->'''Karstark:''' May I speak my mind, Your Grace?\\
'''Robb:''' Have you ''NOT'' been speaking your mind, [[GrumpyOldMan Lord Karstark?]]
-->--''from Series/GameOfThrones''

A StockPhrase

In the military, due to the chain of command, there is rarely a time where a rank and file soldier can speak his mind without disrespecting his superior. Cue this phrase. If the commander grants the request, it is understood that the soldier will not be disciplined for anything he says. This is often adapted to "Permission to do X," if used for comedic effect. A similar phrase, "off the record," can be used for similar purposes (usually in non-military situations).

Another related RealLife phrase is, "[[WithDueRespect With all due respect, sir]]..." After which an NCO tends to say something nasty about the addressee officer.

Compare TheConsigliere, who is employed to always speak with BrutalHonesty.

Note of caution: using it in RealLife is [[SchmuckBait not a good idea]]. [[TemptingFate Neither is granting it]], really.

!!Examples:

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[[folder:{{Anime}} and {{Manga}}]]
* ''Manga/{{Bleach}}'' anime episode #210. During the captain's meeting, Head Captain Yamamoto orders Captain Unohana to remain in the Seireitei and be ready to take care of any wounded. She asks for permission to speak, then asks if it would be better for her to go with the other investigating captains to the scene of the disappearances where there are more likely to be injuries to be healed. Head Captain Yamamoto declines her request: they can't risk her because of the uncertainty of the situation.
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[[folder:Fan Fiction]]
* In the LyricalNanoha fanfic [[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/4380342/9/The_Name_of_War The Name Of War]], Nanoha and Vivio's mother-daughter relationship has grown strained since Vivio enlisted in the Bureau. Vivio, ends up saying this to Nanoha, referring to her by rank, when stating her intent to file a report over an incident during the Sol and the Luna's test flight.
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[[folder:Film]]
* Used in ''Film/DownPeriscope'', shortly after Lt. Cmdr. Tom Dodge pulled a rather risky and clever stunt to boost the self-confidence of his (very hot, very female) Diving Officer, Emily Lake. She corners him in his cabin, asks "Permission to speak freely, sir?" and after he grants it, kisses him rather passionately. After she salutes and leaves, Dodge muses "I should grant permission to speak freely more often."
* In the 1996 movie adaptation of ''Sgt. Bilko'', newcomer Wally asks [[MildlyMilitary Bilko]] this stock question, to which Bilko responds "'Permission?!' What are we, in Russia? Say anything you want." Even so, Wally continues to ask permission throughout the film.
* ''Film/StarTrek'' (2009). Leonard 'Bones' [=McCoy=] to Spock.
* ''Film/StarTrekTheMotionPicture''. Commander Decker to Admiral Kirk after Kirk almost blows up the ''Enterprise''.
* ''Film/StarTrekIITheWrathOfKhan''. Saavik to James T. Kirk after the [[UnwinnableTrainingSimulation Kobayashi Maru test]].
* In ''Film/TheOne'', the junior [[TimePolice MVA Agent]], Evan Funsch, repeatedly asks his partner for permission long after having started to speak.
* In the film version of ''Film/TheGunsOfNavarone'' Corporal Miller says "Permission to speak?" to Major Franklin, then tells him that he thinks the boat is unsafe and that he can't swim.
* In ''DrStrangelove'', General Turgidson asks the President for permission to speak freely, then proceeds to actively question the Russians' grasp of technical know-how, visibly angering the present Russian ambassador by calling them 'ignorant peons'.
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[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* A variation in the ''Series/{{StarTrekTheOriginalSeries}}'' episode "Obsession" in which it is shown that the First Officer and Medical Officer have the right to approach the Captain when they observe him acting in ways that they feel are harmful to the ship and her crew.
* ''Series/StarTrekTheNextGeneration'': Riker had a tendency to invoke this with various Special Guest Captains on the Enterprise, when Picard got temporarily replaced for various reasons. This was usually because said temp captains almost always ''were'' [[TyrantTakesTheHelm complete dicks]], who either didn't know anything about the Enterprise's usual group dynamics, or didn't care. In fact, this comes up all the time on the ''Franchise/StarTrek'' franchise. Speaking your mind to a superior officer without asking this first is insubordination and can be punished appropriately and the senior officer can also revoke it at any time. A variant, "permission to speak frankly," also exists. The superior officer may also choose to deny the request, or may reply "Always," indicating an apparent blank check that they prefer for their subordinates to always speak their mind and they will not be punished for insubordination if they do so. It's also worth noting that many officers within the series have simply made this request then gone ahead and started speaking their minds without waiting for the requested permission.
