Game'', a crime novel by Paula Gosling. The woman being guarded by the cop protagonist asks about his scars when she [[ShirtlessScene sees him shirtless]] while shaving.
* ''The Little Drummer Girl''. Charlie is sleeping with her Mossad [[TheHandler case officer]] Joseph and asks about his scars; Joseph says they're burns from the hot metal of the tank he used to drive and the machine-gun wounds he got after bailing out of it. A grimmer version of this trope is when Mossad spymaster Kurtz shows her captured terrorist Salim, whom Charlie is going to pretend was her boyfriend. They point out his various scars and how he got them, information she would know if she was truly his lover.
* ''AbleTeam''. Government 'specialist' Carl Lyons is asked post-coitus by DEA agent Flor Trujillo how he got his various scars, including a crescent scar on his elbow caused by a rear-view mirror hurled at him by the impact of a machine-gun bullet. He says they're from breaking up family fights when he was a cop, and the elbow one was from an attack-trained clam on the beach. Flor doesn't believe him.
* ''Literature/TheWindupGirl'' by Paolo Bacigalupi. Genetically-engineered concubine Emiko does a silent version of this when she's in bed with corporate spy Anderson Lake, trying to work out from his wounds something of his MysteriousPast.
* ''Literature/TheDresdenFiles'' has several of these between the titular character and a lover.
** The scene in the laundry room between Harry and Anastasia Luccio before their de facto RelationshipUpgrade in ''Literature/SmallFavor''.
*** And again when dressing up for a fancy party in ''Literature/SkinGame'', this time with Hannah Ascher, a rogue pyromancer and a temporary partner in crime, doing the survey. Unlike the last time, Harry chose to stay strictly business. [[spoiler: Even the sex-crazy Winter Knight Mantle had to thank him later though, as it turned out that Ascher played host to Harry's old "friend", Fallen angel Lasciel the Temptress.]]
* Anita Blake from ''AnitaBlakeVampireHunter'', has to show off and talk about her many scars from vampire hunting in nearly every book, no sex needed (although she has plenty of that).
* Happens to MatthewHawkwood in ''Ratcatcher''.
* Imriel and Sidonie in ''Literature/KushielsLegacy'', only in Imriel's case, it's the brand he got while being used as a sex slave at the age of ten. Ouch.
* A rare solo version occurs in ''[[TheVampireFiles Bloodlist]]'', when newly-undead Jack examines his own injuries to try to determine how he'd died.
* Since Geralt of ''TheWitcher'' series is in a job that constantly makes all kinds of nasties mistake him for a chew toy, and he also ReallyGetsAround, this tends to happen at least once a book.

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[[folder: Live Action TV ]]

* ''Series/{{Leverage}}'' had Eliot ''and'' guest character Raquel Dayan showing each other their scars. All tropes were played straight for both of them.
* ''CougarTown'' had a young man Jules was about to sleep with ask her about a stomach scar in the pilot. She awkwardly claims she got knifed as a kid, then reveals it's from her C-Section.
* ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer''
** In "The Harsh Light of Day" Parker examines the [[KissOfTheVampire scar on Buffy's neck that Angel gave her]]; Buffy isn't adverse to the attention.
** Likewise in "Buffy vs. Dracula" the Count slips into Buffy's bedroom and compels her to pull back her hair to reveal the scar.
* ''Series/BeautyAndTheBeast'', a past love notices the scar behind Catherine's ear. However, she only tells him "it's a long story" when he asks how she got it.

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* In Carlos Murillo's ''dark play or stories for boys,'' the entire plot is kicked off by one of these. In the first scene, Nick has just had sex with a girl for the first time. She asks him about the dozens of different-sized slash-like scars on his abdomen, and [[ConsummateLiar his narration immediately spirals into a panic about what to tell her]]. The rest of the play is a series of flashbacks leading up to how he got them. [[UnreliableNarrator Supposedly.]]

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* Gender-inverted in ''VisualNovel/{{Ever17}}'', when Tsugumi shows her many scars to Takeshi during their gondola ride. Then they make love.
* ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'':
** In Lilly's first sex scene, despite being blind, she manages to feel Hisao's scars from his heart surgery. She becomes uneasy over whether they should keep going, but Hisao suggests that it should be OK for him.
** In Hanako's route, Hisao's decision to show her his scars was perhaps the definitive turning point in their relationship, partly due to the insecurity Hanako has about her own much more visible scars. [[spoiler: Hanako... sorta retursns the favor later [[SexAsARiteOfPassage right before her own sex scene]], stripping down to her panties and pantyhose and letting Hisao see her body clearly.]]

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