** Riker even once said it to himself, after it is discovered that the transporter created a duplicate of him eight years previously when he was still a Lieutenant, and Lt Riker didn't like Commander Riker's command style.
** One memorable example also occurs on DeepSpaceNine, where Kira, wanting to discuss the possible replacement of Odo as security chief with a Starfleet officer, asks Sisko for permission to speak freely, and once, granted, ''erupts'' in frustrated rage at Starfleet's cluelessness.
* Several characters from ''Series/{{Battlestar Galactica|Reimagined}}'' say this, especially Starbuck.
** Notable in that unlike most examples of this phrase, her request is often denied outright.
* Also occurs on ''{{Caprica}}'', when an STO officer grants Lacy Rand this during a questioning.
* ''Series/StargateSG1'' uses this occasionally when the team is discussing some awkward situation with whoever's in charge of the base that season. Or when they're about to say something [[HilarityEnsues really inappropriate]]. A personal favorite from O'Neil: "General Hammond, permission to beat the crap out of this man?" (Sadly, it isn't granted).
* ''Series/{{JAG}}'': In season 3 episode "Yesterday's Heroes":
-->'''Lt. Bud Roberts, Jr.:''' ''[seeing Mac in her swimsuit]'' Permission to speak freely, Ma'am?
-->'''Maj. Sarah 'Mac' [=MacKenzie=]:''' Of course.
-->'''Lt. Bud Roberts, Jr.:''' WOW!
* ''Series/{{Blackadder}} Goes Forth'':
** ''The Blackadder Goes Forth'' also has Baldrick given permission to ask a question, "as long as it isn't the one about where babies come from" this leads to the CrowningMomentOfFunny where Baldrick asks how the war started.
** And also Baldrick's first cunning plan from episode 1 where the permission is "Granted, with a due sense of exhaustion and dread."
** In one episode, Blackadder is attempting to win General Melchett's favor and orders Baldrick and George not to talk unless given explicit permission. They take this {{literal|Minded}}ly and end up needing permission to answer basic questions like "How are you doing?"
*** In the same episode, Blackadder abuses his earlier order to steal credit for a painting George made in order to get out of the trenches, with George asking for permission to speak up in an increasingly frustrated fashion.
** [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_FdDtCB8xw "Permission to shout 'bravo' at an annoyingly loud volume?"]]
* Used for comedy in ''Series/RedDwarf'', particularly when Rimmer is attempting to be polite to Captain Hollister, even asking his permission to look smug.
* Something of a StockPhrase for Chakotay towards Captain Janeway on ''Series/StarTrekVoyager''. It may be that as a Maquis leader he has a hard time gauging the Starfleet-appropriate level of formality.
** Possibly. But he's also a Starfleet Academy graduate, so YMMV.
* ''TheWestWing'' episode ''Dead Irish Writers'', has First Lady Abbey Bartlet having a private talk with some of the women staffers about the impending possible suspension of her medical license, and C.J. asks permission to talk to Abbey, and not the First Lady. Abbey gives permission, but doesn't like what C.J. tells her, and switches back to being the First Lady. A bit later Donna pipes in with:
-->'''Donna''': Oh, Mrs. Bartlet, for crying out loud, you were also a doctor when your husband said, "Give me the drugs, and don't tell anybody," and you said, "Okay."
--->''An uncomfortable silence fills the room. Everyone looks at Donna.''
-->'''Donna''': Oh, my God. You switched back to First Lady.
* The very MildlyMilitary aliens on ''ThirdRockFromTheSun'' occasionally used variations of this. In one episode, Sally was exasperated with Dick's command decisions and came up with the particularly memorable, "[[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1wDAjM7hh0&t=4m15s Dick, permission to bitch?!]]" (He grants it.)
* Near the end of the ''Series/{{Community}}'' episode "Remedial Chaos Theory", a followup scene from the darkest alternate timeline has Abed proposing they embrace their evil selves and destroy their good alternate identities. Jeff, who lost an arm in a fire here, asks if being evil lets them speak their mind, and when it does, he angrily tears into Abed for his relentless obsession with timelines in the face of all the tragedy that's befallen the group. Evil Abed is unfazed.
* Parodied in the ''DoctorWho'' ChristmasSpecial [[Recap/DoctorWho2012CSTheSnowmen The Snowmen]] wherein a character asks for permission to make a statement in such detail that it renders actually making the statement completely redundant.
* From season 5 of TheNanny:
-->'''Maxwell:''' Niles, I don't know what the woman wants anymore. What am I supposed to do?
-->'''Niles:''' May I speak freely, Sir?
-->'''Maxwell:''' Yes of course old boy.
-->'''Niles:''' I am so bloody sick of hearing this year after year. "Niles, what am I to do?," "I told her I love her," "I took it back," "I'm afraid of commitment," "I'm worried about the children." [[GetAholdOfYourselfMan For God's sake, make a move!]] ''Do something!'' You passed on {{Cats}}, [[NeverLiveItDown do you want to regret this for the rest of your life too?!]]
* From ''{{NCIS}}'':
-->'''Abby''': Permission to speak freely, SIR!
-->'''Gibbs''': You always do, Abby.
-->'''Abby''': I know. I just [[AlwaysWantedToSayThat always wanted to say that]].
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[[folder:Literature]]
* Happens several times in the [[XWingSeries Wraith Squadron]] books. Sometimes it's played straight, sometimes for laughs - the Wraiths are only MildlyMilitary.
* PeterDavid loves this one. Two examples, of many, from StarTrekNewFrontier:
** ''House of Cards'': Shelby's reaction to learning that Calhoun will be commanding the ''Excalibur'':
-->'''Shelby''': "I feel I must inquire as to...that is, I'm curious as to the thinking behind...Permission to--"\\
'''Jellico''': "Yes, yes, speak freely."\\
'''Shelby''': "''Dammit, Admiral, what the hell is going on in Starfleet?''"\\
'''Jellico''': "I didn't quite mean ''that'' freely..."
** ''Gods Above'': Kebron rather abruptly tells Calhoun, "when we first met, I didn't like you." Calhoun, slightly taken aback, points out that usually, one asks for PermissionToSpeakFreely first; he invariably grants it ([[MilitaryMaverick under the circumstances, he'd have to, or he'd look like a howling hypocrite]]), but "it's the thought that counts."
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* Gunnery Chief Ashley Williams says this to Commander Shepard in ''VideoGame/MassEffect1'' when she wants to talk about aliens aboard the ''Normandy.''
** Kaidan utters this phrase the first time you ask him about his personal life.
** Jacob from the sequel does that too.
* In ''VideoGame/{{Psychonauts}}'', Razputin asks Coach Oleander for permission to speak freely when Oleander's badmouthing Sasha Nein, permission Oleander promptly denies.
* Parodied in ''DestroyAllHumans''. Set a soldier on fire, and he'll ask for permission to drop and roll. [[DownerEnding He never gets it.]]
* In the ''StarCraft'' tutorial, a Marine says this to the player around the time he's being moved near hostile terrain, before suggesting that the player may not know what he or she is doing, and proceeding to give a lesson on attack modes.
* In ''VideoGame/AssassinsCreedRevelations'', Amhet, the future sultan asks the commander of the Janissaries why his troops are reluctant to serve him. The commander asks for permission to speak freely, then delivers a ReasonYouSuckSpeech about why he thinks Amhet will be a poor sultan. For his part however, when asked this Ahmet answered with "You'd better", meaning that he was expecting BrutalHonesty.
* In ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 2}}'', Sergeant Stark will say this if you become Captain of the guard, and tell you that he doesn't think you deserve the position. Interestingly he'll say so even if you don't give him permission.
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[[folder:Web Comics]]
* Used for comedic effect in [[http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2005/02/11/ this]] somewhat infamous ''PennyArcade'' strip.
* Luci of ''WapsiSquare'' [[http://wapsisquare.com/comic/speakfreely/ uses the phrase]] in a non-military setting. This is done to highlight her over-disciplined nature that is compensation for her criminal past.
* In ''Webcomic/{{Angels 2200}}'', when Sasha "Hammer" Carelli is called before the captain for a dressing down, she uses this phrase, to which the captain says yes, then proceeds to criticize the squad being given great expectations and little help, a criticism the captain rejects.
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[[folder:Web Original]]
* A little kid asks Santa for permission to speak in the ''DoctorSteel [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zVfSJPKA0VM Christmas Special]]''.
* In ''RedVsBlue'', this is almost Grif's catchphrase.
-->"Permission to speak freely, sir? That's really fucking gross."
-->"Permission to sigh and walk away, Sir?"
-->"Permission to speak insultingly, Sir?"
** Usually denied, not that that stops Grif from following through anyway.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* In ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' episode "New Kids on the Blecch", Lt. Smash says "Permission to say that's crazy, sir!"
* Sometimes asked of the titular character on ''Literature/{{Babar}}'' by his subjects.
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